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Why are you so desperate in having him, is it because he shower you with gifts or what......be sincere.......

190: what are you talking about

he's talking about decency.
@op, you are right........sometimes, i laugh when i hear guys /babes saying they are looking for decent babes/guys, respectively, when they themselves know within them that decency is not in their dictionary.
Well, may God help us all.

Mcfemad: Dear all,

Thank you so much for your contributions to this thread. I am happy to let you know I got married yesterday at the Federal Marriage Registry, Ikoyi Lagos, Nigeria. The information I got here was instrumental to the success of the wedding. Thanks and God bless!

happy married life!

@op, d title of this your thread is confusing, why dont you modify this title first?
Thanks.

Ujujoan: Chie so my contribution no join abi?
I no blame you, you don turn superstar na . .

you know, she cant mention everybody's name now.........oya, no vex!

A marital or relationship abuse occurs when one of d couple is intentionally doing what he/she cannot or would not accept in a relationship to the other partner.




Oya! I don open d floor.............lets learn!

A weak man!
Not man enough to put his house in order.
Not man enough to act maturely by asking his wife what really happened.

Not man enough to d extent of biting another man.
Not man enough to realise that he can contact HIV and other infections thru biting to bleeding......aseni nse ara e.
Needs a lot of growing-up.
Perhaps, he will be wiser after becoming an ex-convict.

Continious love has to d with obeying d greatest commandment ever made, which is.....DO UNTO OTHERS WHAT YOU WANT TO BE DONE UNTO YOU, So, in marriage, DO UNTO YOUR SPOUSE WHAT YOU WANT YOUR SPOUSE DO UNTO YOU.
Sincerely, if we all follow this rule to books, marriages will always fall in its rightful places.
May God help us all.

@op,If it is based on d agreement of both of you, then, its ok, but one party should not be forced into it by d other party. Its even better than having children and not caring and training them.
May God help us all.

Fhemmmy: ^^^ I honestly think the operator was hoping that the woman was single cos of some little crush . . . Lol, and the woman too know it, so she quickly put a break on his heart going faster than could handle with the - "my name is Mrs. Okporoko" . . . .

very, very, very likely

possicant!

@op, so how did you expect a married woman to tell you her name in AN OFFICE? Her first name ba? No, an office is an official place, i would rather love to be addressed officially............Mrs.......... Even, if im not married, i love to be addressed officially in my place of work(office)........... Miss...........

My opinion anyway!

Already with two kids........and wanting a virgin......
@op, goodluck to you..........

News like this make me wonder how wicked some human beings can be.
And to even know that its not only about nanny, what of family member living with us, caught by my hubby, who slap, beat and rain curses on your baby when not around. So, whether nanny or not, some pple just have wickedness running in their blood.
May God help us all.

Goldenskin: Nanny? I still get shivers when I think of them. I was a very sick baby while growing up, I was always rushed to the hospital for the same thing 'intestinal infection'. I almost died once. Also whenever my mum comes back from the office and carries me or touch my bum I scream. Anyway she later discovered that anytime she shouts or annoys or reprimands the maid she hit me repeatedly on my bum and fed me with faeces(I was less than 1).

That I am still alive is a testimony. And yes the weekly visit to the hospital stopped when she left

thank God for you.....


This life sha!!!!

I dont know why pple like to spread false news in d name of religion.......abeg, i doubt if a baby didnt get missing along that area of recent.....mtchew......

@op, you are not being nosy at all, but from d way things are going on now, i pray what happened to a friend's sister's marriage doesnt happen in your marriage, this is exactly how it happened, minus d kids taken to d hostel, and today, d ex is fully and legally back to d man's life.
This is one of d factors a single person should consider before settling down with divorcee who are already with children. There is an adage in my tribe............."oja ti omo ba ti wo, ekuta ko le woo mo" meaning any relationship that involves children is hard to break. Well, what you can do now is to talk to your hubby and if you dont mind, tell him you will like to know what exactly is happening btwn them, even, if he want to take him back, he should let you know, so that, there wont be any reason for been kept in d dark and also for you to be fully prepared.
Wishing you goodluck, because you really sound like a good woman.

