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Bidemi1997: LOL. I dey gbadun dis thread seriously o!

of course, you should, that is the essence of opening the thread......to educate ourselves, i, myself have learnt a lot on this thread.
May God help us all.

Petraman: Life is really short! No matter how long u live on dis earth, u'll live much longer in Heaven/hell. So live ur life wisely while u're still a sojourner on this earth.

great point there!

biolabee: True that but also important is what you leave behind when you leave this plane
what were you known for not wishy washy goodie goodie that left his brother on the road for dead until an alien came to help him
The Jew was neglected by his brothers but saved by a man that took care of him and nursed him too.

may God help us all......... Amen!

CrazyMan: Nice write up...

kunletiwoo: 100 Likes

thanks, guys!

[quote author=Mynd_44]True!!![/quote]thanks!

biolabee: I agree.. in recent middle aged people (mid 40s - 50s) have been dieing in droves when it just remains a littlw and they will enjoy the fruits of their labor

Death where is thy sting

May Baba Help Us All

God will surely help us, i just think i should share my own perspective of life, life is indeed so short, d bible says, a thousand years is like a day in d eyes of God, so, life is really to short to live in misery.

Life is too short to take cognizance of everything, some things are better left for nature to take its cause.

Life is too short to try to satisfy everyone, do your best and leave the rest, people must always have something to say and something to complain about.

Life is too short to always be thinking about what people thinks or says about you, just satisfy your conscience and ensure you do the right thing at d right time.

Life is too short to deny yourself of good things of life that you can afford, therefore, eat well, dress well, because, no one knows when his/her time will be up, so that when it happens, you will be happy that you didnt live a miserable life, so enjoy life as much as you can afford.

Life is too short to harbour bitterness in your heart, apart from not being beneficial to your health, it makes you a miserable person.

Life is too short not to make yourself happy, being unhappy is detrimental to your health, dont live your short life in sickness.

Life is too short to be taken too seriously, laugh often, its the medicine of the heart, always remember that you can not add a strand of hair to your life by your anxiety, what will be will definately be.

Life is just too short.......do good, eat well, dress well. Make more positive-oriented friends, affect people's live more positively, laugh more, enjoy your life as much as you could afford........
LIFE IS JUST TOO SHORT.
May God help us all.

May God help them,

biolabee: WIth every wey dey happen for we country na this one dey vex persin

Na wa o

Do you prefer the devil to help you

I would have said more but I don't want to say one thing and oga at the top will say another so I rest my case

thank you.......

[quote author=baby.me]I so love this woman. Greatgod i want to be like u when i grow up! Seriously, your posts inspire me alot.[/quote]love you too dear, tell God to make you yourself, i also have my inadequacies.
May God help you and all of us.
Thank you.

jeffizy: @victoria.... It is a world of live and let live.
It is GreatGOD12 's right to write wotever she feels is appropriate.
Dont be offended.

thank you, life is just too short for this.........well, human beings will always be human beings and one of the ways to take life easy is to admit that human beings cannot be satisfied and that human beings will always have something to complain about.

@ victorian, you just showed me that you are a human being and sincerely im not offended.......life is just too short to be offended at this. Welcome dear, i love you.
May God help us all.

jidegirl12: I knew this Vicky woman is not so nice person after all , and Debrief reprimanded me for you.... what's your problem with somebody else's harmless signature? A nice woman at that.

O lojuti rara... before we know it you'll start spitting your useless apology. Mtcheww

alutacontinua: say wetin happen na Leave her alone jawe.....at least she's not cursing anyone with her signature, neither is she saying any immoral thing. Me likey the signature and i would never get tired of God's help! D fact dt u don't like it or u're tired of it doesn't mean everyone is tired of it. Besides, u can just ignore that part of her post.
wait ooo....looks lyk i'm taking d tin personal
MAY GOD HELP US ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

AAAAAAAAAMEN!

bilms: Pls, where is your source for this info, is it a general standard'?

its my personal opinion. Thanks.

victorian: @greatgod2012, ain't you tired of your normal signature of May God help us all ... Even when it's a funny post, u must say that phrase , then when it's a sad post, your normal signature sentence comes up again.. For Christ sakes , it getting tiring.. No offense intended o..... But it's As if you are tired of life, and always asking God , to help even in typing your own views...like its painful to type out views.....please, please pls, dear one.......Drop that MAY GOD HELP US ALL, slogan....I beg of you. ....

May God help you!

A child becomes a youth when he/she becomes a teenager......and i think teen starts from 13, while a teenager becomes an adult when hes above a teenage stage and i think that should be around 20.
However, some are more matured than their ages, therefore, its not uniform, a good parent is in d best way to know how well to handle individual child.
May God help us all.

jeffizy: ^^ you never wished for a day?

i never, im an appreciative person, i believe God knows that i'll be a better person as a woman, always contented with what comes my way, d one i can change, i do, d one i cant, i leave it for God, life is too short to be thinking about several ifs...........
May God help us all.

Nice write up there, but i think proper preparation and effective communication before and in marriage should be able to settle most of these issues, and readiness for compromise from both parties also have a role to play in-between.
May God help us all.

