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chatinent:
Thanks for your points.

However, I know of two men who don't want their wife to work.

They'll sabotage all her efforts in looking for a job and reprimand her with the words “its my job to provide for the family, take care of the children.” The latter is insecure that other men would talk his wife to their arms.

What I tell you is a true life story, and none of them are illiterates. Therefore, it's true; some men say it.

So this men won't allow them do trade as well!??

I don't want to believe if the wife wants to do trade or go into business they will deny them.

Note: most men won't be comfortable with the wife doing 8-5pm job when the kids are still young.

I find it hilarious when ladies says most men don't/won't allow them work......I don't think I know any man who won't allow is wife work but it depends on the type of work/job.

So ladies should stop saying this... I just feel is a cheap excuse to be lazy.

Currently no man wants to marry a lady who doesn't have something doing ooo.

Nobody deserve a broke partner..... Nobody is permitted to be broke.

Note: I think there something fundamentally wrong with lot of men.
Buying a lady phone outrightly with your money is a no brainer....such a lady will never appreciate it.

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See all the ladies above reply.......if we say most of them have fish br*** they will say we hating.

Non could give an intelligent advise...I just pity there kids.

Op just know what will be will be..... if you like him pls tell him....... then after use your head.

No shame or crime telling him how you feel...

Don't listen to those babies...

what wrong with men. ..you all keep repeating the same mistake .

Most are ingrates.....stop buying them phones.

Like are you guys not learning from the guys above you mistakes...

They have anger issue.... seems being short affect them psychologically.


To them everyone is disrespectful.

#7 is very key....lol

Marriage is really scary this days......I can't really fault the guy.


Apart from kids, men benefits next to nothing in marriage.

iTroll:
Change your circle of female friends and acquaintances

Simple

I hate hearing this..... change to which circle.

which one we never try.....90% of them have same mentality

I was with some guys on Saturday hanging out....so there this dude who just travelled to Cyprus.

The gist is the guy left without informing her despite they lived together.....the guy reason was she sleeping around which will all knew but non of us told him due the fact he was kinda a simp.

The lady post a video on her status saying how she suffered with the guy bla bla and the guy left him...... playing the victim.

Funnily someone just asked why do Ladies always say they suffer with men almost every guy at the hang out have experience a lady telling him that statement.... why??

A lady is jobless ..... you the one feeding her, sheltering her infact you the one carrying her burden 90% yet she the one who was suffering with you.

Why do Ladies feel they are permitted to have nothing / be broke

Am asking this because I no 70% of guys experience this in Nigeria.....A lady who is totally dependent on you will have the gut to tell you she suffering with or suffered with you.

punisha:
y don't u simply tell her u r expecting her to pay back everything u spend on her when she collects salary and that asking her to get a job was also so she could be helping ur broke ass....


Iranu.
we didnt see where u said u clothe her, buy her cream, toiletries, hair etc...abi she will use her puna to pay for those?
i am also sure the salary u expect her to be presenting to u as lord and saviour would be one meagre amount that cant even buy a bottle of glenfiddich.
if u marry na executive order u go dey pass for ur house so.

This the reason I warn guys never to help or spend on there gf......this what you will hear las las....... have been there a couple of times and they are ingrates.

Someone accommodated you, giving you money everyday and she decided to keep pretending there is no money despite collecting salary....is that a heartless woman who is a leech....I no you are like her.

back to you Op
my brother just end the relationship...if she loved you immediately she collected that salary you would have gotten a nice meal to celebrate you.

never choose a woman over your family no matter..... she can't do what they did for you.


Always Remember this your wife will love your children more than you.

Romanoff:
So does your wife listen to you? Considering the help that you give to her?

Them born her make she no listen.......I dey change am easily for her oooo.

I keep her on her toes with my craze all the time.

Romanoff:
Between child upbringing, cooking and doing chores plus a job or a business?

See why a woman can't do it all for a healthy marriage?

like why do ladies always give this excuse of cooking bla bla bla to justify there excesses.

I cook and help my woman out.....I no men who do this aswell.....in my house is we men that clean our apartment on weekends(mopping etc)..infact I clean the dishes anytime I get home before her.

So stop sounding as if men are just useless when it comes to house chores...

is in our father days that women do house work alone ooo.

Most don't because they hardly even listen to there parent.

pepperdemzombie:
Idiot, answer the question for your pig mother or are you not here to speak for her because of the impotent drunkard housing her? Omo Osi!
Imagine people defending adultery by a married woman with 3 children just because she is in the same Olosho People's Party with their useless mothers.

like I said people like me don't engage low life gutter animals.....look for your mate you will do parent insult with.

Try to figure out your life and you get your brain fixed so you won't be behaving like a lunatic.

pepperdemzombie:
How many men did you catch your mother having consentual sex with? Gone are those days when magun was common. Wasted generation!

I respect my mum alot so I will never insult anyone mother.....I don't do gutter talk mofo

feel free to ask fellow pigs like you that question..

