₦airaland Forum

I heard it has started happening in primary schols too, as for the secondary schools, its been long, almost all the schools in abeokuta and yewa side have cult members as secondary school students, so, to me, its no more news.what i will advise is for the parents to be more alive to their duties/responsibilities and keep on advising/guiding these children, and also, too much freedom too can be one of the factors to tackle.hhhhmmmm.
May God help us all.

I was in your shoe when i lost ne of my sister too, it tok me a while to get over her demise.
Sorry for your loss, may God console you.
However, doing what she would have loved you to do is the best way you can really show that you love her and also how best you can grieve about her.
I also support CC on doing some philantropics' donations in her name, with that, she lives on and you will be happy within yourself that she lives on.
May God help us all.

299: lol@ 'may God help us all'....Madam, is that your trademark?

are you new here?
Yes sir!

When you are married to the right person, even, if you are yet to be rich, there is this rest of mind that you enjoy, which can make a person to gain more weight.
As for men, there is reduction in their stress of getting what to eat, i mean, its not easy for one to leave ones place of work and direct to the kitchen, what the bachelors normally do is to either be a regular customer at an eatery, or depends on junks, most times, bread and softdrinks, or garium sodium(garri), all these are settled once he gets married, which are contributory to their weight gain, as well as the rest of mind as a result of getting married to the right woman.
As for women, pregnancy, childbirths and contraceptives (family planning)plays major roles in weight gain, in addition to the rest of mind as a result of getting married to the right man.
However, it is advisable for one to try as much as one could, to maintain a healthy and attractive stature, and to stay fit.
May God help us all.

I think........they are not meant to be together!

However, i also think, they can both work on it, if they want to.

Where are their children?

Only God knows what might have been the cause of their death, since it seems they are the only ones living together.
RIP to them.

This indeed is very pathetic, may God console the parents and RIP to the little twins.

My oh my, it is indeed a visitor, its already in our own family too, doing everything you claim he did and is doing in your family, and i dont think its going to leave any soon.
I love the write-up, the suspence makes sense, at a certain stage, i was thinking the visitor is LOVE;, but alas! Its this........its indeed a visitor.

berepiki: what are the disadvantages of marrying my classmate? Note: we are both gas engineers

nothing bad with it, if she has what you want in a wife, moreover, there is nowhere you cant meet your partner, schools inclusive.
May God help us all.

That is to say that, even the boy seems to be young, he is now a father, but a baby father, i wonder what is going to be his impact on the life of the new baby.

I will leave them alone during the fight, if it doesnt involve one beating the other, and later talk and beg each of them separately and individually, and if it involves one beating up the other, i will try and separate them, after which i will threaten to run out of their sight to an unknown place, if they dont put a stop to their fightings.
May God help us all.

Rossikk: It's a fantastic combination. Throw in some corned beef as well and you're set.

with prawn!

timilehin007: Seriously i like to drink but i do it moderately i dnt go as far as to molest myself with it..so what i gain is it gives me inspiration to do anything an it motivates me to do things i wishes to do but doesn't have the courage to do it ordinarily and in most cases if i dnt drink i'd be shy most expecially to ladies

you can achieve all these without getting drinking beer, and you know it, you are only thinking without liquor, you cant achieve them, but, you just decide to embark on them, with strong enthusiasm, and see if you wont achieve what you desire to achieve, it depends on you, not on beer/alcohol.

mawojuuche: Excitement...It removes dullness frm me. If i dnt drink then i would commit suicide!!
Now, which would u prefer btw a brother that drinks and a brother that commit suicide

you can create excitement/"no dull moment" for yourself without drinking beer, and i know that you know.

As per that suicide thing, abeg, stop that, you yourself know its an expensive joke.

There is actually nothing to gain from liqour/alcohol/beer except vanity.





Those who think they are gaining something are only daydreaming, its possible to be what one wants to be without involving in drinking beer.
May God help them.

He is one of the men of God i respect a great deal, not like those prosperity only and JETS pastors of nowadays.
May his soul rest in peace.

Grating.............that when i want to prepare ikokore or ojojo.

herseys01: Pls it does not cause bruises o. Isnt it the same jiggy that led to the baby. Your baby will be so fresh if u jiggy well well during pregnancy . Im talking from experience, cos if any baby should have bruises, it should be mine. Mama loved to take it from behind o, especially the last trimester. My baby is sooo beautiful. So pls do it, it helps the baby come easily

experience is the best teacher.......pls, tell him.

Im still using it to scare my youngest kid, and sometimes, when im very busy and wouldnt want to be disturbed, i asks my oldest kid to do "ojuju calabar" for others, he will use one black piece of cloth to cover his face, hold on a stick and speaking with cracked voice, believe me, they will run inside their rooms, and most of the time sleep off as a result of too much closing of their eyes......lol .....
And sometimes, when "actions" is to take place, especially b4 night, my hubby use to tell the kids not to enter our room, because one "ojuju calabar" is hiding therein......lol, little kids sha......
May God forgive all of us.

speedyboi: Look at them.....yet they want a better country. Yet no one even wants to perform his/her civic duties.



Nigerians=their problems.

I'm out.


Ooo@Op, I've done that many times.

and how did it(they) go? Pls, update us.
Thanks!

