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This is really deep Guys......Wish ladies can actually listen but greed and selfishness won't allow them.

treasuredkids:
Pictures pls

Done that

Hi 70k

Lol


See people shouting they want war

Zoo will burn.... just one threat they are pissing in there pant.

The war has come.... come out and fight

I just pity the poor Innocent one that will die

Are you a easy, complicated, hard person to be with in a relationship.

What are your principles in a relationship.

I will go first
As for me am a easy person to be with in a relationship.

My principle is don't do me things you can't take because I will retaliate....

No matter what you do, if you like give your arm and leg at the end of day you'll be told you did nothing so my brothers I only do things that are extremely convenient for me.
She move an itch for me I do same....shikena


Share yours

Coldsperm:
You are not a Yoruba man but if you are, then you are stupidly stupid.

Most of you are just conc illiterate...so I don't engage nitwits like you.

Am a Yoruba man and we aiin't headless sheeps that fellow one man order like you Igbos.

Funny enough is igbo that have people in other regions in this country the most.


They say Yoruba people in Ogun are IDP in Benin republic but they are too foolish to know there brothers and sisters are hawking bursers,singlet, phone accessories ,air freshener in this villages in ogun they abuse...... what are your people doing in this villages if the SE is Eldorado??

People who sleep and face the same direction and all think the same way......


Yoruba hate you people.....Igbos love Yoruba abi.

This line of 5million were killed, genocide bla bla always piss me.... like Nigeria army didn't lose people

Playing victim card all the time......Everything is fair in War.

debbydams:
men extorting money from ladies nko?

Share your experiences

Ohaneze is not condemning this act going on under there nose.

Ipob isn't condemning this act aswell.

But igbo on NL are calming is fg agent or bandit that are doing all this....lol

Isn't common sense they openly condemn the people doing this crime if they are honestly not in support??.... funny enough they are killing fellow Igbos because they are uniform men.

They are killing force men but when they react they say is innocent people they kill.

Any news that doesn't favour them is fake/ Yoruba news paper......set of people who sleeps and face the same direction.

phr0nesis:
Lend me some money.

Just know that money is gone forever

This very funny because someone you met online who you haven't seen before will message you .. can you borrow me 3k.

Like how on earth will someone do that.

Kiddogarcia:
One once told me she needed money for clearance, someone that had a Benz owner as bf ooo

Countless have tried to run me this......u have a bf and you be disturbing me ... some have not even seen before.

Preciousallure:
Okay, what do you want us to agree upon? That you are allowed to beat the woman you conciously entered a loving relationship with? As you like it

There must be something he did to warrant such disrespect from a woman that respected him enough to be his partner. Still, she is not to ever attempt what you said she did even if he was caught cheating. Yes, I said that. Even if he proves her to be a serial cheat, he is not to lay his hands on her or the unfortunate man. The relationship was a contract, and it's been breached. It's over cos you aint worth the affection lavished on you by such high-value mate. Case closed.

I as a man have so many options in beautiful ladies and that's why I have such favorable view of women. Likewise every rich man you can think of or anyone with above-average success with women. When I have so many other interesting options, why put up with nansense to the extent of acquiring myself a new tag?

I understand you want a justification for unleashing your unsexual fury on her, but I will rather as the head of the relationship correct with love or replace with ruthlessness as the case may be.

I want us condemn the act of women provoking men...... infact if possible making it an offense.
Women do and get away with alot things......men been at the receiving end.

The society isn't condemning this act of women abusing and cursing there husband.

Preciousallure:
In response to the bolded, I think you have self-esteem issues. Why so scared of cutting ties? Are you scared, you'll never find a woman like her again? And if that is true, should you need a woman of that nature?

Up there, you said women are goats Well, now I understand.

Am not navie to fact most women are the same with lil difference....in this few years of mine on earth have been with more than a dozen women......you just have deal with whatever baggage she comes with because they all come with baggages.

Godada:
Beating her up or getting her killed in the process is a great show of madness.

Ok.....but he beat up her and she didn't die.

