piggyyeasterner:
Sinadu flat headed go and pay your debt.
And they claim that they are all billionaires there SMH

Ur obviously an annoying illiterate!

Ablemed:
How I got saved from Disaster - A short story

Last year, I met this girl looked good, very tall but I was actually attracted to the big back side. so as a real nigga I was able to approach and collect her number and then we got so close that we in a short while got into a relationship, not up to 3weeks she got complain of how bad her phone and screen was but cuz I liked her and was not really bucked up I had to sha send 10k to my MT5 account (my plan was to try growing the money atleast so I can use whatever I made to get her what she wanted, funny enough I was still learning how to trade) and with the motivation and determination of making this girl happy, guys I grew this money to bout $142 in one month and then I withdrew to goan buy her the phone, as I was bout going I recounted how I've not given my mum 30k bfr and here am I going to spend 60k on a random girl. I thank god my head n cerebrum sparked I just changed my mind and transferred 25k straight to my mum's account. Mama got surprised and prayed for me. my people since the beginning of this year my 3odds never cut o same with my trading, always green. I just got ignoring the girl since then but deep down I love this girl Soo much. it's really so hard being a guy

that is my story. someone help me shout alleluyah cuz devil did not use this girl to frustrate Reno omokri and shola's efforts on my Life to have sense

You took a decent decision which you should never regret, please.

For the girl, simply meet her and tell her that you can't afford that amount. And most probably offer what u can to support her with like N10, 000, or N20, 000. Then watch her attitude, if she's grateful then promise yourself to work harder and support her more.

Giving to a woman is to me about her attitude. If she's the grateful type and supportive in showing understanding of how the economy is affecting men, then give her more attention, if not, my guy Zaaaaaap like a Zoom Car!

I hate ladies with Entitlement Mentality.

I didn't die before we met, and i won't die after dumping your hungry ass!

oursnail:
If Jagabam open up or not, president Buhari already know that Asiwaju is Next chance President of Federal Republic of Nigeria. Even 80% of Nigeria upper Chamber (Senators ) and lower chamber (House of Representatives) already addressed Tinubu As Mr President.
It's no more news.

UNA MUMU NEVER DO?!!!

Shetemi12:
Me and my 178 family members are voting for you. Just have that in mind TINUBU

MUMUs have started again �.


Repeating the same errors of 2015, all for food or for outright sentimental foolishness!

Xscape1993:
Any living thing that is wishing Nigerians OLD CREATURE as president after the terrible political mistake of 2015 deserves death sentence by hanging. I will only advocate for a young and vibrant aspirant from any part of the country as president. Why are some Nigerian youths so emptied? Tribal, religion and political sentiments have blinded our eyes from seeing the pains of others in this country.

MY BRO, MANY NIGERIAN YOUTH ARE STILL BLIND AND DUMB TO AN ANNOYING LEVELS.


I WILL FIGHT THE SHEGE SOCALLED JAGABAN TO HIS FAILURE IN THIS PRESIDENTIAL BID.

GOD FORBID BAD THINGS A SECOND TIME!

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Sounding like a pure business woman tho.."they are patronising the work of God"
When is Jesus really gonna come back cos the world he left is upside down.. people die on a daily still you are saying he is coming back...
Is it that Jesus intentionally created people to die so as to keep watching or this is some movie and we are the actors and actresses..or this is some "fantasy story"

IT IS FOLLY TO RESPOND TO CERTAIN PEOPLE.

CharleyBright:
Na wa o.
GEJ should not allow himself to be used as a pawn by Northern politicians.
The Northerns are strategic in their plan to retain power as soon as possible and GEJ candidacy under APC is a good strategy for them.
Firstly, under the constitution, GEJ can only do 4yrs as he already did 4yrs earlier.
If GEJ gets the presidency, he will have to step aside in 2027, and the North will want power again on the basis that they gave the South power thru GEJ and the power must go back to North in 2027.
Technically, the South would have been surcharged 4yrs of the tenure.
This is convenient and very apt for Northern politicians.

Secondly, a GEJ presidency would mean a Southern Christian President and a Northern Muslim VP. This is Very good for the Northern Muslim power bloc, as contrary to a Tinubu Presidency which will imply a Southern Muslim President and a Northern Christian VP, which technically cuts off the Northern Muslim from government. So the Northern power bloc will very likely opt for a GEJ or Osibanjo Presidency rather than Tinubu Presidency.

