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Thief . Women and free things ehh. You don't like him but you like to live off him, nonsense.
And to all ye men, how many times would you be warned never to give what you can't dash?? No matter what i can never kneel down to beg for companionship.

Can't really blame girls for acting like this when SIMPle mfs out here be treating 3/10 like a 10/10. Damn!!! We're tired of preaching mhen cos when are y'all gonna learn how to put your self and emotions first.
Nevertherless, never loose your sense of reasoning cos of coochie, ain't worth it for real.


As our Ancestors would say "If you loose gaurd in the hands of a woman, you're already becoming a fool".

Comparing a man to a woman in this life is preposterous. Women are weaker emotionally, and even physically, forget their gra gra. You will hardly see a lady who can balance worklife without indulging family matters. Most of them tend to carry their family problem on top their head to their workplace. They might not say much about their family but their actions, attitude speaks otherwise i.e; transferring aggression on others, being moody or sad, etc. Unlike men, they hardly talk, they can face difficult situations and still be smiling.
Another angle is the fact that women always want to prove that they are incharge, and this is why cannot handle positions or power.

You would have to get close to a man to understand and know his problem unlike a woman. And this is part of why we have a lot of bitter ladies who refer themselves as "feminists".


As our Ancestors would say "It is very hard to identify a suffering man, but very easy to notice a happy woman".

Good !!! More knockouts to come. I understand the fact that women love to drag shoulder with men but i still wonder why a reasonable person would do this rubbish.


Anyways, since you wanna be a man, no wahala but you go collect. You go too collect wotowoto including all the pain that we men endure silently, !diot!!!



As our Ancestors would say "The hen that tries to drag the title of an eagle but also be ready to face whatever that comes with it".

What is DNA that a reasonable and responsible woman can't do? In all you do, avoid a useless family when you wanna settle down. The family you marry from matters alot. Nowadays most marriages don't last because they ignored to do findings of the background of their partners.

As soon as the sister spoke, i don know say that family is delusional.






As our Ancestors would say "Don't expect to born a sheep if you married from the family of goats"

Naturally, women are manipulative but when it comes to DNA matters, women are very very manipulative especially the freegivers.

A virtuous woman who has nothing to hide will always be transparent and open especially when it has to do with her reputation.




As our Ancestors would say " When DNA becomes a big deal for the woman, then that child becomes a bad deal for the man".

This is Awesome . You know, its hard to have someone you call your friend that will be there for you, assist you and even guide you.

From the look of things, you guyz have been following up on each other, assisting and helping each other... This is true brotherly love .

I pray your wives will emulate this act and not cause any issue among you guyz because i know women very well.

CONGRATULATIONS!!!


As our Ancestors would say "Good Friendship is one of the best gift one can ever have".

You just want people to support you, all your feminist geng . If someone says the truth, that person is an Alpha male to you abi? Why didn't you call the lady up there an Alpha male?? You ain't serious.

Men are getting wiser. He spends but doesn't spend unnecessarily, that's what you should have said, simple!!!. Most of you ladies have nothing to offer, only to drain your partners dazzol . He isn't your father, neither is he your husband, until then F*ckoff!!! .

Some of you ladies love begging all in the name of "Dating". Very bad!!!
The man has been spending but because he didn't answer just one of your request, he's now stingy. I pity SIMPle man who foolishly try to please a lady .



As Our Ancestors would say "Women are only loyal to their feelings, not to men's sacrifices".

Wetin dey give me joy is the fact that the guy doesn't tolerate bullshit and that's what makes him a real Nigga. Its not that he isn't caring because he actually brought money for her to cook and eat. The only problem is that entitled wicked and selfish lady he calls his gf .


I can't even eat food prepared by any lady aside from my blood talkless of now eating something that she herself doesn't wanna eat even when she's the cook... That young man is wise and smart, he will go far in life.

WHEN DEALING WITH A NIGERIAN LADY OF THIS GENERATION, ALWAYS USE YOUR BRAIN TO THINK AND NOT YOUR HEART.