She Dan calm and maintain her lane.

Godada:
The wiles of women should never be overlooked. They know how to play the weaker vessel coin. It's sad that men want to match women with strength but sadly that's what we do. It's important men adopt a different approach aside violence.

Approach like

Join her in the show of madness

Preciousallure:
Women are meant to be cherished and men, respected. That's why women love attention and men desire fame.

Be that as it may, I expect the man to have evaluated her suitability to the wife role and if not, keep her as a wild-and-crazy friend If he makes the wrong choice still, you are the man so you tell her never to try that again the very first time it happens else the relationship breaks This is enough to inspire respect in women as only a strong man sets such boundaries.

If it persists, he quits instead of getting aggressive and keeps his reputation and freedom

This doesn't hold water...... I laugh when people talk about you warning her.....if you haven't been such situation you can never understand.

Some women are goat infact some will never learn or listen.....most women are troublesome and I can tell you majority of men suffer serious verbal abuse in relationship/marriage.

U telling men to quit such relationship/marriage isn't the solution for me..

Godada:




It is not secret that women are by nature largely manipulative. I quite sympathize with the man that eventually lost his cool which was the end game the wife had in store all along. Reminds me of the man that called cops on his wife and got booted out at the end.

Men should understand the unique conditions they find themselves in this rapidly changing world. Th

Like when she was asked to give account of what happened....she didn't talk about insulting, cursing him....infact she omitted the part of locking the door and tearing is shirt.

I think women intentionally provoking a man should be an assualt as well..... majority of them do it because they get away with it.

Am not in support of any man beating is wife but I just don't understand how calm a man is expected to be Everytime is wife abuse and insult him in the house.

Just today a wife was raining curses and insult on her husband.....the man decided to leave the house she locked the door ....told him is going nowhere, on trying to the get the key from her she torn is shirt shouting he must beat her, infact she was daring him hitting his chest.
Eventually he beat her and everyone is blaming the man and am here thinking what is he meant to do.

Alot of men experience this alot at home...(I have experience it before)..the society label men who beat there wife beast but over look abusive women, women who intentionally provoke this men... nobody talking about this side of the story.

A woman will keep provoking you and everyone (even the law) expect you not to react and be calm.

Hence this my question......what is a man meant to do when your wife/gf insult and curses you, you decide to leave the house....she locked the door on you ,on trying to get the key from her she tore your shirt and dare you to beat her?

chatinent:
Funnily enough, this brotherman doesn't know he was one of the hundredfold she lies too. Brotherman doesn't know most girls do it for a living... they've verbally killed everyone in their lineage to extort airtime or money.

Bro I weak ..... didn't know she could go to that extent..... funny enough we weren't dating ooo.

Hi guys .... happy Sunday let catch cruise small.
Note: this isn't meant for bashing ladies just to show how majority have lost there dignity.

In the year 2014 I just started working so I met a lady at the eatery where I eat....we became friends (nothing between us) few weeks later i got a call from her one afternoon at work that her mum had being to rushed to the hospital......she was crying and sobering, she requested i help with cash for medical bills. Initially I believe her because she sounded tensed so I told her after closing I will drop close to the hospital to give her what I have since staff bus will pass through there.
Around to 5 I started calling her because our bus move from plant by 5 ,she didn't pick rang her couple of times no answer..... I just told a friend beside me wetin sup , immediately he just told me she might be lying....
So I started getting curious, like two of her brothers are abroad infact she from a very ok home why begging to raise money.... When I got home few mins later she called that where am I ,that she went to get drugs etc apologizing, I told her I was in front of the hospital oooo....
She just told to be going home she would come and collect the money from me ,I insisted on seeing her mum ,she said she doesn't want her family members to know...I told her I just want to greet her mum they won't know about the money.....she cut call.

Few hours later she called that she is in front my gate....I came down and told her I need proof her mum was In the hospital, she tried to throw those emotional blackmails I didn't change my ground....till today I don't why she decided to use her mum for such a big lie because of money.