All the three parties involved, but the greatest blame goes to the one who murdered a fellow human being.

See this woman, you want to come and reap where you did not sow, abeg, carry your frustration comot for his life joor!
You dont know you love him before you divorce him abi?, dont let me yab you o..........

To answer your question....YES!!!

You dont need to be worried, but just becareful you dont end up becoming 2nd or 3rd wife.
May God help you!

Two wrongs can never make a right, yes, the man bringing in another woman is bad, agree, but the woman now committing murder is worse, there are other ways such situation can be resolved other than murdering, but the truth is that, wickedness do not have to do with gender, anyone who is wicked is wicked, , no more, no less, the woman is obviously wicked and extremely jealous and i want to see how she will live with peace of mind now that she would definately be prosecuted and most possibly be jailed
May God help us all.

Another thing, how did you get her?, you can take that route to find her and get back your possesions she left with.

As a matter of fact, i dont really know what else you can do, you have reported her, fine!, but what if you never set your eyes on her again nko?, so, just forget about her and move on with your life.
If you have a younger sibling that will not mind staying with you during this your exams period, why dont you invite him/her over.
It is well.

First of all, that title is not good, how can you say....you will soon go mad? Over what? For your information, everyone has one problem or the other to battle with and your approach towards the problem determines how far you stay inside the problem, dont be so overwhelmed in a problem to the extent of confessing negativities to yourself, the brave ones tackle and find solutions to their problems, not gathering pity-parties around themselves.
Secondly, talking about respect from your hubby, see, lets be realistic here, he who plays the pipe dictates the tune, its because he sees you more as a liability, and not a helper/contributor, engage yourself, find something to do to earn your own money to reduce the rate at which you depend on him financially, as for me, i will say, when any of your siblings need any financial assistance,do not involve him directly, just inform him, even, if need be, by that, he will no longer be feeling that hes your money machine, the truth is that, many men do not want to be bombarded with too much financial burden, especially, from non-immediate family members.
Also, to earn respect from your man, do not always be a receiver, sometimes, be also a giver........sometimes, you can buy something and give him, ....e.g
you:.......honey, i saw this in the store i visited today, and i think you will like it.
Him:.....oh!. Thank you, how much is it?
You:.....never mind, its a gift from me to you.....etc
something like the above can earn you respect.
As for me, i do adopt one method, which i can borrow you, i dont know if its right sha o, but it works for me;........when i want to assist any of my siblings financially, i get the money and give it to him to give them, initially, i will not tell him, but because of the high respectful pedal i place him on, most of the times, he usually refund the money to me.
Another thing is that, if your siblings are the type that do visit often and often, let them reduce the rate at which they visit, it goes a long way to earn respect from man, and good for them too.
And finally, communicate, cummunicate and communicate, do not just talk, pass messages, pass message about what you want and what you dont want, if it has to be by begging or mailing, always pass messages, just last week, my hubby said something to me, while he was going to drop me at work, which didnt go well with me, i couldnt bottle it in until we are closed for the day, i sent a comprehensive e-mail to him while at work, pouring out my mind, and by the time he would be back, it was with apologetic faces, and that was how it ended, many of us do not really know how to really pass message, many women only know how to talk, which to men, is nagging, so, find a way of passing your heartfelt messages to him.
Above all, invite God into your relationship, ask God for guidance, peace and wisdom to administer things in your matrimonial home. Commit him also always in God's hand.(if you dont mind, you can get a copy of the book"the power of a praying wife", it will help)
May God help us all.

And another thing is that, do not be surprised that this picture you have seen is peculiar to that place alone, this is exactly what is really happening in all or most of those self-acclaimed free education states, only that, if not for loyality to one's boss sake, i would have brought some pictures out, of our educational system, even up to higher institutions, as well as the poor state of the health sectors, so, dont be really surprised, until we Nigerians really know what we want and pursue it with all our God-given power and strenght, silly things like these will still continue to prevail.
May God help us as a country o................im out.

It amazes me when i read about some comments here, as if, we all dont know the real position of Nigeria's overall condition/system.
During election campaign, some of our governors used free education as one of the ways to buy the heart of some people, but all the so called governors are doing is carmoflague/deceit, yes, students dont pay schools fees, but governmemnts are are not providing any facilities, so, how will the school authority provide facilities for its students, without any fund forthcoming from both the government and the parents?
Parents are also not doing right, they are not being fair enough with their children, some parents do not know the conditions their children are subjected to in their schools, all they are shouting is "free education", our governor is working, e.t.c.
Now, the fact is that, if governments cant provide free education, let them be sincere and say it out, its better than all these poor and bad learning enviroment that these students are subjected to. Also, the parents should at least visit the schools of their children, to know what is really obtainable there, if it will cost them providing some amenities for these students, let them do it and do not wait for the government to do everything for them, afterall, no amount spent on these children is to be worried about, because, they are our future.



I wonder how the brains of these students will be positively activated with this poor trend and incondusive learning enviroment.
May God help us all.

This old man!, na wa o, and he don become grandpa o, he really need the help of God, and he will get it by God's grace.

This man is really good at getting attention, hes really getting it now, abi? , what are we all doing on this thread if not giving him attention.