As our Ancestors would say "Don't dish out what you cannot swallow".

She's immature and wicked...Very!!
Truth is, what you did is bad but it has happened just once and for you to apologize and beg steady means you are truly sorry. Plus that issue now made her to announce to her family what happened. Just imagine when you guyz now marry, she'll just be telling her family everything in your home . Who knows if she has even found a higher bidder and she just wanna discharge you, afterall women are only there to gain benefits for themselves.

A drama queen left your life, instead of you to happy and celebrating, you're here complaining You don't know what God has done for you.



As our Ancestors would say "Only an !diot tries to reclaim problem that God has already taken away".

I like your moniker, you're valid bro . Women don't settle for less so why should a guy also settle for less?? They'll just get close to you, use you, drain you till they're done and then they find the next higher bidder, that's how this generation of women do.

You're wise. No wonder your moniker says bestdude , So many weak and SIMPle men were just saying nonsense. If we have more of Zonefree in this world, it'll be a better place for us all... Not all these weaklings we have as men who takes bullshit from women because of pussy that's cheap these days. Perhaps its till they train a bastard or when they die under women's hand, they won't make such mistake in their next life .



As our Ancestors would say "Only a Simp and an !diot settles for less when there is more than enough BEST".

Every birthday celebration for all these actresses is like their market day cos that's only when they advertise their goods to the highest bidder for SIMPS to pratronize without being criticised by their followers, after all its their birthday .





As our Ancestors would say "Kpekus is the greatest weapon a woman have that get them whatever they want without stress".

I f*cking hate leeches. They never wanna work, they just wanna live big using someone's sweat and hardwork And na mostly women wey dey do this thing pass.... Very selfish, inconsiderate and greedy gender.
Just imagine God giving Eve everything but she still disobeyed because of greed and lack of contentment. Only an !diotic man spend on a lady who isn't related by blood.

You can never satisfy this generation of women. God gave them eye lashes, they shave it and replace it using pencil to draw another one, he gave them eye bra, they cut it and rather use fake ones, he gave them perfect ass and boobs, they still go to doctor to amend it to their taste... So as a man, never you try to please a woman.... Rather let them try to please you more .


Op you fuckup small but God loves you na why he allow that shii to happen so that you won't die a foolish and SIMPle man .


As our Ancestors would say " Only a wonderFOOL man tries to please a woman".

Guy, you caused it . God loves you sha. Never neglect God's presence. What you just escaped, so many people have fallen into the same trap. You're lucky.

Anyways ama give u advise just incase so that you don't become this foolish again.

1. Never be too nice and soft, sometimes be rugged. When i mean rugged, i don't mean violent but at least to show her that you be streetboy because once she know say u dey streetwise, she no go wan run you street.

2. Never use money to start relationship, especially when you're not financially buoyant. It's very dangerous especially when it involves Nigerian women because you'll be drained totally.

3. Never trust a woman, especially not a Nigerian woman. My mum always say that it's only a fool that goes to church to marry. SU babes are the real demons!!!.

4. Never ask a lady you haven't known out. You start by seeking friendship first so that you can easily study her. She won't be able to pretend when you guyz have nothing going on.

5. Fear women. Especially Nigerian women because you can never know them well no matter how you try to study them.

6. Never date without entering her paradise. Only a fool does that!!! EXCEPT SHE'S A VIRGIN WHICH OF COURSE YOU MUST HAVE VERIFIED.

7. Never you date a girl with your heart. You date using your brain especially with Nigerian girls.

8. Never let your enemies deceive you. Your mind was your enemy. You thought you were in love . Big Scam!!! LOVE doesn't exist. Its only God's love that is valid.

9. Never loose guard. Trust no one.

10. Be wise always.



As our Ancestors would say "When someone or something seems too real to be true just know that its false".

Look at the comments from people especially guyz, and i am very disappointed . These are the same guyz that will come out tomorrow and still blame you for not warning your sister.
These same guyz that are being hypocritical will still be shouting "virgin girls or nothing".

