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FamilyRe: How Long Can Couples Cope With The Problem Of Barrenness by greatgod2012(f): 3:11pm On Dec 26, 2012
kunletiwoo: Amen! Hope you got my PM? Happy New year to you and your family in advance smiley
FamilyRe: How Long Can Couples Cope With The Problem Of Barrenness by greatgod2012(f): 3:11pm On Dec 26, 2012
kunletiwoo: Amen! Hope you got my PM? Happy New year to you and your family in advance smiley
i just checked my e-mail now, and lo and behold, i saw many messages, including yours.
Thank you and may God really bless you abundantly. I prophesy multiple jubilations this new year for you and your family. Thanks alot, my bros.
Love you!
FamilyRe: How Long Can Couples Cope With The Problem Of Barrenness by greatgod2012(f): 1:18pm On Dec 26, 2012
safeLove: Yep. Its hard. I will be 3years in marriage by may next year.I won't say its been all rosy,but I try not put myself under any kind of pressure. The only pressure I get (though mild) is from my friends who have kids already.

But having checked and comfirmed myself ok,medically,I have total and complete faith in the Most high.

Meanwhile,my hubby is my baby for now. Lolss.
never worry, this 2013 that is around d corner is your year. I hear heavens announcing that 2013 is your year of fruitfulness and jubilation IJN.
No story, just accept and claim it.
IT IS WELL!
FamilyRe: Dressing Kids In Short Clothings: How Appropriate? (Picture) by greatgod2012(f): 1:10pm On Dec 26, 2012
Now, may be some pple will now agree with me that not all mothers deserve to be called mothers......this is a typical example of what im saying.......i rest my case here and may God help us all.
FamilyRe: 2013: Odd In Numerals, Odd In Perception. by greatgod2012(f): 1:14am On Dec 26, 2012
jidegirl12: I will check my email to see. Christmas is amazing here too, kids are happy and running around with their friends grin

I will definitely find you anytime I'm home for a visit , I like positive people around me. It is well.
thanks ma, i shall be expecting that.
RomanceRe: A 15 Year Old Girl Claiming She Loves Me So Much by greatgod2012(f): 1:03am On Dec 26, 2012
Heeeeeeeeee
LWKMD
@op, u want make dem arrest and sue you for child abuse?


On a serious note, if you really like this girl, encourage her to face her studies, its not that 10 years gap is too much, but involving yourself with her emotionally now will serve as distraction to her studies, encourage her first, if you are meant to be together, you will surely be together, no doubt about that. Help her to build her future, do not have hand in tearing her future apart. Remember she is just 15 years old, what a valid decision can a 15 years old girl take on her own?If you eventually come together in d future, its going to pay d two of you.
My two cents.
FamilyRe: How Long Can Couples Cope With The Problem Of Barrenness by greatgod2012(f): 12:46am On Dec 26, 2012
Firstly, i dont think its right to get married mainly because of children, love, i think, should be d driving cause in marriage, but, this is Africa, where d wife is tagged different disgusting names because of her inability to conceive after a year of marriage, so, for anybody that find herself in that type of a marriage, its not going to be easy at all.
However, i have goodnews for those who are experiencing delay........... All covenant children in d bible are all born by delayed mothers, so, keep d hope alive, this new year is your year, you shall have cause to thank God, your miracle is on d way.



@ post, no waiting is too long for couples who truly loves each other.
FamilyRe: When One Partner Cheats, Who Should We Blame? by greatgod2012(f): 12:22am On Dec 26, 2012
He who cheats, remains d cheat and should be blamed, how can someone's else be blamed for another person's lewdness?...noooo, mba, even, God knows dt a cheater cheats because he want to cheat, not because his/her partner deserved to be cheated on.
Besides, if a partner errs, two wrongs can never make a right, it is still not right or acceptable to cheat, doing that means d person has been hiding d devil in him/her and looking for an opportunity to bring it out.
Therefore, he who cheats should be blamed.
FamilyRe: 2013: Odd In Numerals, Odd In Perception. by greatgod2012(f): 12:01am On Dec 26, 2012
jidegirl12: She's amazing .... I would adopt her as my sister if I could grin @Greatgod your husband is a complete man, how is your Christmas going and family?
heeeeeeeeeeeeheeeeee
im always humbled by all your posts, you are such a great encouragement to me here and in real life. Your posts here keep me wondering "what do i know"........ I know nothing........only that God is just using me as a vessel.....nothing more.....
Thanks so much ma and how'z your xmas over there?
My shout outs to your family and all your loved ones.
Merry Xmas!


