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700k 3-bedroom apartment. Lagos. |
In line with recent directives issued by the Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC), all Registrars are now mandated to transfer qualifying unclaimed dividends to designated accounts maintained by the Debt Management Office (DMO), in accordance with the provisions of the Finance Act 2020 and the establishment of the Unclaimed Funds Trust Fund (UFTF). As such, all Registrars have transferred the following categories of unclaimed dividends in their Registry: A. All unclaimed dividends outstanding for a period of six (6) years but less than twelve (12) years as at December 31, 2020; and B. All unclaimed dividends that have remained outstanding for six (6) years and above, accumulated between January 1, 2021 and June 10, 2025. This transfer is in full compliance with the relevant regulatory requirements and will be effected accordingly. Please 🙏 does that mean that dividend cannot be claimed again? |
phumgab:Funmi tell una MD they should increase the salary they are offering. |
atobs4real:Be optimistic and not pessimistic. |
Onlinegist While your critique focuses on realism and character development, one could argue that "To Kill a Monkey" is a fictional work meant to entertain and spark discussion, not strictly adhere to real-world logic . From this viewpoint: - The character of "Teacher" and the conflict involving him could be seen as plot devices to drive tension and character development, rather than strictly realistic portrayals. - Efe's portrayal as a brilliant but struggling tech expert could reflect the personal struggles many innovators face, even if it doesn't perfectly align with real-life expectations. - Oboz's character, while not a perfect representation of a real mafia boss, serves the narrative purpose of highlighting the dangers of greed and poor leadership. This perspective emphasizes the storytelling aspects of the film, suggesting that while realism is important, it's not the only lens through which to evaluate "To Kill a Monkey" . |
Kemi didn’t fail to “show us what they could do instead” because maybe that wasn't the story she wanted to tell. Efe is representative of the hardworking, brilliant Nigerian youth, yes—but he’s also a metaphor for what happens when brilliance lacks guidance, systems fail, and desperation replaces direction. The tragedy is intentional: it’s meant to be frustrating. We don’t get “solutions” because in real life, most Efes are navigating a similar fog. As for the women, maybe the point was to show everyone’s hypocrisy and complexity—not just Efe’s. His wife taking the offshore money after condemning the source is the contradiction of survival. Anita might have had her own agency and motivations we weren’t shown because, again, this isn’t a moral tale—it’s a maze. Even Mo’s seemingly shallow investigation could be Kemi’s jab at institutions that don’t really care about truth—only headlines and arrests. The same applies to the lack of resolution with his sleazy supervisor or his daughter’s choices: they are threads left loose, like in life. Yes, it could have been executed better—more depth, more inner dialogue, more clarity. But maybe what you call “poor execution” is actually deliberate discomfort. Maybe To Kill a Monkey isn't a guidebook—it’s a warning. |
Emmanuel30a:Name the assets. |
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Happy new week to all. Let me share this: In this market ehm, during period when results (financial reports) are released, if you do not do your own analysis of your identified financial report, then get ready to take whatever analysis is given to you by another party oh for better for worse. I have seen people downplaying the bad in their analysis of a worst result, while some waterdown the good in a best results. I have seen people castigate fundamentals analysis (analysis of the financial and operational health of a company) when the report doesn't go their way and in no distance time praise to high heaven, when the report favours them. I have seen people go mute when their high flying recommendations of a stock published a not so good report, as well as others, that continue to give excuses for a poor result (you would think they are part of the management). I have seen people use jokes, innuendos, bashing of opposing analysis and other deceptive and evasive tactics on a stock with bad fundamental, so that the market would not punish the bad performance of a company and/or reward the good performance of another. I have seen sensational headlines and contents in newspapers about company report that doesn't reflect the complete or true picture. I have noticed that some wonderful results of some companies are not even recognize or analyzed. The best case scenario such company could have is just some passively passing comment. I have seen the price movement of various stocks not following the expected financial report due to high level of sentimental, hope and/or manipulation of deceit. I have seen report analysis that are quite objective and others that are quite subjective. I have seen some analyst bash and tick to death a company would not so good financial report and in other scenario pamper and treat another company with same not so good financial report. I have seen management of company window dress what would had been a calamitous result or introduce financial principles and calculations that would confuse the investing public. NB: Always have this at the back of your mind, most people who have a stock in his/her portfolio that just released a very poor financial report would find it *difficult to recommend a sell.