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Moroccans think that their goats climbing trees is a big deal, tell them that in Nigeria Goats go to the market and even wear eye glasses which they use to make laws in Nigeria's parliament

[quote author=MayorofLagos post=58122232]You are freaking liar! He was buried in Nigeria.
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You are one lying liar here Fernandez was not buried in Nigeria, Google os your friend

NairalandCS:
NwaAmaikpe go talk say them no get money to buy new cloth.

That NwaAmaikpe boy is just an annoying irritant

MaziOmenuko:
That devilish dwarf with demented brain.

They kept stonning him and throwing him pure water, he won a 2nd term bid. They kept stonning him and throwing pure water, he won the senatorial seat. They kept stonning him and throwing him pure water, his son won a slot at the state house of assembly. They will keep stonningbhim and throwing pure water while he wins another term at the senate, his wife wins house of reps and his son is made the speaker of the house where he will proceed to be governor. Pure water is just N100 per bag and stones are free at your disposal.

Next election day, don't come out and vote, stay in your houses and be shouting 'he will not win'. After the low turnout, he will pack Ghana must go to INEC office and they will count all your votes that you refused to cast and give to him while you stay at auban shop, ikpu-jones, feel D place, dementos, nwanyi uzuakoli and all outlets in umuahia and be drinking beer and waiting for the next time to throw pure water at him.

***Rip Dr Nwaogbo. Just learning of your death right now. Your legacies will surpass that of the demented dwarf who is an embodiment of failure and a mobile embarrassment.

You just enumerated the problem with Igbo youths when it comes to politics in Nigeria. The rant online and everywhere but during elections the believe that their One Vote won't make any difference. By the time one million people say a similar thing individually you end up with rigged elections and low turnout

Politicians gifts are always Greek gifts, it has something always embedded in it

Nnamdi Kanu should be called to order as regards Anambra elections, if our people don't come out to vote the state may go to the days of Chris Uba appointing leaders he will dictate to and render the state comatose from its current strides among the South East state.
Biafra agitation should be targeted at Abuja and the FG.
You don't set your house on fire to get rid of bedbugs.

Just handover your cheque book to her and she won't care about all this points enumerated above.

You can shout at her when you come home with a ticket to Disneyland Paris and your marriage will still remain intact.

dowjones:
But why? I'm curious to know why men marry terrible women. How does it even happen

This same thing is happening to a friend's brother. MTN collapse has made the man a little broke but the wife has tens of millions in the account won't provide one naira.

Even their kids have been in Nigeria since last year because they can't pay school fees on the UK. Which she forced the husband to take them to.

Can you share with me why you actually married her in the first place?

Let me share a bit with you, you get into these kind of relationships at a point when you are buoyant as a young man, you practically do everything for this pretty lady you met and fell in love with without even caring that she is not adequately returning the favours.
You are blinded by infatuation and everything seems all rosy.
She is ready to do your bidding initially and shows signs of her bad attitude which you neglect because you think that you are in love and love means tolerance (biko no tolerance in courtship) say it as it is, leave tolerance for married couples.

The moment you sign the marriage documents, you realise that you have not stamped your feet down in the relationship with her and did not study every bit and pieces of her innermost character, you then start making efforts to become the man you should have been during courtship, she resists every move knowing fully well that it is now difficult for you to quit or end the relationship because you are now married.

If anything happens to your income or added responsibilities is taking a large chunk from your fixed income, thats when you realise that you have a wife who is inconsiderate and cares only about herself and how to accumulate resources for herself alone, you realise that you live with woman who will password her phones so that you dont stumble into her bank alert statement, she spends her money and invests it however she want without declaring much to you and tell you that the kids are yours and if you like dont pay their school schools and house rent and even use propaganda by asking you in your childrens front what kind of father and husband are you who cannot pay his childrens fees.

Meanwhile she will push you into putting the kids into expensive schools with a promise to help with the fees but will renege on her promise after 2 terms of cooperation.

As a father you cant stand and watch your kids suffer, nor withdraw them and put them into a more affordable but discrepit school which will look like retrogression and can even affect your psyche as a man.
This kind of women are narcissistic and know how to hook the nice and gentle guys, perhaps you ladies should know more about how they achieve that.
In retrospect, the man will also realize that he abandoned a good girl somewhere along who cared so much about him but didnt know how to pretend about her feelings and you feel like turning back the hands of time.