One of the best & most reasonably spelt out political permutations od the North oligarchy in this topic so far!

For me:

This attempt by the North to bring in GEJ is pure rubbish!!!

My major annoyance is for him, GEJ, to even attempt to accept this rubbish and senseless politicking!

Am so short of words that I can't even write all that is in my annoyed mind.

How can GEJ be foolish this second time with the northerners!

Why would you allow yourself to be used twice by the same fools who openly destroyed your legacies!

The best bet for him is to keep up with his international assignments aa he's currently doing.

ME, AM STILL ANGRY AT GEJ FOR D STUPID GENTLEMANLINESS OF HANDING OVER POWER TO THIS WICKED, HEARTLESS JIHADIST BIGOT WHO HAS RENDERED FAMILIES AND OUR CREATIVE YOUTHS IN A SORRY SITUATION!


MAY GOD NOT ALLOW HIM DIE WITHOUT ALL NIGERIANS SEEING HIM REAPING THE REWARDS OF ALL HIS EVIL IN GOVERNMENT.

AMEN!!!

hatchy:
How did Africans become so foolish to this extent. These foreign religions have made the African man more foolish than when he traded his own into slavery.
The white man who owns and brought this religion to him doesn't take it to the extreme like this.
Just in the other thread, Alfa, a religious leader was caught exhuming dead bodies for rituals.
African Pastors especially Nigerians uses all manner of tricks,brainwashing and voodoo to subdue their followers and rob them of their hard earned money.

Why am I even complaining, many people here will rain abuses on you soon as you call the so called god of men fraudsters. Afterall millions if not billions of naira will be raked in by pastors this January as followers submit their salaries and earnings as first fruits....Mumu.
Pastors living large while our people live like paupers abusing Buhari and his gang of thieves for their woes. One dumb Mumy G.O who has the authorisation to announce who goes to hell fire and haven have now turned her church to strip club. She is now tweaking her buttocks without panties thereby seducing the menfolk in her church. Instead of the members to rebuke her or even beat her up, they went into frenzy shouting for more.

APT SUMMARY OF RELIGIOUS BULSHITS IN NAIJA!

Theonlysonofher:
While others are celebrating the new year today I am here sobbing because my marriage is at the verge of breaking.

I loved my wife with all my heart but I don't think I will ever forgive her for what she has done to my mother.

I am the only child of my mother. I have three sisters on my father's side.
I am married with two beautiful daughters. my mother suffered from diabetes, bp and high cholesterol. She is on a special diets strictly no salt or too much sugar.

She came to stay with me because the person who was taking care of her wasn't doing her job properly so I had to bring her to my house so I will be monitoring her health.

I have a house help who prepares all her meals with less salt and she also makes sure she takes her medicines on time without fail.
Everything was fine, my mother is not a troublesome person, she gets on well with my wife and most of the time she is in her room resting.

On the 20th of December my house help had traveled to the village to see her people and she will be back in January 4th so my wife and I have to take care of my mother making sure that her foods is less salty and medicines on time.

Since I am always working so my wife had to take most of the responsibility. It is only for a week and fews days until the house help is back.

She had agreed to take care of my mother during this periods of time and I thought everything was fine but I noticed my mother become distant and tired unlike her and I had no idea that she was actually dying and I have never suspected that my wife was maltreating her.

So Thursday being 30th December I was at work when my wife called and asked me to join her at the hospital because mama had a seizure.

I rushed to the hospital and my mother was in a coma state and I asked her what happened to mama, she said mama woke up that morning complaining about shortage of breath and she told her to go back to bed and rest hoping she will be fine by the time she will wake up.
Only for mama to fall off the ground and started shaking with foam coming out of her mouth.

I was in panicked I couldn't stop praying for my mother to get better and I didn't leave the hospital, my wife went home to take care of the children because she has left them with the neighbour and I had spend all night prayer vigil at my mother's bedside and glory be to God my mother woke up yesterday being 31st but the doctor report was not a good news for me.