* Some would after fews days would start touting buy, buy, buy while looking for exit points for their benefit (Humans forget easily with so many thing in our mind). Also, most people who have a stock in his/her portfolio that just released a very good financial report would find it *easy to recommend a buy.* Some would after fews days would start touting sell, sell, sell, when they want to accumulate more for their benefit (Humans forget easily with so many thing in our mind). These and others I have seen. What have you seen? Which have you taken or not taken because you didn't due your own due diligence? May this week be favorable to us all. |
Great investors, I need your candid opinion on this issue. Presently my net portfolio in stock is #20m from initial investment of #2.8m. I sold my charisma car on Nov '24.presently l footwagen around.l intended to sell part of my holding in stock to buy Toyota matrix worth of #5m. The issue now is should I hold on till Sept,25 because of the bull season or l should go ahead to buy the car. |
Back then at Asaba, I have this friend of mine called Franklin, dude came to my house one Sunday morning requesting that I drop my keys for him to use my place on Monday morning to entertain one of his numerous Female friends because his girlfriend is still at his apartment. I said no problem, and showed him where to get a condom should incase. He came with the lady, and after their time together, she left. When I returned from work, I noticed the bedsheets was scattered, so I quickly changed it, then I went to the kitchen, I was shocked and angry at what I saw there. My last tuber of Yam is what they prepared to entertain themselves and couldn't dispose the yam peel properly. I went straight to his house, I saw him drinking Chi Exotic juice on top my yam when he consume. I just enter he kitchen, carry 5 packs of Noddles from the carton and 4 eggs. He just dey laugh as I dey go. |
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richmond500:Many Christians in Nigeria experience setbacks not because faith doesn’t work, but because: 1. Christianity never promised a problem-free life—it promises strength through trials. 2. Nigeria’s harsh economy affects everyone, including believers, regardless of how prayerful they are. 3. Faith without practical action (skills, planning, discipline) leads to frustration. 4. Many churches overemphasize miracles and breakthroughs, neglecting the importance of long-term growth and strategy. 5. People going to the altar often do so out of emotional pain and desperation, not necessarily spiritual failure. The church is still relevant, but faith must be combined with wisdom, skills, and practical life choices to see real transformation. |
it is noble to promote sexual discipline and fidelity, especially from a religious or moral standpoint, framing all premarital or non-traditional sexual behavior as purely immoral or sinful is overly simplistic. Human sexuality is complex and influenced by a combination of biology, psychology, culture, religion, and personal values. Here’s a more nuanced perspective: 1. Sexual Activity During Courtship Isn't Always Immoral – Context Matters In many parts of the world, more than 70% of couples live together and are sexually active before marriage, according to Pew Research and WHO studies on global relationship trends. Research by the University of Denver shows that couples who communicate openly about sex and compatibility before marriage often have better marital satisfaction long term—not necessarily the opposite. Not every relationship that involves premarital sex is immoral, abusive, or unserious. Many are committed and end in long-lasting marriages. 2. Suppressing Sexuality Can Lead to Psychological and Marital Problems A study by the Journal of Sex Research found that people raised in overly restrictive environments regarding sex often suffer from sexual guilt, anxiety, and dissatisfaction in marriage. Waiting for marriage without sex can lead to sexual incompatibility—a major reason why many Christian marriages, especially in conservative cultures, face divorce despite both partners being virgins at wedding. 3. Paternity Fraud is a Real Issue – But It's Not As Widespread as Assumed Data on paternity fraud is often exaggerated. A 2006 study published in the Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health found that only 1–3% of paternity cases worldwide involved deception. Painting women as common perpetrators of paternity fraud fuels misogyny and distrust, which are contrary to biblical love and unity in marriage. 