Odunnu: God does not give you that which you cannot handle. He is our strenght. If He gives a woman an everyday man, He sustains her strenght too.

thank you!
I really love this word of assurance and encouragement.
God bless you and all of us.

I thank God for making me a woman. God knows i'l be a better person being a woman, i dont need to think of if...........

Moreso, i've never been a man before, so i couldnt know what i would have done if i were a man.
May God help us all.

Yes, it is a thing of the heart, if your mind is there, you will get it, however, do you involve in intimacy or lovemaking?, if it just intimacy, you may not, but if its lovemaking, and both of you explore all the "explorables" , you will definately get it.
May God help us all.

1. Because the wife allow the man.
2. Because that is how the man was trained directly or indirectly by his own father.
3. Because the wife present herself as someone that do not need to be respected.
4. Because the woman do not mean anything impotant or someone important to the man.
5. Because the woman seems not to add relevance to the man's life.
6. Because the woman continuosly present herself as worthless to the man.
7. Because the woman do not contribute anything tangible or sensible to the marriage.
8. Because to the man, the woman seems to be desperate to be with the man or to remain married at all cost.
9. Because the man believes that, no matter how he treats the woman, she has no place to go, she has no one to go to, she has nothing to do about her circumstances, shes obviously helpless.
10. Above all, because the man do not have the fear of God.
May God help us all.

I can both manually and with machine ...........but she has never allowed me and will never allow me, she does her thing herself.
Thank God for her type, not a troublesome type.

If indeed, its alcohol that is there, then, i dont believe a sane mother can do that, its either its an empty bottle or something else was put in the bottle.
Personally, i dont believe in all these facebok.com pictures/photos.
May God help us all.

Good one there.....
Also, used for weight shedding.

honeric01: What if the man is the everyday type, how do you women handle him without making him feel `cheated`?

how can he be? Is he a plank of wood or a stone?

Abeg, hes made of flesh and blood, its not just possible........and have you heard this b4......."olomi lo ma re"
May God help us all.

kulyie: so you didnt have self confidence in yourself before you got married,marriage brought th self confidence Ok o anyway different strokes for different folks

sincerely, its not about not having self respect, but as a married woman, d way people will address and deal with you will be quite different....believe me, not only in official settings, but also from friends and family setting as well, until then, you will understand me when you get there.......
Wishing you goodluck.

I have also read about it from several books and journals, but still thinking its disgusting for one to be drinking his/her own urine.
I knew of a woman who suffered from a serious sore on her two legs as a result of "eta"(i dont know d english word) who was later asked to be using her urine after spending millions of naira, initially, she refused, she said she prefer to die than consenting to it, when it got to a certain stage, she obliged,but unfortunately, it was too late, it was d second day she agreed to start using d urine that she kicked d bucket.
The essence of my story is that, as we are all saying its bad, its disgusting, its smelly, its unreligious.......blah....blah....blah......., d main thing is for us to pray that we do not find ourselves in a hopeless condition where we will have no other choice, may we not find ourselves in a condition where we will not even know what is been administered on us, may we not find ourselves in a condition that we will not even know what is given to us to eat or drink.
These are my prayers o, because my mum told me of someone who was at d point of death, and someone prescibed that if she could be given feaces to eat, she would survive it, and d child of d person said "iyen o le, ani kiya mi ma ti ku"(that isnt hard, all i want is for my mother not to die), d child went to d toilet and brought d faeces, all of them were asked to leave d place, so that they wont be irritated, but d one that brought d faeces said he was peeping thru d window to ascertain that it was actually d feaces that was given to his mother, and alas, it was indeed d faeces and some other powdered substance(ebu), d man fed d woman with,and later ask them to come back in, and about 20 minutes later, d woman, whom everyone had lost hope on farted, later, sneezed, that was how d woman survived it, according to what i was told by my mum o, but d question is will d woman or even d children would have allowed it if they had another choice than death.
So, may God help us all.

Nice one there......
May God help us all.

jeffizy: @greatgod2012.... What if i try to get the kid to spend weekends in my place since we stay in same town with her mum?

not bad!
If her mum will agree........that will even give you d opportunity of advising, encouraging and teaching d girl more on d attitude shes developing, d effect of such attitude and other general talks.
May God help you.

Let your pple know your mind, you now have your own personal responsibilities, do what you can only afford.
As for your parents, make sure you take care of them, as much as you can afford, they deserve to enjoy d fruit of their labour, and as for your siblings, set boundaries, ask them to come to you for very necessary and minimal financial request.
They also should learn how to make their money and when and where necessary, augument it with what you can afford, afterall, they wouldnt want you not to be responsible to your kids
May God help us all.

oye1212: A friend of my married 2yrs ago but till now he has nt set his eye on marriage certificate in which his wife claiming ownership,pls house who have d right to keep marriage certificate?

its one of d wife's properties, so, its d wife that keep it.
@op, how do you know your friend has not set his eyes on d certificate, did he complain to you? is he unhappy about it? if yes, then, he has d right to ask d wife to let him see it, rather than complaining to you.
Sometimes, i wonder d type of marriages pple are into these days, simple and minor thing like this, d man cant communicate with his wife, its you friend that he is complaining to.........hhhhmmm........
May God help us all.