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Dreamscometrue:
..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me...

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

2 things. God never forsakes and dreams do come true. Believe and receive. If he is hell bent on leaving, cut your loses, someone there needs you, pick your pieces and move on, the God that answered Hannah will answer you. Just receive in faith and it is done. He will come back begging and it will be too late. Mark these words on marble. So shall it be written so shall it be done

kudsweet:
108 oldest secondary schools in Nigeria

1. CMS Grammar School, Bariga, Lagos (1859) – CMS
2. Methodist Boys High School, Victoria Island, Lagos (1878) – Methodist
3. Methodist Girls High School, Yaba, Lagos (1879) – Methodist
4. Baptist Academy, Obanikoro, Lagos (1885) – Baptist – The primary school arm was established in 1855 but was not changed into secondary school
5. Hope Waddell Training Institute, Calabar (1895) – United Presbyterian
6. St. Anne’s School, (Old Kudeti Girls’ School) Ibadan (1896)*- CMS
7. Oron Boy’s High School, (Old Oron Training Institute) Oron (1897)*- CMS
8. Wesley College of Science (old Wesley College), Elekuro, Ibadan (1905)* – Methodist
9. St. Paul’s College, Iyenu, Awka (1900)* – CMS
10. Methodist Boy’s High School, Oron (1905) – Methodist
11. Abeokuta Grammar School, Idi-Aba, Abeokuta (1908) – CMS
12. King’s College, Catholic Mission street, Lagos (1909) – Government
13. St. John’s School, Bida (1909)* – CMS
14. Alhuda-Huda College(Old Government Secondary School), Zaria (1910) – Government
15. Ijebu-Ode Grammar School, Ijebu-Ode (12 Jan. 1913) – Anglican
16. Eko Boys High School, Mushin, Lagos (13 Jan. 1913) - Methodist
17. Ibadan Grammar School, Molete, Ibadan (Mar. 1913) - CMS
18. Government Secondary School, Ilorin, Kwara (1914)- Government
19. Government College, Katsina-Ala, Benue (1915) – Government
20. Etinan Institute, Etinan, Akwa-Ibom (1915) – Qua Iboe Christian Mission
21. Ondo Boys High School, Ondo (1919) – CMS
22. Duke Town Secondary School (1919) – Qua Iboe Christian Mission
23. Baptist Boys High School, Oke-Saje, Abeokuta (1923) – Baptist
24. Government College, Kaduna (1920) – Government
25. Barewa College, (Old Katsina College, Kaduna College and Government College), Zaria (Established as Katsina Teachers’ College) (1921)* - Government
26. Methodist College, Uzuakoli, Abia (1923)- Methodist
27. Ibo Boys’ High School, Uzuakoli, Abia (1923) – CMS
28. Dennis Memorial Grammar School, Onitsha, Anambra (1925) – CMS
29. Queens College, Yaba, lagos (1927) – Government
30. Government College, Apata, Ibadan (1927) - Government
31. Government College, Umuahia, Abia (1927) – Government
32. United Memorial Grammar School, Ibadan (1928) – CMS
33. St. Gregory College, Ikoyi, Lagos (1928) – Catholic
34. St. Thomas College, Ibusa (1928) – CMS
35. St. Charles College, Onitsha (1929) – CMS
36. Aggrey Memorial College, Arochukwu (1931) – Individual (Alvan Ikoku)
37. Igbobi College, Yaba, Lagos (1932) – Methodist/CMS
38. St’ Theresa College, Oke-Ado, Ibadan (1932) – Catholic
39. Oduduwa Grammar School, Ile-Ife (1932) - CMS
40. Christ the King College, Onitsha, Anambra (1933) - Catholic
41. Christ’s School, Fajuyi Park, Ado-Ekiti, Ekiti (1933) – CMS
