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To d dead..........i say, may their souls rest in perfect peace.



To Dickson.....i say, "oku nsunkun oku".........this is a lesson for him he should govern well, so that, when he too is gone, pple will remember him for good, he should also remember that, one day will be one day, he will also die.

This is what happens when there is no transparency in governancy. Anyway, whether dead or alive, all we want in Nigeria is positive change and it shall surely come......amen.

In my opinion:
1. Since there is no agreement btw d 2 of you as regards being d father of d baby, you can never be proud to say out what you did in public, so keep your mouth shut, except you are fully repentant and you are ready to face d consequencies fully.
2. You have been adequately compesated financially for d service rendered to d woman, you are no better than a gigolo, so again, except you are ready to refund all d money you have collected from d woman, keep your mouth shut.
3. You betray d trust your pastor had for you, if care is not taken, d pastor may develop psychological problem...... and d church may have to suffer for it,so , im confused here.
4. You and that woman deserve each other, you are both unfaithful,both of you are betrayers, both of you are killers, hypocrites and dishonest pple, so if u want to confess, confess and dont only claim d baby, claim both d wife and d baby, because both of you deserve each other.
5. May i ask, how do you feel each time you go to church, see d pastor, d pastor's wife, listen to his sermon, listen to d wife' sermon sometimes, etc, knowing fully well d atrocities you have committed, you pple are nothing but d greatest hypocrites i have seen and read about all my life, what do you think about God's wrath as regards what happen btw both of you.
Didnt you read and heard about Joseph and Potipha's wife in d bible, even if d wife tempted you, why didnt you react d way Joseph did, and prove that you have been listening to d word of God and d word is having impact on you.
I dont want to judge you, but i want to conclude that you dont have d fear of God, so sincerely ask for Gods forgiveness, confess and face d music. May God help you......amen.

Inasmuch as i dont really like this woman, i can never wish my fellow human being dead, therefore, i say quick recovery to her.
Meanwhile, i will not forget to pray that, may she reap d reward of her actions as well as me and everybody.

Since when did helicopter become kabukabu?

Teaching them to be involved in activities carried out at home, in their school and in d church and to be responsible for their actions.
At home........... though, they are young, they have to sweep, always making sure their rooms are clean and tidy, after finishing eating, cleaning d dining table, without being told, when necessary,when either me or their dad is coming from a place, holding something, no matter how small, they have to try and assist, reading their books without being told, this had already led to d eldest teaching d younger ones without being instructed, asking question when confused, instead of murmuring, standing for elders to sit, leaving d living room when there is or are visitors around.....etc.
In school.........offering to help their teachers, may be to collect books, when asked to submit notes, offering to help classmate in explaining what a classmate do not understand better, sharing of snacks with a classmate that do not have, and never collect snacks from another classmate,ie contemptment, never involve in fighting with classmate, rather report to d teacher when disturbed by one or some classmates.
In d church........ Offering to help arrange chairs when and where necessary, offering to read bible passages, offering to lead in praying, taught them how to always pay tithe when they are given money by visitors, contributing offering...etc.

Parenting is a difficult task, but if one is firm about it, there is alot to be achieved, so far so good, im happy about and for them, one thing im sure of is that they will grow up with all these trainigs and its gonna help them alot and at d same time, make us their happy and proud parents.
May God help us all.

Goodluck to you!

Hhhhhmmmmmmm,
two different reasons from d couple, how i wish i know who wins at d end of d day.

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this one is quite different from d original post, why didnt you finish d article in d post in d first instance? I think that is tpia's reason for getting annoyed with your thread. Next time, when you want to post a thread, endeavor to finish it, so that it will make sense and easy to understand. Thanks.
@ Tpia, sorry, dont be annoyed.

babyosisi: When is he starting the implementation of slicing off the blokoss of rapeests
Or have they started already


Please someone tell me ,is ogbeni not a chieftaincy tile?

with this, im sure you are not from yorubaland.
Ogbeni is the yoruba meaning of "mr"

To me, i think its commendable, some pple are so concious of their titles to d extent of feeling offended when you fail to address them with all their titles, at d expense of their duties, i think this will allow them to concetrate more on their duties and also may serve as inducement to working harder in order to be appreciated after leaving the office.

Crazy things happening everywhere, may God continue to protect us, our children, loved ones and you....... Amen.