Billyonaire:
This helps too. Marriage to a narcissist is even difficult to break, cos they never leave. They will keep saying they wanna leave, but they dont.

It called walking on egg shells. They are so plenty in America.

You are right, many commenters asking him to divorce her don't know how difficult it is to divorce this kind of women, they will never leave. if you take them to court they will cry to everyone that they love their husbands and would change and swear not to leave and even threaten suicide.

cashboss2017:
U didnt state your name clear? anyway from the tone of your msg u must be an afonja right??

No indomie generation allowed on this thread. please go to bed now..

PaperLace:
This is what happens when you try to do the job of a therapist.

Marriage is not a rehabilitation centre for dysfunctional people _ don't go marrying people with the plans of changing them in marriage.

I pity the innocent kids you brought into all this, such emotional trauma from a mother that should be loving.

Encourage her to go for counselling, something you should have advised her to do 11yrs ago, instead you put a ring on it.
That woman needs to heal.

advising her to go for counseling is like adding more fuel to fire, she believes nothing is wrong with her but him the husband. I tried that myself with my wife who behaves almost similar to @OPs wife and it was accusations that I want to tell her that she is mad?

In my case I provide everything in the home which she will still not appreciate my efforts.

Sex is almost boring because I have to practically beg for it like OP and sometimes it is accompanied with insults and many other things I don't have time to write about.

I can personally feel his pain and he is passing through for years in the name of remaining married.

lalanice:
I've read a similar story before, makes me feel this story is made up.

Not made up perhaps, I am facing near similar scenario and want to see matured opinion on the issue.
If you check the time I am reading and posting this is not because I want to be awake but because I spend a lot of time thinking, my wife is inconsiderate, my kids school fees is due, she has money but won't support and the responsibilities are much for me alone with meagre income etc

EntMirror:
Hey, I'm not here to partake in any tribal war. I'm just addressing the issue at hand so that something will be done. It's not about tribe, race or country. we're all humans and that's what matters. As long as you aren't an alien, I should be concerned.

Hey! Its not a tribal issue but facing reality. The way of doings here in the North is not how it should be, thats my point. But we need to do something as citizens

EntMirror:
Could this be an act of discipline? To further equip this young boy into an illusion that 7 virgins are waiting for him? This is barbaric and whoever did this needs to be sued.

www.entmirror.com

Even the people who beheaded an Igbo woman in Kano were not sued by the State Govt who withdrew the case from court na ordinary chain for pikin leg go make them sue.
You think Core North is same as Southern Nigeria

MadCow1:
Is this true

Northern senators led by Ahmed Yerima fixed the age of consent at 11 because he married a 13 year old Egyptian girl.
Women groups resisted it but it became a religious issues as Islamic leaders stated that consent is when a child gets to puberty and the age was not defined in the Hadith.

Zik was a nationalist and advocate of One Nigeria while Awolowo was a tribalist and Sardauna was a feudalist.

Yorubas adore Awolowo for his Yoruba first agenda while Igbos abhore Zik for his Nigeria first agenda and Hausas adore Sardauna for his North (Arewa) first position.
Ojukwu was a sectional leader and loved by his people.
This is the summary of this article and shows that One Nigeria is a big fraud and lie

Dannmowe:
How do we know they are real policemen? Boko haram dey find prisoner exchange

Till date several police men and women are missing who were training at Gwoza abducted by BH.
Before they release such videos they are sure of it.
My heart goes out to the families of these women

My heart goes out to the families of these Police women and the trauma this will bring upon them.
It would be worse if they are Christians as the extremists will consider them as war booty and use them as sex slaves as contained in the book they claim to follow.

I expect those Hausa-Fulani youths who issued quit notice to Igbos to do same to Boko Haram if they want us to believe that Boko Haram was not a Core North agenda to weaken the former administration and grab power with the connivance of Obama and Hillary Clinton, but which they have now lost control of, same way America lost control of ISIS in Syria and Libya after using them for regime change.

omenkaLives:
Fear for the stability of the mind of your father bro. Leave me to worry about mine.

Didn't read whatever junk it is you wrote by the way because I don't care what any Kanu buttlicker thinks about what I say.

Thanks.