42. Ilesha Grammar School, Ilesha, Osun (1934) – Social Group (Egbe Atunlese Ijesha)
43. St. Patrick’s College, Calabar (1934) – Catholic
41. Holy Rosary College, Enugu (1935) - Catholic
42. Government Secondary School, Owerri (1935) - Government
43. Edo College, Benin City (1937) – Government
44. Ibadan Boys High School, Ibadan (1938) – Individual (Chief T.L. Oyesina)
45. Baptist High School, Bodija, Ibadan (1940) – Baptist
46. Queen of the Rosary College, Onitsha (1942) – Catholic
47. African Church School, Kajola, Ifo (1943)*
48. Lisabi Grammar School, Abeokuta (1943)
49. Offa Grammar School, Offa (1943)
50. Olivet Heights, Oyo (1945)
51. Adeola Odutola College (old Olu-Iwa College), Ijebu-Ode (1945)
52. Government College, Ughelli (1945)
53. Anglican Girls’ Grammar School, Lagos (1945)
54. Urhobo College, Effurun (1946)
55. Remo Secondary School, Sagamu (1946)
56. Ansar –Ud – Deen Comprehensive College, Otta (1946)
57. Imade College, Owoh (1946)
58. Victory College, Ikare, Ondo (1947)
59. Hussey College, Warri (1947)
60. Ahmaddiya (Anwar-ul-Islam) College, Agege, Lagos (1948)
61. Government College, Keffi (old Keffi Secondary School situated in Kaduna) (1949)
62. Molusi College, Ijebu-Igbo (1949)
63. Baptist High School, Borokiri, Port Harcourt (1949)
64. Oriwu College, Ikorodu (1949)
65. Ago-Iwoye Secondary School, Ago-Iwoye (1950)
66. Ijebu Muslim College (1950)
66. Our Ladies of Apostle Secondary School, Yaba, Lagos (1950)
67. St. Peter Claver’s College, Sapele (1950)
68. Egbado (Yewa) College, Ilaro (1950)
69. St. Thomas’s Aquinas College, Akure (1951)
70. Queen’s School, Ibadan (1952)
71. Government College, Afikpo, Ebonyi (1952)
72. Oyemekun Grammar School, Akure (1953)
73. Loyola College, Ibadan (1954)
74. St. Bernadine’s, Oyo (1954)
75. Our Ladies of Apostle Secondary School, Ijebu-Ode (1954)
76. St. Anthony’s Grammar School, Ijebu-Imushin (1954)
77. Manuwa Memorial Grammar School, Iju-Odo ( 1954)
78. Fiditi Grammar School, Fiditi, Oyo (1954)
79. National High School, Arondizuogu, Imo (1954)
80. Iheme Memorial Grammar School, Arondizuogu, Imo (1954)
81. St. Louis Secondary School, Ondo (1954)
82. Gboluji Grammar School, Ile-Oluji, Ondo (1954)
83. Badagry Grammar School, Badagry (1955)
84. African Church Grammar School, Abeokuta (1955)
85. Ibara Anglican High School, Abeokuta (1955)
86. Doherty Memorial Grammar School, Ijero- Ekiti (1955)
87. St Patrick’s College, Asaba (1955)
88. St. Monica Girls’ School, Ondo (1955)
89. St. Catherine’s Anglican Girls School, Owo (1956)
90. St Joseph’s College, Ondo (1956)
91. Methodist High School, Okiti Pupa (1956)
92. Mayflower School, Ikenne (1956)
93. Isoyin Grammar School, Isoyin (1956)
94. Ebenezer Grammar School, Abeokuta (1956)
95. St. Joseph College, Ondo (1956)
96. Odogbolu Grammar School, Odogbolu (1957)
97. Notre Dame College, Ozoro (1957)
98. Government College, Makurdi (1957)
99. Holy Rosary College, Idah (1957)
100. Anglican Grammar School, Iju-itaogbolu (1957)
101. African Church Grammar School, Oka-Akoko (1957)
102. Okemesi Grammar School, Okemesi-Ekiti (1958)
103. Lagelu Grammar School, Ibadan (1958)
104. Ahmadu Bahago Secondary School (old Niger Baptist College), Niger (1958)
105. Anglican Grammar School, Igbara-Oke (1958)
106. St. Patrick’s College, Oka-Akoko (1959)
107. Ondo Anglican Grammar School, Ondo (1959)
108. Premier Grammar School, Abeokuta (1959)