Anyways op, I'll tell you the bitter truth. The way your sister is, will be totally different after her relationship experiences. It'll change her. This generation is poluted badly. Normally, relationship only happens when you're ready to marry, if not why would you enter something that you ain't prepared for. Most guyz use relationship to have uncountable sex, while the girl enjoys biling...no better gain.

Advice your sister to be focused and pursue her goals and dreams. Everything has TIME. You don't do relationship if you're not ready for marriage. She 19, still young and has her life ahead of her.... Just let her be focused in life, then later when she wanna settle down, relationship talk can come in.....She should rather make friends for now.


NOTE : once your sister tastes dick, just know that there's no going back and who knows if she would even encounter so many heartbreak and become damaged like all these feminists. Relationship without sex is hard just incase u wanna argue.



As our Ancestors would say "There is time for everything in life and being focused and determined is key to success".

This guy is a pussy ass nigga. Seeking unnecessary attention like a woman. As if he would die if he had responded in their DMs rather than coming to post nonsense.

If we humans decide to hustle for ourselves without helping each other, this world wouldn't have existed a long time ago... The spirit of humanity is what keeps us moving forward. No matter how good or stable you re, you will always need help... And help is gotten from friends and family, hardly from stranger.

I always say that once in awhile act broke so that you'll know those that genuinely like you cos some friends are fake, useless and ready to publicly shame you when opportunity arises.


As our Ancestors would say "True Friendship is one of the greatest gift one can ever have, unfortunately its very rare"

See his teeth like vampire . He try sha at least he didn't marry someone older than his grandma.

I no go congratulate am sha...Mama wey dey pay for boys in the street, e reach ur turn u steal am to yourself.
No be say she dey make am happy ohh, na the greencard dey make am happy .


As our Ancestors would say "Marry who makes u happy".

God delivered u from bondage and you get mind dey create post on why you dey miss your slave chains . Chaii, you don't even know what God has done for you. That monthly salary wey u dey give your babe, use am buy drinks celebrate your freedom from bondage with your friends and thank God.

You're luck because u haven't even married her, if not na bastards children u for train. She did what most Nigerian ladies do(goes for the highest bidder) .


As our Ancestors would say "If only we know what God does for us, we wouldn't even ask for more".

You don't need our advise jor, make move. Use your 3 months salary and give her so that she'll love you .






As our Ancestors would say "Never argue with a simp, cos they'll always learn their lesson the hard way".

You didn't pay any bride price on her head yet you wanna take the child away from her? .
Since you feel she's the reason behind your reckless failures in life, i also feel you shouldn't be part of the son born by the evil mother who you think is the reason for your spiritual problem. You met someone online who guys ain't even sure of her health status yet you Bleep without CD. Error 1!!!



You're just deceiving yourself . When you drop prick inside kpekus u no tell us, she born for you u no tell us, she even accomodated u after the delivery u no tell us, when u even pursued her out of your house stylishly u no tell us. It is now that she has decided to do what every reasonable woman will do, that u now decided to tell us....And u have the guts to come here and claim you're the father .

If she was the cause of your problem, after that sex, instantly your life will collapse but yet you were still traveling, visiting and spending.After several months, you're now saying she's your cause because you don't like her again but looking for a reason to push her away.



As our Ancestors would say "An unwise man will always find excuse and justify his failure and foolishness".

Why he no go dey get plenty money?? . All these girls are nothing but leeches. All girls have price. Na why most men dey always spend but if you get sense you go take without paying , afterall not all goods are bought.

Ever since i stopped spending on woman, i have been doing fine. Now i know why most men dey always broke, hardly moving forward. Because of WOMAN who dem wan impress.

As a man, you're only liable to spend on your family especially your mother. Even wives today sef dey do hookup for their own husband. No house keeping money, No sex... Very useless people.



As our Ancestors would say "Only a WonderFOOL man spend on a woman to impress her or win her Love".

Why won't she laugh?? When she knows that the marital vow is a scam and a joke hence the laughter .


