₦airaland Forum

Malory:
Obi is loved by Nigerians irrespective of tribe and religion.

hmm...... tou sure soo?

shugagurl:
You must be joking if you think for a second that House On The Rock will let that man go jobless or hungry. Infact, God has picked his call.



Tifnubu urchin, the gun wasn't live. According to the statement, there was no bullet inside it. I don't understand why some of you Yoruba Muslims hate Christians so much that you'd rather see one of your own hang for associating with them.

But you will be put to shame. You will be here on nairaland hustling monthly 30k BMC job while that man moves to greater heights. If you think that HOTR will abandon him, then you have no clue how Christians think and operate.

You seem to be a christian fanatic. Anyways.... what you're saying is incorrect

GoodHardDickk:
Nigerians are talking about how Tinubu the drug fool has succeeded in destroying this country, na dog be this one problem.

Nigerians wake up! If we miss peter Obi, we may never see a man like him again. Obi is the best man for the job

hmmm....
Lets see how e really goes

This is what commonsense is supposed to dictate but.....

Badhguy:
You can still have up to three kids, all (AS) if you go head. It is from the 4th child that comes out as (SS). You can confirm this by asking your doctor.

Lool. Your biology teacher was definitely a ganja man

Delight2014:
It doesn't actually work that way my dear
I can attest that some firstborn may be SS, so it varies

he or she didnt pass biology in secondary school obviously

hisexcellency34:
cowards.why can't they come in broad daylight?

it's unofficial. They dont want to be identified and be struck off strenght

They know the students don't have guns. If not they wont return

Why all him talk always get to do with food

Driving a fuel economic car like benz c180 now is such an advantage over honda like Eod. I used quarter tank from kano to dutse

Mindlog:
Skit or real, what if the lady in towel had slipped off from that dangerous place she was...she may probably end up dead while the other 2 will spend time in prison.

Exactly what i was thinking. Safety first. The man should have pulled her up first before facing the storm.

onumadu:
This is not always true. At all.
In fact I've seen quite a few cases where this happened and the men involved where EXCELLENT fathers and husbands.
The problem is natural.
Monogamy has a reductionist demand on men that is impossible to meet. A women for example would want to avenge the fact that her husband looked at another woman 30 yrs ago! It is not that the man looked at another woman. It is that she is looking for a pretext to abandon him in old age!
A man gets married and at first controls 90% love and admiration. But as he ages, and he keeps investing in his wife and kids, he gradually drains himself of that love and admiration because he empowers them while he dis-empowers himself.
Over time, he would be lucky if he controlled 10% love and admiration.
How does love and admiration come about? Through MATERIAL THINGS: money, properties, etc.
Once he depletes all that and the kids grow up, the wife becomes "free" of the kids, and since he is sexually emptied as well for his wife, he loses everything and gets abandoned.
Life is NOT sentimental.
That is why a smart man must plan ahead and keep his materials very close to himself until his old age.
With those materials firmly under his control, he would retain love and admiration whether his wife and kids like him or not, or else ...

From what you wrote. Even polygamy will not solve the problem of abandonment that is occasioned by depletion in wealth.

madridguy:
Aduniya Sijinul-Mumeen.

Exactly. May Allah save us from trials that are difficult to bear

ibkayee:
E mabinu, I wasn’t aware we were in your chapel

Okay are you promising to conceal them now? To make our planet a safer place for men?

ibkayee:
What’s wrong with exposing mammary glands?

its a private part though. Atleast thats what it used to be until your generation came along

ibkayee:
I think I do, hope you're well

your mammary glands are exposed. Why not cover them decently

Samsung A30s

Unnecessary show and exposure of your private life online. Who cares bro?

Wait.... what is it about bini people and this accent.

I wan carray my pikin go hat

What God granted me this year is far more than i could have dreamed about

Blessedmercy8:
No need to be scared. It's a natural phenomenon. If I'm lying, ask those up to ten years in marriage. Except they dont want to tell you the truth.

Ever since my pastor said that thing,, ( 14 years ago) I've been observing marriages. After five years , na patching tinz Dem dey.

Just try to fill your heart with God's kind of love. That's the only thing that will keep you going.

The attention has almost totally shifted to our new baby. For weeks i get left hanging. If not of religion i would have started cheating

Blessedmercy8:
My dear, don't talk like that. It takes the grace and fear of God for marriage to continue after five years.

