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kaecy5:
goodguy and TOH

is there a personal beef between both of u let us know now

I was beginning to wonder if she knows me from somewhere.  She's always attacking me first!

Eurphoria:
goodguy don't be a BITCH ALL YOUR LIFE PLS ---

What do you mean?

Eurphoria:
I WILL do all night prayer and fasting for you this is becoming chronic your poblem

Yeah, she needs it.

ThiefOfHearts:
dude, just be quiet. You sound like a whiny little girl right now and it's embarrassing.

A cyberbeing's 'whine' is embarassing to you?  Don't you think you're taking the cyberworld too seriously?

Sister Radiant, I'm there already.  Please save me from being lynched by the devourers, oh saviour!

Donzman:
Mr. Goodguy, I actually blame you for the troubles here, the conversation was actually going allright before you decided to renew your grudges with Miss ThiefofHearts.

Miss ThiefOfHearts was the first to attack Mr. Goodguy.  She should be blamed.  Mr. Goodguy simply served her back.  If Mr. Goodguy hadn't done that, Mr. Davidylan would say Mr. Goodguy was being hypocritical.

Eurphoria:
why refer to her upbringing,

I never did initially but she chose to misinterprete what I meant.  I simply agreed with her.  I'm sorry if you are offended.

Euphoria, that wouldn't be necessary.

Radiant, thanks for your care.

Actually, I am not even offended any longer about her insulting my mum.  She already made it clear she was brought up that way.

The fact that she sees nothing wrong in what she said is what's actually getting to my nerves.  I'm getting over it anyway.

ThiefOfHearts:
and your friend is probably still sobbing over my "yo' momma" comment anyway.

And you're happy you insulted someone's mother?  What kind of a human are you?  Seriously, I wasn't offended all along until you made that statement.  I do not joke with my mother!

And if your next reply is going to be "why's someone getting worked up in the cyber world", I could as well ask you how a "cyberbeing" is irritating you, because obviously, you weren't joking when you said that.  So you see, everyone takes the internet seriously once in a while.

mukina2:
you started the name calling

Obviously, you didn't even go through the thread. Go to the page 5 and you'll see she started it all. She didn't deny that fact herself.

mukina2:
in other words you called her something she didnt like and she replied you . .and now you get angry
the same thoughts you are having on her implications are the same she has on yours

Even if I started it, there was absolutely no reason whatsoever for her to involve my mother. It's me she's dealing with, not my mother.

mukina2:
its bad for anyone to insult mums ,i personally have never insulted someone's mum . .you just have to be careful with what you say to people , all fingers are not equal

Yes, and since all fingers are not equal, I would have been totally justified if I had given the idiotic b*tch a resounding slap. Others may not, but I would!

ThiefOfHearts:
goodguy, what you think of me means absolutely nothing to me. I don't do "ladylike" in cyber world. Sorry to break it to you. Obviously it bothers you since you keep hounding me around, why don't you just put me on ignore and go on your way.

For as long as you keep directing your posts to me and attacking me, it won't work. Ever noticed, you're always the first to attack me?

Unfortunately, that saying of yours is absolutely not applicable here.

What on earth warranted such derogatory statement about my mum? She's lucky she made that comment on the net, obviously anyone can hide behind their monitor to say shit. If she said that to my face, she should be in the hospital by now.

TayoD, thanks for bringing us back on course.

ThiefOfHearts:
Last I checked I stayed ON topic by asking mukina about SAID topic, that's when you all came around and interrupted the conversation I was having with her or should I provide quotes for you?

And while asking mukina, you accused the OP and other posters of trying to ridicule Islam, while calling our posts "shit" at the same time.  This was when you started derailing the topic.  You started it all.  You're always starting trouble with all your name callings.  And as babyosisi said, that is very unladylike.

Eurphoria:
goodguy u are a disgrace to men --- you want to start a stupid deul with her? what a tool you are. See the calibre of men they breeding these days-------and then you will start preaching to others on Nairaland tomorrow frigging hipocrite, DO ONE

I intentionally ignored your first post, waiting for you to refer to me directly.

I am not going to insult you.  I don't have any issues with you, but I will like you to view this with an unbiased mind.

I made a post on my own jejely, when TOH came from no where to insult me for posting my opinion.  Now, you saw nothing wrong with that, right?  But when I fired back, I'm now the disgrace to the men?  She even went as far as insulting my mother, and you still could not caution her?  Go through the thread, starting from where I made my first real contribution, and you'll see she started it all.  But you do not see any probelms with that, instead, I am seen as the immature and hypocritical one.  No probs.  I'm less bothered anyway.  I'll agree with you if you call me all sorts of names for responding to her vituperations, but certainly not when she started it all, while I'm being blamed for it. If anything, she should be the one to be called "Immature" for leaving the post to attack the poster.

TOH has insulted me so many times on this forum, but I simply overlook them.  She's now taking advantage of that, and I don't like it.  Now that I've decided to pay her back in her own coins, I'm being asked to shut up, I'm being called names, simply because I am a guy, and she's a lady.  Obviously, no one sees anything wrong with all what TOH is doing.  It's all good.

