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Men!Men!!Men!!!.................... I don't even understand again. If it was a woman that came in with this same complain, i doubt if the comments will be the same. I bet they will call the woman lazy, not ready for marriage, bla bla bla. If a man wants 5times daily, no problem. But a woman can't want anything abi?

What am i even seeing? timetable for sex? Jesu Kristi!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When i just got married, my hubby was always complaining that i don't know more than sex(after resisting all temptation and waiting till marriage, what do you expect). He was practically running away from me and telling me that sex can kill somebody. I said ''oh really?'' No problem. So me sef lock up and told him that i don't want to die. When the thing got to him and some of his friends told him that if he allows me go out to get it, na him sabi, he is the one pursuing me up and down now. midnight o, early morning o, night o, weekend o, anywhere o, anyhow o all goes. Now i am the one running away.

@OP-You better embrace your wife o. Where some people are complaining that their wives can't meet up with their sexual demands, you are here complaining and thinking of timetable. mtscheeeeew

lynpetra: That one na small thing.My dear,if you jam man sabi wey love,Mehn you will be amazed.Some men good oooo,no go there.

okay o

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Missmossy: Its a wonderful thing in matters like this we give little or no importance to hygiene. It strengthens the bond between mother and child as it seems obvious.

Would do that for all my babies "" even a caring man could do that for his wife.

You mean suck mucus from his wife's nose?

tchigofigo: wat's d mum's mouth for? she'l do all d sucking..,since mums like taking all d praise, leaving little or none for dads

what if the mum is not around? So you will wait for her..... okay o

Does being the house husband means that he will be doing everything that is expected of the housewife? Does it also means that when the wife comes back from the office, she will take over from where he stopped or leave him to finish up and meet her in bed? I don't even buy this idea of the voluntary house husband thing o because someone will eventually get cheated. (not taking about where the decision is not be choice but by some sort of unfortunate conditions).

I have seen threads here where men argue that the house wife should not expect her husband to come back from the office after a hard day and help out with the chores (i.e what has the woman been doing all day). I hope your position will not change if a working woman comes to nairaland to complain about how her house husband wants her to help out with chores after coming back from work.

Please let everybody get something doing o even if it is small. You can imagine a house husband whose mum is visiting. All she will be complain of is what the wife has turned his son to. She won't care to know if the wife has been the one responsible for all the money and things she has been receiving in the village. Me i don't want any MIL wahala o.

tchigofigo: maybe i'l learn to do it 'instinctively' when d time comes..and when the NEEEED arises..,as 4 sucking out brain.,can brain cm out tru d nostrils? funny

i don't think so. That was just my own personal secret fear.

missojugo: Take .....Why no be u i marry na? lol........ Me i cant do it oh, i will only help him hold one nostril shut then tell him 'oya blow very hard out from the ope nostril'!
Did you say 'while you bath him in the morning'?? Oya take some more an report me to your wife cause i will send more kisses in a bit

That can only be possible if the baby is older, how can you explain this to a baby that is a year old or even less than that. Some adults don't even know how to blow their own nose.

lonelydora: My wife always do it to our baby, whenever i am kissing her, I keep wondering if it is this samr mouth she used for sucking catarrh. Anyway, whether hygenic or not, I will always kiss her

But you won't think about it if she just finished giving u BJ?

@OP- I use to think of it as dangerous because i am afraid of them sucking out the baby's brain(don't know why i think so).
But recently(last week), my one year old boy had serious catarrh and cough and i use to feel so bad when he coughs, sneezes, tries to blow his nose and then start crying. One day, i just gathered the courage, put my mouth to his nose and took it away. I did that for like 3 times before i was finally able to do the sucking of the nose. Ayanma but i was so happy because he was relieved. I did that continuously till the catarrh vanished. I don't know if it is hygenic or not but i will still do it again if i need to.

HFOG: why do you want to know?
Why is this thread silent?

If you ask me, who will i ask?

What are your plans for the day?

nairalife2013: I do it for my kids. I ll still do it till they turn big enoff to do it demsefs. My wife even as a M.D. isn't always comfortable doing it but I undastan. She tries a bit Wen am not around and spit and spit and spit almost all-day! Sometimes it really makes her uncomfortable so she keeps a menthol cylinder(inhaler) in her room cupboard and in her car pigeonhole, just incase she MUST do d sucking! She doesn't outrightly support d action and says it pressurizes d infant's cerebral cortex... Lol My mom did it for us. I must do same for my kids. I also closely perceive their breath when they are sleeping; to be sure itz fresh and smooth. With dat I know when they are slightly seek or abt to be sick or have not taken enoff water etc

Are you a breathe analyzer? I have noticed this in most of your post. No vex o

M.D of her saloon or where?

ds is wonderful. some people sha. so if u mistakenly even get the 175k, u will now use to pay rent? Na wa o

egopersonified: Any guy who is comfortable being a house husband has not discovered the fact that he is gay.

dre11: yes i did and i sent a reply immediately....
Thanks for checking

i apperciate...... i hope i could send a flower in return

u welcome. though i didn't get your reply. waiting for d flower o

Nothing wrong with it, but I won't marry you.