When something seems serious or intense, hardly will you see the person laugh. People only laugh when something sounds like a joke to them

As our Ancestors would say "Laughter can never mingle with seriousness".

One man down!!! . But why did the girl use a whole bucket of paint to design her face?

One of the reasons why most men don't go far in life is because of their foolishness. See as someone up there is justifying the SIMPle man's action like as if kneeling down keeps a marriage.


Most men make mistakes. Nobody says you shouldn't marry. But it's best if you are financially, emotionally and physically capable of handling things and if as a man, your life isn't planned and balanced and you're thinking of marriage then you're a wonderFOOL man.



As our Ancestors would say "The ability to kneel and beg for a union that both parties benefit from, is another way of promoting stupidity and foolishness".

Don't let anyone here especially the women to tell you shii. You did well guy . Women are very selfish, most of them only care about themselves that's all.

If you're nice as a guy, you'll suffer. On my birthday my femalefriend gave me those #100 beat as gift lol, i thanked her and even wish her well. When her own reach, i just messaged her and added #100 airtime. Them no even born her well to ask me why.




As our Ancestors would say "What goes around, comes around".

You're just deceiving yourself, you better don't let your enemies deceive you. Some of you will just wake up to post rubbish . I don't know why e dey always sweet una to post rubbish.

Nigerian ladies that we all know MONEY is the only language they understand. Plus no matter how intelligent or smart you think you are, you can never ever understand a woman. No be the same gender wey dey think like fish?? Na this people u wan come study? Joker!



As our Ancestors would say "False facts is another way of making people look foolish".

I still don't know why some people go dey do cultism, very useless set of folks. This is why i dey always stay lowkey, make few friends and mind my business.
As it is, i always stay on my lane, hardly will i have issue with someone who isn't my pal. Me wey dey cool and calm but yet i still get gun for house with license though and even my security man sef get im own.... I pray to God everyday to guide my step but yet i no go fit loose guard cos most Nigerians dey no well.



As our Ancestors would say "A wise man never loose gaurd".

Women love attention ehh . They don't care whether they say rubbish or not, they just love to chase clout. Some of them would just wake up and just think of something to post so that they can trend. And if you notice closely, almost everything they post has to involve men one way or the other and you will still see them acting like they don't need us . Very confused set of people.

On the other hand, why would someone even think of marrying two wives? I rather have babes plenty at my doorstep than marry recklessly.


As our Ancestors would say "Not everything sweet is sweet because when the sweetness becomes too much, it kills".

Just imagine entering bondage and still using vow to lock yourself in it. Chaii, SIMPle men don suffer sha . The groom is an Idihot . Instead of the father to be happy that a young man is ready to carry her shame away and save him the stress of heavy load, but instead he's acting like he's doing the groom a Favour because he's marrying his daughter. Marriage only favours women. We get nothing more aside children that we can even get easily nowadays afterall, our ladies are cheerful givers .

So many men don't know their worth and that's why they SIMP anyhow. And that's y they'll continue to suffer till they get sense.


As our Ancestors would say "If only SIMPle men knew their worth, alot of nonsense would have been avoided".

All of you are just deceiving yourselves .
Its not a crime to Bleep when dating but if na marriage then they should wait abi?? Something that is already used and valueless?? Y'all are hypocrites .


No sex before marriage is only for VIRGiNS and there must be proof to that. Not some random, useless collectoral damage claiming saint after fucking the whole community.



As our Ancestors would say "Only an idiot buys a car without testing because he was told that it's brand new tear rubber".

Why don't you calm down?? To what will it profit you to keep something special for so so long only to give in it to someone who will still dump you and see less of you . Why una dey always think like fish?? How were u able to keep it till now sef?

And even if you intend dashing it away, why a married man?? You can ask slawomir or Boogyman . They are good at what they do..

I dount you're a virgin, your mentality is too low.


As our Ancestors would say "One of the most dangerous set of women are those who knowingly sleep with other people's husband".