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ahnie:
Yes I can and I m confident about it.
I m into street business as side hustles.

No wonder you responded by 3:01am

Thanks for sharing these valuable insights on smartphone addiction and ways to combat it. It's important to recognize the signs of addiction and take action to limit our smartphone usage, especially in today's technology-driven world. I appreciate the practical tips you provided, such as keeping ourselves on a schedule and turning off push notifications. These are small steps we can take to regain control over our phone usage and live a healthier and more balanced life.

So true!! It's a rabbit hole. So easy to get addicted to it. I see teenagers spend too much time on it. Its ruins attention span and concentration

Openair:
Good day people. Please, I need expertise on how to reduce fuel consumption in a tiger generator ( I beta pass my neighbor). Thanks🙏🏼

Turning the fuel tap of a generator halfway reduce the rate at which fuel is being consumed which most Nigerians do

The fuel is the source of the energy. You can't hope to reduce that without reducing the output. That would be preposterous.

Any prime mover suffering from fuel starvation will slow down; and thus lose it's ability to supply the torque that is keeping the generator in the forward quadrant of the power diagram, reversing power flow. Far from generating the same amount of power it would start to consume power.

In fact, halving the fuel supply will likely stall the prime mover completely, as the retardation of the generator load will so far exceed the available power that the speed will go outside the power range. Even if the reverse power detector trips the generator off the bus then half fuel may not be enough to keep it working.

The fundamental method of speed control, that keeps the generator generating rather than motoring is the micro fine adjustment of fuel supply. The tweaking of output that guarantees load sharing is the microfine djustment of fuel supply. You throttle that, and the whole control system fails.

What are the pros and cons of living abroad?
It depends if you are moving for financial or non financial reasons, and how long you move for.

If you are moving for a short period of time when you are young, there are seldom many negatives.

Few people regret studying abroad for a year, doing an internship or a gap year.

When it comes to longer-term assignments, financial considerations are important for most people.

The major positives associated with moving abroad are

If you work for a multi-national, there are sometimes bigger packages abroad, especially in frontier markets due to hardship allowances. For instance, if you are an oil & gas engineer working in Canada or Norway, you are likely to be paid more if you move to Nigeria or Myanmar on a two-year contract.
For business owners, the world markets are always a bigger opportunity than just only focusing on the local market. Whilst it is true that you can target people online successfully, a stint overseas will teach you about other cultures, give you fresh ideas and so on.
New languages and skills will help you if you move back to your home country
If you are high-net-worth you can save a lot on taxes if you move to certain countries, and do the right planning

The main negatives are

In your home country you get back ended benefits. In low-tax countries overseas, you get front ended benefits. What do I mean by that? In your home country, you might feel you are being weighed down by the taxes. However, you get back some of that money when you get old or are sick as per the graph below:

In comparison, if you have more money from lower taxes, you get front ended benefits. This can be great, but only if you are self-disciplined enough to save and invest more.

However, plenty of people in low taxes countries like the UAE and Singapore don’t do that, as many studies have shown
Career wise, you will be behind your peer back home, if you don’t use your time overseas wisely.
What are the pros and cons of teaching abroad?
What are the advantages or disadvantages of living and working abroad?
What are the pros and cons of moving back to your home country after living abroad?
What are the pros and cons of living in your country?

What are the pros and cons of moving abroad, and where are some good places to live?
Let´s start with the cons to get that out of the way first

1.
The more countries you have lived in, the more you loose a sense of belonging (at least I feel that way). I have lived in 9 different ones and although I have of course great memories and part of my heart is in all of them, I feel I belong nowhere and certainly not in my home country anymore either.

After so many years I crave a sense of belonging, a base to call home (even if it just means to be there a couple of months a year), friends I do not have to say goodbye to every few months or years. And no, to stay in touch on Social Media is not the same at all, I personally create bonding through shared experiences and not by living in past memories.