4. Marriage Is Not a Cure for Adultery or Immorality Being married doesn’t automatically prevent infidelity. According to the General Social Survey (U.S.), about 16% of married individuals admit to cheating on their spouse at some point. What reduces infidelity isn’t just marriage or religious morality—but good communication, emotional connection, and mutual respect. 5. Sexual Morality Is Culturally Relative What is considered sexually immoral in some cultures is normal in others. For example: In many African and Middle Eastern societies, premarital sex is taboo. But in most Western cultures, it’s considered a normal part of adult dating and bonding. Even within Christianity, there is no single biblical verse that states "kissing, touching, or all forms of sex before marriage is sin"—though sexual immorality is clearly condemned, the exact definition has varied over time. While Christian values rightly encourage self-control and fidelity, blanket condemnation without understanding context or the realities of modern life can be harmful. Instead of shame and fear, Christian teachings should promote: Grace, guidance, and growth over judgment. Sexual education alongside spiritual discipline. A balanced view that doesn’t promote gender stereotypes or unnecessary guilt. In this world, what young people need is truth with compassion, not fear-driven purity culture. Yes, pray for grace—but also educate, empower, and communicate. Because God's grace is not just to avoid sin, but also to understand truth, live in wisdom, and walk in love. ebubeson: |
The hardest lessons they’ve learned from men: 1. Love alone is not enough "He loved me deeply, but that didn’t stop him from being emotionally immature and avoidant. I learned that love needs to come with responsibility, communication, and consistency." 2. If a man wants to, he will "I kept making excuses for why he didn’t call, didn’t commit, or wasn’t showing up. Turns out, he just didn’t want to enough. That lesson hurt." 3. Men can compartmentalize emotions differently "He moved on a week after we broke up like I meant nothing. That shattered me until I realized men are taught to suppress, not necessarily feel less." 4. Silence is an answer "He stopped calling, stopped texting, no explanations. I kept hoping for closure. His silence was the closure. That was brutal." 5. Don’t ignore the red flags just because you’re wearing rose-colored glasses "He told me who he was early — I just thought I could change him or love him enough to heal him." 6. A man’s potential is not your responsibility "I saw his potential, supported him through everything, built him up — then he left me for someone else. I learned the hard way not to date potential." |
Your argument is detailed, informed, and rooted in personal experience—which makes it powerful. But here’s where I disagree with some of your points while still respecting your insights: 1. “I call BS” on people not succeeding in Corporate Nigeria after working abroad. You’re absolutely right in pockets—especially in multinationals, oil and gas, or top-tier consulting firms where performance and pedigree can matter more than local politics. But this is not the norm for the majority of corporate Nigeria. Many people returning from abroad struggle not because they aren’t competent—but because the ecosystem values connections over capacity in many sectors. Outside of blue-chip companies like yours, recruitment is often opaque, biased, and favors the familiar. Even in oil and gas, how many people from abroad actually break into those high-paying roles without “insider links”? So yes—it’s possible to thrive coming back from abroad, but it’s not the average experience. For every person that breaks through, there are dozens who get frustrated out of the system. 2. “Who you know” vs “What you can do” You’re right that private companies want delivery. But the reality is that “who you know” opens the door, “what you can do” keeps you in. High-paying corporate roles in Nigeria are often a blend of competence + connection. Yes, people get fired for non-performance at the top, but many never get the chance to enter the room without strong networks. There's a reason why top business schools in Nigeria spend as much time on alumni networking as on curriculum. It's how the game is played. 