I know this thread is old but i can't but lmao

adedeji65: love to be ur friend then, prolly we should go beyond NL...

You are looking for a blind date here abi? Diaris God ooo. Keep it up

dre11: hi,
waving to you over there

YOU?? where have you been?

[size=5pt]did you get my pm?[/size]

e don do o. You people have spoilt this interesting place now. .

DonTonero: Their poster there is nothing wrong with him sleeping on the same bed with his cousin sis if truly the said girl is his cousin.the society we are now makes us suspicious of every thing thereby causing a lot of havoc. imagine if after your investigation and the said girl has been close to the guy before he married your sis and your sis is aware of how close the two and you ended up being thrown out of the house because of your canal mind what will you say. i dont want to judge your sis hussy because i have two of ma cousin like that to me that initially ma wife hardly believes am not dating them when she initially met me but they were whom i used to assess her and till date ma rship with them though they are married is still the same even infront of their hubbys.

And do you allow them sleep in your bed without their hubbys complaining or maybe you also sleep with them in their own beds too? just asking o

all these insults this early morning? i was enjoying the thread until now. mtscheeeeeew........

krall: I was beginning to wonder.

wondering with that your same church mind that was busy analysing bobby in church? Lolz

I am not saying there are no wicked mothers out there but I don't believe your own story. Is your wife living with you in your parent's house as well? what about that your child?

https://www.nairaland.com/726347/doctor-says-no-sex-one#8841097

chidikus: well house its a good thing for evry man,im very happy that ill be a father soon but funny enuff,my wife went for a pregnancy test today and she z a month preg plus ,well iv not touched her for like 8days cos we suspect she was pregnant but to be in da office and next thing da docto sarted bla bla bla for one month,wow wat a big sentence ,if na harmattan i no gree,

well house pls i ask if a lady is pregnant in da early stage is sex not good cos seems like they are scared we will poke the womb offf,well i dont belv in such fallacies but have to obey her wish.

please ladies help me and clarify pls,nevr know sex will have timetable with my wife,well,good nite hope reading all ur candid replies as i sleep off on my own

stop all the lies joor

Atom57: hmm

are u him?

dre11: Abeg na who get pin mouth charger for here

so you are one of the pin mouth charger team??

chidikus: .

do you still leave with your parents. Did you see all this yourself or the boy reported to you?

okay

crackhaus: I'm not against the woman's lifestyle. My first comment (which really was just me being naughty) was what degenerated into this whole argument...and seeing that I had some time on my hands, I decided to see it through.

Blockus: No Woman who is married to a Man who comfortably provides for both the needs and wants of his family would ask him to help out with the house chores.

Its the increase in half-men that has led women to also share their responsibility in the house with their husbands.


Them never born that woman wey go tell me to do house chores. #HerFather!

why that? that's not nice. her father is also your father o.

crackhaus: Why will they complain when they're being provided for by the man?

In polyandry, it's still the men doing more of the 'providing'.

these days, some men are no longer providing o. even those that have numerous wives end up enjoying free of charge because their wives are busy working and spending their ass out to impress the man and outshine the other ''colleagues'' in the sight of the master.

what is even the big deal in a man sticking to his wife and wife alone and vice versa? is it so hard? just asking. women are human beings too..

baby124: Why is the first husband and kids trying to fight the second husband who was his friend? The man better buy silk, red boxers and fast and pray that his wife will favor him. Things like polygamous marriage require tolerance, patience and a lot of fasting and prayer. Ile olorogun, ogun ni .

crackhaus: Ahaaaaa... we getting somewhere.
This here is the reason you ladies are in full support; what the man is allowed to do, the woman should be allowed to do as well. right?

Is it a competition?
The difference is that a man has a key, while a woman has a lock....go figure.

Man is man, and a woman is a woman...they are not the same, they do not live by the same set of rules, they do not think the same way, and can not be held to the exact same standards.
The earlier people (mostly females) realize this, the better...this is the reality of it and thinking or assuming otherwise is tantamount to delusion.

It's like comparing a leopard to a cheater because they have the same spots, or a lion to a tiger because they share some genetic features.

I am not comparing. i just want to know whether you are saying all what you are saying because it is a woman that is involved. i don't have strength for gender bla bla bla argument jare. its just that if it is their culture, we should just let them be. everybody can't be like us here.

cococandy: Well we don't know the intricacies of their relationship.
But if it is as you say or rather think. Then I'd say she's using the men for financial gain(to keep her kids)
While they are using her for sexual satisfaction.

But we don't know what's up with them na.women also use men for sexual purposes. If that's the case with her,then she's getting double ration while the men are getting half ration each.
She's also getting more financial gain compared to if she was married to only one man.

Or they may all be in love
One can never tell.
Love conquers all things. The first husband might be so in love with her the he couldn't leave her when she decided to take another husband. Or he's staying because of his kids as he won't want them to grow without their father.

Just think of everything that makes polygyny alright and apply it here.