2.
If you move a lot and you know you will not be in a place for a very long time, you wonder if it makes sense to emotionally invest in relationships and friendships and I think sometimes relationship become more superficial because building them takes time and commitment and you know you will leave again and who wants heart breaks.

3.
Depending on your age group, aging parents back home suddenly become a concern. One is far away and cannot just jump in a plane and is home in one hour. A sense of guilt sets in even if your loved ones give you no reason to feel guilt and its only in your head. And you also realize time becomes more precious and one is far away.

4.
When you get home you realize your friends are more or less still the same, they have aged too, might have created a family, changed jobs, etc. but essentially they are still the same. You on the other hand have changed, its unavoidable. Your horizons have widened and you might not have that much in common with old friends anymore. There is a sense of loss and sadness.

5.
Depending on where you are abroad, romantic relationships can take a back seat. If an independent western single women in her late twenties or thirties comes for example to Asia with the hope to not only find professional opportunities and adventures but also a partner to create a family with, I would say, think twice, your choices will be limited, but that is a topic for a different question.

6.
The longer you are in a certain region the more difficult it will be to go back to your home country if you ever want to return, because your skills and experiences will become more bankable in your new country than in your home country. If your business is online it’s a different story of course.

7.
Loneliness can also be an issue. If you do not consider yourself the love of your life and enjoy time alone too, you will struggle, because it is unavoidable that there will be moments when you will be alone, especially if you just arrive in a new place. And when you get sick its also not exactly fun.

8.
Constantly having to let go is sad, at least for me. I do not like to let go of things, people, places that entered my heart, but sometimes life changes and there is nothing you can do about it.

In many places (such as Singapore, Dubai for example) people are in transit, they stay for a couple of years and then they move on, you might loose a job and the work permit that goes with it and the list goes on. If you have no plan B, the stress level rises.

9.
You feel often disconnected if you do not speak the local language, but might also not live there long enough to really fluently communicate. Some languages especially for westerns are just not so easy to learn (thai is one of them).

The frustration you feel when you start learning a new language and can only express yourself like a 2 year old in the body and with the mind of a grown up person.

10.

Personally I also feel sometimes alone, when there is nobody who shares a certain sense of humor. Humor is often very different and culture specific. I can laugh my head off about certain things or situations and my colleagues just look at me and wonder what that is all about.

And they laugh about certain things and I cannot see what is funny about it either. Laughing is also about bonding with people, so I can say sometimes I miss bonding over a shared sense of humor.

Now that we are done with some of the cons, lets talk about the wonderful pros.

1.
You change for the better

2.
You become more tolerant

3.
You become a better Ambassador of your home country when you return. I swear, whenever I return home, I am particularly friendly to anybody who is foreign, I feel so connected because I am a foreigner in other countries too, so I want them to feel welcome and leave with good memories.

4.
Once you have lived abroad, this place will never ever be just a dot on the map. It will penetrate your memory, it will become part of your history, if you disliked your experience or loved it does not matter, it will never leave you indifferent anymore.

5.
You develop courage and learn how to overcome obstacles

6.
You learn to rely on yourself

7.
You realize that essentially all people in the world are the same, we are just shaped by different education, background, beliefs, etc. but we all want to be respected, loved, heard and acknowledged.

8.
You become more flexible (you just have to)

9.
You age slower, because whenever you learn or see something new it feels the days are much longer and more intense. Every day is a new adventure and there is less routine.

10.
Everywhere I go there is something I love and I weave it into my personality to take it with me. It is like as I go along, I create a more interesting and better version of myself (at least I think that, but that is a good start).

11.
You learn to judge less and listen more.

12.
You will feel more emotionally connected to the world.

You cannot see a BQ for that price on the island except Ibeju & commuting from Ibeju to Ikoyi is suicide mission.