3. “A lot of Nigeria’s issues are solved by getting a high-paying corporate job” That’s only true for a tiny fraction of Nigerians. Less than 5% of graduates land such roles. The massive unemployment rate and underemployment in Nigeria means high-paying corporate jobs are the exception, not the solution. Relying on corporate jobs as a solution to Nigeria’s problem is like saying "just win the lottery"—it’s possible, but not scalable. The structural problems remain: lack of SME support, weak institutions, bad public infrastructure, etc. 4. “People from abroad assimilate because they can get away with more” This point is valid but also troubling—and proves the system is broken. The fact that returnees can come and exploit loopholes, sexually harass, or take kickbacks without accountability is not an advantage. It’s a reflection of how unethical behavior is normalized. Many who return expecting professionalism are disillusioned by the culture of silence, abuse, and “smart corruption.” Not everyone wants to "game the system." And when they don’t conform, the system often chews them up. Finally, tou're absolutely right—some thrive in corporate Nigeria after returning from abroad. But that path isn’t as open, fair, or rewarding as it should be. For every CEO that welcomes returnees, there are 10 hiring managers who think “abroad people are too entitled.” And while the perks are real, the culture can be toxic, unpredictable, and unforgiving to people who don’t know how to play the game. So yes, Corporate Nigeria has potential. But for most returnees, it’s still a high-risk, high-friction gamble—unless they’re entering elite, networked circles like you described. GloriousGbola: |
Metrics4tea:Before ending the marriage, he should: Set boundaries and give her a chance to adjust. Be clear with what behaviors he will not tolerate again. Decide based on patterns, not emotions. Once trust is broken multiple times and she doesn’t change, then separation becomes a healthy choice. Let him know it’s okay to walk away from a marriage that feels unsafe, toxic, or disrespectful—after making honest efforts to resolve it. |
Firebox123:That statement is more “sense” than “nonsense” — but it depends on your values. Why it makes sense (emotional intelligence view): 1. Respect is foundational. A successful partner who belittles you, talks down at you, or constantly reminds you of your "lower" status will slowly destroy your self-worth. Without respect, even love begins to feel like a transaction or manipulation. 2. Peace of mind is underrated. An unemployed partner who genuinely respects, supports, and believes in you can bring emotional safety, which is priceless. 3. Success can change. Character rarely does. Today’s “unemployed” woman might be tomorrow’s CEO. But someone who lacks respect for you will only get worse as they gain more power, not better. Where it gets tricky: Respect alone is not enough — shared values, ambition, communication, and purpose also matter. If "unemployed" means no vision, no effort, and total dependency, that’s different. If "successful" means driven but emotionally toxic, that’s a red flag — not the success itself. Success without respect is oppression. Respect without success is potential. Both together? That’s partnership. So, yes — the original statement makes sense, especially if your peace, growth, and emotional well-being matter to you. |
Mizessy:I actually see Efe differently. I don’t think it’s fair to say he wasn’t accountable or didn’t have a plan. Efe was thrust into a brutal system where “morality” alone couldn’t guarantee survival. He wasn’t trying to be street-smart for show—he was adapting. And in a society like his, survival often demands compromising one’s values just to stay afloat. Saying he should have just “chosen a side” oversimplifies what was clearly a complex, soul-crushing situation. It's easy to judge from the outside, but real life isn’t black and white. Efe wasn’t greedy; he was desperate. Even the so-called plan to escape isn’t as simple as “relocate your family and start afresh.” With what visa? What job? What safety net? This is Nigeria we’re talking about. The system makes it almost impossible for honest people to thrive. Yes, he slipped. Yes, he lost himself. But instead of viewing him as a failed man, I see him as a symbol of how broken environments can fracture good people. And unlike many others, he tried to do right several times—he just didn’t have the power or privilege to follow through. We want our heroes clean and decisive. But maybe Efe’s indecision was the point. He reflects the average Nigerian youth—smart, talented, principled, but cornered into morally grey choices. Maybe the tragedy is not that he didn’t choose a side, but that the system never gave him one worth choosing. |
Your points are compelling, but To Kill a Monkey might not be about offering answers or moral clarity—it may be about mirroring chaos, exposing societal contradictions, and holding up a mirror to a broken system. Kemi didn’t fail to “show us what they could do instead” because maybe that wasn't the story she wanted to tell. Efe is representative of the hardworking, brilliant Nigerian youth, yes—but he’s also a metaphor for what happens when brilliance lacks guidance, systems fail, and desperation replaces direction. The tragedy is intentional: it’s meant to be frustrating. We don’t get “solutions” because in real life, most Efes are navigating a similar fog. As for the women, maybe the point was to show everyone’s hypocrisy and complexity—not just Efe’s. His wife taking the offshore money after condemning the source is the contradiction of survival. Anita might have had her own agency and motivations we weren’t shown because, again, this isn’t a moral tale—it’s a maze. Even Mo’s seemingly shallow investigation could be Kemi’s jab at institutions that don’t really care about truth—only headlines and arrests. The same applies to the lack of resolution with his sleazy supervisor or his daughter’s choices: they are threads left loose, like in life. Yes, it could have been executed better—more depth, more inner dialogue, more clarity. But maybe what you call “poor execution” is actually deliberate discomfort. Maybe To Kill a Monkey isn't a guidebook—it’s a warning. bukatyne: |