@kaecy5, please be slow to denigrate.  Thanks!

ThiefOfHearts:
goodguy please shut up and stop ruining this thread with babyish bullshit. No one cares and of course you'd want to hit me. You're a brute. You've made it obvious weeks ago. Now carry go.

With this impertinent attitude of yours, I am beginning to wonder if you'll get any man to marry you.  Oloshi!

And since you've decided not to withdraw your statement, don't get angry when I start insulting your whole bloodline.

Now the duel starts. . .!

ThiefOfHearts:
Everyone is fair game because in a way you're implying that my parents didnt raise me right.

I, in no way, implied such.  You have only chosen to interprete it that way, and if that's the way you see it, fine! 

ThiefOfHearts:
Now stop crying over my shoes and go.

You see, you're the kind of b*tch I wouldn't think twice before dashing a resounding slap.  Are you aware you just insulted my mother indirectly?  

That I've been ignoring your insults on me all the while does not make me a fool. I decided I'll never bandy words with any lady on this forum, but it seems you're taking that for granted. Gentility is not equal to stupidity. Since you do not have any regards for yourself, I'll simply put you where you belong.

I have regards for people's parents, even on the WWW and as such, wouldn't descending to the level of calling them names, no matter how much I detest you.  Perhaps, you're actually right the way you interpreted my post.  Maybe it's got something to do with your upbringing afterall.

Mukina2 & nike, can you see the kind of b*tch I'm talking about? Insulting my mother for no reason?

ThiefOfHearts:
I'm not even paying the retard any mind. Maybe Radiant would like to read his rubbish but I'm ignoring his garbage in this thread as of now.

Dude's a passive aggresssive lunatic.

Okay, Ms. Active aggressive maniac. Dolt!

ThiefOfHearts:
No.

You think you can insult me by referring to me as being "left overs" and now I should take back my shot at you? Who are you?

If I insult you, insult me back.  There's absolutely no reason to bring my father into this.  I didn't insult any of your family members, did I?

David, thanks for pitying me.  Can we get back to the topic now?

ThiefOfHearts:
From the beginning of the thread I mentioned STDs so it is an issue

No, you did not mention STD's from the beginning of the thread, at least, not in your first post.

ThiefOfHearts:
and if you find her cheationg the day after you two slept together, anfd that same day you find out that hey guess what she's infected, then what are the chances that you are not? Take a Micro Biology and get back to me when you know something

Do you understand English at all?  Do you know the meaning of "possibilities"?  Go read "English Without Tears", and get back to me when you know something.

ThiefOfHearts:
Yet your father did. I suggest you carry on the tradition. As a son of the househould, it is your duty.

Can you kindly withdraw this statement?  The emboldened part particularly.  I'm really going to appreciate that.

Thanks David, but I don't eat left-overs.

ThiefOfHearts:
That is this issue. This is MY thread and I say it's part of the damn issue in case you can't read.

That is not the issue.  That is MY post, and I say it's not part of the damn issue, incase you can't read.

ThiefOfHearts:
BTW if she's infected, doesnt that make you both infected and i guess you two should stay together, can't have you people infecting the rest of the world

My verdict: you two should continue to sleep together and make super Aids.

How do you reason?  Once she's infected, that automatically means the other is also infected, even if they've not slept together after her infection??  Also, why do you rule out the possibility that all the other people she's been sleeping with are also free of diseases?  Or that she's been using protection, and IS actually free of diseases?  If she's tested negative, good!  I'll stay, and work it out, only after my first time of finding out anyway.  If she's tested positive, fine!  I'll leave; as far as I am not infected myself.  Very simple as ABC.

ThiefOfHearts:
goodfag, shut the hell up and get out of my thread. You're so damn irritating and i know the reason why you're here is to try to hurl insults at me because you're a retard still crying over that other thread and really I don't care for your crap right now. I find your en tire existance "appalling", ok?

Quit being loony, idiot!  Attack the post, not the poster.  Oniranu.

ThiefOfHearts:
Ode, who wants to bet if he were the one who found his wife getting it from some other guy he wouldnt be singing the "let's work it out" song and what part of MULTIPLE cheatings do you not understand? oponu. How many times should things be "worked out", until you finally get that STD that would stop you from moving on in your life?

Sulu gambari, read my previous post.  You shouldn't be so conclusive about people's next line of action - especially people you do not know anything about.  Obviously, everyone cannot reason stupidly like you.

ThiefOfHearts:
Rick Fox cheated on Vanessa Williams numerous of times, now they both have herpes. In case you didnt know there's no cure for herpes. Such a gorgeous talented woman now ruined for life with such a disgusting diease.
How many times did Halle have to deal with Eric Benet's shit of him folicking around with various women before she had to leave? Lord knows what she could have eventually gotten had she not ran for her life.

Wetin concern me concern them?  I expect you to know the american way of doing things, espcially when it comes to the issue of marriage.  These people are not even aware of what they're going into (marriage I mean) so I wonder why you're citing them as examples here.