Dogalmighty17:
You need to properly format what you just posted. It is not displaying properly

Done

1Sharon:
My siblings piss me off sometimes

You hear about sisters sleeping with their brothers in law, brothers/sisters poisoning each other, stealing from each other.
I just cannot imagine me and siblings doing that to each other. It's crazy and I think it only happens to siblings that lacked love in their household

This old news. Lastest is husbands sleeping with mother-in-law

sunnymighty:
My story plenty oh, I have set my boundaries, nobody can interfere in my marriage, in as much i did not interfere In theirs. It is well bro.

unfortunately we have weak men these days.

Kendrick80:
Bad divorce (when the kids are forced to pick a side)

is there good divorce?

ednut1:
pastor with this kind behaviour nawa

Pastor is a title.

Why Do You Want to Work Here?

This is one of the most common interview questions that can make or break your chances of landing the job.

So, why is it so important, and how should you approach answering it?

First, let's understand why interviewers ask this question.

Hiring managers want to know if you have done your research on the company and are genuinely interested in working for them. Your answer can also help them understand how you will fit into their company culture and values.

So, how should you answer this question? Here are some tips:

📌 Research the company: Do your homework on the company's mission, values, products/services, and any recent news or developments.

📌 Connect your values: Identify the company's values that resonate with you and share why you align with them.

📌 Link your skills: Explain how your skills and experiences align with the company's mission and the position you are applying for.

📌 Mention specific projects: Mention any specific projects, products or initiatives that you admire and how they align with your own goals.

📌 Express excitement: Show genuine excitement and enthusiasm for the opportunity to work with the company.

Remember to keep your answer concise and to the point. Avoid generic responses and tailor your answer to the specific company and role. Show your passion, knowledge, and skills that make you a perfect fit for the company.

Have you been in an interview where this question threw you off balance? Share your experience in the comment section below.

Wishing you a fruitful week ahead.

A man married his heartthrob. After almost 10 years in the marriage the wife became an Oil tycoon. She runs a thriving business that takes her to almost every part of the world. The husband, still scraping by.

The woman loved her hubby. He drives her everywhere and she seeks out his opinion on almost all matters. Jolly fellows. The husband has 5 out of the 9 cars on the fleet. With the least being a 2012 Prado jeep. Big boy. His wife takes care of him.

Okay, the meat of the story!! The man was with his friends at a regular hangout and the conversation that ensued is both hilarious and a huge lesson:

Friend: "You! I am sorry for you. Your wife has used your destiny. She's so rich whilst you're merely scraping by. Doing fake big boy. We all know your wife is the source of all your bigboyism. Oloshi!! You better think twice. Snatch your destiny away from her before she will finish you !

Husband: "Thanks for the advice. You see, let me tell you something you don't know o. I am 45 years old now and my marriage is just 10years old and for 35 years as a bachelor, I didn't know how to use my destiny. I was suffering, no clothes, no car, couldn't afford a good accommodation. Even to eat na wahala! Now I got married 10 years ago to my wife and she knows how to use my destiny. Now I drive the latest cars and travel with her to any part of the world that even you my friends whose destinies are not been used haven't been to before.

If her usage of my destiny has given me joy, rest/ peace of mind and great comfort like this, then I am going home right now to inform my wife to continue using my destiny o. Infact! She must make sure she finish the destiny. It must not remain o...

Morals:
Never allow friends break your home. Copied

Finally but this news is old, Nairaland is just carrying it.

pansophist:
Between a bank and a customer, it is the bank that has the responsibility to safe guard it's money, and same dynamics apply to sex. Hakimi safeguarded his asset via his mum since he is the primary looser.

So for hookup culture to end, it's women that can single-handedly end it. Women suffer the most in hookup culture, not men. You can tell men not to engage in hook up, but one method is far effective than the other.

Why bring this into this discussion? Any small thing, they use Hakimi as an example

aswani:
An older sibling that is not ready to put in the sacrifices and effort required to justify that position but believes they should be honoured and respected for it simply by accident of birth is a problem that won't go away until that person changes their mindset.

