₦airaland Forum

No mind them.

All them fear men, fear women, marriage is bad, men/women are scum, red/blue pill, alpha/simp crew...

There seem to be many practicing/ retired & bitter feminists, peeps with gender dysphoria, heartbroken boys & girls and those suffering from severe cases of low self-esteem on here.

Dem no dey taya.

MoneyMustBMade:
Guy make una leave woman alone. For outside now una go dey pamper them dey call the person morning and night for here na to they attack them always

Every gender is bad it just depends on the individual hrt. The same way we have bad women same way we have bad men

So stop that nonses

So she died!

So sad.

I blame her folks

I'm sure she was forced into the union as is their practice. The family probably couldn't/didn't intervene in her ordeal because she must have put up a fight against the union.

There are cases of young girls being forced into marriages and punished by so-called husbands or even fathers when they resist.

So sad. You could see her beauty even through her terrible condition.

Rest her soul.

Poverty na bustard.

That perp is 45? Wow.

Overzealous carpenter who wants to run a school.

Nigerians wanted change so much they were short-changed.

So many questions.

How & where did they meet?

How did a mechanic manage to convince her to open up to the extent of having a baby?

I don't think their socio-economic levels are very different but her parents just want more for her.

Most times, these children think they know it all...with premium tears and regrets ahead.

What an elder sees sitting down, a child cannot see even climbing a tree.

Eiyaaa...self-acclaimed table shaker

Sorray Sorray...don crry, don crry.

Interesting.

Delusions of Grandeur.

NL. The forum where people cannot engage each other without insults and abuse....despite the numerous "rules " listed by the Mods.

Wether na poverty, I no know.

So uncouth and uncivilised.

You'll see Chief Hypocrites accusing other people of Hypocrisy.

They like to call others fools but don't want to be called fools.

It's so bad it's actually disgusting....

All for politicians who they can't even go close to...politicians who don't know them...at best they eat crumbs from their tables.

State your opinions without bigotry, hate and disdain.
Enough of the religious, gender, political party, ethnic intolerance because wether you like it or not, we are all Nigerians.

sleek214:
Am sure the other candidates did better things while in position too. This article is from a biased Obidient. So NEXT!!!

O ga o....this is a first hand narrative of his personal experience.

Why not bring up same for your other candidates instead of branding him a "biased obedient "?

Stop the hate...it will do you no good.

And who's to blame for the worsening unemployment?

Do ordinary Nigerians have access to crude oil or vessels/tankers?

You must slooooow doooooown.

By fire by force. Desperate times, Desperate measures.

Who knows what may have prompted this....maybe too many stubborn riders and drivers.

The issue is not her cheating escapade.

It's her body, no one really cares.

She can even decide to open up her legs to a dog if she likes...it's her cross to bear

It's the fact that she's deliberately decided to have the husband raise someone else's child as punishment.

That's the evil being condemned.

If she couldn't bear the husbands betrayal, she should have left him and moved on...but I bet she's staying because of his money...hence her statement "money is not her problem " as he's treating her like an egg.

She's deceiving two men...the real father and the ignorant husband.

She will suffer for it at the end. You don't harm or ruin yourself to punish others. It's foolish.

When it'll blow up in her face, she would then blame the devil.

Mermaid123:
No one is saying any thing about the husbands infidelity towards the woman to the extent that he promised another woman marriage, now the woman feels betrayed and decided to do Gods knows what to the man as revenge.
The wife now feels sexually fustrated and she resulted to cheating.
My question is if it was the woman that was incapable to satisfy her husband sexually and he goes out to cheat it would have been a different story and am sure u guys would justify the husbands infidelity but since its the other way around u are all talking shit

The best revenge is SUCCESS.

Let me tell you a first hand story.

This guy had this senior Cuz who he called uncle. This Uncle lived with the guy and his parents before uncle gained admission into Uni, graduated and then got a job as a banker.

When this guy was in Uni, he always visited said uncle on some weekends.

One weekend, while the uncles babe was around, uncle decided to seriously embarrass the guy...for a babe...
They later got married tho.

This guy decided to cut all ties.

Many years later, a funeral for a family member brought Uncle and this guy together. When the guy greeted the uncle, responding, uncle said...I was told you're now the MD of your Organization. Its really good to see you. How's everything.
Imagine the joy and respect the guy felt that day.
Down side, uncle and the wife aint together no more.


Morale of the story: find something doing and be the best version of yourself. The law of "see finish" respects no one.

Pricesly.

Different strokes for different folks.

Like someone already asked. Are Agbaje's children in Nigeria? I bet they're either American or British citizens...not just students.

Michaeljames22:
Everyone feels their opinion is right

Why will you work for a half-wit like Portable?
Someone known to lose it at anytime.
Many are mad, few are roaming.

Don't you trust your woman?

Only you can tell really.

You haven't given NLers much to work with...info about the nature of your marriage.(tho I advice against that).

teamc:
Got married 2yrs ago and we have a beautiful daughter, she has this dream of studying in Canada and I support her dream.

Our immigration consultant recommend she apply alone to increase chances that i and our daughter can join her later.

