₦airaland Forum

soilsista:
Lol I'm waiting for the other oyinbo worshippers and self-appointed HIV/AIDS statisticians to come and derail what could be a positive thread.

tell the world truth about yourself (South African) I mean what you are facing their presently.

IronGalaxy:
and how do Nigerians act the world over that had made them so unwelcome in many countries? I'll wait

most of the Nigerians you find in South Africa are victims of human traffickers, any Nigerian who know South Africa very well will never go there.

IronGalaxy:
oh I see, you are of those mislead by media that says we are killing Nigerians . Lol

you South Africans don't usually tell the world the reality in South Africa. Raging from tax, crime, unrest, protests, killing, house and shop breaking e.t.c

Angelcoco:
Um no. Why are Nigerian men so pathetic?

you can't compare South African tax rate to Nigeria's pls keep dieing in silence to yourself.

IronGalaxy:
is it? And this is coming from the land of Boko Haram? Ritual killings capital, 2nd country in the world in open defecation, 2nd country in the world in child marriages, legendary scammers, drug traffickers, human traffickers etc look yourself in the mirror, there's a reason many countries can't tolerate Nigerians

your country deceived lots of African countries, South Africa is not heaven only some Nigerians who are ignorant are being deceived.

Austine1212:
Really?

Better reasoning? People who always throw swear words, name calling when arguments gets tough!

Nigeria is getting it right now okay?

zhike:
kindly give us examples

Nigeria is getting it right now pls leave us alone man.

zhike:
Individual they behave like animals - serious?
Do they kill each other in the name of tribalism?
do they capture school girls?
do they have rebel problem?

haven't you South Africans deceived us enough? Pls let us be, you made us think like south Africa is heaven. Pls we are getting things right now. Go and enjoy your higher taxed country.

idid:
Please don't compare us, Nigeria is way better than South Africa you guys, only need to sort out your governance issues and you will be celebrated forever.

Look at the desecration of law by the Presidency for example, how can you draw in investors with that?

well said from a South African

Many Nigerians has proved to be mad always

Igbos has disgraced Nigeria so much pay back time.

we know them here.

drink more water

who is posting these pictures na, let me not swear for you o!

this is raining season a trick women know.

Staying in any country without paper is just not worth it in any way, just plan what to do back home since their is house and move back. Thanks

francesAlex:
I don't hate my fellow women

You do

following.

The truth is 70percent of people from that side of the country are dirty, disorganized and sometimes fraudulent and they 'll never own up. I myself i commend those people for their boldness because left alone we wouldn't have been able to tell them, evenif we do we would av been under attack.

My experience when i visited my friend who is a soldier. I told my friend i loved a female soldier she was so happy and she was even telling her friend ''that guy said he loves me'' when we were about to start i noticed she's so loud and muscula and i thought of what 'll happen if i don't want her again. I just disappeared

HardMirror:
pls dont u want to stay alive?

If u are innocent and u find out that their is no justice u 'll know this earth is worthless

yea, drank battery acid i vomited a lot of blood after that i had severe heart burn for 6 months. My gullet were all damaged after the treatment even now i don't wanna stay alife but the fear of what i passed through then can't let me try it again.

why not ask him what his problems are that made him run to u without notice, then sugest ways he can solve the problem no condition is perminent, also explain to him reasons, plans and implications of his sudden visitation to ur budgets.

Why people keep women in the house as wife is still what i don't understand.

EniHolar:
OP... You're not serious o.

Why should you be regretting for doing the right thing? Is it a must to dance to the girl's tune? You mistakenly did the right thing, you're still regretting it. What if you did it and you got her pregnant? Are you ready to be a father?

Cheer up boy... Life continues. Many girls are out there, move on with life.

You need Jesus!

Thanks that was exactly my thought then and the fear of HIV, It's just that i have this strong feeling for her but now i understand how important it is for me to move on.

Azmodan:
I am sure you have got lots of other stuff you need to forgive yourself for

Like not being successful?

Having too much time to waste?

Stuff like this?

Get your mind right kiddo

Thanks friend you went straight to the point. I want to get some advice deal with this once off.

This is an incidence i can't forgive myself till date. This happened 2013 but i still feel the pain till date. A girl i loved, chased for like a year and 2 months the day she came we were cooking indomie in the kitchen when love started she layed on the fridge pulled her trouzer down and asked me to do it, at that moment i felt it was going to be messy because of food and i didn't have condom i just layed on her back (doggy style) hoping that we 'll do it later, we kissed i begged her to wear her cloth unfortunately when we started eating a friend visited me that was how i lost everything. Till date this girl didn't come again and each time i remember this i feel pain down my nerve.

You Nigerians talks too much, if u 're dating u are dating, if u 're married u are married what's all this too much talk/mediocret?

Listen we know all these. what we are complaining is how they 've brain washed the masses to unredeemeable stage, they are milking them to perminent povert stage.

It's worst in Nigeria, our fraudlent life style curpled with desperation.

I can't imagine myself geting married or staying the same room with a woman. Wel please don't get me wrong their are still good once but from my experience and observations staying close to married people i can never get married. Some of the reasons why women becomes so unreasonable are (1)Inferiority. (2)Insecurity. Women can do any thing to keep a man around them cos they know they can't train their kids or stay without a man. They are also scared that their husband's friends and family (mother) will make their husband break out of the bondage they 've subjected the man to. These are some of my observations.