One of my pastors once said it takes God's kind of love which is, tolerant, enduring, and sacrificial to continue in marriage after 5 years because all the affection, and butterflies in your belly feelings flies away after five years of marriage.

You're scaring me though. I'm one year married

Deltavariant:
very true

Broooo..... if you see 18k hotel for maiduguri ehn. You go cry. Ngo don cast that land ooooo... everything costly die

fyzaila:
You must be staying in Auchi Benin right? Because na there i know say plantain cheap well well

Cheapest is ondo state

fyzaila:
Who said north is not sweet to live? If you say insecurity challenges then it is everywhere now. Come and see cheep food items.

Plantain 2k
Yam 1400. The seller said 1500 but i bargained to 1400. 100 naira is still something.

Be specific. Maiduguri is north too and it ranks among the most expensive cities in nigeria

Mino1000:
I see a lot of people saying I was stalking her well, it might be useful to know that she gets pissed whenever I don’t check her location that she sent or when I sleep before ensuring she has reached home safely.

Also she is very big on security and whenever she is going out for work she gives the the colleague she is going withs number and asks me to call if I can’t get through after sometime if I don’t call and say her phone was not reachable she asks why I didn’t call her colleague.

Normally I don’t have time for all this and she complained that I was always coding instead of checking up so I adjusted.

As for finances we are both doing well in the tech industry so that is not the problem or why I am trying to save the relationship.

She is back but right now I am just observing. Also, I called her boss because that was the last person she was with.

i read it. I understand you perfectly especially since you're sincere about the goal of the relationship. It was between the devil and the deep sea. But why didn't she update you on her new plans to stay longer on that day if anything came up. She didn't call you nor pick the call. And if you didn't call her boss and waited for 24hours before informing the police, she may still have nagged that you didn't act any proactively in the event that she was distressed. Its a red flag to me and if you are seriously going to proceed with this relationship, you need to do due diligence and background checks again. She dropped the ball and she isn't thinking anything big of it. This conflicting stance between coercing you to check on her and not picking calls when you do, nor updating you on her late movement is something you should really be very sure of if you must continue. But for me, i wouldn't continue if there is no explanation from her.

Kollins11:
Reason I live my life to the fullest everyday. The strength I use to fvck a useless Nigerian girl Today, I may not have the strength tomorrow. So allow me to enjoy it while it last.

Sometimes i wish God never created hell fire. But with this type of comment, its clear that there are people who don't mind been there just like shaytan. Enjoy your goat time while it lasts

Danibonk:
No be every body go be like you even if you like no Dey eat again that your business every body can’t be programmer

Exactly many people can also claim their profession brings so much money that anyone not doing it is not serious with life.
Op this is mine. I know html css javascript and c programming. I program arduino microcontroller too.
I know how to use Adobe dreamweaver and WordPress. But guess what? I have never made a penny from all these knowledge. I am a solar installer and i am happy with it.

So do not force anyone to do anything. There are many broke full stack javascript programmers. There are many broke android app developers. Many broke coders. Infact chances are that the so called teacher you are looking for is even broke. Or will a rich person come to teach your kid coding at home when he can own a coding school like niit or aptech? And stop saying name your price around alimosho because i know you already have a bench mark of 20k in your heart.

Please this is 21st century. Don't annoy your kids. Someone must have also thought becoming a benz mechanic was the only road to success in the past.

Anyone here who wants to learn coding from beginners to advanced level. Just go on YouTube and type (brad traversy) follow his steps. Or go to w3school.com and follow the steps from html to whatever you want. Theres really no big deal.

Oberhiri141:
Ever since i packed into my new house, my landlady and her daughter have been disturbing my life one way or the other.

One day, I gave my landlady 10kg of mama gold rice which was given to me at my place of work and then the following morning she called me and asked me to lend her 10k.

I think she has taken my kindness for weakness and as for her daughter, her own inordinate request for money is unbearable. If it's not meatpie today then it's recharge card or even hair cream.

Please, Elders in the house, how can I cope with this burden?

Calculate the total so you subtract it from your next rent

Uchenna10:
Tiktok na bad influence to teenagers..

internet generally. The most potent tool for destruction of kids is a browsing phone