P.s.... I tried to "pm" you, but i dont know if you got it, maybe i'l try again.
FamilyRe: 2013: Odd In Numerals, Odd In Perception. by greatgod2012(f): 11:50pm On Dec 25, 2012
k2039: [color=soyouquotedme]You are dangerously positive, an incurable optimist. [/color]
thanks so much, my bros, you are always an encouragement to me. I love you!
Amen to all your wishes this season IJN.
FamilyRe: 2013: Odd In Numerals, Odd In Perception. by greatgod2012(f): 9:36pm On Dec 25, 2012
As regards d card, its very beautiful, i always appreciate creativity. Well done!
As regards 2013, no matter how odd it may look, we just need to be positive........ As a man thinks, so is he. So, in this 2013 that is around d corner, i smell positivities, i see positivities and i shall get positivities, except in HIV and other illnesses.
May God help us all.
FamilyRe: Is It Possible To Forgive And Forget? by greatgod2012(f): 9:29pm On Dec 25, 2012
You can only forgive, but you may not forget, except you suffer from memory loss.
The only solution is to forgive but do not react with d offender or anybody else, based on d experience you got from d offender, you may try to be careful, but d experience mustnt be d driving cause for your actions. With that, you can say u have have forgiven completely. It may not be easy o, but it is possible if we decide to.
May God help us all.
RomanceRe: Why Do Nigerians Prefer To Marry The Rich? by greatgod2012(f): 9:18pm On Dec 25, 2012
vivian chinaza: I'm from a very humble background or should I say poor? Yea poor sounds like it, "humble" just makes it bearable, Lol, ok. But rich guys keep coming for me, and no one has ever cared about my family's financial/social status. In fact, that's the first thing I tell them, I'm always like "dear, don't let my looks deceive you, I'm from a very humble background o." I'm Vivian, and that should be enough!
So contrary to your opinion, majority of guys don't actually care.

A lot of ladies who have misplaced their priorities actually care about how rich a guy is before they consider him and I just pity them. I just hope they realize that the life of a man is a mystery. A man's life can change in a twinkle of an eye.

I'm friends with a lot of people who at one time couldn't even afford a decent meal, but just one phone call changed their lives for best, and vice versa.

Last year, I did a job for this couple that had no house. The groom is my friend and as at then the most valuable property he had was his laptop. In fact, when he told me he was getting married I was like "are u crazy?" Cos he didn't even have a house. Few weeks to the wedding someone gave them a room in his flat and they were squatting there. Whenever I went to the house to discuss their wedding I was always like "how could this girl get married to a man that doesn't have a house?" Honestly, I couldn't understand, I couldn't even think of myself doing it. Well, there marriage is a year old and they are now living in one of the beautifully furnished house I have ever seen.

Stories like this humble me, and I of all the things I have seen in my few years on earth, I have known that riches cannot be guaranteed. I have also known that life is a mystery.

So if you fall in love with someone from a rich background good, if you fall in love with someone from a humble background good too. Marrying a rich person is not a crime, marrying a poor person is not a crime either, provided that LOVE is the driving force.
your story was just like mine, b4 i got married, many rich guys wanted to hook up with me, even though im from a very humble background, however, i decided to settle down with somebody i thought really loved me more than others, who happened to also be from a humble background like me, we started from d scratch, but today, we are thanking God for his faithfulness in our marriage, 8 yrs and still counting, im yet to see a couple who is happier than us.
So, love should be d driving cause, not money.
May God help us all.
Christianity EtcRe: Lagos Demolishes N100m Church During Service! by greatgod2012(f): 1:39pm On Dec 25, 2012
Na wa o, for this nigeria?
While some are building church, some are demolishing church.