Calling the deployment of keke (tricycles) for fire-fighting a sign of development is deeply misleading and reflects how low the bar has been set for public service delivery in Nigeria. Let’s be factual: 1. Fire Response Needs Heavy Equipment: Fire outbreaks, especially in urban areas, require: High-capacity water tanks (minimum of 1,000–5,000 liters), - High-pressure pumps, - Hydraulic ladders for high buildings, - Oxygen tanks and protective suits. A keke can barely carry 200 liters of water. That’s not enough to douse a burning room, let alone a house or market. 2. The National Fire Statistics Show Scale of the Problem: Between 2016 and 2022, Nigeria recorded over 9,000 fire outbreaks across markets, homes, and government buildings (Federal Fire Service). Lagos alone reported 1,070 fire incidents in 2021, resulting in damages worth billions of naira. A major fire, like the Balogun Market fire, takes multiple fire trucks and hours to control—not tricycles. 3. Global Fire Standards: No developed country deploys keke for fire-fighting. Instead: The U.S., UK, South Africa, and Kenya all prioritize well-equipped fire stations, hydrant systems, and fire engines with proper capacity. In Ghana, the government recently spent over $49 million to procure fire tenders and rescue equipment—not tricycles. 4. What This Really Shows: Deploying keke is a symptom of state failure, not innovation. It means the state has failed to invest in proper emergency infrastructure and is managing decay instead of solving root problems. It’s like using a bucket to fight an inferno and calling it "innovation." 5. There Are Better Alternatives: Instead of keke, deploy mini fire engines like in Japan or Singapore, which can still carry water, foam, and pumps in narrow streets. Install neighborhood fire hydrants and train locals in early response techniques. Invest in community fire stations and regular fire drills. Fire-fighting keke are not a solution, they’re a desperate improvisation caused by failure to plan and invest properly. If your house is on fire, you deserve real help—not token PR stunts dressed up as “innovation.” Exousiang01: |
omoredia:It such an eye sore. |
Grammys don’t always reflect quality — they reflect politics, popularity, and positioning. African Giant was Grammy-nominated, and that doesn't mean it was better than Outside or Twice As Tall. Likewise, if I Told Them or Sign of Weakness doesn’t win, it doesn’t mean they aren’t great. Saying 'come back if it wins a Grammy' ignores the fact that awards are influenced by many things beyond just music quality. Also, music is subjective — what hits home for you might not hit for others. Let’s not invalidate fair criticism just because you love the project. whippersnapper:Ah yes, the Grammy — the ultimate seal of musical greatness. Because obviously, no average album has ever won one, right? Let’s just ignore personal taste, ignore critique, and base everything on whether some folks in suits overseas give it a trophy. If that’s the standard, then I guess we should rate music like it’s an Olympic event. 6.5 today, gold medal tomorrow — music complete! |
Burna Boy – No Sign of Weakness (2025 Album) – Summary: Rating: ★★★☆☆ (6/10) Style: Genre-blending (Afrobeats, soul, rock, funk, R&B) Vibe: Confident but defensive, emotionally distant Strengths: - Ambitious production with global influences - Highlights: “Pardon” (feat. Stromae), “Born Winner,” “Buy You Life” - Big features: Travis Scott, Mick Jagger, Shaboozey Weaknesses: - Lacks emotional depth and cohesion - Lyrics focus too much on critics and proving himself - Some collabs (e.g., with Travis Scott) feel underwhelming Verdict: An experimental and bold album with moments of brilliance—but overall, it feels scattered and less emotionally powerful than Burna’s past projects. Fans of African Giant may find it less relatable. |
jadyclem:The claim that GMOs are a population control weapon is unfounded. Over 70 countries safely use GMOs, backed by 4,000+ scientific studies confirming their safety. GMOs improve food security by increasing yields, reducing pesticide use, and cutting post-harvest losses — especially in countries like Nigeria and India. In Africa, many GMOs (e.g. Bt cowpea) are developed locally, not by foreign corporations, and regulated by national agencies like Nigeria’s NBMA. Rejecting GMOs risks greater food insecurity and dependence on food imports. True food sovereignty means choosing the right tools to feed your people — not rejecting innovation out of fear. |