Now visa is out and she will be travelling next month. I have read numerous stories about how women change when they travel out.

Should I be worried?

This your header is very funny.

Having seen many of these videos, I was curious to see how "HUGE" the naira notes are.

Abeg OP take it easy with us next time .

True confessions.

Let's hope liar won't come and debunk it.

Yes indeed.

Change is relative. Could be positive or negative.

Sides, there's a big difference between Change and Shenghi

Y'all never specified the kind you wanted so there you have it.

Forget o....

"Some" of these Apc hypemen are good at what they do.

See how they've twisted the whole thing to suit their own narrative.

Other party hypemen need to sit up and stop all the unnecessary shading of other contestants

Sell your product and leave others to sell theirs.

Many are mad, few are roaming.

This is heartbreaking.

Unfortunately, nothing will be done to the mad man responsible for this because he's connected.

But why was she initially abandoned by her family?

Noted.

SenatePresdo:
The need was to feel better, and I think it's worth it.

Anybody that Hurts you deserves to feel the same.

It's divine to be even.

Ma'am, did you deliberately miss out the bottle of champagne and 3 pies along with those you mentioned?

I don't totally support the young man's approach but come on.

How big can her appetite be? That's gluttony!

Where's the class? No panache, no self-respect....and she wants to be treated like a "lady"? At least even pretend on a first date...it's allowed.

Perhaps she planned to take the "leftovers" home.

My question to you is: Would you do what this lady did on a first or any other date?
Would you eat that much on someone else's tab? Someone you barely know?

Sheistoopretty:
Wailings of a poor wretched simp turned Redpiller wannabe so ordinary rice and ice cream is what u couldn't pay for and u are here already giving motivational advises

All these BJRAN (Broke and Jobless Redpillers Association of Nairaland) boys sef

I have one thing to tell you. GROW UP!

Giant stride in the right direction. Kudos to the professnalism of the Nigeria Navy.

Hopefully, foreign powers and undue influence from those involved in the local political front don't jeopardise the process of justice.

presidency:
TEXT OF PRESS BRIEFING ON THE TRANSFER OF MT HEROIC IDUN FROM EQUATORIAL GUINEA TO NIGERIA – November 15, 2022

1. You may recall that on Friday 19 August 2022 the Naval Headquarters briefed the Press on the arrest of Motor Tanker HEROIC IDUN by the Equatorial Guinean Navy. It was mentioned that the Very Large Crude oil Carrier (VLCC) had entered the Nigerian Maritime Environment (NME) on 7 August 2022 and headed for Akpo Field without any form of authorisation or clearance. For the avoidance of doubt, MT HEROIC IDUN (IMO: 9858058) is registered in Marshall Island with an overall length of 336-metres, 60 metres breadth and capacity of 3 million barrels. The vessel was spotted by the Nigerian Navy Maritime Domain Awareness facility and a Nigerian Navy (NN) Inshore Patrol Craft, Nigerian Navy Ship (NNS) GONGOLA probed the legitimacy of her presence in the Total Safe Anchorage operated Akpo Field. Following the interrogation, the Captain of MT HEROIC IDUN duly responded to NNS GONGOLA and further stated that his vessel was without relevant clearance to operate in the Field.

2. The vessel was therefore ordered to turn around and follow NNS GONGOLA to Bonny anchorage pending when she will be cleared for loading by NNPC Ltd. However, she bluntly declined on the claims that she had been told by her agent not to take directives from the Nigerian Navy Ship. Thereafter, she engaged full speed southwards towards the Sao Tome and Principe maritime area in a bid to evade arrest. Apart from refusing lawful arrest, the Captain of the vessel made a broadcast of false piracy attack call to International Maritime Bureau (IMB) Piracy Reporting Centre to mislead mariners that NNS GONGOLA was a pirate vessel and possibly concoct an alibi for her desperate action. On the piracy alert, the Nigerian Navy also through international collaboration alerted relevant piracy reporting centres through CRESMAO and ECOWAS ZONE F Cotonou headed by Nigerian Navy officers for the alert to be cancelled immediately which was done by IMB. Suffice to state that Nigeria has not recorded any piracy attack in its waters in over one year. Hence, this mischievous act by MT HEROIC IDUN was clearly aimed at tarnishing the good image of the maritime domain of Nigeria, which we have worked very hard to achieve and sustain.

3. The Nigerian Navy therefore invoked the collaboration of neighbouring Equatorial Guinea through the Yaoundé Architecture to arrest the vessel. With the aid of the Nigerian Navy surveillance facility, MT HEROIC IDUN was tracked and the Equatorial Guinea Amphibious Ship, CAPTAIN DAVID was therefore vectored to intercept and arrest the fleeing ship on 12 Aug 22. Pertinently, MT HEROIC IDUN was held at the Luba Anchorage in Bioko Island, Equatorial Guinea while the country conducted her own investigations owing to some infractions the vessel had also committed in the country’s waters. Whilst these were ongoing, a formal request was made to transfer the vessel to Nigeria as mentioned during the Press Briefing on 19 August 2022. This was followed by diplomatic overtures and negotiations towards achieving the transfer of HEROIC IDUN to Nigeria. Suffice to add that both Nigeria and Equatorial Guinea are signatories to the Code of Conduct concerning the Repression of Piracy, Armed Robbery against Ships and Illicit Maritime Activity in West and Central Africa of 2013 commonly referred to as the ‘Yaounde Code of Conduct’. The Code is backed by appropriate UN Security Council Resolutions and provides the platform for information sharing as well as coordination amongst signatories. This includes handover of vessels or persons suspected to have committed offences in each other’s States. It was based on this therefore that MT HEROIC IDUN was brought back to Nigeria from Equatorial Guinea on 12 November 2022.