Actually my mother was poisoned with salt and guess who did it? My beloved wife couldn't bothered to cook a different meal for my mother, she used to feed her the same meal we ate knowing full well that mama cannot eat the same foods as us because we are salt lovers, especially my wife, she love eating too much salt which I have warned her over and over again because it is also not good for her health.

I confronted her, she said she only fed mama the same meals we ate twice only but according to the doctor it was more than two times.

I am hurt that my wife doesnt love my mother or treat her like her own mother because if she truly loved her like her own mother she would have put her diet on consideration and not allow her to eat the same meal as us. I love her mother and u treat her like my own mother.

It pains me a lot when I remember five years ago when her mother was in coma state and she was staying with her at the hospital, she is her only daughter amongst three boys.

I used to visit them everyday after work, I will bring foods and I have even washed her mother clothes with my own hands, I have done with love because she is my mother. I called my mother in law this morning and I have informed her about what her daughter has done to my mother and she couldn't stop apologising and she is very disappointed with my wife.

But see how she has repaid me by hurting my own mother.

She has apologised to me and to my mother, I have forgave her but I don't think I can stay with her again because one day if I become sick or bedridden she might treat me the same way.

Honestly speaking I am not even at home with her and the kids, I am at my cousin brother's house since yesterday I left the hospital and my mother is still in the hospital because she needs more treatment and hopefully she will recover by next week.

I don't feel like going home today and I don't know when I'll go home but I will always be there for my girls because they are the best thing that ever happened to me.

What other advice would you give me on this situation? What are your thoughts? Thank you for reading all I love this community.

Obviously, i dont doubt your story. If i read a sincere story I'd know, this time your story is so real because i can fully relate with it, due to personal experiences.

I am still wondering why women would behave like saints when in courtship but release the mindless Demons in them in marriage, ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY GIVE U KIDS, WORST WHEN THEY HAVE SONS!

Just why are Good men ending up with very wicked unappreciative women as wives?!!!!

Well, pls forgive her but assert yourself more as the man of the house.

Also, be careful!

[quote author=mariovito post=108981528

It took me a long to conclude that the states in Nigeria not conducive for me to raise my kids include:

1. EDO STATE.
2. DELTA STATE.
3. OGUN STATE.
4. LAGOS STATE.
5. ANAMBRA STATE
6. ETC


These states have many evil young people who don't think any qualms to hate and kill or hurt humans for any provocation for Money.

Money rituals, Yahoo plus plus, diverse human evils, robbery, kidnappings, Gf/Bf evils, Lesbianism/Homo, etc.

I still see thesw states as better than the afore-listed :

1. ENUGU
2. CALABAR
3. ABUJA/FCT
4. ONDO
5. ILORIN
6 NIGER
7
ETC

I dey Asaba, make person gi me location.[/quote]

Until we eliminate or retire this current government, we will never have peace of mind. Wether PMB or Tinubu and their cohorts, anything APC is purely evil and senseless to the human normal ways of life.

Lets all join hands together and eliminate them, come 2023, no Mercy no Pretence, No Fear!

We must chart our own destiny with our on hands!

SAY NO TO EVIL DEMONIC GOVERNMENT /APC!!!

tititaiwo44:
One word- in the new year, set your gaze towards earning in foreign currency. Our naira is on a long steep.

And also trade in BITCOIN/Crypto.

Rapmoney:
I have a friend who is not a member of this forum. He's been seeking advice from circle of friends as to which business to invest in as a new year is about to start. His budget is 600k. Below are the choices:

1. Music production studio
2. Autorevamp shop (panel beating and spraying)
3. Driving school
4. Pig farming

He has skill in the first and second businesses above. Which do you think would be more lucrative and fulfilling?

Thanks as we expect good advice from brothers and sisters here.

Pls mods, help move to front page.

Well for me, i support

1. Auto revamp
2. Pig farm

Poor blending, but u tried very well sha.

I score you 66%

Idiot instead of you to focus on cooking a delicious meal all you was concerned was to take pictures so you could share well you got what you deserve... olodo oloriburuku

Shege Nobody! U no dey hide your mind, like me O!

How person go dey think of satisfying SM while preparing meals?!

Hahaha

Kolawole2130:
We have been married for 3 years now. We stay in a self contained apartment. He tries as much as possible to pay his bills while I support him too with paying the bills.

