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Oblongata:
My brother, giving a lady 1k for tp na oshe na

As we dey find good wife, na so our babes dey find good husband...

Though she sef mess up, she no suppose talk anything, she suppose keep quiet and pray to God for another better guy...

My brother, as a man it is your fault for not adequately providing for your woman, ask her for forgiveness and hustle harder...

Nairaland done Dey turn something else wey sissy boys full every...

Oya please I have a problem too o, I am going to church now and I don’t know what I will wear, please I need epp

well I guess maybe I should have typed in ur native language so u can understand .....FYI bro u can decide to give ur gf 10million Wen she come visit....and I can decide to give mine 5h.
we make money differently and run our life separately.

fd

eyinjuege:
She's not speaking for all women, hence there is no generalisation. However, I agree with her that majority of women work and hustle hard.
For those who have graduated, many are out there doing their own hustle as I see them in banks, hospitals, markets, on social media selling their goods and services (make up, catering, bags and wigs, etc), etc.
Even those who didnt go to school have their own skilled businesses like tailoring, hair dressing, etc.

Dat where u get the point wrong.....most of dem hustle but are dey not still demanding for irrelevant things from there guys??
Are most them contented with wat dey got??
Ds is Xmas season do u no how many ladies av practically beg me for money with different excuses??.
D major problems most guys are having with ladies today is wat dey demand for...trust me I have lot of experience in D's regard
let give a lil example.....my fiancee came to see over last weekend...Wen she was leaving very Monday morning....I gave a thousand naira as tfare I saw d look on face change but I felt maybe she thinking I shouldn't av given since I wasn't dat cash up but to my amazement dat evening she actually told me she was disappointed with wat I gave her dat she was embarrassed dat it was too small .....I was really shocked and angry cos D's someone dat comes and I gave 5k sometimes for tfare.....dat was my first time of giving her 1k and she complained.
ds someone dat has a pretty good job.....till now I av completely changed towards her.

kahal29:
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Not wise governor....a Wise warrior fight with is mouth shut so he can stay focus.

midnighter:
You are not saying the right thing; if somebody you claim to love is lacking in drive or ambition then why wouldnt you encourage her to develop herself?

Why continue sleeping with her and entertaining her if you know she is stagnating? If you suggest it to her and she refuses its different.

This advice also applies to men btw. Taking his money, time, affection but secretly planning a coup with another guy because "hes not exposed" is just wickedness.

Wen I see things like D's it totally piss me off....am for one is a good example of a guy u are referring to . ..and wat did I get at d end
I can never in my life do wat u advising cos av come to realise once isn't self driven by d lady is just a total waste...u can't force anyone to be successful never.... some people are just not worth trying for trust me both male/female.

Ginaz:
Please what I hate most is general misconceptions. It’s not every woman who did nothing while the man was hustling , some women literally did odd jobs , side hustles and other things to make their lives better .

Some went to school, really hustle as much as the man. I hate stupid talks like these , do you people think women are brainless and useless? Majority I see Omo, dem Dey hustle and their bfs broke like mad.

You guys should stop preaching what you don’t know . My mom’s friend is a hustler , singlehandedly paid for rent for those years the guy was broke and hustling , did one or two things for the ungrateful guy only for him to abscond with another girl . Wasted her youthful years for nothing.

As for now sef, I won’t advise any girl to put up with a guy for any reasons cos of statements like these.

Some mumu will just write up and come to say you only asked for Brazilian hairs and shoes like they knew you or stayed with you in the house to know that.

All the girls I Dey see for street dem Dey hustle . Dem be hustlers , they gat dreams. Stop the stereotype!!!!

Just as there are good for nothing men, there are good for nothing women too.

On a ratio of 80% , girls Dey hustle even in relationships.

u hate generalisation yet u are speaking for 80% of women....well done women leader....next time try be alil wiser by speaking for urself cos from your write up there no place u wrote were u are or how u are an hustler aswell.

Graxie:
Why are you engaging a minor as househelp? Why. Both you and your wife, you are horrible.

lol....as usual d man must also be blamed.
Am sure it was d other way round u won't av wrote D's.
Dat why most of y"all are either single mother or bride maids D's days with no man..... cos u can never admit a woman is completely wrong without dragging d man into it.
Have you not seen 15yr old who stay with dere parent and are practically like maids cos of the tonn of work dey do...... always playing victim.

