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 Family › Re: Niece Is Oliver Twist. by greatgod2012(f): 10:36pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
jeffizy: I just remembered my wife once told me that my sis-inlaw sends her daughters to their dad to make false claims to extort(?) money from their dad!exactly, that is d genesis. She has already imbibe it into her, different mischeviours ways of extorting money from people, she don train d girl and seems d girl don become almost perfect.....well, op, d earlier you do something about it, d better for you. This is a lesson for us all, all those small small lies, like tell her, im not around that some parents ask their children to tell have adverse effect on them, May God help you. |
| Family › Re: What Will You Do If Your Girlfriend Slap Your Mum? by greatgod2012(f): 10:24pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
I cant just imagine or know what can lead to a gf slaping your mum, i dont want to believe it can be real. However, you never can know what you can do until it happens to you. May God help us all. |
| Family › Re: My Husband Denied Me Sex For Two Years by greatgod2012(f): 10:21pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
You ask her to stay?.............do you want to carry her corpse soonnest?(God forbid)......its only d person who experience d pain that knows where it pinches, so, let her do what she pleases, since shes d one who knows what shes experiencing.....a living divorced/separated woman is better than a dead married woman. As regards her son, d reason for which you asked her to stay, do you think what you people are doing to that young boy' s psychology is good? is what is happening in that marriage not too much for that boy's age? Living under constant fear and in a loveless home, dont you think that boy is being indirectly trained to be hostile, uncaring and unloving and to also believe that, that is how a woman should be treated. In my own opinion, i think d woman will do the young boy more favour by leaving and taking care of her son in a loving, peaceful and encouraging enviroment, which will have a positive effect on d attitude of d boy in d future than where he is now, which will have negative/adverse effect on him. So, in my opinion, d earlier d woman leaves, d better for her and her son, since emotional and physical abuse is involved. I would have advise her to stay, pray and fast for her husband if d only reason is not being responsible, but no, cheating, different types of abuse and irresponsibilities are just too much and too heavy for woman to carry. So, woman, leave abeg, take care of yourself and your son, spend time with positive oriented pple, make yourself happy, involve in acttivities that will increase your productivity, have positive approach to life and when its d right time, you will attract d right man. Forgive him in your heart(if possible) to be able to forge ahead. May God help you. |
| Family › Re: Niece Is Oliver Twist. by greatgod2012(f): 8:04pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
With the way you describe the whole thing, i doubt if the girl wouldnt have started stealing money from her mum's purse sef. As a good uncle, what you can do is to correct her and let her mum be aware of it, regardless of how she's going to take it..........."kekere la ti npeka iroko, to ba dagba tan, ebo ni o maa gba",(if you dont curtail her now, she might become uncontrollabe in that aspect) pls, help her, help her mum, b4 it gets out of hand, at d end, she will thank you for it, if you leave her to her fate, shes going to develop some ridiculous habit like discontentment,, decent bara,(begi-begi, like my kids use to say), totally relying on people for financial obligations, etc.......till adulthood, which, by then, may be difficult for her to change. May God help us all. |
| Family › Re: Woman Hangs Herself For Having Her Naked Pictures Leaked On The Street by greatgod2012(f): 7:49pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
@Ivynwa, you made a lot of sense up there. What will i even gain by blackmailing someone, what will i gain by causing someone unhappiness, many people have forgotten that, karma never get tired of visiting its victims, whatever we do , we reap the reward in multiple folds, since we dont reap d number of grains we sow, we reap in bountifully, so also with our deeds to others. May God help us all. |
| Family › Re: Please Post Your Complaints In Here : Please Get It Off Your Chest by greatgod2012(f): 7:32pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
@mod, i think you need to consider this thread for FP, its such an enlightening, informative and expository thread that both married and about to marry can learn from. Thanks. https://www.nairaland.com/1223068/what-make-turn-partners-intimacy |
| Family › Re: How Do Guys Get Over Mum's Death by greatgod2012(f): 4:53pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
iRichards: Lost my mum some months back too...i am a grown man with kids but she used to teach me alot abt history and culture...i miss her counsel and prayers too...what kills me everyday is the relative comfort i couldnt afford for her then (cos of financial issues) but i now can....i miss d fact that i can tell her ANYTHING without feeling being judged...i dont think i will get over her...so i am starting an NGO in her name (and on issues she was most passionate abt)...you see, i have choosen to celebrate her...wish you well bro...exactly what i typed up there..... Sorry for your loss bro. |
| Family › Re: What Can Make You Turn Your Partner's Intimacy Approach Down? by greatgod2012(op): 4:32pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
But why are men not participating now, abi the matter no concern them ni? |
| Family › Re: What Can Make You Turn Your Partner's Intimacy Approach Down? by greatgod2012(op): 4:29pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
ifyalways: Solutions:you are too much! I gbadun you seriously. |