Since we married, anytime I talk about childbearing he gets angry. Like he may not talk to me for days. I will be the one to come and beg him later. He says his not ready to start bearing kids that he wants to have enough money to take care of the kids. He says he doesnt want his children to suffer.

I am so pissed off, I am 32 now and he is 35 and he earns 100k while I earn 70k. Is that not enough to raise a family. Plus age is not on my side he doesnt look like he will be ready in a year time again. Am already getting tired and people around me are getting married. No body can even talk to him. His mind is made up already.

The last fight we had he said i can go and divorce him if i cannot wait till he is ready. He is busy reading for professional exam instead of him to be thinking of how to produce seed. Professional exam that will last another 2 years. His family can't even talk to him. Am just frustrated already.

YOU ARE A WOMAN, LURE HIM TO DEPOSIT HIS SEED. YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO!

Never too late to be late!

But at this age and despite all his home video successes, i dont really want to applaud this achievement so outrightly.

KOK is close to 60 years. Well, congrats to one of the most respected Nollywood actors sha!

mutantninja:

If that will solve the problem then why not? All that curse brainwashing is bullchit... I think OP should go violent on him and give him the beating of his life so he can have some sense... he’s a man for Christ sake , can’t be behaving like an animal

Yes both are now men, but kindly imagine your son Tying you up for WHATEVER reasons!!!


Man, some things are never done! No matter what! You don't use the same stick for flogging a silly son to flog a silly father!

The circumstances are never the same!
Parents are to get optimum respect and honor from their children, no debating this fact!
You probably don't believe in religion or spirituality, but LIFE lS ESSENTIALLY SPIRITUAL!

The curse you will incur if you disregard or dishonor your parents can never be cured by anyone else but you parents forgiveness and God alone!

There are other wiser options as advice like involving his elders or Uncles/Aunts/Boss, The Traditional Rulers of the area where they live, or even the Police/Security forces to intervene in the parental abuse.

Please i will advise you to be very careful about how you treat the elderly. You may take this advice and may not, its your life!

My life is so on a roller coaster already, i respect and regard my elderly, and i definitely almost worshiped my parents before their passing away, and despite their faults individually, God helped mw with the wisdom to disregard their personal faults and support them in every way i can!

Vyerima:
Sorry Bro, try to get elders to talk to him but if he refuses to listen to stop bullying his family or beating his wife. Tie him up and put him in a room for one week, don't beat him ooo. Call him to order by the time he spends 7 days in confinement his head go correct.

SILLY GENERATION!!!

You advise a Son to tie up HIS FATHER?!!!

Respect for parents has been thrown to the dogs!
Maybe you don't have any iota of respect for your own parents, but the right morality and African morals DOES NOT ALLOW YOU TO INSULT OR DO SUCH ARRANT BULSHIT TO YOUR PARENTS!!!!

People who bore you, cared for your growing up and paid for your education and trainings?!!!!

YOU WANT TO INCURE THE KIND OF CURSE THAT YOU WILL NEVER KNOW THE GENESIS OF, AND GOD HELP YOU, IF THEY'RE ALREADY DEAD BEFORE YOU REALIZE WHERE YOUR FOLLY IS FROM!!!

NEVER insult, curse or dishonor your elderly not to say the least, YOUR PARENTS!!!!
YOUR LIFE WILL NEVER END WELL, AND PROGRESS WILL DEFINITELY BE FAR FROM YOU, AND ID YOU PROGRESS, IT WILL BE WITH DUE PAINS AND FRUSTRATION, NO JOY!

Be very careful!

OP: NEVER MIND THIS VERY SILLY ADVISE.

Phillipsburg:
It's a long read because I had to pour out my mind wholeheartedly. Please endeavor to read through.



I so much hate my dad right now. And even my mom for supporting him. I can always remember how unfortunate it is for me to find myself in this family in the first place. Infact, not having a family is better than this living hell I found myself because these people are bent on ruining my future with their own life.

My father is the person who will be fighting with my mom in a brutally physical manner where they'd be running after themselves in the street after almost stripping themselves naked. He's the one who doesn't know how to reprimand his children except by using curses. He's the one who would go out and come back drunk and turn everywhere upside down. All these I've endured for almost every part of my life and my mom has refused to leave him saying because she has kids for him.
I know some of you people will start saying all manner of things about how you would have cherished your parents if you had one blah blah blah but this is hell. It's choking me I feel like dying.