LilMissFavvy:
How would you have felt if it was your wife who hanged out with her friends and came back by 2am? Any married man or woman who does things without considering the other partner is immature or simply wicked. Your wife's brother should have slapped you back, or is he a weak man? He should have slapped you ensuring that you bleed from your mouth and nose. As for your wife, continue to call her, send messages, give her more time, she will heal and return to you. It's very shameful that her brother was there and did not defend her, by slapping the st-pi---y outta your brains.

and anytime she call d husband unprinted names....he sud also invite is sisters to come do Same thing to her bah.....I guess u didn't think before typing at all.
only a fool will be naive to the fact that alot of mistakes will be made during marriage.

fergie001:
Ambode too was quiet..what happened?
The man you are dealing with in Lagos is quiet....

This one in Edo is combative, manipulative and has his way with words. Who knows? Perhaps that's why he is using the style of the Romans to beat the Pope.

but u agree with me.....D's a political war which is really disturbing the governor from carrying out is main duties....election aren't even close look at what is happening and my major worry is how obaseki is going to get APC rerun ticket

fergie001:
When elders don't respect themselves, children will play football with their grey hairs.

Do you think people like Shuaibu and Obaseki will attack Oshiomhole like this without having taking a whole lot of sh!t privately?

Especially Shuaibu, who has been following Adams from god-knows-when.......He has touched them where they can take it no longer.

They are men, worse still politicians so you can't hear everything that happened inside perhaps until the the fight abates. There is no forgiveness in this game, it's winner-takes-all..you loose guard, you pay for it.

Oshiomhole should just hide shame, and leave the press...nicodemously go to his "sons" and talk to them. Pull down every machinery to stop their 2nd term, and give them the right of first refusal.

He lost Zamfara and Adamawa due to this gra gra. Everywhere isn't Lagos.

QED!

one of d thing have learnt in life is.....is better to silence in face of wars so u keep it enemy guessing...... obaseki isn't smart to me honestly......he is playing d game d way oshhiomhole wants......he use fashola tactic silent killing cos whether he likes it or not oshhiomhole av the resources to really destabilise him for now.

Conner44:
Thank you bro. You’ve hit the nail on the head.

The boldest is the reason the country will be stagnant till its 100yrs independence.

Tell your great grand kids to watch and see. 100yrs time NIGERIA will be here where we are lol

like honestly.....my question is just simple bro.
was Nigeria in this shape 20,30yrs back infrastructure, development wise ??

some people won't like D's....sowore maybe doing what is right but one thing is I can never like is personality......for me is a male version of tacha.

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Latifat1:
just like you believe when they accused Jonathan of every failure of their pathetic lives

lol.... just like still believing u are a fool for not knowing it stupid accusing anyone without evidence or proof to back it up ....if GEJ was accused of anything and he feels offended his free to sue the accuser......I don't do rumours is for fools....and please feel free to me show were I accused Jonathan of anything or were i partook in such convo.

Be wise ....u are too beautiful to be the opposite.

Latifat1:
Reno and FFK are not always on the same part

Osinbajo is a criminal though
he should vomit the money

any fool can accuse anybody of a bad thing....but the wise one will have proof before accusing anyone.

fool or wise ..... make ur choice.

Gerald454:
Guy am from delta state. We respect u when u respect ur self.. we dont respect u because u are old,we respect because u worth to be respected......that is why we biafras respect Nnandi kanu. Because he has proven to be respected

like u said u are from south south....we know respect is determined how person take get money over there....A 10yr old so far is rich can disrespect a 60yr old man... . but over here in south west we were trained to respect everyone who is older than us.....is not by money for us.....do ur SS way while I do my SAW way bruv.

Opeyemi4real:
if one head can represent a nuclear family when protesting in Nigeria, a lot will change. JUST ONE HEAD

so is there anything wrong in his family joining him in achieving his dreams??

Colonelswitz101:
I only made my observation known...I have no further intention of swimming in mud wt u....

lol.......no mud here bro is only up that side of the dieing sun....u keep swimming in it alone and next time keep the observations to urself that wat common sense 102 is all about.

Opeyemi4real:
were you arrested? NO. He lead the protest. Ordinarily, sowore is a made man, if he chooses not to protest or care about common man,.... You know the rest....

