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Brodapounds:
Hello dear nairalanders.

Please I'm going through a state of mental confusion.

Currently i have approximately 20 million and 300 thousand naira in my bank account.

I have two thoughts.

1) I am 25 years old but I'm not a university graduate, i only have ND (National deploma) from a polytechnic In Edo state, Auchi precisely.

I would have become a graduate years ago but after my "ND" years ago, i refused to go back to school and i decided to hustle for money.

Most of my classmates in school back then are all graduates but all the same, looking at my bank account now, i have no regrets.

So this is what i plan on doing.

1) Can i further my Education In any university in the United States with the money and plan on staying back after my degree, for the fact that I'm 25.
Will that be advisable?

2) should i stay back in Nigeria and use part of the money to build a house In my hometown in Benin and use the rest for business?

3) Is there a chance of going to USA and start all over again, look for job.
Will the money be enough to rent a house, foot some bills untill i see a job in the USA.

Note i choose USA only because it's my dream country, I'm not scared of the traveling ban because I'm 100% confident that it will be taken away few months from now.

Please i won't be replying any mention or questions.

All i want is to take note of good advice.

I already know a reliable traveling agent.

Please other suggestions are welcomed apart from mine.

Please help

IAmStrange:
And again, the fact that a girl loves you doesn't mean she's the right woman for marriage

Shibaraba:
I'm done with people who come online to ask questions they know the answer to already.

My question is, how una Preeq dey strong when una broke.

When I'm broke Ogbeni my Preeq no dey get life. My Preeq has the same feeling with shibaraba. I'm suspecting it has a brain sef. Once my account balance is pink if you like open the punna to my face, make your Yansh be like buffalo own, make your breasts be like oganigwe own, e no go strong.

But make account green. E dey strong even for sleep

ChildOfDoom:
then, I have damaged some vital organs of my body due to excess sugar. don't be deceived that only old people have health issues like kidney/liver failure. I am currently clinching to the left side of my stomach. something is eating me up inside. I just hope I haven't destroyed both livers.

MissGodOwn:
The guy sense is just next to none, he's indeed very wise.

yeyeosoronga:
You can raise your daughter to be a gold digger. Nobody should tell you how to raise your own child.
Meanwhile, the said Ciara we're talking about on this thread is worth over $20million dollars even without her husband's wealth. She had her own money before meeting Future or her husband Russell.
Like I insinuated earlier, the real life out there is beyond your beliefs. Being a true alpha male is way bigger than getting some random chicks. Wayyyy bigger. Ponder on this before it's too late and you realise you've wasted so much time on irrelevancies, and not made hay while the sun shone.
An alpha male is top of the game in ALL aspects of his life. Not just in romantic relationships, which is just a small fraction of life in itself.
Russell doesn't need to get married to get sex. He was married to a white woman before who screwed him over. He had women chasing him, before he met Ciara and hit off with her. He decided their relationship wasn't going to be sexual till they got married. What is sex? Anybody can get sex. Even mad people on the streets get sex.
He's the true definition of an alpha male with self control, who knows what he wants and sticks with it. Ciara didn't get Russell because of her head game, he set the tone for their relationship.
Who has better self control? A man with 5 baby mamas or the one married with children? And you dare to call him a simp?
In ALL aspects of Russell's life, he got control. Serious control. You hardly hear about his 1st marriage, because she did him dirty and that situation was put quickly under control.
Being alpha is an all rounder status o. High emotional intelligence is just a small part of being an alpha (male or female), and that encompasses both your relationship with other men and women (not only with the opposite sex/those you're interested in romantically)
You cannot be an alpha only in women affairs. In financial, social, healthwise, etc affairs. True alphas are impactful leaders.
Professionally they're the boss,
Financially in control,
Mentally strong kakaraka,
They always harmonise their group, Always. People are drawn to them, and they make things work for everyone including the females around them
They are known as solution providers by everyone around them.
Strong sense of family and not dysfunctional like your guy Future whom you used as a reference for an alpha- he is estranged from his father who was never present in his life unlike Russell with strong family ties. Future has 5 to 6 baby mamas, and still counting. Raising more dysfunctional children.
They are Highly ambitious people
I could go on and on about alphas.
Being a red piller doesn't make you an alpha, so do not confuse the two. Perhaps that's where NL red pillers are making the mistake by thinking they are synonymous with each other. Same way being a feminist doesn't make you an alpha female either.

Blu03:
I remember stalking a classmate i had a crush on. It was so hard to talk to him. My hands would shake and my palms were sweaty. It was a scary thing

I don't know what love feels like again.

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MissGodOwn:
I can't believe that a guy just admitted this. That's good sha.

makydebbie:
Anyone oo.

makydebbie:
Okay I've heard you.

LOL, I'm not being sarcastic.
But I'm tired of the increasing mentions and insults, to the point of someone cursing me that I won't have children.
So at this point what anyone says is right.

ODUNEWUWURA:
Hello nairalander, i have a question that have been bothering me. I have this guy that i like, we are friends, but the thing is that he really like me and he want us to be dating. We decided that will start with friendship, so that we can know each other better before start dating. We are from the same university undo he just graduated while i suppose to be in my final year now but i am on leave of absent because of financial constrain. He is a good person and i really like him. But the issue is that i am 2 years older than him. He will be 21 this year while i will clock 23. We just know our age. He asked me maybe i can date someone that is younger than me. It is just complicate. Can you advice me. I need a mature advice. Thank.

makydebbie:
Okay sir I agree with you totally.

Digmygold:
Not your employee.

makydebbie:
Control your penis ah!

You're hiding behind she's a good girl she sweeps your shop and takes charge. Bro that's her job that's what you employed her to do, I don't expect her to do otherwise.

You just want to fvck that's it. Na wa oo.
I go born man so?

Jodha:
Very big loss.... I'm sure he ditched her for a hoe that doesn't gives a faqk about him...


Guys always do this to the good ones

starbuck:
Cum 20 years, she will look back at this picture and would be full of regret, that's if she must have grown 6th sense then

Amakavula:
I noticed this a lot, like Nigerian men are petrified of pretty women.

Been on dates were the guy stammers for hours.... another one where the guy's hands keep shaking like wtf..

I noticed guys are afraid to approach me; like you see them gathering and planning who would come talk to me, but none ever grew enough courage.

Took my friend's sister to an audition once ( cos I drive) and all the dudes where just saying hi like over 10× and smiling sheepishly without one with enough courage to talk. Even the one that tried struggled.

Is this a self esteem issue?

doctore212:
As I no get Val today, am heading straight to My main Olosho for Ketu.

She say she go cut price for me for TDB. Have told my boss I get fever. Omo we die here

Ajiswaggs:
I know....thanks

Ajiswaggs:
Gift from my wonderful gf

Tonnyray:
The gift still dey inside so I scan am.
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