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whoever coined these words "Yoruba Muslims" must be pulled out of his/her foolery.
A yoruba man/woman isn't a religion bigot,we are too sophisticated to be clouded by religious sentiment..... we have our differences but religion isn't one. I for one am a Christian but I have relatives who are Muslim infact my mum junior sis married a Muslim which means I have cousins who Muslim and we are very close...no one can make me see them as enemies d way some cretin try to paint them.
Before it was a Yoruba man can never be trusted, they're betrayals but the narrative has changed is now the Muslims among them that are your enemies.
We stand as one ...we are too educated to be torn apart by religion by some people who aiin't sure of what they want.
Is either you say whatever is on ur itchy throat against we Yoruba as a whole or Stfu... enough of this Yoruba Muslim foolery talk.
We will never deny or fight ourselves cause of religion...we celebrate Christmas and Eid together.
Come to our region u will see both church and mosque on the same street..u will see a Christian singer featuring a Muslim singer vice versa on there songs.
We are peace loving and accomodating....we don't preach hatred to our children and never discriminate along religion lines.
So whoever is still in the foolery of thinking he can move the Yoruba Christian to his/her side and turn them against Muslims among us is a MVP in the fools league.

Ardar:
Yes according to the data you formulated in your toilet, cuz you've gone round Nigeria to conclude that 80% of women are ashawo.

Yea 99.99% of men are scum not all men ode.

Ur problem is u are unintelligent and always on d defense all d time like a cretin.
U are meant to read comprehend well before saying ur opinion....D OP is just talking about why many men patronise prostitute not comparing..ds is a fact .
most Ladies in d country are there problems is general knowledge dat men are sex driven and with a prostitute u are required not to do much....why do u think baby mama are much today??cos most guys just want to av sex with no commitment
Av not slept with one before and I can never cos I think is total rubbish but I get d reason why most do it.

imagine d one u think is a decent gal u doing everything for .... sometimes she will purposely deny u sex cos u didn't give her money / something she asked from u or she expect u to practically beg and at the end of d day u find out she begging another guy somewhere to come sex her.

U don't need to react to every post all defending sometimes act intelligent is not a crime.

Only a fool will say all men are scum forgetting she has a father and only fool will say all women are prostitute forgetting he has a mother

Larryfest:
He will be released in less than 2weeks, the other kingpin on the front page some months back has been released without any charges or whatever though his hotel is still under seal but I believe that will also be sorted out wit time.

that how you people mislead the public.... talking rubbish with confidence.
Always be sure u know wat u talking before u post...The kingpin u talking is case is on going in court currently. ...Get fact rite

Simran94:
All these long epistles because a lady touched your shoulder? I don't see how this means she's trying to control you. Rather than her saying "Hello, can you move forward" without sounding rude, she decided to say it in a friendly manner.
I'm sure if it was a guy that tapped your shoulders like that, you won't see it as anything you would probably look away or smile it off.
If you don't like being touched by a lady, just say rather than misinterpret the whole thing.

You said it yourself that you didn't move as she wanted even if there was space, see sometimes there are things you need to overlook. If you had moved, she probably wouldn't have to tap your shoulders to tell you to move. You people just make things hard for yourselves.

Only a fool will be naive to the fact dat some Ladies are very rude and mannerless....I av a lil sis she very rude I will say the truth..I have given her dirty slap on some occasions.

You ladies see every man as ur mate.... just because some old fools old enough to be ur father woo u doesn't make every man ur mate.

just yesterday a 16yr old gal was literally insulting a 40 something year old man cos he is an mechanic and buy things from her mum shop...but I was glad he gave her some hot slap despite d mum supporting her.

I see d way my fiancée talk to some men atimes and I always blast her but I don't blame her some men are just idiot with no self respect.