ThiefOfHearts:
Why stay with people that have such disrespect for your life? for your marriage? This isnt even a "girl shouldnt tolerate" kind of thing either, I wouldnt expect a guy to tolerate such a thing either so what the hell are you people crying about?

STD's apart, these aren't just any kind of people.  We're talking of your spouse here. .  this is marriage for goodness sake!  Why shouldn't I forgive my wife?  Why shouldn't I stay with her again?  Why shouldn't I tolerate her?  What kind of a person are you?  Even if she contacts any diseases, I will only leave her because I do not want her to transfer it to me, and not because I cannot forgive her.

ThiefOfHearts:
Lol, if you caught your wife with the mailman or whatever, would you write a pros & cons list on the "possibilities" and whether the reason why she did it was "reasonable"?

I can confidently say that I will never divorce my wife on this basis (unless she's infected of course , but that's not the issue now).  Sure, I'll be upset, disappointed, feel betrayed, feel really bad and all that, but it's not enough reason to divorce my wife, especially if she's the type I know wouldn't do such on a good day.  This, I guess, is what ope_emi means on 'looking at possibilities', because, as he said, before you step into marriage, you must have known well who you are getting involved with.

Why would I get married in the first place to someone I know I will easily divorce at the first sight of problems, e.g. cheating?

When y'all get married and have kids, then you will understand that 'cheating' may not be the worst thing you will have to deal with. Until then, you all can get hoarse arguing this issue.

Ugwumba, thanks for this post!!  Very well said!!!

ope_emi, I couldn't have said it any better.

At least, Radiant is still making sense here.  If there's a problem in your marriage, try working it out first! (this was my major point on the other thread that everybody failed to see, and decided to deliberately misinterprete).  But no, ThiefOfHearts would rather leave at first sight of the slightest problems.  This mentality and attitude is really appalling, I must say.

N.B.  See ope_emi's post for the true meaning of marriage.

As I posted on the other thread, you ladies only give their opinions based on your present feeling, which is understandable.  When you get married, I guess you'll know better.

Thanks to ThiefOfHearts for wanting to prove "I am a good Christian because I don't ask questions about Islam, while you guys are bad Christians for asking innocent questions that bother the mind about Islam"; the purpose of this thread has almost been defeated.

olat:
Lets try and display some level of maturity in our discussions. Divergent opinions are always welcome. But it must be decent! Cheers all.

I hope you can read this, ThiefOfHearts. Cheers.

I'm not surprised you believe that post, considering the fact you've both started a preliminary date on Nairaland.

davidylan:
My line is perfect. . . I'll call you in a minute. . .

I see.   No wonder you came barging into my thread to support her, while pretending to 'cool us down'.

And oh. . I thought you were not like me and 'the other guys'.

Hypocrite.

davidylan:

Nah, i wouldnt descend as low as you and some other guys out there i know. Just speaking my mind, you will note i only reserved my words for you and NOT the other guys on this thread. Them i respect, YOU i do not! I have read some of your other posts before!

I thought you just said we should get back to the topic?

mukina2:
goodguy did i apologise or did i say what was on my mind?

You did say you were sorry, didn't you?

mukina2:
you see i dnt like to keep grudges against people
thats the fact . .thats just it

Yes I know that.

mukina2:
remember this thread was locked because we were going off-topic

Yes I remember.

mukina2:
with you tryin to bring me down for tryin to help out

No I wasn't.  You were.

mukina2:
when did you start believin in Islam?

Where/when did I indicate so?

mukina2:
goodguy why do you like quotin people

Because it helps me address whoever I'm addressing better.  It also helps me express my points better.

mukina2:
is that the first thing i taught you?

I'm not sure I can remember.

davidylan:
don't you think its too early to start accusing me of saying nonsense?

You just made a post that you cannot even back up. I call that nonsense. Seriously, are you just trying to impress ToH or what?

davidylan:
Did you actually save the transcript of our last conversation? Wow! i must be important a little bit. thanks badguy.

My message archive is enabled, which means all chats I have on Yahoo messenger are always saved in the archive. Don't get too excited.

davidylan:
Mind if we return to the topic of the thread sir?

You knew that before coming up with your nonsense.

mukina2:
goodguy never appreciated the fact that i was only tryin to help

La ilaha illa-Allah!  I can't believe this is coming from you, mukina.  You are the same person that apologized to me yesterday on messenger for the way you responded to me, even though I didn't take anything against you.  You brought up this issue, and I explained to you, to which you responded that you now understand me.  And now you're here saying I never appreciated the fact that you were trying to help?  Have you forgotten our conversation so soon?

davidylan:


goodguy! i'm shocked! I thought you accused me the other day of being the mean and arrogant one. I remember you clearly "admonishing" me with "brotherly kindness" not to pass along my message to my islamic friends with aggression and a harsh tone! Wow!  

And who exactly is the Muslim that I am passing my aggression and harsh tone to in this case, since that's what you're trying to bring out, I suppose?

BTW, I never accused you of being mean and arrogant.  If you want me to copy and paste the conversation we had that day here, open a thread and I'll kindly do so.

Please don't start your nonsense here.