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southniyikaye:
what an irresponsible fellow your bros is, some people looks for opportunities like this and couldn't find, he found it and blew it cos he can't control his third leg, let him face the reparcursion o

accepted bro....infact I have tongue lashed him seriously today didn't even care he is 6yrs older than me.....but he can't give the lady what she wants.

Hi everyone .....it has been a crazy day for me and a friend (much older than me).
My friend is in a dip shit right now and we have no major way of solving it so I need good advice from experience peeps here.
This bros made a big mistake....he is married with a kid although he already had two kids in his early 20's with another lady but they aiin't
married....his legal wife is actually the one who linked him up to one of her uncle which he managing one of his filling station over here.
this bros nah real OG when it comes to Ladies parol and he wife is aware....they fight alot cos the wife is a very crazy woman(I mean very crazy)...now one of is parol is pregnant (7weeks confirmed)......she knows this man is married with three kids from the get go but she is insisting on not aborting.....the parol btw them from on set was Bleep mate thing which she attest to but now she wants something bigger.
Talking to the young lady today (a student)....I asked her
what do you want....... replied nothing
Do you want to destroy D's man home......No
Do u want to be a second wife....... Women who are second wife never said they want to be that.
So what do u really want..... anything he wants apart from aborting the baby.
This lasted for almost 4hrs wit no resolve....infact it ended in bros almost beating one the girl friends up.

so my people here is the issue..... bros wife must not hear or else all hell will be let loose .....the wife family mustn't hear(the wife uncle in particular...he might loose is job)
He is struggling to feed 3 kids already adding this not an option right now according to him.

He was cheating cos of sexual adventure.......he said the lady does what is wife can't on bed(like blowing him etc) now he is in trouble.

We are meeting tomorrow afternoon again with the lady...... please any nice advise on how to approach/resolve this will be appreciated.

Wiseandtrue:
US and Nigeria are not running the same o

Hell yea cos the people hold there mayor accountable.....the mayor's are the one who develop the states.
infact some don't even wait for anything from the US fg...what they generate internally is enough for them.

StaffofOrayan:
How many more years are you going to suffer for before you clowns get angry and stop defending men that refused to build ONE world class hospital or give you electricity
Are you people insane or you are partaking of the loot?
I am really curious as to what motivates you to take your time to write this

see bro am not saying you shouldn't criticize him... .only pointing a fact.....the governors to should also be criticize cos is no crime if any build a world class hospital for his people.

Abi is only a president that can build hospital??

Wiseandtrue:
So whose job is it to checkmate the governors

Citizens are willing to cooperate, but is FG ready

Citizens raise alarms when the governors are not doing well, does the FG investigate Does he react

What exactly do you want the citizens to do

Of recent is Yahaya Bello, who didn't pay workers even after the initial relief fund, didn't the people complain But what did Buhari do He simply funded him the more. Has he bothered to find out if the money is put to good use

You are just shifting goal posts even Buhari does not belong to your school of thought

Cause he himself and his team never stopped hauling insults on Jonathan.

In a nutshell, the bulk of the work lies with the government and that why they were elected!

So learn to hold your leaders accountable and if you can't, don't discourage those who can!!!

Hope you know the governors are not answerable to the president/FG on how each decide to run his state by our Constitution and they have immunity.

my point is this bro......we should be going for our governor heads more they are more closer to us.

And please go check how the US that we copied is been run....

oloriooko:
OP how old are you?
Pls correct your grammar!
I can see its difficult explainig this to you so lets stop here and now tnx

Maybe you should tell me your local language let me write in that so u can understand better since reading my English is now difficult all of a sudden.

oloriooko:
OP you don't know what leadership is all about. Allow me refer you to Buhari's campaign promises

https://www.nairaland.com/2413074/know-81-campaign-promises-president

Read this and modify your post

Yes I don't know pls explain.
I guess is a crime for governors to make the life of there people better.... buhari must be the one to do everything while they collect billion naira allocation.
and what about the governor of your state campaign promises or didn't he make any

Do u even no governors duties??

trutht828:
There goes another dumb reasoning. Does your country have enough provision for medical care to compare itself to those countries you mentioned? You are so desperate to make bad to look good that you are making yourself sound like a broken record

Lol....I won't engage in exchanging insult with.

Is very easy to criticize.....but constructive criticism is what wise people do.

trutht828:
But you joined the "bandwagon" to blame Jonathan for everything, right?

Buhari failed to close the border on time and allowed returnees to bring the virus in; is that how government work?

You are a hypocrite living in denial

I never blame GEJ for everything.....I don't criticise blindly.

And yea US, UK,Spain,Italy infact the whole world didn't closed it borded on time.....who criticizing them

U no one thing about destructive criticism ....u just tend to be myopic in ur reasoning.

Captainrambo2:
Buhari is a daft

Buhari when he wants to rig elections, coarse judges, hound political enemies becomes a dictator.