Racoon:
Still vomiting trash.US no send Nigeria.Femi Adeshina should better apologise quickly to the US over his senseless "Who made America the world police" statemen because he may not even be qualify for diplomatic passport.

are you an illegal immigrant

ruffkenny:
it all depends on how you handle the dove,a dove is gentle,loving and kind,a lion is strong,bold and fierce,if you handle a dove gently it will remains a dove,if you handle it fiercely it turns to even a dog.. so you are equally responsible for what the woman in your life turns out to become,instead of putting all the blames on your woman,the question is what have you done?what did u do to change things?

So whatever she turn out to be am responsible and whatever I turn out to be
so does men that there wife turned out to be killers dey are responsible....do u no wat u saying at all.
Not surprised women will always play victim in every situation.
lol am responsible for how an adult turn out to be .....what a joke

ruffkenny:
There are two sides to every coin,this is his own part of the story,There is no way I can be showing you love on and on and you will show me hate on and on,at a time,u will get tired and start to love me, forgiveness more forgiveness, corrections more corrections..a toxic man will attract a toxic woman,cos likes attract, instead of focusing on women,focus on yourself to be better and all her toxic nature will gradually drop..if she is toxic,how are you responding, this is the most important..

ds doesn't make sense to me***a toxic man attract toxic woman*** like are u so ignorant to d fact people change.
u can be a dove and marry a dove ....few years on d dove can turn to be a loin.

ruffkenny:
Be patient with her,that is because you guys have not properly married,maybe she is keeping her things well incase you do what you wrote up there!!Besides what have u been telling her that makes her pack her things like that,maybe you have been telling her u will send her out of your house,hence she is not feeling that your home has totally become hers,..The home of a man belong to his wife,its hers not just yours,now you are talking of ejecting your wife??Bro are you sure you are ready to settle down with her?If yes then there is nothing love and communication cannot solve..

ds d issue I have with ladies....u are advising d Guy to be Patience and not condemning the lady behaviour.
Is like u ladies are just wired never to speak the truth to each other.... d guy sud always be one to be Patience while d lady misbehave.
am very sure if it was the other way round u will say d guy isn't matured bla bla but i guess a lady is permitted to be immature.
why will I have a issh with my fiancée and d next thing she does is ignore me and pack all her stuff off so I can't use do u no wat D's really means.
Bro if u marry dat babe .... anytime u have issh she won't cook for you...she will watch go hungry.
ds how it start.

men cheat and lady cheat.
but the issh I have with some Ladies dey keep guys around for reasons best known to them.
For instance me and my fiancée fight over D's....she is a fair lady with sexy body so it attracts men to her alot.
so D's men she keeps dem around and some send dem her money.
here is my probs why will u be collecting money from knowing fully well dey want u and u don't want them...but she claims dey give her willingly.

one even sent her money to her while we were together last weekend and I was angry but at the same time I don't understand D's men.

cos most times I read her convo with D's men and I realised dey are d one impressing her with money.

Vortex369:
Well, your last line was a question: What I think?

Are you sure you really want to know what I think?

Since you asked for it, then I have to tell you what I think and the reason for my conclusions.

I think you are stupid, and I am not joking. I think you are one of the stupid husbands who have no idea what Fatherhood means and what being a real man in your home entails and how to be a husband to your own wife.

The reason I think you are stupid, is because at this stage in your Life, when your wife is strugggling real hard to bond with the young kids you still are worried about your silly sex life.

You have failed to be an alpha male, a real man, a true husband, who will cuddle his wife and his children and generate happiness for your wife. What bothers you is sex. Do you have any idea that it is sex that brought those children to this world, and when they come, you now sound as if those kids are inconvenience for your silly sex life. Do you even know how silly it sounds?

My advise is that you grow up. Call your wife and kiss her then apologize for complaining about Sex, and move into your bedroom and nurse those children to reach an age of grace.

It is not you that should be complaining of sex dimwit. If your wife needs sex, then become creative, you can make move in the kitchen, bathroom, toilet, under the bed and even at the BQ for a change.

