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Since you pple have used short-cut and it has worked for you this far, then, nothing left for you than to sum up the courage and go and do the right things.
With your parents, you dont have any problem, but with your in-laws, you need a lot of courage and most likely an intermediary(alarina) who will help you to appeal to them on your behalf, including you and your pple.
Wishing you goodluck.
So, congrats in advance.

What a world!
Chai!
Some pple can be wicked sha!
Chai, i pity that man o!
Psychologically, that woman has killed that man.
Oh! Pity, pity, pity.
When two elephants fight, d grass suffers for it, the grass here are d innocent children........... Oops, my concern for them, even with court judgement, thing can never be d same again..........positively.

Well, congrats to Nigerians!
Im using this opprtunity to appeal to Nigerians to always lets be one, if we can make it during our matches, then, we can always make it.
Enough of segregation!
Enough of tribalism!
Enough of religious intolerance! Enough of bitterness!
Enough of hatred.
God bless Nigeria!
God bless Nigerians!
ONE NIGERIA!!!

I refuse to believe this in Jesus name, and if it happens, thats their gaddem business, not mine!

From now on, lets all continue to be in one love..........if we could make it during our macthes, then, we can always make it.

ONE NIGERIA!!!

I just hope Nigerians will continually have reasons to always be happy like this.

Chai! See pple on this thread!
E be like say na d whole Nigerians dey view this thread ooooo
haba!!!!!!!!

Things have really changed........

I want to believe that the wman will have reasons for her actions, why dont you ask her first why she's doing all that to hurt/torment you, perhaps, her responses will be d starting point for you to know where and how to address this issue.
All marriages have their ups and downs, but proper and effective communication can help to solve many of these problems. So, call her and communicate with her, just like when you pple are still courting. May God grant you d required wisdom to do this.
Wishing you goodluck.

Firstly, if you really love her as you claim to do, you wont call her eediot.

Obviously, she is a no nonsense woman, not d type that would tolerate any form of abuse in her marriage, just like me. Thank God you are able to discover that now, so that if at last, she forgives you and you two eventually get married, you will know how to deal with your anger and work it out with her without being unnecessarily abusive.
Well, i will say, you continue to beg her thru that same text message you used to abuse her, or book a flight and go their in person, purposely to apologise to her, perhaps, she would reconsider you and give you a second chance.
I just hope you will learn from what happened btwn you and learn to handle your temper/disagreements maturely.
Wishing you goodluck.

May be this thread will help.
https://www.nairaland.com/1000285/benefit-more-marriage
may God help us all.

Bimfo: And what are you after by the way you Are speaking?? **SMH**

are you ok?
You must be high on weed.
Kpele, since you lack simple comprehension.

God bless d woman and may the operation be successful in Jesus name.

princemolak: What a Senseless Woman she is?

you think everybody will be like you....selfish and senseless, not knowing d real meaning of love, only after materials you can get from another person.....smh for you.

@ post, this is real love in action, not chocolate and candy love.

Well, my 1st child used walker, even for more than 4 months and he didnt have any problem. My second kid no gree use am, if i put her inside a walker, she would be crying seriously and that is how we forgot about it, likewise my 3rd baby, so, i cant anthoritatively say you are right or wrong, but knowledge is power, im sure if i stumbled on this type of infrmation you got, i wouldnt have bought walker for anyone of them. Prevention, they say, is better than cure, afterall, babies that do not use walkers also walks.
May God help us all.

Heeeee, all of you saying...."i will do this, i will do that".......you never know what you can or will be able to do, until such thing happen to you......i tell you.

Firstly, its an odd questin to ask, how do you even get to open your mouth and ask such, you must be very bold, thank God those you have asked are not razor-mouthed, if not so, you would have regretted ever asking, so dont ask, except those who tell you themselves without you asking. Your business is with your clients, not your friends or relative.
Secondly, its fear of d unknown, which has to do with d impression of harming/hurting the babies, and i dont blame those women, this is the part of d world where a coin usually have more than two sides, so, its better to be secretive about it, so, dont be angry about it, since you are not their doctors.
May God help us all.

The irony of it all is that when these pple will be reaping their reward, nobody will know d atrocities they have performed..........hhhhmmmm, smh.
No sinner will go unpunished........says the word of God.

Some, very few still do, but very many do not.
However, i think its an individual qestion, answer for your own, because, you are d one who really know you better, so, op, say your own, do you fear God when it has to do with money?

Happy birthday, may you always have a better and sweeter testimonies to share each time you add additional year.

Long life and prosperity!
Hip! Hip!! Hip!!!
Hurrahhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Madam CC, i wish you bumper sales, unfortunately, im not based in Ibadan, that would have given me d opportunity of knowing d most popular family section poster.
My Regards to you, Mr CC and all your loved ones.
Happy Valentine in advance!
Love you!

@op, i think there is no big deal here, she might mean a best friend. There was a day my boy told me he have two girlfriends and one boyfriend in his class, and i asked why he chose to have two girlfriends and one boyfriend, he said, those two girls are always coming first and second in d class and he 3rd while d other boy 4th, so, they use to read together. I said, waoh!, at this age, so, there is actually no harm, especially at this stage.........her heart is still blank towards that area you are thinking about.
May God help us all.

jidegirl12: Nigerians and dem overreactions to small things, 3rd mainland bridge is on the verge of collapsing ...I think that's a real problem and not a 5year old princess's kindergarten crush ...OP it happens all the time and as the matter of fact if you are the type that spend quality time with your girl and have those petty talks you'd find out she's not the only one in class that likes Matt .. blond hair blue eyes.. Beiber fever eh

My simple advice.. ALWAYS have a talk with her at the end of the day bout what's going on in school generally...they are innocent kids and always pour out their mind(chatterbox) especially when it's Daddy..Mine talked about a particular beiber too and she feels shy and runs away when I playfully tease her about it(my hubby doesn't like it one bit ), we talk a lot with no reservation. Keep the communication lines open, it builds a lot of self confidence in kids especially girls cos of thier vulnurability .

It is well, I hope you have a pitbull and/or a gun or you're planning to?

how you dey? My sis.....long time.........too busy to log on NL?
Love you!

Abeg, leave d man jare, how much do they even make from d shootings sef, hence, their manage, manage system.

May d new PFN acquire his own private jet before leaving d office o, abi, what is good for d goose, is also good gander.

This man sha.......
Hhhhhhmmmmmm
i would rather keep quiet.
May God help us all.

Even, if d woman had d affair with a 60+yrs old man, its still wrong for her to have engaged in adultery, .....she is a married woman for pete's sake.

Mugu by default!

pDude: I was a never caught. I was too sharp for that. I always had a newspaper with me to hide the magazine under

baaaadest guy.....

Pimples: Quite unfortunate....
Very likely he was overworked and stress took over.
When last did he take a vacation?
Nigerian's work too hard with little rest

you are right on point, we, nigerians dont really value rest, na so so hustling, hustling, work, work, office, office, i rarely hear a typical Nigerian going for vacation, for where?...we always have target to meet u with.
May God help us all.
Well, may d dead rest in peace.

dvdon: Wetin kill am

death!

Jellitah: I won't even wait for the doctor. . . .all the man has to do is lay his fingers on me. . .or show any signs of 'domestic' abuse. . . I will even H-ABORT the baby at ANY AGE AFTER DELIVERY! Some 'evil' seeds should not be allowed to germinate!!!

so, u mean u will kill your child if his/her father abuse you in any form?
Why transfering d aggression on d innocent child/children.