Zambia doesn't equal Morocco: Morocco plays a more structured, technical game. Beating Zambia 5–0 doesn’t guarantee Nigeria will dominate Morocco the same way. Morocco Is Resilient: They haven’t lost all tournament, and they’ve beaten strong teams like Ghana and Senegal. They know how to manage tough games. Watching replays isn’t the same as live play: Replays remove pressure, but real matches are about handling the moment—crowd, tension, momentum. That’s what makes finals hard. Conclusion: Nigeria is strong, yes—but dismantling Morocco won’t be easy. Respecting the opponent is key to winning the title. aremubabs: |
Nigeria vs Morocco – WAFCON 2024 Final: Summary of Counter Analysis 1. Mental Toughness: Nigeria has the experience to handle Morocco’s home crowd. Many players compete in Europe under high pressure, and they’ve already faced Morocco in a packed stadium before. 2. Discipline & Temperament: The current squad is more mature. They've kept their cool all tournament with no red cards and improved emotional control, especially in the intense semi-final vs South Africa. 3. Controlled Physicality: Nigeria’s strength is an advantage—but they must avoid reckless fouls. They need smart tackling, especially around the box, without losing their natural edge. 4. Tactical Flexibility: Long balls alone won’t be enough. Nigeria should mix it up with short passes, wing play, and quick transitions to break Morocco’s compact defense. 5. Defensive Readiness: Nigeria’s back line isn’t fast, but they’ve only conceded one goal thanks to solid midfield support and sharp goalkeeping. They must stay compact to avoid through-ball traps. Conclusion: Nigeria is better prepared than in 2022. With experience, discipline, and tactical balance, they have what it takes to win their 10th WAFCON title—even against a spirited Moroccan side at home. Seunfretty: |
robosky02:Nigeria Defensively organized and consistent Proven winners under pressure Balanced scoring across multiple attackers Morocco Home advantage with passionate local support Strong attacking trio in Chebbak / Jraidi / Mrabet Slight defensive fragility–haven’t kept a clean sheet since group stage This match represented a clash between Nigeria’s seasoned WAFCON dominance and Morocco’s energetic, home‑ground rise. Nigeria entered as favorites due to experience, defensive solidity, and scoring depth, while Morocco counted on host support and attacking |
I'm really sorry you're going through this. That kind of change—something as small but symbolic as a contact name—can carry a lot of unspoken emotion, especially after conflict. Here’s what this might mean and how you can think about next steps: What Could That Change Mean? Changing your contact name from “Hubby” to a neutral label like “Dele – Airtel” could suggest: Emotional distance: She might still be hurt or emotionally withdrawing. Symbol of unresolved resentment: Even if the elders helped "resolve" things, she might still feel unheard or unsafe. A silent protest: Sometimes people change small things to express dissatisfaction without starting another fight. Protective wall: It may be her way of not being vulnerable with you anymore—especially if trust was bruised. It doesn’t necessarily mean she’s given up—but it does show that something still isn't healed. The Children Factor Wanting to part ways is a serious thought. But children change the stakes: They need stability, even if the parents aren’t in a loving relationship. But they also absorb tension, even when no one’s yelling. If there's a cold war in the home, it affects them. Your emotional health matters too. If you’re deeply unhappy or walking on eggshells, that’s not “sacrifice”—that’s slow erosion. Consider Before You Decide: 1. Have you asked her why she changed your contact name? Not in an accusatory way—just calm curiosity. Her response will reveal a lot. 2. What do you want: Peace, Connection, or Exit? Are you hoping she comes back emotionally? Or have you checked out yourself. 3. Would you both be willing to try counseling? Even if it’s just once or twice, it can reveal hidden hurts and help both of you think clearly. 4. What are your non-negotiables? If respect, affection, or communication have collapsed completely—and she’s unwilling to work on it—then leaving may not be selfish, but wise. What You Can Do Now: Have one honest conversation. No blame, no drama. Just say something like: “I noticed you changed how you saved my contact, and I feel like something between us still isn’t okay. I want to know if we can talk about how to rebuild or where we stand. I’m not looking to fight—I just want clarity.” Protect your peace. Whether you stay or leave, make decisions rooted in calm—not pain or ego. Document your thoughts. Write out your feelings privately—it helps you gain clarity about what exactly is hurting and what you want. Whatever happens, you're not alone—and you’re not weak for hurting. You're human. influenz: |