But, on a serious note, one should try to secure land in d right place and legally, regardless of whatever type of structure that will be built on it.
May God help us all.
FamilyRe: Virginity Test: My Pants Had Blood Stains – Pupil by greatgod2012(f): 4:17am On Dec 25, 2012
Wetin concern agbero with overload sef?
Wetin concern d principal of a school with students' virginity?
FamilyRe: Hw Wil You Feel? If Your Lover Brkup With You On Xmas Eve by greatgod2012(f): 10:30pm On Dec 24, 2012
No smoke without fire, it all depends on what has been happening b4 xmas eve, and FYI, xmas eve day is not different from any other day.
FamilyRe: Greatgod2012 Emerged the Family Section Poster Of The Year 2012 - by greatgod2012(f): 4:01pm On Dec 24, 2012
Odunnu: Tbebe, sorry I had to speak late.
You as the MOD here have the right to waive that clause in the law/rule of the awards.
Except in Politics where Jarus stood his grounds, most sections waived it - in Nairaland/General, mynd_44 and Callotti have been banned severally, yet they participated fully and Mynd won and was declared winner.
In Programming, Javanian won, she was banned during the year. In Jokes, same thing. So, use your power as MOD here and declare madam Debrief winner.
@tee, can you see this, so, do d right thing, it is never too late.
FamilyRe: Greatgod2012 Emerged the Family Section Poster Of The Year 2012 - by greatgod2012(f): 3:52pm On Dec 24, 2012
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
Debrief is d winner!
She got 17 votes.
Haba, ban or no ban, she remains d pple's choice, even me self nominated her on nomination thread.
I dont think it is fair enough to allow minority win over majority, its very unfair, i reject this.
FamilyRe: 59-Yr-old Woman Gives Birth In Lagos by greatgod2012(f): 2:50am On Dec 24, 2012
Awesomeness of God!
Who says God never perfom wonders as of old, if we serve him genuinely, he will bless us genuinely.
Thank God for this family.
FamilyRe: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by greatgod2012(f): 2:32am On Dec 24, 2012
Heeeeeeeeee, nothing wey i no go read for NL...........
Are you sure this is happening under this heaven me and you are both are..........all in the name of marriage.
Hhhhhhmmmm, as cool and tolerant i claim to be, i dont think i could take this for once, not to talk of two years, NOOOOOOO! This is disgursting, you better stop all this pity party around yourself and think of what else to do to liberate yourself from this beast, called husband.
FamilyRe: Fetal Gender Detection: Earliest Possible Time by greatgod2012(f): 6:25pm On Dec 23, 2012
Why so much in hurry to know d gender of your foetus, have you had so many of a particular gender? Do you intend to abort if d result is unfavourable, why?why?and why?
Wait till around 20 weeks, that is when d result can be close to certainty.
However, FYI, if God decides to hide d gender from you, there is nothing you can do about it, for example, it happened to me, i did six differnt scan on my last baby from 3 different good hospitals, and all d results came out d same, one of d scan test was even a week b4 i put to bed, i.e at 39th week, d result was d same, ...........female....but surprisingly, when i put to bed, it was a male, if,
1. My husband was not in d labour room with me, i dont know how i would have convinced him.
2. There were multiple childbiths at d same time in d same labour room, we might think there was a mixed-up.
Above all, d baby was just exactly like his dad, even till now, he look exactly like his dad, d resemblance is just too much beyond any form of questioning.
So relax, God is in control.
May God help us all.
FamilyRe: The Mortal Body: Story Of My Child And Grand Mum by greatgod2012(f): 6:07pm On Dec 23, 2012
Sincerely, u just made me shed tears now, i pray that d Lord who has given you d power to stand by him till now will give you d grace to see him healthy, strong, happy and successful in life.
You are a great mother!
There is going to be a positive total turn-around for this cute boy very soonest, by His grace.
Remain blessed.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Have You Achieved Your Goals For 2012? by greatgod2012(f): 4:33pm On Dec 23, 2012
I think life is more important than any goal, if anybody is yet to achieve his or her goal, do not loose hope, when there is life, there is hope, if u cant achieve your goal now, you will definately achieve it next time, if you are still alive.
May God help us all.
FamilyRe: One Special Thing God Did For You This Year! by greatgod2012(f):
I thank God im still alive.
Many pple have lost their lives this year, its not that im holier or better than them its just that, im enjoying God's mercy.
FamilyRe: What Age Is Bedwetting Abnormal For Child? by greatgod2012(f): 3:54am On Dec 23, 2012
It depends on d age of d child, how matured d child's nervous system is as well as parents effort in stopping d bedwetting.
As a parent, you have a lot to do with your child, if you want him to stop bedwetting on time.
First, ensure d dinner is taken on or before 6p.m and thereafter reduce his intake of fluid, anytime from 7p.m, no more fluid taking.
Secondly, try to check their excesses in playing, some children can play football for 12 hours in d day, so what do you expect in d night, of course, they will be too tired to wake up to ease themselves in d night, having overworked themselves thru playing.
Thirdly, In d night, wake him up to ease himself at least 2 to 3 times, be consistent with time, so that, when u stop waking him up, he would have accustomed himself with d time, and wake up at that exact time to ease himself.
On d age, some children mature faster than some, like my first child now, i didnt do much before he stop bedwetting, he stopped on his own by age one, even in d day, he stop using diaper at age one, each time i dress for him with diaper, and he want to ease himself, he would remove d diaper himself and ease himself, if he wanted to poo-poo, he would remove d diaper and go to d toilet to carry his potty himself, by d time i notice this for about a month, i stopped using daiper for him, as regards bedwetting, i woke him up for just two days and he refused to urinate, only for him to wake up in d morning and open up a tap, that was how he stopped till today, however, for d kid sister, who is 4+ now, we still wake her up in d night to ease herself, and d day we sleep off, not waking her up, she still bedwets, so when i informed our doctor, he said, d nervous system matures differently, hence, their differences.
So, it depends on d parent's effort, age, as well as how matured d brain of d child is.
May God help us all.
FamilyRe: Pls Suggest Baby Lotion For My Baby by greatgod2012(f): 3:17am On Dec 23, 2012
Abeg, mix glycerine and shea butter and use for your baby, you will see how your baby's skin will be glowing.............its natural, no side effect.
FamilyRe: Risk. by greatgod2012(f): 3:11am On Dec 23, 2012
Risk your life for what? You are not specific!
FamilyRe: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage by greatgod2012(f): 2:59am On Dec 23, 2012
laykhorn: When did pregnancy becom a prerequisite for marriage. People have taken this into their dumbhead that most people see it as a tradition.
@berem, something tels me its not just about that guy, your in-laws to be are fully involved.. They are the ones pressurising their son. Your cousin is on the right part, but she should analyse her decision thoroughly as she should weigh her loss if this goes the wrong way
**speaking from experience**
.........why should a grown-up man be pressurised to do what he doesnt want, allowing that make him less a man.
FamilyRe: Merry Christmas & Compliments Of The Season by greatgod2012(f): 1:03pm On Dec 21, 2012
Wishing every family section members a blissful and wonderful xmas and happy new year in advance.
Love you all!
**kisses**
FamilyRe: How To Deal With A Snoring Bedmate by greatgod2012(f): 12:57pm On Dec 21, 2012
Raymondenyi: I can't tek it when some 1 close 2 me snores! Talkless of my wife! Pllssss, nd I think position wnt affect a chronic snorer, plss using dis opportunity, to advice y'all 2 loose weight! Obesity is d prime cause of snoring! Nd its disgusting
if you must know, im not a fat person, so there is no way i can suffer from obesity.........im a complete "lepa woman".
I will still emphasize it again, it has to do with overworking or tiredness and sleeping position.