I don't have any issh with him leading a protest .....i only have issh with him calling for a revolution...which he was organising.....if he actually wants that let is wife and children come back to Nigeria and be along side him doing that.... they are also Nigerians instead of staying in America. QED

Opeyemi4real:
Your own Yoruba is from Brazil. Even in Nigeria's Yorubas, only few like Sowore are genuine.

genuine by telling us to rebel against a government while is wife and kids are in the US rite.
like yoruba will say Omo lo omo ni a ma ran ni ise boruku....If u are truly Yoruba by ur moniker u will understand wat am saying with that.

Colonelswitz101:
So all this space u wasted with this ur write up is just an ignorant attempt to advertise ur intellectual incapacitation??
Na wa oo

lol....nice u read it up.....we ain't zombies who a fool decide what dey should do and direction they sud go.....we are educated and sophisticated.....that why we are always ahead in every aspect of life.

one thing I want most people to know is we d Yorubas don't celebrate idiot and rude people...sowore is someone who has a good vision but going about in a bad way,bad character,bad mouth....D's man insult everyone who doesn't share is vision and ideas(av listen to him more than 4 occasion on radio and TV) he has a very bad mouth....we respect our elders in Yoruba land so if there someone who thinks d way to change things is by insulting,cursing, been radical and expect us to support him am sorry that can only work in the SE.
funny enough even the PDP in the SW who sud be jumping on D's to score political point are even mute because he has burnt alot of bridges with is foul mouth.
Sowore is a nobody to us the Yoruba....he has never done anything to help the struggle of we the Yoruba race..he only fighting for his pocket...am sure he can't even win is constituency in an election in his state yet he wants to be the president.

peaceful protest is for all......but a call revolution is something no country in world will ever take.
there is a video were he made the statement calling for revolution (maybe he didn't know the meaning of the word I guess).
I wish him all d best.....next time he will no easy does it...no be only him dey smoke and want a better Nigeria.

verygudbadguy:
Clearly, u dont know anything about banking or swift transfer. Lemme explain to you for future reference.

Sowore transferred from his UBA account in Nigeria here to Gtbank account of his company. When you do a transfer in USD, it must be routed through a corresponding bank and will hereby generate a telex/swift copy because our currency is not USD. That's why it was credited by Citi bank.

In all these charges, Sowore has no case to answer. When they have their day in court, the case will be thrown out.

One day, President will be remembered as the President of the North and a tyrant who never respected the rule of law. He has done more to divide this country.

what u fail to understand is..... anyone can wire money from any place of the world into account but a government can ask u to come explain where u got d money from..... which is a norm in any part of the world.
am not supporting anyone am just pointing out fact to u.....dere nothing bad in any government charging him with that.....if he not guilty d court will vindicate him..so stop the hyper reaction cos dat was wat u guys did during formal chief justice case..u are not sowore neither do u know how he made d 19k USD so common sense is not to speak for him.......he sud go and prove his innocence in court like every other sane people do all over the world QED.

conductor250:
He transfered money (which he earned legally) from his personal GTB to his corporate UBA account with online banking and then went to Arise TV to criticize Buhari for being a dullard he is what he is being detained and tax payers' money being wasted for?

Luggard, you will never end well in that hellfire you are for putting me up against idiots in the name of One Fraudgeria.

i think D's is best u could understand what is posted.....pls next time try to contact any lawyer in ur family to explain things better but if there's is non contact a law firm to interpret rather Dan talking about something u don't even understand with boldness...it is a show of illiteracy on ur side.

for clarity sake he was charged for transferring money credited from a new York bank into is uba account and he moved it into company account which they claim has no source..so they are trying to link he got the Money wen he visited kanu..next time read with glasses on.

Biglittlelois:
Cyberstalking? How? Means everyone of us should be charged niyen


Is a planned protest a treasonous felony

planning a protest No.... planning revolution YES.
Google is ur friend... no country will accept that.
I don't no why most of the y'all just want to go with the narrate of protest I of revolution protest... speak the truth.