I have gotten many lie lines just to rip me from ladies , fake project fee, fake pregnancy etc....but this one I typed up is the most shocking (lying your mum is in the hospital just to get money).

Make we laugh small.....guys and ladies share yours.

koladata:
if you are not married , there's 90% tendency that you will die early , and there's is 50% chances that you won't be succeful in life because marriage brings about focus... i'm not married , but i did this personal research

Ehya.....but the richest man isn't married.

Dangote isn't a married man.

So not getting married means early death..... what a shocking claim but can you back it up with fact.

Originalsly:
1. You don't have to spend more than you can afford for a wedding. Cut your coat according to your cloth.

2. And why wouldn't the baby mama blame you? .. a baby mama would even be more demanding.

3. Ehmmm ..... this part is not showing well on my screen.

4. When the baby mama threaten to take you to court for child support.... all you mentioned will be heaped on you times three.

5. Why would a baby mama want to work when she has you to blackmail?

On the other side....
1. If you fall sick... got injured ... would the baby be there for you?

2. When you are not around ... would the baby mama be loyal to you?

3. Would the hard earned money you give her.... would she be sharing it with a man on the side?

4. Your everyday maintenance... would she be cooking and washing for you?... for free?

5. Having a wife is a two way street.... a baby mama a one way street ... mostly ending in dead ends.

After all is said and done..... only to discover that the baby you be supporting is not yours!

You are very funny......bro you are in Nigeria not abroad.....baby taking you to court in Nigeria??

See am talking from practical point of views...I have friends who have baby mama....all those things you wrote are for butty not pako

shawante:
In this country the best thing is to do whichever works for you. If you are okay with having a babymama go ahead and if you are okay with getting married good for you

So on point.... just choose which one is ok for you.

Am someone who believe in institution called marriage but the truth need to be said at this point... Marriage is a means of survival for most women in this country hence isn't really worth it anymore.
Here are only few of numerous advanced of having a baby mama against getting married.

1: You won't waste hard earn money on wedding ceremony....in this country we all know 90% of wedding expensive is bare by the groom and his family.

2: You won't be blamed for everything she isn't able to buy or afford.... if your wife isn't able to buy aso-ebi, celebrate her birthday, buy latest wigs etc it all your fault (she would blame everything on you).

3: You won't have in-laws pressuring your life for financial assistance..... some in-laws are really shameless....You will able to concentrate on taking care of your parent because with a wife you can't do much for them.

4: Your decision making and life will be much better..... emotional blackmails, manipulation etc you will be spared of all that.

5: You won't have to start looking for money to establish her or go hurting for job on her behalf......if your wife doesn't have something doing you be blamed for it...You must be the one to get her a job or set up a business for her.....lol.

Marriage isn't for everyone......infact most powerful men, God use in the Bible never married and all lived a good life

Most women aren't marrying for the sake of setting up a home....it is purely for survival (financial dependant on there husband) hence if the man isn't bringing much there will be problem.

You only owe your baby mama,school fee and your child up keep...if she isn't training your child the way you want you take the/she away from her.

Note: Once you with a lady you love and she feels things you doing for her (materially and financial) aren't favours which she should be very grateful for but feels they are her right because she has boobs and Virginia just make your baby mama or end things.....

Never wife an ingrate or entitled lady....no matter what you do for her at the end of it all is nothing in her sight.

falcon01:
She got all she wanted and when he didn't have she left, my only surprise is how he didn't see that till it reached this point. I guess he didn't observe how much she cares about him he was busy winning her with what he can do instead of allowing her to show what she can do, what she can offer and Now its clear what she can do.

She was this hijab sister..... he never thought she didn't really love him.

Legendarytonyy:
Loyal by Chris Brown. That's just the answer I have to give.

hmmmmm.....even wealthy men wife they leave.


I just see more reasons why some guys are hell bent on having only baby mama

falcon01:
You get discarded when people find no purpose in you

But why??

Is that what we have majorly is fake love.

He was with her when she had no job..... helping her with some bills.

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