When lawmakers re abusing there privileges, or when his party members like ganduje re shown stuffing dollars in babaringa, then buhari will remember hes not a dictator

You zombies re only fooling ourselves.

And it was buhari who voted in ganduje again for second time.
See D's democracy not military were a president can boss people..... just a lil enlightenment the governors are not answerable to the president by constitution.

And if u have people who better than the zombie let them come out and contest for elective post instead of ranting

Most average Nigerians don't even no how govt works.....they just only see the president.

Yes buhari have failed in some aspects of government but what about the governors (annoying nobody talks about this thieve's)
So buhari is meant to run 36 state plus FCT.....he should build all the roads,hospitals,industries,employ everyone etc
Most don't even no the governors are the ones responsible for 70% problems we facing in D's country.
They go to Abuja every month to collect allocation money, collect tax in there state, collect security votes yet nothing to show in there state.....pure case is bayelsa despite the huge allocation with very small population the state is still a mess (na buhari fault).
it just stack illiteracy blaming one man for all our problems while the big thieves which are the governors nobody talks about them (some don't even no the name of there state governors).
Just yesterday law makers got there 2020 camry SUV delivered to them....no one will talk about that.....na buhari buhari
Until you start asking your state govt questions and holding them accountable we can never move forward....that what people in sane countries do...
or better still let scarp state govt and let focus on the president as the only one governing the whole country

How many state ex governors are in jail now??
How much was the money they stole??

Let focus on this small (emperor) governors more instead of the far reaching which is the president all the time.

grossintel:
One word for the OP, believe what ever rocks your boat at this point we really don't care, in few weeks Nigerians will decide their faith. It's either he acts like a president or he's forced to resign. We can take the suffering and all, after all we're used to it. What we can't take is watching people we care about die! A man who's got nothing to loose is not afraid of death. Nigerians will drag them one by one! Except a cure for this comes out and save everyone he can't hide there for long.

Hope you know there is a governor in ur state and collect allocation money every month....just a quick reminder.

Sijo01:
The man that deceived her that he was not married and made her had series of abortion is not dangerious abi

Deceived her..... very correct.
But made her had series of abortion hell no.
Doesn't she a brain
I hate when I hear someone made you do something cos I believe everyone is responsible for there actions..... she shouldn't be so dumb to go do series abortion even if he suggested it....that is totally her stupidity blaming the man is worthless

I went for a birthday party in my friend hostel and I got really high....they had to take me to my room about 5 people ........ when they dropped me I told them to wait let me see them off...it was really crazy

I wish they really understand the message you trying to pass across.... Reality is a cold b**Ch once it hit you automatically your brain go back to factory reset.

XhosaNostra:
Not if you're a "sharp guy". People usually can't pretend for long, so if she's wearing a mask, it'll slip eventually. You Just Have To Be Observation & not as benevolent with your money, to weed the no good ones out.

Lol.....prof your English writing aiin't flawless afterall "you just have to be observation" really

XhosaNostra:
Funny how you idiots always assume someone doesn't have a man. I don't have a man like you, that's for sure! I'd hide you like an STD if you were my man What an embarrassment to manhood & courtship you are. A man better know his ABCs before he can get between these thighs, that's what differentiates me from the bimbo you lay down with

lol.."bimbo" with a nice paying job and won't spend useless time here writing thrash?? yea I will lay with her for the rest my life rather than a jobless dolly bird like you...A man like me is too much for you dumbo and please go read what the word "illiterate" really mean because you seems not know what it really mean u just hear ur fellow chicken head say it.
you are the embarrassment... someone who can't be useful to herself by getting a job but will spend 24hr of her misrable life on NL.

XhosaNostra:
Loooool, now I'm a toddler? I'm aging backwards, I like
She may not be spending all day on NL, but she's "engaged" to an illiterate fool that does.
And listen here, I can even spend the entire 24hrs on NL, but if I don't beg you for anything, then how much time I spend here is none of your fùcking business. You're sounding more idiotic with each post. I'm gonna rest your two brain cells in peace, today

she is engaged and you are not.....see slowpoke you are just an frustrated old fool with a toddler brain.
I will give you my 2 cent before I pull off ur humtty dumtty jobless lame ass....get a job ,get a man and get a life....peace b**ch

XhosaNostra:
Meh. You should teach the dummies to spell too, at least. Nothing makes a woman who's passed grade 4, dry up more than a dyslexic playa wannabe.

come teach us dimwit.
only dickhead goes about masturbating on people typo errors..... engage more in intellectual discuss dum-dum pea-brain.

XhosaNostra:
My son, go back to school No lame excuse gets past this oldie's beady eyes, that's an advantage I have over you & the poor woman unfortunate enough to call a thing like you her man

feel free to point out all my typo errors....I won't stop a toddler like you from getting ur one min fame or having an organsm.
For the last part feel free to kill yourself...she aiin't a jobless stupid fool who spend all day online/Nl.

