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Ogalanyaidi:
I and my wife-to-be live abroad and she happened to have a male bestie who was there for her while they were both studying at the University.

They rendered financial support to each other, he would buy foodstuffs from an African shop while my wife cooks. He even loaned my prospective wife the sum of $4,000 to complete her tuition fee when she was stranded. Although they weren't in a defined relationship, they were intimate behind the scenes.

Now we have concluded the introduction and I've paid her bride price but the bestie would call her asking for a quick loan and my wife would make the money available to him. I have asked my wife that I do not support this ongoing financial relationship and I will not condone him calling to ask her for money even though he would payback. My wife narrated how nice and helpful the young man was to her and how she cannot deny him any monetary assistance when she has the money. At some point when my wife borrowed the sum of 2,000 from me and was yet to pay me back, he called requesting for a loan of $300 and my wife made it available to him without a second thought.

Honestly, I am not in support of this and each time I confront my wife she would rebuff me.

What is the solution to this?

drezzyx:
Are you one of them?

BeeBeeOoh:
You want us to get rid of unguided passions and you put up that kinda ass that will even guide us to a lot of passions??






Do you really wanna help us?

Jazzafizzy:



Ewoo Bros sorry na you get this picture
I beg oo no vex oo ?

sylve11:
Religion is like penis. It's fine to have one. It's fine to proud of it. But please don't whip it out in public and waving it around, and please don't try to shove it down other people's throats.

SILENTandSMART2:
Kinda true and funny



moreover wetin fuel this writeup ?

egopersonified:
He saw terrible things

Prayfortheworld:
You can take someone out of the ghetto but you can't take the ghetto out of the person

IamD18:
New song loading.....


Omah Lay ft Tems.


Song title: Uganda

This is, if Asaba Nollywood producers haven't produced a movie for it already.

Netanya:
He will be like .. Is ogun their second president ni .

Thattallgirl:
I wish him the best of luck
He should add his own qualities too

czarina:
Humble wife or secretary?

GodWrites:
Rich people don't marry because you're beautiful alone, they marry girls who are intelligent and smart.

Most Beautiful girls have only their pussy to offer.

A poor man would rather go for a beautiful coconut head girl, so he can show her off to his entire generation.

They hardly consider intellect or character, which is why they remain in poverty till they die.

Kobicove:
That's where you're wrong, for a contract to be binding it does not necessarily have to be in writing...if you can prove it then you have a solid case.

I will give you an example...

Let's assume you are a popular musician and you meet a lady who has a career as a banker or a teacher then you convince her to resign from her job in order to always accompany you on your musical tours with the promise that you will marry her.

The fact that she has given up or sacrificed her career at your instance in order to be with you is enough evidence that she has suffered loss; this ground is strong enough for an experienced and motivated lawyer to build a case against you in a court of law!

olisaEze:
I rushed in to congratulate d lucky fellow who engaged her when I read "diamond ring". Sister at d rate ure gaining weight, you’ll soon be forced to change name from Cuppy to full blown wedding cake!

LucyB24:
What do you mean?

Bbliss24:
Good evening guys,
It all started in my University days, I met this guy but I was in a relationship when I met him. I didn't like the guy because of his tribe no offence,I just liked his vibe but we dated.

When I met my current boyfriend I told him that I was in a relationship and that I can't double date he was like no problem but mind you i already found him attractive. To cut the long story short i broke up with the other guy to date him. It was all rosy the first two years he worked his service to ph then because my family lives in ph I was in Enugu then but i went home for break,where we hooked up and most times I had to lie to my parents that I was going for night class just to spend the night at his place mind you he was very smart and sound academically so some of those night he did put me through for my exam.

To cut the whole story short he has changed completely what he use to do before he no longer does it,his excuse is that I made him that way . I stay with him in Enugu but temporary till I get my place during this period he gets angry easily and hits me his excuse is that I am arrogant and I dont respect him.Most times I try to opt out from the relationship he comes up with story of after all I have done for you I gave up my family and my life for you and this is how you want to pay me back ,then he starts rendering causes on me.

The truth is he is a good guy and when I met him he never laid his hands on me until I started staying with him. We have dated for 5years and emotions are mixed I find it hard to leave the relationship....

Ottyn01:
Slim girls are very sexy when you want to lift them up..

But you see fat girls(chubby) it takes the grace of God.