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"I love you" has a lot of meanings to different people. Nowadays, people say "i love you" just like they are saying "hello", but, every individual who say it knows within him/herself why saying it, so, when you can't believe your ears, you can always trust your heart.
If you have someone who says he/she loves you, appreciate him/her, but always remember that........."ever since s..e.x started becoming easier to get, love started becoming harder to get".
So, be wise, do not allow anyone to use d word "i love you" to deceive/rob you.
May God help us all.

P.S......... This was an advice i gave to someone, who's emotionally and physically robbed thru just "i love you" and i decided to share it here, perhaps, someone might coincidentally learn something therein.

ngoziliz: Why do children love me too much?
i am talking about kids that are not related to me,
i.e: neighbours kids,kids i m just seeing for the first time either in a bus,
eatery, on the road etc. What does this imply? To tell you the truth,
i also love kids but it is not everybody who i know love kids that kids love also.

I am not yet married and i ve never given birth before. i earnestly desire to have my
own kid too.

your opinions count

its an indication that you are going to have very many of them......... ......so, be prepared.


On a serious note, it means you are loving, lovely and caring, little kids are like puppies, they usually love and are loyal to whoever takes care of them, may not be materially, but just playing, smiling with them makes them see you as one of them, hence, their attraction towards you, plus, you know, kids are kind of funny, in d sense that, they makes friends easily, once one or two of them are with you, others will look for them, which will always make them to be many when they are with you, and they can even call themselves......."heeheee, we are going to anti Ngozi, will you mind going with us?" and like that, like that, dem go full house.
My sister, no shaking, its a good omen.....be prepared!
May God help us all.

van bonattel: Load of rubbish, marriage have no defined formular. Two total strangers can meet from a one night stand and later marry one week later and stay happily married till death. No long thingz......

yes, true, but maybe, one in a thousand cases.........mind you, these questions are asked during d courtship, which is very necessary b4 marriage.
May God help us all.

Nice one there, but, unfortunately, some people are too desperate and too eager to ask these necessary questions b4 settling down, hence, their future regrets.
May God help us all.

sholay2011: I remember those days when I was still a fan of naija movies, I became an ardent fan of this effective combination of talent and beauty in one person called Uche Obi-osotule.

She blew me away in movies like Onome and Thunderbolt as 'Ngozi'. Anyday I see the latter movie, I'm always amazed at how wonderfully she acted and that has been the best performance I've seen from a Nigerian actress in a leading role till date! (Maybe I need to see recent movies sha)

She has been away from our screens for years now with acting sensations like genny,omotola, ini edo, tonto d1ck, mercy johnson, chelsea eze etc taking over but I wouldn't mind to know how far this lady is doing. She is a rare talent.

yes, i remember her vividly, in that movie....thunderbolt,, yes, shes a rare talent indeed, but, only God knows why we have not been seeing her in movies recently.

Awwwwww, thats lovely, congratulations to her and d hubby.

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I wonder how it's wrong. I can as well list examples on a particular question that will generate 10 extra sheets, especially when I intend to impress the lecturer. When I use e.t.c I'm only letting the lecturer know there are more examples.

On second thought, some lecturers also use 'e.t.c' in class, so I doubt if there is anything wrong in referring him to consult Google and other materials also.

On third thought, I have lecturers who love you to give them your answers as it is in their note, it's only logical that I will write exactly what he wrote in the note including his 'e.t.c'
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my brother, how have you been? Quite an age, how is studies?, miss you!

This thread should be an eye opener to our yet-to marry ladies, dont let despperation and pple's bugging push you into something you will ever live to regret about......, marriage is more than just bearing "MRS" but, unfortunately, some ladies wont still learn, even after reading this. My believe is that, there is time for everything and every individuals in this life.
May God help us all.

^^.....you are right.
When d examiner asks for a specific number of points like 10points and you only write some point like 8points and add "etc".........d examiner will assume you dont know all that was asked and cut your score accordingly.
But in a situation where there is no specific number required by d examiner, and there are several points or examples to give, you can add "etc" after writing out d points you can remember, it enables d examiner to know that you know they are more than what you just listed and you get your full mark.......for example, look at this question.......
"what is nairaland?........ Mention some members you have seen their monikers"......now, to answer this question, after defining nairaland, can you now go on to list all over million members of nairaland........definately no, what you do is that, after mentioning d ones you can recollect, you add e.t.c., to enable d examiner know that the members are actually more than what you have listed.

Another example is d one you used above, d fruits, no one can authoritatively say he/she knows all d fruits in d world, so, if an examiner akes you to list examples of fruits you know,without specification of numbers, it is apprpriate to write e.t.c, to enable d examiner know that fruits are more than what you listed, writing "and" shows that, you have exhaused all d fruits available, which most of d time not possible.
May God help us all.


P.S.......this is my field, im an educationist, so, i know what im saying.