You must not come here and lament about this nonsense again.

Do we not have real men again in this forum that will chastise these Indomie men?

Take charge of your home and bear all inconveniences. Life is not a place for perfect joy and happiness. Embrace the sorrows and pains.

I think u went overboard with ur reply which is infact silly.....u could have made ur point without insult and name calling but I no ur type.....no manners.
learn D's cretin people have the right to express themselves anyway they feel and wat they might see as a problem no matter ow lil it is doesn't need to make sense to you cos we are different which every sane human being knows...if they are wrong u correct them reasonably rather than tongue lashing and even including men in general with ur childish question.
Ask your father and mother if dey haven't fought over something similar.... something lil as a cup water can cause a big fight in marriage but I guess u are too dumb to understand.

cococandy:
In contact with the ex who fathered her child or some other ex? What kind of things did they discuss?

Per comments on the post: So, I suppose a single mom should deny the father of her child access to the children in order for the new man to like her? Ever heard of co parenting?

If you have a child and end up not marrying the woman who bore the child , do you deserve to loose that child so that she can move on to the next man? Or is a civil arrangement where you both can have your separate relationships and still be in your child’s life not a good option.

Na una dey do una self..

try and read things with ur brain and not ur eye sis .....he said "in contact regularly" but I know u will never see that....sud a man be in constant contact with is baby mama while been married to another woman?..I will never take dat.
u can be in contact but regularly hell no

Riele:
Smh .

The truth also is that ladies also treat Lazy men the way OP lady treated him .

If a woman meets aClassy intelligent man she would respect him .

I also don't blame the way women treat you guys .

see u ladies are too many .....d worst a woman can do a man is "chop is money" or cheat on him like we all say but my dear we all no you ladies av experience lot of trauma.....I know one who is currently 5 month pregnant and currently under house arrest....her life is already miserable courtesy a guy she was playing smart with.

Riele:
SMH

Sodiqapril , why do Men feel they need to be rewarded with sex just because they give a woman some money ?

Cos dat wat most y"all jobless have to offer.....see d honest truth is we men only treat the hungry lazy cretin among u people dat way.......if a man meet a matured classy reasonable lady he will surely treat her right but ow do u expect me to treat a decent prostitute who can go so low as lying dat her mum is on sick bed just to get money off me.
see have met a bunch and I don't blame d way guys treat most ladies D's days.

Thegeneralqueen:
It takes a lot for us to open our legs so you could have your way and if there is any reward more than money i think we deserve it because it's not easy to undergo the stress of having sex especially with Nigerian men

so say a Nigerian woman... we guys know most y"all are decent prostitute D's Days......look around ow many married ladies and ow many single mothers?
Do the math

Lorenzop:
imagine a Van persie yet to manage a primary school soccer team dey open mouth criticize Ole....if them carry team give Van persie now...na relegation straight....it's easy to be a pundit...the hard job is being a manager, Van Persie should try one after all his mates like Henry, Lampard, Gerrard have taken up management roles

Anyone can criticise him...... people have done that to manage far bigger Dan him...so he should Stfu.....who is ole telling someone not criticise is style was mourinho not always murder by his class mate who all failed as managers

Lorenzop:
imagine a Van persie yet to manage a primary school soccer team dey open mouth criticize Ole....if them carry team give Van persie now...na relegation straight....it's easy to be a pundit...the hard job is being a manager, Van Persie should try one after all his mates like Henry, Lampard, Gerrard have taken up management roles

but a Gary Neville ,Paul shcooles ,rio could criticize mourinho thru out??.....I hate double standard in my life

I can assure you bro there is a 99% possibility u just with her because of wat u getting.... naturally no man can stand is gf/wife cheating on him
.... right now u need her more than she needs you...so u kinda at her mercy which resulted in her cheating for reasons best known to her.
But right now ur hand are tied ....so enjoy things with her while it last.