4. The smear campaign put up by the ship in the Media space in a fierce attempt to rubbish the transfer process by falsely gaining international support/sympathy was thus bound to fail and perhaps an indication that the vessel has a case to answer. Accordingly, on 6 November 2022, the vessel was handed over to Nigeria by Equatorial Guinea. Subsequently, she cast off Equatorial Guinea waters under Nigerian Navy escort on 11 November and arrived off Bonny Offshore Terminal II on 12 November 2022. MT HEROIC IDUN is presently in the custody of the Nigerian Navy and based on legal opinion and analysis, the super-tanker could be said to have committed the following offences against the Nigerian State:

a. Attempt to deal in export crude oil without license or authorization.

b. Entering the Restricted Zone around an Oilfield without authorization and thus violating Nigeria’s Exclusive Economic Zone regulations.

c. Falsely accusing a Nigerian Navy Ship of piracy on International Maritime Reporting Platforms after having communicated with the Nigerian Navy Ship without ambiguity about her identity therefore violating sections of the Suppression of Piracy and Other Maritime Offences (SPOMO)Act 2019.

d. Violation of all lawful instructions at sea from Maritime Law Authorities as well as Nigeria’s Miscellaneous Act and other associated national and international laws ascribed to by Nigeria.

e. Violation of Custom and Immigration Laws as acceded by Nigeria regarding the operations of Akpo Oil Terminal being an Oil installation in the Nigerian Exclusive Economic Zone.

5. At this juncture, the NN wishes to enjoin the media, wellmeaning Nigerians and well-wishers of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, to note the actual occurrence regarding MT HEROIC IDUN for which she is now under the custody of the Navy for prosecution. Please disregard rumours, mischievous and fictitious articles being circulated by enemies of the State, in a bid to cause chaos and discredit efforts of the Nigerian Navy and indeed Nigeria. The Navy also acknowledges with immense gratitude the role played by the Government of Equatorial Guinea in the arrest and transfer of MV HEROIC IDUN to Nigeria. Equally, the NN acknowledges the untiring efforts of the Federal ministries of Defence, Foreign Affairs and Justice in the actualization of the transfer of this Vessel of Interest.

6. The Navy assures Nigerians that in accordance with its statutory responsibilities and drawing strength from the strategic directives of the CNS, Vice Admiral Auwal Zubairu Gambo CFR, the Service will maintain a posture of zero tolerance to crude oil theft and other criminal activities in our maritime domain. The Navy shall continue to work in synergy with other maritime stakeholders, Gulf of Guinea states’ navies and strategic partners to ensure that Nigeria derives maximum benefit from its natural maritime endowments.

7. Thank you for your attention.

SS GARBA Rear Admiral
for Chief of the Naval Staff
November 15, 2022

Nigerians are seriously displeased.

But why go there at all Well it's the level of poverty... for the hopes if getting something to take home at least.
Is it really worth it?

Why go throwing things away and being brutalised by the uncouth/unprofessional security agents? If you don't support a party, don't attend their rallies.

Entitlement Spirit.

Ain't this madness? Same thing over and over again, expecting a different result?

See sense.

You condemned it before gaining power. Said it was a fraud...that it didn't even exist. Made countless "empty promises " of one working refinery per year.

You got in, found how easy it was to make the needed hard decision but cowered....then even made it worse.

All of a sudden you've become brave when you won't suffer any fallout....on your way out.

General���

He truly belongs to everyone and no one. Baba needs to state where he truly stands. This man unequivocally gave gmb full conditional support in his time of dire need. Why is he now being dodgy?

No matter. Citizens who are at the receiving end would determine the kind of Nigeria they want.

Vote wisely!!!

He corrected himself na. Nice recovery.

Maybe a case of - body dey apc but spirit, mind and soul still dey pdp.

It's only you that can tell if she's cheating or not.

Yes her defensive nature and denying you conjugal rights may give it away but it's dangerous to jump into conclusions.

Have you looked inwards to determine why she's denying you sex and being all defensive? Have you done something wrong (intentionally or ignorantly)?

The reason a woman denies her man access to her body is if said man has done something to make her believe he doesn't deserve her body.....so like I said look inward.

Are you stagnant? Do you better yourself (do you exercise to look appealing to her)? Do you provide? Have you been satisfying her in za oza room?
Asking all these so you know....even if she no longer wants you, you can do better than her. Dem no dey die put.

No one on Nairaland can give you answers to your queries except you.

Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

This can't be true/right.

Petty!

There's no need.