I have seen many pple doing it, but, if im a man, i dont think i can do it, because, i dont see it as a right/proper/normal thing to do.
However, each to his/her own, seeing some pple doing it means those pple never saw anything wrong with it.
May God help us all.

May God help us all.

Very unfortunate!

@op, why didnt you come back to check your thread now?

May God comfort d parents.......d guy was just a victim of circumstances, its sad, very pathetic, may his soul rest in peace!

Abeg, no one is greater than anyone. God is d only great and mighty.

Im really concerned about human lives here, hope no life is lost............"Olorun a fi ofo r'emi o"

The truth of d whole matter is, many pple dont have d fear of God, and whosiever lacks d fear of God cannot have fear for humanities, be it their children or their neighbour.
In d above scenario, they are not suppose to be called a parent, especially d father...... .........hhhhmmmmm, sick world with sick pple every where, may God deliver us, deliver our children and our loved ones,.........."o su mi"
may God help us all.

Yolo21: You might not believe this, but it's true. In a desperate bid to become rich, a young man in Calabar, popularly known as Udo Mbakara, has sliced off the heads of two young girls who are his nieces.

Mbakara, 28, told police detectives in the Cross River State capital that he beheaded his two young nieces so that he could sell the heads. Each of the head, he said, was to be sold for one million naira.

The suspect lives with his mother, his younger brother and two nieces at 65, Edim Otop in Calabar. His elder sister and mother of his nieces is said to live in Lagos. The sister only comes from time to time to visit.

Narrating the incident at the police station where he is being detained pending his arraignment, Mbakara said: 'On that fateful Saturday morning at about 9 am, Princess, aged nine and Rachel, aged six, were all at home when I offered to cook rice for them. But unknown to the children, I had drugged the food and did not allow my own younger brother to eat the food.

'After consuming the food, they fell asleep. Then I carried them to the inner room where I started hacking off their heads. I was offered the sum of one million naira for the head of a virgin. I was to be paid two million naira for the two heads.'

Investigations by Daily Sun revealed that Mbakara, who has since refused to disclose the proposed buyer of the sliced heads, might not be a first offender. Many people believe he has for long been in the business of selling human heads to ritualists within the Calabar metropolis.

'It is even rumoured that he's behind the sudden disappearances of most of the missing children in the town, and that he has been fronting for those in the business. It was also gathered that his elder brother is serving a jail term in the Afokang Prison for molestation,' a resident told Daily Sun. Police sources said that in the last three months, the command has received reports of missing children and has even gone on air to announce the particulars of some of them.

A family source confided in this newspaper that it was Udo Mbakara's younger brother that raised the alarm on what the suspect was doing inside the room. According the source, who pleaded anonymity 'due to family considerations,' the younger Udo claimed that he heard the children screaming inside. The source continued: 'So he went and peeped and saw his elder brother mopping blood on the floor.

His entire body was also very bloody. At the gory sight, he rushed out and informed neighbours that there was something going on in the house and the girls were screaming. At that moment, some neighbours went in to see what was going on. They then alerted men of the Airport Police Station who responded promptly and arrested Udo Mbakara.'

The slaughtered kids were pupils of Holy Family Nursery and Primary School, 34, Otu Ansa Street in Calabar.

At the children's school, the headmistress, Mrs. Rosa Samuel Edo, described them as very brilliant, saying it was a pity that the school has lost them. According to her, it was as if the unlucky children had known that something would go wrong, noting that they both developed fever on Thursday and Friday. Princess' class teacher, who would not disclose his name, was crying profusely when Daily Sun sought to speak with him. He said he was close to the girl who he described as 'very brilliant.'

Mbakara, who is presently being interrogated at the homicide department of the state police Command, Diamond Hill in Calabar, would soon be charged to court.

http://www.thenigerianvoice.com/nvnews/35064/1/man-slaughters-two-nieces.html

[Utterly uncivilized. What's going on in Nigeria?

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i dont even know what to say, do i say........."d LOVE of money is d root of ALL evils.
This is indeed utterly uncivilised and gross wickedness, what has really gone wrong with some Nigerians?
..........., i dont really know, no reference for human lives and blood again, no one could be trusted again........
Little angels, rest in peace, your gruesome murder is highly painful(crying)..........i cant imagine what d parents will be going thru now............this is just too terrible, (i dont like saying this, but i'l say it now)...............is dis end-time signs?........hhhmmmm, may God help us all.

Doing d right thing at d right time, in d right place, always make me happy.

Heeeehee.........LWKMD...... Nairalanders!!!
Your friend want to share his dad's bed and you want us to advise him, so, what type of advice do you want o?......... smh.........
@op, are you sure you are not d one, because, i think you already know what to tell him....... hhhhhmmmmm, nairalanders no go kill me with some "kain kwensions" dem dey ask....... abeg.....im out!