The highlighted schools morphed from primary schools/Teachers’ Training Colleges into secondary schools before independence. The exact date of metamorphosis of these schools cannot be ascertained, hence the original years of establishment was used in listing them. Primary Schools and Teachers’ Training Colleges that didn’t morph into secondary schools are exempted from the list. Northern Provincial Schools are also exempted because of inadequate information/recorded history. Examples include;
Adamawa Provincial Secondary School (Gen. Murtala Muhammed College), Yola (1920)?!
Katsina Provincial Secondary school (Government College, Katsina) (1930)?!

I rep No. 36, Aggrey Memorial College......fundamentum omnis cultus animae

No be small something.

Government College Umuahia is also known as Fischer High School.....for the records

Lordygram:
wow op you are so on point..
In fact Nigeria parents are guilty of this shiit..
You see a mother and a dad telling their eldest son or daughter to try and make money so that he or she can start giving the other children better lives including the parents..
This eldest son is even not through with school and a huge responsibility has been placed on him already..
99% of Nigerian students live in pressure from their parents to make money and take care of them..
Like can't the parents themselves keep working for their tomorrow?
cant The younger siblings of the eldest kid focus on making money on their own...
A son or a daughter will surely take good care of his parents and siblings when he is successful but parents should stop putting pressure on their kids...
Let the children live a pressure free life..

Some crazy thoughts, really.

When I get into training the children, it will be so that they'd be independent of me and each other. I am making enough money to last me my own life time. Investments and Trusts will take care of those.

It is so not fair telling kids i am training you so you can take care of me at old age. Plan for your old age today and you will surely have the kids coming round you.

My dad planned it out so well that the cost of his burial expenses were already invested for interest in his life time.

I don't plan on doing less.....so help me God

gist4real:
Say no to smoking, alcohol, soft drinks, energy drinks, fast foods. Now this one is adding cold water to the list. Make una kuku kill us.

I say yes to all. Something must kill a man

iceboy4752:
My grandma did this and she lived for 88 years.

She died young. One of my great great great grandma is doing it and still alive. We no dey gree enter her room again when nepa take light. Not a good thing

ADEWUMIMichael:
I have been told by my doctor, and many other people like my dad, my boss and my mum to stop drinking water immediately after meal,




But i don't know what i've been finding it very difficult to yield to that,


Sometimes i practice it for like 3-4 days, and forget again



So, i tried to make some research about it



WHY SHOULDN'T I DRINK WATER IMMEDIATELY OR WHILE EATING?





the research goes thus:


Drinking Water Immediately After Eating Is Poisonous And Harmful





Not many of us know this, but drinking
water immediately after eating is
poisonous and harmful, I am using the
word poison here, because this habit of
ours actually creates poisonous
substances in our body. Ayurveda has stated


some rules/Sutras
(Sanskrit word for rules) about when and
how to drink water. When we start to
look at these sutras from a scientific
perspective, we realize how meaningful
and effective these Sutras are. These sutras are also very easy to follow in our
daily routine. By following this particular
sutra about drinking water, you can avoid/
control major diseases like high
cholesterol, high blood pressure, other
heart diseases etc.




“Digestion of food is more important than eating it” Let’s understand Amashay /
epigastrium: There is a small part in our stomach called


Epigastrium. In Sanskrit it is called as Jathar . Epigastrium is a small bag like organ present in our stomach. The food we
eat first goes into it. Epigastrium stimulates
the Jathar-agni / digestive fire to digest the
food in it.