This is not about giving money by the way, there is more to being an older sibling than that, much more.

True

This question can be seen in both ways due to perceived notions, wether hooking up its good or bad it depends a lot what does the person values. It is a fact that the person’s likely hood to like hook ups is dependent on culture, upbringing and life experiences that forges the development of it.

Hook ups don’t possess any sort of emotionally fulfilling experience, solely focuses on the pleasures of the flesh and the sexual gratification that a person can get, most often than not short lived because you were just another one and that fact doesn’t boost anyone’s morale, but its addictive a person may be chained the rest of their lives trying to prove themselves and to others that they are desirable, once your grace period is over and hormones plumet your realize you actually have nobody.

A person who hooks up is not in touch with words like, respect , dignity, honor and humility and specially emotion that is usually accompanied with sex, culturaly could be because is was frowned upon to show sentimentality, perhaps they had parents who never where in touch with their emotions and thought their children to neglect theirs aswell or a traumatic experience that makes them believe a stable sane relationship is a burden, whatever it is you’ll always find that people who hook up are flawed in a way, and constantly detach from their humanity.

Most hooking ups take place in drug and heavy drinking environments or under their influence! where doesn’t matter how much u get laid you gonna forget it the next day cause you were never present to begin with, why have sex if your semiconscious during the act? what’s the logic if you tryna forget it the next day? Easy sex Easy gratification it becomes transactional and meaningless the more you practice it, carrying someone’s filth that’s is filled with a hundred dicks and the essence of half of the town, can be easy chucked away with some, ecstasy and lsd, desperate for validation, desperate for release.

People would often say how prude, sex is fun and should be experimented with, sex is the greatest gift human kind was given, and that’s an absolute truth!, but why do it like you were an animal in meeting season? not really aware of anything. We are sexual beings, with our own set of fantasies and desires part of what makes us human is our capacity feel, to connect and to bond and that is also mixed with ur desires and most importantly our gift of reasoning trying to choke that away with pills, drinks belief methods seem utterly destructive and inhumane! but that’s what society promotes nowdays and that’s what people buy! there’s nothing more pleasurable in life than having sex like a human being, fully conscious and with no remorse, with somebody who you love and you are dedicated too!

Sexual freedom is misenterpreted for promiscuity and the idea that your truly free, if you neglect your humanity. sexual freedom is being completely vunerable and naked with the other under the environment of trust , mutual love and desire here you can break the bed and wake up the next day satisfied because what you did was love making not some sort of fukery/sluttery. No one is obligated to be in a relationship if love has waned feel free to end, but im sure you’ll be thankful for the amazing sex you had and how confortable was it. You don’t get to drink fine wine everyday!

Hooking up is a fancy word for prostitution, all is left to do is to charge money and perhaps learn how to find unatractive people attractive ,wich easily can be done with some weed,lsd and ecstasy if you ’d like, gulp it like nobodie’s business and get ready to work! Thank you! and that was what my eyes have seen and filtered! can’t change opinion haven’t seen other wise!

Lesson of the day people buy , what you sell and for what you’ve been bought, you must fulfill your role! Cheap or expensive quantity or quality is all measured on your values and self worth!

Sniper101:
Uni. (Maritime Academy)

Where?

DomTORRETTO:
Dat one na old slang na, we don dey talk am since. We dey learn slang here everyday.


Na dis place be the king place of slang for the whole country

Which place?

Tenshades:
Odeyinka

Where's that?

Robisky001:
I am not challenging unemployment rates I am only saying the figures are overestimated.

Let's say 4 months which translates to 120 days. 55÷120= 458 Jobs application every single day. Where are the jobs you are applying to, that's what I am contending.

Nothing is over stated

Greenfaces:
This your article is a masterpiece. I agree with everything you said. What is the way forward for one who finds himself cut off by his siblings. Especially when he does not know any reasonable offence he committed.

Start mending the bridge.
Start by calling once a week
Sending sms every festive period and news month