XhosaNostra:
Loooool, 1st of all it's ears, you slowpoke. I didn't expect you to have the ability to parse through my message when you can't even spell simple words, it's way above your level of understanding, obviously.
How about YOU find someone to proofread your posts before submitting them? Better yet, dedicate your time into improving your writing instead of chasing ass. No woman worth her salt is going to find a man that can't spell attractive, even with all the "game" in the world at his disposal

oldy u no what time it is??
I know you are frustrated....life isn't fair to you.....but if u are still this stupid not to no that was a typo error which I corrected immediately then I understand why you can't keep a man and have non in your life at your age....it just a pity but anyway watch this space..I will be dropping my pre wedding photo shoot soon..if you are in lagos u can attend but only if you will come with brain intact and not ur dipilated ass

XhosaNostra:
Lol, not my fault you're used to dealing with "K", which is the kind of communication y'all deserve because anything longer will be a massacre to your fledgling brain cells

yea some of us are allergic to reading BS... what u wrote is a beautiful nonsense....next time try to get someone to read to your ear first after typing....if it makes sense then you can post oldy

funmisticqueen2:
Insults are not necessary here, of you and sweetbuns repeat this and you will be reported. This is your final warning.

quote sweetbun too....so she can see the warning I hate rubbish and double standard

funmisticqueen2:
Insults are not necessary here, of you and sweetbuns repeat this and you will be reported. This is your final warning.

but a sweetbun or whatever can insult men on this thread without warning rite.
you must be insane

XhosaNostra:
There! I fixed that for you. Because most of the so-called red pill coaches tell their minions to go after women with low self-esteem, they can't stress this enough. A very strategic move considering that a lot of their teachings will not work on a woman that values herself. Like I always say, you settle for scraps. Most of you aren't even good-looking enough for the size of the chip on your shoulders. You're a delusional bunch.

One other thing I noticed about red pillers, it is mostly men with no identity. Which is why they need someone else to give them a sense of belonging & to build their fractured egos. I observed how they're susceptible to hero-worshipping & tend to have ass kissing tendencies. You find them unashamedly brown-nosing all over YT & similar places, like BPD sufferers when they have a "Favourite person". No hate, but a lot of them are nothing more than insecure men that seek validation from women, to feel like men. Without a woman's attention (their ego-booster of choice), a lot would feel undesirable, which is the underlying issue under all that plastic veneer.

Too much words just to express an opinion.....no brainer.
sign of frustration

ABCthings:
Children of nowadays! take correction they will not take.

Godoverevery, too much pride will not kill you in Jesus name.

Pride u say??
I guess u must be in your 50's but if u aren't ....then is really childish refering me to children of nowadays.
Is the humble one that see themselves older than everyone abi??
No one can try to correct me by stylish insulting me I will never take that.

rossi49ja:
Dude, learn to be objective and accept criticisms. He made a valid point. Simply thank him or ignore and move on.
Also, if i were you I would learn how to mind my business.
Shalom.

criticism of how I decide to write my post??
objective about what
so is a crime to use abbreviations
I should learn how to mind my own business..... and are u minding urs
just pratice what you preach nigga.

ABCthings:
So what's D message of D's thread.


Chai! It really time wasting writing " D's " .
Op, you claim to be learned please write like one. Your post is too painfull to read.

lol....it actually indeed *painfull*
I wrote hundreds of word and wat u actually have issh is me writing D's.
not too worry I will write d way u want so that ur life can be meaningful and ur ACC can have a boost.
hope is aiin't too late to get pain killer for D's ur pain cos u gonna need a whole lot of that.

missimelda01:
Op do you know that it's easier to type 'this' than D's

Do you have a thing for DJs?

u can read wat I just told ur other sister.....if you have an issh with me using D's instead of this..u can go jump in d nearest lagoon ....peace

MarianaTrench:
OP, we get the gist of your story but learn to write like a mature person.

These abbreviations of "Ds" and "Dans" that you use everywhere are for teenagers and undergraduates...I even know some undergraduates who write in perfect grammar!

which ever way I decide to write aiin't any of your business....once am able to pass d message across am fine...u are entitled to ur opinion and suggestion but it a lil bit irrelevant blending in d undergraduate statement... leave that for cretins am sure u aiin't one
Am not writing an exam or thesis for any research neither is there a rule that state how post sud be written.
FYI....am a graduate of mechanical engineering lautech....be more civil with the rant next time is my post.

madridguy:
Finish your story naaa... Did he later succeed on what?

mission failed big time....d lady didnt accept...he later open the door and they left today.

healthserve:
Waaaaawu. Don't be a gossip but then like you said why did the ladies put themselves in that position?

isn't gossip..... although is non of my business but still what type of married man sleeps with almost any type of woman