Jellitah: A LOT OF UNDERSTANDING. . .AND A LITTLE BIT OF LOVE.
You only know how much you love your spouse. . .when he or she is dead!

it is only when there is love that one makes effort to understand him/her.

GEJ is not bad, he is only clueless.
Talking about embezzlement........yes, he is a green snake under a green grass i.e a pretender. So, stop campainig for him.
Yes, he was respnsible for all d problems he met, but should have done something about them.
What of boko haram , is it not in this his regime we first heard and saw what they meant, what has he done about it?


Brb.

I just hope men will learn from this.

Face it or leave it.......he doesnt have your time now........you are a kind of extra-tyre......be careful.

Sir, congratulations for your job!
You have answered all your questions by yourselves. Thank God for Efe and Jellita, they have supported you positively.
One thing i am sure of is dt you are an adult, you earn respect by being responsible for your actions, staying with your siblings is not going to earn you respect at all, there is a proverb in our tribe that says....."okeere ni omo iya ndun"(its sweeter when siblings are far from each other), so, if you want your relationship to be sweet, be at your space.
Secondly, if you think staying there will allow you to save more........na lie........once you are there, you have to be supportive and when doing that, its going to be more than what you would have spent on your own, what of when your parents want to pay for rent, wont you assist, what about your siblings, the problems they would have solved if you are not there, will probably become something they would want you to solve for them, afterall, brother dey work, he dey collect salary.
Thirdly.........your comfort and privacy nko, no amount is too much to spend on that, i tell you, its what every real adult deserves.
How to tell them........you dont need how, you only need when and d when is now or when d cash is available!
THE BENEFITS

1. You will be able to save more, you buy what you only can afford, not buying for everybody.
2. You will earn more respect from them all, including your parents.
3. Your parents will be proud of you, they will be proud that they have successfully raised you to adulthood.
4. You will enjoy your privacy and comfort, at least, everyone deserve this and you will be able to plan for your future without interruption.
5. Freedom to live your life without being questioned like a toddler.........but be careful here o....bad company corrupt good manners.
In conclusion, it is d right decision and you will not regret d day you take d decision.
May God help you as you are about going into d new phase of life.
Shalom!

What about erecting a bill board/signpost infront of your house,with d words...........................

V A C A N C Y!
V A C A N C Y!!
VA C A N C Y!!!
GIRLFRIENDS URGENTLY NEEDED.
APPLY WITHIN.....


I think this will be d fastest ways for you.
Goodluck!


Smh.....kids!

Even d child that d girl has must be from her dad.........terrible things are indeed happening in this life.

Even though, im not quick at believing this type of stuff, but it is not impossible.
May God help us all.

News like this make me wonder where this life is heading to......no more fear of God, no more fear of humanity, no more sanity everywhere. Sick pple everywher. May God help us all.

PATTIBAT10: Wetin dey there? After all, some cousins sleep together. Why can't a Father sleep with his daughter?
Kudos my brother jare.....

this is a joke? Right?
An expensive one for that matter.

k2039: .

Is it safe to assume you stopped wearing high heels.

funny enough, i still use high heel shoes, it was only that day that d shoe decided to embarras me and i took it in good faith. Its something i love so much, it helps ladies to have good carriage.

Many years back, i fell down in a motor pack with my high heel shoes.........come see eyes mehnnnnn, some saying sorry, some laughing...... i wanted to enter d ground that day but d ground refused to open, but sha......what could i do.....nothing than just to say thank you and move on.

This can only be found in a film/home video.

@op, dont see your wife as being inconsiderate or not loving you,, if not so, she would have turned everything to "tit for tat". So, repent and stay faithful with your loving wife, always remember that what goes around will always come around, change your ways now b4 u yourself scatter your peaceful and loving marriage with your randy attitude.
May God help you.