| Family › Re: What Can Make You Turn Your Partner's Intimacy Approach Down? by greatgod2012(op): 4:11pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
chaircover: Ha! Sexx doesnt make you age o! It makes you glow! You can always tell a happy woman in that deptchai! Mama o!!! I hail ooooooooo! Research too much........... Olorun oba ngbo, im really enjoying this thread and at the same time learning from this thread......... Olorun ngbo! |
| Family › Re: What Can Make You Turn Your Partner's Intimacy Approach Down? by greatgod2012(op): 3:22pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
Mrs mansson: Abeg when am upset with him and he apologised in a shabby way I turn him down.with my angry face sef,he won't even come close or I might be in my baby's room.you fit settle am for bed now...abi? |
| Family › Re: My Husband Is Having Ex Issues! by greatgod2012(f): 2:27pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
Tell him how you feel about the whole thing. May God help you. |
| Family › Re: Ladies, What Will Make You Disrespect Your Husband? by greatgod2012(f): 1:58pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
Nothing, he has been with me thru thick and thin, i should also be with him thru thick and thin as well, life is not only what i can get from it, it also involve what we can offer it, infact, when my hubby is financially down, is when i seems to take care of him more than when hes financially bouyant, so that his self-esteem will not be affected as a result of his present financial position, that remind me of when they werent paid for some months, that was when i increased his meats to four, so that, he wont start thinking im reducing his food because he wasnt able to drop much for us. A good husband deserve to be treated well, whether money flows or not, since he hasnt been the stingy type when hes financially bouyant. Meanwhile, those things i think can make me disrespect him are.... - If he becomes abusive.(God forbid) - If he turn to a cheat.(God forbid) But, for now, i just cant, he deserve the best treatment from me. May God help us all. 32 Likes |
| Family › Re: What Can Make You Turn Your Partner's Intimacy Approach Down? by greatgod2012(op): 1:36pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
byvan: "Besides sex ages women faster".ha!!that means I ll be wrinkled old before my 30th birthday,nawaoooh.its suppose to be making us look fresher nah.I thought is sex with several men that age women faster??hehhheeeee............lmao |
| Family › Re: What Can Make You Turn Your Partner's Intimacy Approach Down? by greatgod2012(op): 1:35pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
byvan: "Besides sex ages women faster".ha!!that means I ll be wrinkled old before my 30th birthday,nawaoooh.its suppose to be making us look fresher nah.I thought is sex with several men that age women faster?? |
| Family › Re: What Can Make You Turn Your Partner's Intimacy Approach Down? by greatgod2012(op): 1:34pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
jennykadry: Have sex with him when you are angry at him and make love to him when yous settle.haaa, madam Jenny, i don laugh tire here, truly, there is difference btwn the two, but i will suggest the anger should be settled on bed now, abi? What do you think? |
| Travel › Re: 3 Killed In Multiple Accidents On Abuja-Nyanya Road by greatgod2012(f): 12:07pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
Res In Peace to the lost souls! The money that our leaders are suppose to use on our roads are in their accounts yielding interests.......hhhmm, i pray that God put his fear in these our leader, so that they will do the right thing and help stop all these unexpected deaths caused by our bad roads. |
| Family › Re: 31 Qualities Of A Godly Woman by greatgod2012(f): 11:43am On Mar 13, 2013 |
Yornandrew: There are many women that are godly in Nigeria. But I don't know if I will end up with a godly spouse. I am not a very religious nor godly man and I attract my type most of the timethen, having known that, its high time you change and become a right partner to attract d right partner. May God help you. |
| Family › Re: What Can Make You Turn Your Partner's Intimacy Approach Down? by greatgod2012(op): 11:39am On Mar 13, 2013 |
freecocoa: @Topic, Hmm, reading the comments here has left me wondering.my sister, that should be settled on bed, except you want to keep the anger till the next day, which is not to be encouraged in marriage........but each to his/her own sha o, as for me, anger cant make me turn him down, atleast, i know he wont all me keep that anger, so it depends on you and your partner. May God help us all. |
| Family › Re: What Can Make You Turn Your Partner's Intimacy Approach Down? by greatgod2012(op): 11:33am On Mar 13, 2013 |
jidegirl12: When I'm extremely tiredHaving BJ is not turning him down, in my opinion, its how you want it explored, and its allowed, once d feeling is mutual, so, you are still on line my sister, enjoy life d way you deem it right/fit......lol  |
| Family › Re: What Are The Things You Enjoy As A Married Man/lady by greatgod2012(f): 10:11am On Mar 13, 2013 |
@op, your last point is my own first point..........enjoying intimacy without the guilt of adultery 2. The respect i get as a married woman. 3. The way im pampered by my hubby like a little girl.....lol 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Health › Re: The Dangers Of Chewing Gum by greatgod2012(f): 9:43am On Mar 13, 2013 |
kagel: oh dear dont worry chewgum is bad when you chew the healthy one herethank you jare for helping me out, some have called me ashawo, some said i must have black teeth, you are d only one who cares to help me out.....i appreciate you for d infomation. |
| Family › Re: What Can Make You Turn Your Partner's Intimacy Approach Down? by greatgod2012(op): 8:34am On Mar 13, 2013*. Modified: 1:38pm On Mar 13, 2013 |
ayobase: Hmmm, okay na!abeg, no kill her with gbogilagila or whatever it is called, it should be about quanlity and with understanding, not only fikafika ...........i don talk my own. 3 Likes |