Hahaha, you read it my guy, stop pretending and he really took you to the cleaners. hahaha

This line of propaganda has been deployed by the Yorubas to deceive our people over the years, what is the environmental condition of Ogoni today? still very terrible and the FG recently launched another propaganda clean up exercise without allocating funds for it.
Today Nnamdi Kanu has used his radio biafra to awaken the consciousness of the Niger Delta people and there is no going back to Egypt.

Arewa youths are led by Fulani and the Fulani dominated Hausa that have lost their identity due to forceful conversion to Islam by Uthman Dan Fodio.

Middle Belt have come out to say they are not part of Arewa but Middle Belt people

obembet:
The Ibos want Biafra
The North wants Ibo's exit
The Yorubas want Ibo's exit
The Ibos are saying "we have investments in your areas and cannot leave them"
And the fight is being cooked.

The problem in the country is not the agitation of any ethnic group but the unity of the elite and the disunity of the masses.


Remember; a good Nigeria is better than a good Arewa, Oduduwa or Biafra.

#One_love_Nigeria.

Next time the correct spelling is Igbo not Ibo which is a Yoruba contraption because they can't pronounce the 'gb' sound but rather call it 'Igbo'

ColonelDrake:
Afenifere should stop disgracing Yoruba. I'm starting to hate this Guy. What's your business with these flattie akpu heads? Abeg it is their worries and fights and how it affect us, I don't get.

You dont stay in the North like us, Yorubas are even scared of going to Hausa Mosques on Fridays and the Almajiri does not the difference between Yoruba and Igbo because Yorubas and Igbos always reside in the same locations in the North.

MrMoney007:
"An attack on Boko Haram is an attack on the North" - President of UK
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Killing of Boko Haram by General Ihejirika is taking revenge for Biafra and committing genocide against our people - American Elders

fiizznation:
[i]Whenever I see a word like middlebelt, the first thing that usually comes into my mind is "who are these middlebeltans"? The north central comprises of states like kwara, nassarawa, Niger, kogi, benue and plateau states. Even southern kaduna can't be classified as a north central territory due to its geographical location.

The people that are championing this middlebelt nonsense are some very few people in plateau state. Jerry gana is from Niger state, pray tell me, how will he convince his people to be part of one silly thing called middlebelt? He is not a major player in the NC.

When people want to really talk about NC or middlebelt as some people want to call it, then names like IBB, abdulsalam, Jeremiah hussein, gowon, saraki, etc CAN'T be overlooked. These are the decision makers of the region. And I don't see them calling themselves middlebeltans.[/i|

You Fulanis hate the word Middle Belt which gives a separate identity to the Northern minority tribes, Nnamdi Kanu has used his radio to open the eyes and minds of minorities in Nigeria and it has come to stay. No going back to Hausa and Fulani domination, it is Middle Belt and not North Central or Arewa

genieluv:
Many northern minorities are still under Hausa-fulani dominated states and do not have a voice or political freedom of their own.
The north-central tag also robbs us of our uniqueness and purpose.

The reality is that Middle Belt has the power to decide who becomes Nigerias President, it is not the Hausa, Yoruba, Fulani or Igbo.
They have the most arable lands and solid mineral resources which is part of the reasons for herdsmen invasion and displacement of communities.

But the Core North and Arewa group have effectively made the Middle Belt not to realize the enormous powers in their hands to change the course of Nigeria by craftily referring to them as NORTH CENTRAL or Arewa. All Northern Christians and minority tribes should reject the appellation called North Central and stick to that bitter word to ears of the Hausa and Fulani which is Middle Belt

Core Northern Politicians dont like that word 'Middle Belt', they prefer North Central zone which they use for dominance of that region.
Middle Belt seems to give an identity to Northern Christians and minority tribes which the Fulanis dont want

kclint85:
what are they doing about onitsha/Enugu express from odumodu to awkuzu?

That is a Federal Road, they are talking about potholes in the internal state street roads

Time to unite under a just Nigeria is now.
We are better together but under justice and equity.
Igbos are not happy that we still have poor almajiris in the north despite all the resources at our disposal. They actually want a prosperous Nigeria

We are tired of politicians making us to take up their quarrels as our own and engage ourselves on their behalf.
Good enough, many here dont want to engage in Sani Vs Elrufai or Dino vs Bello fight at least for now. Nairalanders are becoming wiser.

Sen. Sani should call out Elrufai to a boxing match in a ring and we shall provide them with the gloves and let them fight it out once and for all while we stand aside and watch as willing spectators

Loved up? How can they actually be loving up when they keep scattering?