How Dino became a senator in 2015 still amazes me......cos is personality and character isn't too good at all.

Well is all good.....is fans and supporter can still get to watch him on TV as an actor.
I pray he drops some songs aswell..one or two track won't be bad

Medanoski:
Kai must everyone comment on nairaland. By the way can you pls define prostitution and then relate it with this piece of news ?

only an animal will engage in such barbaric sexual act and a Prostitute ...no sensible lady well trained will....abi if ur sister is among d ladies I guess ur family will throw her a party and praise her to the high heaven.
Having sex with a man with two other ladies at a go..haaaa.. d idiot could av engaged is wife too.

marvin906:
guy try get sense 2020 don reach...
as far he didn't force or rape them how's that your business

abi oooo....dat why most y"all useless to the nation.... always coming here to wail

Ladycewhy:
Sharia reigns supreme than the constitution in the north, a police man arrested by sharia police, lol this is what the CJN wants the entire country to turn into.

so d act isn't to be condemn....fine am a Christian and i don't support any Sharia law but the police man did something condemnable.....and nobody is talking about dat....is D's wat we have dropped down too.
we just want to criticize blindly.
FYI prostitution is a crime in Nigeria and not in Sharia law alone.

dangotesmummy:
you are still not getting the point.forgiveness is part of the package that comes with marriage.you don't just take the good side.you take the good , the bad and the ugly.shebi Una dey always say for better for worse,in sickness and in pain till death do you part,so why can't you take the lime with the lemon.na only the lemon you want,you don't want the lime

maybe you should get it straight .....they are not married yet ....had it been it was after marriage then ur logic can work out but they are not yet...... only few men can go ahead to marry such a lady and I doubt if any is in Nigeria

dangotesmummy:
o really? So he is a saint without flaws? Or the guys family are Mr and Mrs perfect family? Look let me tell you every family and marriage has skeletons in their cupboards that they're concealing including the ones that will enter social media kissing or playing lovey dovey

Marriage is not for 2 perfect people,it's for 2 imperfect people living in harmony. you are saying no family can accept a cheating lady,shebi na because we never see the bad side of the groom's family which they're concealing.

It's funny how everyone forms na me righteous pass but have a situation,disease,bad habit or character that they're managing.shioorrr

I still don't get ur point.....so because I cheated so my wife to be sud also go sleep with my friend rite.
u are very correct she not perfect dat why d only person she could open leg for is a mutual friend two months to there wedding..... only an idiot Will make such a terrible mistake.

I hail you.... clearly u can also do D's since no one is perfect rite??

dangotesmummy:
o really? So he is a saint without flaws? Or the guys family are Mr and Mrs perfect family? Look let me tell you every family and marriage has skeletons in their cupboards that they're concealing including the ones that will enter social media kissing or playing lovey dovey

Marriage is not for 2 perfect people,it's for 2 imperfect people living in harmony. you are saying no family can accept a cheating lady,shebi na because we never see the bad side of the groom's family which they're concealing.

It's funny how everyone forms na me righteous pass but have a situation,disease,bad habit or character that they're managing.shioorrr

I still don't get ur point.....so because I cheated so my wife to be sud also go sleep with my friend rite.
u are very correct she not perfect dat why d only person she could open leg for is a mutual friend two months to there wedding.

I hail you.... clearly u can also do D's since no one is perfect rite??

dangotesmummy:
what she did was unforgivable but she forgave the man of the Same offence.how many times do we offend God.is he perfect? Abeg joor

There's nothing worse than being in a marriage alone.she should thank God because that man Will be cheating on her cold-bloodedly, will be unforgiving, malicious and spiteful

Sometimes when God changes out plans we think we are being short-changed or embarrassed not knowing God is rescuing us from the consequences of our ignorance or foolish decisions

Madam bride if you marry na only you go dey for the marriage, nobody go follow you live for house and even if they live with you one day they'll live so it's better to suffer temporary disappointment than everlasting embarrassment or what's the use of marrying a man you will be walking on eggshells with around the house or you won't know what move he's making to bring you to disrepute

sorry ma... have been seeing ur comments and am just wondering are u in support of someone making such a stupid foolish mistake of sleeping with a mutual friend fiancée 2 month to there wedding cos I didn't see where u condemn her actions.
all ds ur story of forgiveness is worthless cos no mother or father will ever accept such a lady into there family not to even talk about d guy.
so is not a matter of forgiveness at all.