Meanwhile, if your wife snores, are u gonna kill her?........remember......love conquers all.
Btw, thank God you are not my hubby, thank God for giving me a man who loves me despite all my inadequacies.
FamilyRe: How To Handle A Child's Tantrum In Public? by greatgod2012(f): 10:45am On Dec 21, 2012
I dont think this has ever happened to me, when im going out together with d kids, i try as much as i could to satisfy them at home, i told them something like this "we are going out very soon now, what do you want, because i wouldnt want you to disturb me in public" and they get what they wanted, it has always worked, they can ask for something in d mall, once i say, "you will get it at home", that settles it.
However, to d op, set a standard for them and make sure they are fully satisfied before leaving home.
May God help us all.
FamilyRe: I Need Some Advice by greatgod2012(f): 3:00am On Dec 21, 2012
junnymercy: It seem you did not read my thread properly, so i'm not he, we both are she. Secondly, i did not said i use to sent stuffs to her. Read my thread again... I simply said ''I have been sending stuffs to her immediate sister that was very close to me'' So i mean HER IMMEDIATE SISTER THAT WAS REALLY CLOSE TO ME THEN before i left.

Secondly, i must confess to you that i did not ask her if i should send her money to buy the phone in Nigeria, and the reason is i do not want to create any room for anybody as if i have one money tree here, and moreover i don't think it's necessary sending her money to buy the phone in Nigeria since she did not ask me to send her money to buy phone, so, i don't think I've done bad for buying the phone here only my effort finding anyone going to 9ja from here to no avail, so pls do you mean i've done bad for giving her another alternative in case if she see or heard of anyone coming to 9ja she should let me know?

Your contribution is all about HE, my friend is not HE. We're SHE o.. grin
I still have the phone with me, but i can't send a mobile phone with the price i bought it. Its like waste of money.

And infarct, to think of this, does she even deserve it, she never call me to say hello for ONCE for good 8 years. I also lost my parents she did not call me. Her sister use to call me. but she, she never call me. When i challenged her sometimes, she said she doesn't use to calling, and she has a brother in US, at least she must have called her brother who just left for US, and even her brother in US use to get some stuffs i sent down to them then.

Many people including some of our friends have told me to ignore her that she's not the one sent me over here, but i decided to seek some advice from wise Nairalanders...
sincerely, i read through, but i thought yoir friend is "she" while you are "he"
in that case then, i think jealousy and envy had already set in, she is best ignored, to avoid unnecessary tantrums btw both of you.
Sorry for misinterpreting you.

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