Lets understand Jathar-agni/
digestive fire: As soon as we take the first bite of
our food (solid or liquid), our digestive fire
starts to stimulate. This digestive fire (acid
in stomach) helps us to digest our food.
This digestive fire remains active till the
digestion of the food is completed. This well digested food will convert into energy
and will nourish our body. What happens when we drink water
immediately after our meal: We all know that pouring water over fire
puts out the fire. Similarly, when we drink
water immediately after our meal, it puts
out the digestive fire in our stomach
(dilutes/weakens the digestive acid in our
stomach). Some people even drink cold water after their meal which is very
harmful. (Why? Read my other blog to
know more about it: Is Drinking Refreshing Cold Water Making You Ill ? ) Also, people have a habit of drinking lots and lots of
water after eating food. We don’t realize it but all these daily
habits of ours are creating poisonous
substances in our body, which cause many
diseases. How exactly are the Poisons created
inside our body? As mentioned above, when we drink
water immediately after meal, the
digestive fire/acid will be weakened.
Because of this, our stomach becomes
stagnant pond of water with undigested
food in it. So instead of digestion, fermentation of food starts in our stomach.




Fermentation is nothing but the
decomposition of food. This decomposition
of food creates the following poisons in our
body. What are these Poisonous
substances? 1. Uric acid: First poison is the increase in Uric acid
levels. Symptoms of increase in uric acid
levels are: Pain in knee, shoulder and waist joints. Swelling and pain in the ankles, feet, wrists
or elbows. 2. LDL (low-density lipoproteins) /
Bad cholesterol: Second poison is the increase in
LDL cholesterol levels. We all know that
when level of LDL cholesterol increases in
our body it becomes difficult for the blood
to flow through the veins of heart. This
increases blood pressure. If this poison continues to increase everyday it blocks
the heart veins. Ultimately it will cause
heart attack. 3. VLDL (Very low density
lipoproteins): This type of cholesterol is more dangerous
than the LDL type of cholesterol. If the level
of this cholesterol increases, it is life
threatening. 4. Increase in triglycerides levels: High triglycerides levels increases the risk
of heart diseases. Very high triglycerides
may cause blocking of the blood supply to
the heart or the brain.




www.wholesomeayurveda.com/2016/12/04/drinking-water-immediately-after-meal-is-poisonous/

I did not bother reading the epistle. Guess what, i dont drink water generally both before during or after food. I avoid water. It drowns people

slawomir:
Look at people criticizing our police

You think for you to be identified as a uniform person is easy.
Nigeria way of reasoning is dog shiit.
We can never see anything good in any sector of this nation
Our sense of reasoning and judgement is fuucked already that is why Nigeria will never grow. Even if it manage to grow it will definitely grow at the speed of an injured snail
We are quick to lambast the Nigeria police and praise the police of other nation that is not even up to our standard
Pathetic Nigerians

Which standard be una own?

LifeCoachAndre:
You can't make assumptions for an experience you have never had. Observations is very different from experience. The 1st class experience varies from one airline to another, it's not just the number of seats per row. Some 1st class experience includes full length bed space for long flights, assorted food and drinks, VIP lounge etc

Dead right.

LionDeLeo:
Nothing special, just for dudes who have too much money to throw around feeling special.

Instead of sitting in 3s, you sit in 2s, not as if there aren't sufficient space in 3s. During checking in, you are given priority, nothing more.

Same aircraft, same take-off, same landing, no remarkable difference.

Except sometimes, you have a screen directly in your front and under your control, but some aircrafts have that facility for all passengers onboard.

So, wtf.

You have more choice on what's on offer for eating and drinking and the next person will almost likely strike a conversation in the hope you will provide a business opportunity and interface. Now I hate the later. Can't one just fly in peace and sleep when you want to

The question itself is wrong. Let's forget about the answer. I have my views on that.

skywill:
wow..this is really serious.. But how did one car end up on top of the other

Overspeeding I guess..May God guide us all..