No more goodnews again, especially in Nigeria, this is why i want to use dis opportunity to admonish you pple to get acquainted with d word of God more(holy bible for d christians and holy quran for d muslims), for therein you can get goodnews.
May God help us all.

She will definately make it back home, as per d money, they will negotiate and find a way of paying d money, but my fear is that this lady is very beautiful and im afraid they may likely molestation her........that just my fear, i wish her well and safe bach home.

This man needs help.

A marriage is a marriage, when two individuals from different background with different upbringing decide to come together and live together under any circumstance with legal backing in form of a wedding certificate to give a form of legality.

A responsible, reliable and God-fearing man, regardless of his profession.

There is nothing wrong with breastfeeding in public, just get a nursing cover, and if nursing cover is not readily available, a nursing mother should be able to take into cognizance of what she wears when going to d public knowing fully well that she is most likely to breastfeed her baby, for example, a nursing mother should try and suspend d wearing of tight-fitted gown and blouse, pending d time d baby weans. Putting on wears that are free(not tight) eases d process of breastfeeding and ensures proper covering of d bosoms.
My opinion anyway.

This is a big lesson for all of us, let us always live ur lives as if today is our last day.


RIP to d victims!

What an irony! Coming from a burial only for them to meet their death on d way. May their souls rest in peace......amen.

@op, u mixed both d good and d bad reasons together,

Testing u for what? did that mean that she will reject d money she asked for if you have offered to give her d money she requested for initially as regards her so called business. Abeg use your brain.

may God just have mercy on us, what you described up there took tears frm my eyes, may God grant d parents d fortitude to bear d irreparable loss.
To d innocent kids, i say: RIP

Meanwhile, you got me scared, God make me stronger in you and increase my faith.

Honestly, there is actually nothing one can do about it than accepting one's fate. With time, one will get used to it, that one may not even remember or take cognizance that its there again.

One way that a person can easily get over it is to never allow some other people to laugh at you, instead, laugh wity them,when you notice that somebody is looking at u somehow, just throw it to him/her that "are you looking at me because of my tribal mark" and before answering you, just laugh either before he laugh or laugh with him, that settles it, within you, you will not feel like people are making jest of you but feel that you are having fun with some other people.
Meanwhile, im not with tribal marks o, lest someone think this is d way im coping with it, im just giving a psychological advice.
May God help us all.

I think perking is ok, even better when d children are there, it helps to show that d home is healthy, safe and lovely to them. I and hubby use perking to welcome each other, greet each other in d house, d day i just say, "welcome honey" without accompanying it with a perk, my son will later come to ask me "mum, d other time dad came around, u didnt perk him, are u fighting?", since then, even if we are having a disagreement, we will pretend and perk for d sake of d kids, and it has been of great help to us, anytime there is disagreement, we dont have choice than to quickly resolve our disagreement before d kids start to suspect.

Shallow thinking and mindedness.

So, each time u see a more beautiful lady, after your marriage, you will always quit.
Good to know that.

Congratulations to d mother for safe delivery and to d father for becoming a proud father of twins and to d twins, because they are born with silver and golden spoon.

Is this the first time Pastor Adeboye will be praying for him? And what are d relevance of d previous prayers on his administration? What are d relevance of this particular one on his administration next year?
Anyway, i sincerely hope things will change for d better come next year.

Attending Holy Ghost Congress..................one of his numerous way to deceive pple........hhhmmmm, smh for our pple.

biolabee: The emotions she is expressing are very real and human. She is concerned about the security of her kids over any "unborn" offspring of the husband. Well her actions may be ok but her motive is less than pure. If financial security is a major issue to make you fearful I think you should get a job or tell your hubby to open a trust fund so that their future is secured at least education wise.
The truth is that disasters can happen and it is always good to have a backup. The tragedies that befell the sosoliso plane or the anyene family were unforseen but they did happen.You need to drop this issue and start mitigation measures.

to buttress your point, this is another tragedy thttp://www.nairaland.com/1133103/five-siblings-die-lagos-fireragedyhttp://www.nairaland.com/1133103/five-siblings-die-lagos-fire

Rest in peace to d innocent children!
However, if this shi...t happens in oyinboland, im quite sure d parents of d deceased will be arrested for their action

There are so many men with their ring on flirting around, and there also men without their ring on who are ever faithful with their wife, so, which one is better?

For both husband and wife, ring or no ring, should not be d determinant of love, trust, mutual respect and faithfulness in marriages. If one is comfortable with it, fine; if one is not, no cause for alarm.