Iamgrey5:
Buhari could have saved himself from the headache

Sowore could barely get 50,000 Votes in the last election that was just 10 months ago.

He couldn't even win in is Ese-odo local government area in Ondo state.

Hence, while he was known to everyone, he was not popular even in his local government area, but Buhari succeeded in making him one of the most popular man in Nigeria today

one of the most popular man u say.....lol
he only known to people on social media dat don't vote....go ask the market women farmers in d bush that actually vote if they even heard of him before

jesmond3945:
does she work?

yes bro.....D's someone who told me money can never be a probs in our relationship cos she is an independent woman bla bla.... just once I came off short d money i give her....she just complained heavily didn't even wait till second time.
most of them are the same both the working class and non working they just feel u are responsible for them.... although she has apologised and av been remorseful about it cos i blasted her back dat day but I have changed completely towards her.....D's word was way out of line to me"maybe I shouldn't give her any money until am financially balance back"...where is the contentment and that was a proud statement.

Katier00:
there is more to every story. Op painted himself as a saint here. Do you carry your wife along during love making or are you the open your legs let me enter man. How do you treat her? Yes you provide upkeep but what about respect? Is she your partner or just sex mate. There is no excuse for cheating. It is wrong in every ramifications. So don't crate a crack on the wall of your home

Even if he is not doing all what u stated ...she has no right to deny him....it is totally wrong.
Dat never d solution..most times D's how trouble start before u no it ds man will go get it somewhere else and dat 60k will be shared into two....dat shop she is closing for any reason best known to her another lady is ready to open it 24/7 to d man for 10k a month.

AwkaetitiBabe:
The op should have explained his financial state to d fiancee, I'm sure she'd ask him to save d 1k

lol....u think I didn't explain??
Despite d fact she knows I needed to pay my workers on my farm around d following week...
I have never been stingy to her in any way...I try my best in my own lil way but my dear I can't lie to you I was really down dat day cos it made me look like I wasn't up to d task.....my ex was a total ingrate despite everything I did for her and D's.
am not perfect neither am I Mr no Bleep up but whatever i get from people I appreciate.....she have done several things I didn't like.... infact she cook bad food on two occasions but I never complained becos I will never do it cos I know d feeling it brings.
I hate complains ....my friend and family know it totally turn me off.
I think dere was abetter way she could have done it not directly complaining d money was too small and she felt embarrassed....for heaven sake dat was my first time why couldn't she have taken it and wait till next time.

Nwodosis:
You are in search of wife material when you are not a husband material? With this your mind set, you will be in an endless search.

lol.....bro u have no idea where am coming from.
anyway maybe I didn't relate my message well I guess....cos av never in my life complained about anything I was given freely... nobody owe me anything dat my mind set and dat what av made me what I am today to the glory of God.
She knows my worth financially and she thinks I want to punish her for the sin of my ex which is totally wrong.

donstan18:
I don't think this is enough reason for you to get angry since she didn't say anything belittling or demeaning to you for giving her that amount.

But please, help her mentally or financially to get something doing, so that such issue will not come up again.

I find it disturbing for a lady to demand for money from her fiance for visiting him.

lol.....she works in one of the pension management office..and ACC balance is very good.
like u guys don't get my point at all......u guys didn't no how she told me dat i got angry....I can't write everything in details.
my main issh....we all no how life is...God forbid wat if i go broke sometime and am not able to really drop at home is D's how she will be complaining.