| Health › Re: Why Do Guys Wake-up With An Erection? by greatgod2012(f): 3:55am On Mar 13, 2013 |
Because guys are attention seekers! |
| Health › Re: Five Things You Must Not Do Before You Sleep. by greatgod2012(f): 3:53am On Mar 13, 2013 |
Damn! Im guilty of number 3.... Number 5 is quite funny but very true and real. May Gd help us all. |
| Family › Re: What Is Your Perception About Luck In Marriage by greatgod2012(f): 3:49am On Mar 13, 2013 |
Like some have already said, it might just be a coincidence..............we all have our trying times, maybe this is his. Most times, our approach towards certain circumstances determines how long we stay in them, if your friend believe that it is his marriage with his wife that brought those ill-luck to him, them im sorry for him, he might stay longer in the sh*t, but if he takes it as one of life's battle that must be conquered(won), then, he is on his way to victory. Now, if he takes it as one of life's battle, some or all of the following are what he can trace or examine or consider or identify to get out of d mess........ - Let him examine himself, why was he sacked, was he the only one that was sacked, if yes, why? If no, then, what happened to the organisation hes working with that they have to relieve some of their workers their duties? - As regards the business he ventured into, how did he start, did he have enough capital to start with, was the expenses not more than income, does he live within his means, did he really have enough time for it?....etc. - What is his relationship with his parents(father and mother), does he take care of them? Are they happy with him, sometimes, we overlook this area, but it does go a long way to how far we go in life, if his parents are not happy with him, let him go and reconcile with them, his situation might be as a result of his relationship with his parents. - Is he a straight forward person, is he honest, is he loyal, where necessary, does he take bribe, has he ever duped anyone........all this can go a long way in affecting him either positively or negatively. However, if after examining himself, he is not into any questionable character or shady situation, he needs to feel relaxed, its just a phase, he will surely go over and pass over the phase. However, if hes guilty of any of the above-mentioned, then, he should adjust and repent and do the right thing, blaming your partner for bringing ill-luck doesnt just apply here, necessary adjustment and viable steps are what he needs.......... Tackling the root is better than cutting just the branches/leaves. This is my personal opinion. May God help us all |
| Family › Re: Did I Made Mistake by greatgod2012(f): 2:58am On Mar 13, 2013 |
No, you did not make a mistake, you took a bold and giant step in ensuring that you live longer, what you need now is to take your time and be very careful not to find yourself in similar situation again, do not rush into another relationship to hasty, make more positive oriented friends, i mean friends that will add more value to yourself, go out more, so that you dont wallow in depression, take courses(if possible) that will earn you more promotion, concentrate more on what improves your well being, do not allow pity-party around you, make yourself happy, and take care of yourself medically, take your health seriously and at d right time, d right man will come your way. Wishing you goodluck. However, the man may come back begging you to come back, think about it very well, if hes the type you can forgive easily, give your terms and conditions, in written form, if he can abide with them, then take your time and think about it if hes worth giving the second chance, if hes not worth, blantly discard him and move on with your life, and take it that sometimes, some people are just ill-luck. May God help us all. |
| Family › Re: 8 Best Ways To Deal With Your Enemies by greatgod2012(f): 8:57pm On Mar 12, 2013 |
ajos: wetin be ur problem...u either hate me or love me but cant change me....get a life u not welcome herena fight? |
| Family › Re: 8 Best Ways To Deal With Your Enemies by greatgod2012(f): 8:37pm On Mar 12, 2013 |
slimyem: Op,shebi na you dey find how to recognize witches the other time?You must be a very paranoid person o..thank you ma, your source of wisdom will never dry up. I thought im the only one trying to consider the type of person the op is, only God knows d type of person he will talk about next, abeg, life is too short to be thinking someone is "doing" me. May God help us all. |
| Family › Re: How Do Guys Get Over Mum's Death by greatgod2012(f): 8:32pm On Mar 12, 2013 |
Eeya.....sorry, i've not being there and i dont wish to be there soonest.....but the truth is we cant totally forget our loved ones when they are gone, its natural, so take heart and move on, you can however do some philantropist donations in her name, that way, you will be happy for doing something on her behalf, even, if shes not the one enjoying it, at least d praise, honour and appreciation goes to her. May God help us all. |
| Family › Re: What Can Make You Turn Your Partner's Intimacy Approach Down? by greatgod2012(op): 8:24pm On Mar 12, 2013 |
obyikye: If he cheats, abuses(of an kind).yes, another point there, when i just put to bed, and the body is still "wet"........he wont even make attempt, im always d first to make first attempt....lol..... 1 Like |
| Family › Re: What Can Make You Turn Your Partner's Intimacy Approach Down? by greatgod2012(op): 7:53pm On Mar 12, 2013*. Modified: 2:22am On Mar 13, 2013 |
chaircover: You mean you are never ever tired?no, i tried to answer your previous question where you asked if you are a bad wife for refusing to be intimate as a result of tiredness, who no go get tired? ,when i no be stone, abeg, i do, but when im really very tired, my hubby wont even dare make attempt..........he doesnt tempt me turning him down. May God help us all. |
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