₦airaland Forum

Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??

LordTerix:
Should we tell him or allow him to enter express first?!

FeliciaOja:
I turned out
Edit:
So please in the name of God stop blaming my mum.
If anything, she is the reason I changed for good before she passed. All that flogging and punishment from my dad made me more stubborn.. it was my mother's soft love that brought me back to my senses. God knows if not for her I would have been worse
Put some respect on her name!!

mediclife1987:
Choi!!! I think I already have my answer

J111333:
...(9)...short guys, they can argue for Africa.

Smokey5:
TCN ..
Fire service

Smokey5:
Not university.... MDAs

Enoch07:
so to cut this long story short, you want to put your hand "inside that hole" to be sure abi? black man Thomas

cococandy:
Please don’t let him stay in your house.
You have forgiven him but be wise.

He’s clearly jealous. He’s coming to your house to see things for himself. You can’t predict what he will do after that.

sacajawea:
Lol how do you people cope. I look younger, act younger and I'm Not yet married Hahaha
And in Nigeria where superficial things like looks, age, marriage, and your pocket are used to Judge you, na wahala oh kikikki

Oya let's chill and talk

louiziana:
VIN: WDCGG8HB5AF485162
I hope it helps.

dignity33:
7. Rather date a lady who adds something beneficial to your life. Things like emotional intelligence; financial intelligence; spiritual
intelligence and other intelligence.

8. Date someone who's capable of calming the storm within your soul ( an average man has enough storms ); and not someone who
adds stress to your life.

kelvinrhs:
Can you share her contact with me

Maybe her Instagram handle or something like that

I love A Dominatrix

Bestinstinct:
It's now something to laugh about o. That car gave me the phobia I have for driving till date. Like, I'm always scared of something coming up. My fuel doesn't go below half tank just because of fear. My Nissan will disgrace me when I don baff-up and decide to go show off to friends. Na push dem go help me push am for road after e don cause hold-up. The day the engine finally knocked is a story on its own.

BusterG:
It’s really crazy when you save up or get a loan and end up buying a car you really wish you hadn’t most likely after driving it for a short period.

Okay so far I have personally purchased 6 vehicles over the years and I only regret buying 1.

My wife’s birthday was coming up back in 2012 and I had about 600k to buy her a present. Since she didn’t have a car yet, I decided to go buy a Nigerian used car.

I searched online and found a car I think here on Nairaland. A brown Toyota Corolla 2001. It was looking neat and all and was being used by a lady banker at eco bank, akin adesola. So since my office was close by I went to check and it looked “okay”. I checked out some basics, did a test drive and left. I paid I think the second day.

First two months the car was smooth as I went to Ibadan twice from Lagos with it. My wife used it lightly too as she wasn’t working at that time. Regular maintenance was done and all until one day I think around the 3 months after purchase.
I started the car and saw plenty white smoke behind. When my mechanic came he said the engine was previously ringed and plenty stories that didn’t touch.

I remember selling it off for 400k.

Share yours?

louiziana:
I brought up the issue of bodywork because you can clearly see GLK 350 inscripted on the ride, and i did no adjustments on the model number nor altered anything else. I am not a dealer, where can I find the VIN on the whip?

aspiring44:
1,150,000. 00 would clear it.

Shepho:
LMao

urchcoded:
I believe you a hundred percent. Back in the days of 2go a girl I met in aba room agreed for hook-up I went to her house and her brother told me he knew what I came for. He told me boldly that if I wanted to have his sister I should Bleep him first. Aaaaaah I just started going the girl came to the gate and told me so I don't love her I said I did, then she said why don't I just do it with her brother so I can have her. ladies and gentlemen, things Dy happen for this life

Dominatrix:
The devil is a lie

Honeydenz:
I had a three some way back in school after Friday clubbing, I was drunk though.
I sucked two guys dick d same time till both came in my mouth, imagine!

To think that my boyfriend was one of them, and he allowed such to happen, FEAR MEN!

ArticleBeast:
Brother Okoro your wife dey house na leave our south African sister alone