Very pathetic!
Both mother and son need mental check-up.

Solozzo: Would you support your female child or adult relative to be circumcised?

in this modern age?...............NO!, its a girl child abuse.
May God help us all.

Eklektika: For the core African Man,one area that he doesnt joke with in the home is the quality of his food. Many a woman have learnt painfully that you have to keep a man on a leash-with good food. So what should a man do when d Soup is salty,or d Rice either 2 hard or waterlogged n garnished with pebbles or d Beans bland n tasteless? Or just doesnt taste as well as his Mama used 2 make it? I understand that women's self-esteem takes a battering when they are told dat their food didnt taste good. Should he leave d food after taking some spoonfuls? Or should he endure d ordeal? Should he complain? Or should he after d meal air his displeasure? What if dis is a regular occurence in d home? Should he eat out? What if he falls victim of Iya Basira? Or Nwanyi Calabar? Should he keep enduring? Till when? How would/should d man tell her 2 improve her culinary abilities without crushing her self-esteem? Ur views and comments would be appreciated especially married NLers.

no big deal here..............you can either.......
1. If you know how to do d cooking better, then, go to d kitchen yourself, invite her along and teach her how to do it better, with love, not with arrogance or condemnation.
2. Or, when shes going to d kictchen, follow her, to give a helping hand, handle d aspect where she likely and usually make mistake.
3. Or, Tell her with love and enrol her in a catering school to learn about d skill more.
You can d all these with love, maturely, without crushing her self esteem.
One or all of these is better than consistent complaints.
May God help us all

Roughsleeping!

Kslib: Well,all my own be say make dis no make frontpage...

and what will you do if it makes frontpage?

blink182: I hope you won't dump her when you see the slippers on her chest?

how are you sure that he hadnt seen them?...........true love pass all that......i wish them well!

I want to believe i know what you are asking and why you asked this question, but you didnt put it well, and that is why it seems pple dont understand your thread, let me help you............
Some churches dont conduct weddings for ladies that are already pregnant, and because pple (especially ladies) admire church wedding, they undergo abortion(s), (if they take in b4 d date of d wedding) in order for them to get their church weddings done. So, btwn marriage with pregnancy (openess) and committing abortions to cover up(deception), which one is better?


@op, i guess this is what you are trying to drive at?
If yes, then, marriage with pregnancy is better, if churches refuse to conduct d wedding, because of d pregancy, then, go for registry and do d church blessings later, that is better than abortions, but, @op, why in haste of what you are going to eat and eat and eatand eat till your old age?
Well, may God help us all.

Hhhhhmmmmmm

Some pple are wicked sha, stealing a car is not enough strangling of an innocent baby is an addition, hhhhmmmmm, may God help us, nothing more than d fear of God, some pple wicked, no be small .......height of wickedness, i tell you.......

dayokanu: 3,300 in what currency? Definitely not in Naira

You can get married but delay childbirth until some thing show or your finances improve

i want to believe its an error, she meant 33,000 naira.........hope im right sha......

adaagbozu: i got engaged last year september, so after the introduction the guy lost his job on 2nd of october,
so ever since then he's been jobless and i'm somehow confussed. because i'm the only one catering for myself.
and every month as soon i collect my salary 3300 i will spend part on feedings in his house .

can anyone help me out, i want to know if what am doing is right or wrong.
should i continue waiting for him. i am 31 and the guy is 34 to be 35 by may.

1. Is he educated and sincerely looking for job?, if yes, this is his trying time, wait for him, he has prospect, but, i will advise that you dont get married until he has a regular source of income, no matter how small, regardless.
2. Is he nice, kind and loving to you, if yes, he is likely to continue like that, after marriage.
3. Does he have d fear of God, as in, does he always consider ding good always, if yes, then, he is worth it.
Actually, as a person, i dont really have problem with you spending your own money on yourselves, but my problem is, does he appreciate it, what is your assessment of him by you, you know him better than us, if hes d type that you have assessed to be responsible, i mean, someone who will be alive and quick to his responsibilities, someone who will see you as part of him, someone who will see your needs as his needs, but is only temporarily handicapped by his present unemployment status, then, you are doing d right thing, no condition is permanent, its only for a phase, and d phase will soon pass.
However, i will advise that d wedding can hold until he has a regular income, it may not be much, but no matter how small, it can help you to sustain yourselves, (marriage and family responsibilities aint beans).
Also, you also need to advise him to look for something to do, even if its menial, pending d time a better job will come.
Meanwhile, whenever d wedding will be holding, go for a low key wedding, so that you can use d excess cash(if provided by your families) to establish yourselves, at least, it will be an addittion to your salary.
May God guide you and give you d necessary wisdom to always do d right thing.

If im right, this is gambling?
In my own opinion, gambling is not to be encouraged for and by everyone, both men and women, young or old.
May God help us all.