Kingrefreshed:
Okay it's clear you just Wanna Argue blindly. YOUR BELOVED DADDY FREEZE SLEPT WITH A MARRIED WOMAN.

If you're into such acts please stop it.

That the problem......u brought your hate for the man into this hence you are not logical with your submission.

And point of correction there nothing like he slept with a married.... only illiterate say such.

They both had consentual sex....it takes two people to perform the act bro.

Kingrefreshed:
Sir like here in Abuja which is the capital of Nigeria and also doubles as part of Northern Nigeria. You can be sent to 2 years imprisonment for adultery. All Northern NIGERIA has it that you're going in for 2 years and you can also be heavily fined.

The man can divorce his wife based on Infidelity and whatever she have will be awarded to the man including the kids.

There are several things that make adultery evil even morally it's a no no for almost everyone.

Now Daddy Freezes case is good because he is not morally sound and in the position to judge other people knowing fully well he is Sleeping with not single girls out there but women that are legally married.

Spiritually he is destroying other people family,life and destiny.

You didn't answer my question bro..... daddy freeze is a single man....so how did he commit adultery
how is the blame all on him.....why are you talking about daddy freeze alone....A woman who is married sleeps with a single man and you are blaming only the man.

From your submission then the law isn't natural and fair

I guess we all read daddy freeze case where he was accused of adultery and a judge in pH ruled he pay 5milion to the woman husband for damages.

So I asked if adultery was a crime in Nigeria....some people quoted me back telling me is actually a crime.

Now this my question.
1. if a single man sleep with a married woman....can the man be sued for adultery

2.If the husband has the right to sue freeze, can a married woman sue a single lady who sleep with her husband for adultery as well..or is the law different for men and women.

3.If adultery is a crime in Nigeria..... what is the punishment for it in federal or state law.
(please any previous case that can be sited to serve as a precedent will be appreciated)

4.Why is the husband suing daddy freeze alone and exempting his wife who to me is actually the main culprit here.

5.If the judge is awarding 5 million in damages solely against freeze isn't that promoting women engaging in adultery while the men get blamed for it.

I no many have resentment against daddy freeze but let put that aside and answer this logically without bias.

fk950ax
nencounter
ammestdog
kingrefreshed
lexy2014
advanceDNA
Seguno2
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Kingrefreshed:
Your Brain is fornicating with your tongue. The nerves in your brain is shutting down.

Hurry before you suffer Complete brain Paralysis.

Go and fuxxck Your elder brother Wife since your both adults twats

You are the fool here...... the he rape her.

she slept with him ..... the man should face his wife

lexy2014:
Pls read:

“The sum of N5,000,000 is awarded against Ifedayo Olarinde (the 2nd Cross Respondent to the Cross Petition) as damages for depriving the Cross Petitioner of the amiable consort of his wife (Petitioner/1st Cross Respondent) and for injury suffered as a result of his adultery with the Petitioner/Cross Respondent."

Did u understand what u just read?

And am asking you does that make sense to you that he the one been blamed not the man wife.

fkj950ax:
Sir,
Adultery is a crime in SOME STATES in Nigeria. Find out where he committed the act, and if that State outlaws it.
There is no Federal jurisdiction over it.
The Judge might have been following the law you probably don't know obtains in that jurisdiction

So he should pay 5milli for a crime him and the man wife committed.....lol

Oluromantic:
Men have to work to escape poverty. women's poverty escape means is marriage.

Waoo... really deep

something is wrong with the judge.... two adults had sex and you asking the man to pay the woman husband because she was married.... like is adultery now a crime in Nigeria law??

What business does freeze have with the husband.... the man should better collect the 5milli from his wife......Na she cheat on him.

So I noticed this pattern in most ladies.....if you ask a lady to tell you why she choose her bf/fiancée the reply is most times this.

it always about the guy financial strength...how he is from a rich home or has his own money bla bla

There is this lady I just met ....she is a medical laboratorial i asked her she choose her guy.....she said because he is financially ok, his mum abroad, dad also rich....all what she said was all around the guy finance.... which is somehow to me.

Gone are those days you hear lady choose a guy because he is brilliant, hardworking, ambitious etc

So this my question why is it that what attracts most lady to a guy this days is how good you are financially.

Is it a good or bad.

The issue is you at the guy mercy...... I will advise you to quit.


This is what happens when a lady depends on a man too much... Imagine him asking are you hungry.....am I not doing this and that for you.

Never depend on a man.....be financially independent to avoid a man telling you all that.

Hatima:
When people like your fiancée do that, they are feeling insecure...Other than what she displayed, are there other negative traits you worry about?

She raise her voice at me??

kwaso2:
Pls review ur write up. The errors are making it diffcult to understand ur narrative

have re modify... kindly read again

goodradiance:
Bros this write up eh...if l say l understand completely,l be liar. I think we need nairaland interpreter

have re modify bro