Jochabed:
Have u sat down to weigh this issue, it didn't start now, it started with ese Walter. And why are people finding it hard to believe, cause he is a public figure. If it was a poor man from a remote area, he should have been behind bars now right. Just recently, I read it here on nairaland that he was also accused of " man slaughter" with an audio evidence which has been given to the IGP. His wife, funke adejumo and others have been indicted.

ese Walter was an affair not rape....get ur fact rite......we all know ds man is into adultery big time....but rape is something no one av ever put on him not even ese Walter.
so if bisola is too dumb to claim someone raped her in her parent house and she cud still sit in his car on a ride for him to do that again at 19yrs.. den who is stupid......for me is just affair went bad....he only took advantage of her innocent naivety period....rape claim is total BS

PoliticalWitch:
Busola should give up the case

Now, I don't back rape, and I believe that Fatoyinbo acutually did something worng...and actually hurt Busola. Especially as he has so many allegatons pending against him.

But the trobule with rape...you have to have evidence to make a successful prosecution. And evidence is best collected in the first 2-3 days after the rape. IE...biologic and other evidence. Not several years...sometimes even 10 days after may be too late (Victim has taken baths, wounds heal, etc).

It's going to be difficult to prosecute Fatoyinbo, even though he is probably guilty as charged. But unfortunately, our legal system runs on evidence...and there is no evidence.

So what Busola can hope for AT BEST...is a private settlement.

To any person reading this, if you have been raped...please report the crime within the first 48 hours. God forbid anyone of us would undergo this suffering (yes, men too get raped). Let them get evidence...so that a succesful case can be established.

Our government too should spend more on improving police response to rape too.

Sorry, Busola.

(I'm sorry, but I hate writing this post. What Fatoyinbo has done to Busola and other girls...is a disgrace)

u penned a beautiful rubbish.
ow can someone be raped at different locations twice at 19yrs......u and her are dumb as shit.

pocohantas:
Funny how you went from SOME to MAJORITY.

yea a handful some of u Ladies..... like u haven't done such before.

pocohantas:
Because they are violent and they believe it will hurt you.




Hahahahaha. Werey meji.
Leave them to their own devices abeg.

majority of you ladies do this....... funny enough is not something dat got to d with age even older women do it.

AstroG:
That was how one barged into my compound threatening fire and brimstone cus she caught me with her bestfriend,ah asked her f there was ever a day ah told her we were in a relationship. She started the usual girls ranting and in the process broke the side mirror of my Car. The HOT BRAIN RESETTING SLAP SHE RECEIVED FROM ME WAS THUNDEROUS.

She cried heavily while leaving,and told me she will deal with me.
Am still waiting patiently for her
Ah don't take rubbish.

nawa ooo.......

good afternoon Everyone.... just want to share what happened over the weekend at my friend place I visited in Abeokuta.
it was on Saturday we were home cos we club all Friday nite....is fiancée was around......dat was 2nd time I was meeting and seeing her .....d first was Wen dey both came to lag for a friend wedding.....she looks decent and soft spoken.....what happened I was in d living room sleeping while but of dem were inside the bedroom.....
so it happened that she ask my guy for somethings which he have been posting her.....so she got angry dat Saturday cos he said he wasn't her father......she picked up his phone after ranting cos he was making jest of her and smashed it on the floor d screen broke slightly(Samsung 9)......but d smart gal have already kept her phone in her pocket.....he wanted to smash her phone in return too so struggle started cos she held on to the phone ...so it the noise she was making calling my name that woke me up...dash into the room saw her on the floor her hair already ruff, bruises on her body already (my friend keep his finger nails)....he had hit her several times just to weaken her but she was strong......I tried to separate dem but couldn't cos my friend was really high (he smokes weed alot)....so had to get his neighbor in cos dey also heard d noise bfr we could separate them.
he insisted on breaking her iPhone 8 even in d process he hit me twice Wen I was holding him back but I knew it was due to the highness.....d lady left dat day.
on Sunday she came begging and even took d phone along dat she will fix it......I also pleaded on her behalf but my guy already open up to me dat he done with her.

So I don't understand why do some women like destroying there men property during altercations or moment of anger
And if u have experience D's before can u share wat u did or how u reacted cos I have also experience dat aswell while I was in school (dat a story for another day).

ImaIma1:
It's not about my way, your way or his way. It's about communication. And communication has stages. The first stage is usually superficial, void of too much information.

But I am not here to talk too much. If he doesn't want people to respond out of pity, curiosity,etc, it is better to give only necessary information especially in an introduction.

like I will still tell ......wat matter most is end result..... whelter u give all d info on first date or on the 10th date it doesn't guarantee anything.......d best thing is going with head,doing wat best for you and just d way u want....one thing I never do is tell anyone how to go about there business cos is non of my business.