I just met a girl who happened to be my girlfriend and we've been together for some time now and my father is help bent on separating us because he doesn't want me to marry close to him so that there wouldn't be clashes between him and the mother of the girl because he feels the woman is a violent person.
As they've turned the house into a place of sorrow, i couldn't think of spending even a minute inside the house. I usually spend the evening with this girl at her place and return when everyone at home must have slept. The next thing was for him to start cursing at the girl and even threatening to go to her house and throw tantrums.
I just want to get out of all these because it's choking me. I can't breathe. I feel like I'm losing my mind because of everything. The emotional torture I feel whenever they start fighting. How angry I feel when he starts cursing everyone and shouting at us in front of the house and disgracing everyone of us throughout the whole neighborhood. The way he go about gossiping and talking bad about his own children and wife to outsiders and the whole neighborhood. I'm sick of everything.

I just wish I was born without a family because I'm even afraid of imbibing his behaviors and acting like him when I later settle down. I will never forgive him for making me become who I don't want to be.

I sincerely personally fully understand what you are going through.
I also went through some of it, especially with fighting siblings that seem to hate each other up to this moment, despite the death of our parents.

But what i will advice you is sincerely to hold strongly unto whatever faith you proffer.

BE A STRONG FAITH PERSON. LEARN ABOUT YOUR FAITH AND GET PEACE FEOM IT, GOD CAN GIVE PEACE THAT OUR PARENTS, FAMILY, FRIENDS CAN NEVER GIVE.

By the way, IF YOU HATE YOUR PARENTS THAT WOULD BE YOUR OWN UNDOING!

BE VERY CAREFUL OF WHAT YOU CRITICIZE, IT MAY BECOME YOUR EXPERIENCE.

LIFE IS FUNNY.

Wish you the best dear.

Holywizard:
Should I tell u what happened?
The guy was direct with ur ex. He quoted an amount of money for sex and ur ex couldn't hold herself. She might probably be into coded hookup as well. I know few working class ladies doing such.
I once had quickie, with another person's girlfriend at a hotel where I lodged few years ago. She was lodged with her so called man at the same hotel. We met at the hotel bar and our body chemistry matched. I was in my room when she chatted me up that I should open my door that she was coming. Na so we take run quickie and her man didn't know.
The truth is that ladies are always having one nonsense imaginary crushes on new faces most especially if they think that he has money or also good looking

Exactly! This happens so normally now.
It's a social media influenced behavior.

SmellySperm:

Fellow Comrade, $10k go run am for us na.
3'some shiit

$10k, chai, na investment?!
Lol

SmellySperm:
Sexy MILF. Her a$$ is getting thicker on her "tales by moonlight"video. I wouldn't mind getting my own share of the coochie

Comrade, we are in this Fantasy together!

Make we arrange her na. Na $$$$ go do am!

A well fried Chicken with one good Red Wine bottle is more important and moee exciting than this one around me.


Mcheww, people no just get sense.

Yeyebrity wey very soon una go start to dey contribute money for for different problems caused by their lack of self control now.

No mind their lives at all!

Abeg make them flex joor! We wey our wives just lock us up for house in the name of Christmas with Family!

If i see this kind thing for my area i go escape like Secondary school boy to party O!

Life is good when you are still young joor, and better when you are young & cam afford every every!

bati007:
Looking at the picture that they were handed that Marriage Certificate .....

Little will they know it was a Death Certificate.

I keep telling people, marriage is not by force.

If Anger and Fighting has started better to separate before Life is Lost.

RIP to both of them.

They never saw it coming.

Just my thoughts, but nobody would ever know the day and what circumstances would lead to his/her demise, only God knows.

May we die at good old age as good Christians.

Abeg, if ur not a Christian pls just avoid my comments. Thank you, in advance!

Any girl of my gf that crushed om me, and dare, i go Bleep am wella, no dulling!

In fact, the prospect dey even increase my hard on better!!!

Ive done like 4 different friends, to d best of my memory, and was very happy i did!

Who get any gf? Remember what Naira Marley said: No be your gf, na just your turn now!