The cars were fvcking

Missionary things...

technicallyrich:
A woman's body is suppose to be her pride,but now that pride has been thrown to the dogs.
No shame.what a disgrace

Grow up. Is the husband complaining, what's your own

Nigerians forming more pope than the Pope since time imo river.

BuariCopyPaste:
Please this is not a tribal thread

It sure is not. What got me was the judge's use of the term, sophisticated, and here in Nigeria only one set of people cling to that title. I have forgotten their origin.

MDsambo:
We're proud of you bro

nothing good comes from the north

They did not teach him that you don't have a tie on if you are not wearing socks. Dressing faux pas. ..Everything no be certificate but kudos to the boy sha

SingleDad:
I threatened to tell her mother, because we were that close, but she's not digging it. She still believe that, I would grant her so much leniency because she was/is my friend.

You are a single dad, do the needful.

Tolexander:
Please come home and be making drones for us. Boko haram, Fulani herdsmen, beheaders and kidnappers are terrorising us!

Come back to which home, so that they will trace him from the airport? He should continue to add value where it is appreciated, we do not appreciate such around here. Backwards nation till eternity.

1StopRudeness:
She isn't that type of girl?? You are very sure she isn't fvckking him?? What is this one saying??

You sound like someone who has very little understanding of the human nature ....let alone a chic.....
Now see the fact in ur story....

Fact 1: she did not deceive u in any way..she already told u her mind dat she wants u as a friend only...her reasons is known to her only...mayb she's waiting for the other guy, mayby she's fvcking the dude I don't know, you don't know, nobody knows..

Fact 2: u are confusing her nice nature as a person towards u as liking u..hence u see no reason why u guys shouldn't date...

Fact 3: u are in denial....she doesn't like u as much as u think...if she does..on the day u visited her..she would have given the other guy a rain check and stay with you..for crying out loud it was raining..

Fact 4: Your jealousy is in Terra bytes..and you like to blame pple for you lack of success...you can't get a chic u like..and u claiming its becos of another guy..as if the guy is using jazz to control her..

On a normal day I would have just said free the chic and look for another..but it's clear that cupid already got u with some of its arrows
sometimes as humans..we need to feel the pain of loss before we start to cherish....

Solution 1: make ur self unavailable for her, no calls, no text, no visit....if she calls make ur words as brief and formal as possible..dont be a pvssy melting like candle any time she's around....If she gbadun you like u think..she'll reset her brain and come around...

Solution 2: when next u see her, make sure the mood is right...pull the telemundo move on her..
grab her and kiss her...if she land u correct slap, just dey go house and know that's the end...if all she does is whine like a baby..before she get her self within 4 seconds pull her close and fire another kiss...

But u can save urself a lot of stress by just getting another chic...they are all over the place..

Done and dusted. Any other contrary advise is a disservice. Stick to this bruv

Chemist009:
..... Hello fellows,my name is Shuaibu(not real name),am in my late twenties and am from Edo. So this is my story:



... Everything was going well and I was really at my peak until this happened some 11 years ago(2006 precisely)...... I was at home with my Guardian's wife and one of my cousins at night(around 8pm or so) when suddenly I heard someone call my name at the door and I answered rushing to open the door,only to discover that there was nobody at the door and i was a little terrified. And that ordeal, I can say was the beginning of my mystery.

Later on,I began having series of terrible nightmares that would linger on to become part of my life till this day. Firstly,I would always dream that I want to take something,but my hand will never get to it as i would stretch and stretch-and it was a recurring nightmare that happened on a regular basis. Secondly,I always dreamt that am always being pursued or running and when am running, it's usually at a very very slow rate and this dream too happened all the time. And so for a long sustained period,i had these two nightmares and in most occasions,always in danger.



Fastforward to a few years later and I would notice deterioration in every facet of my life, yet, I would just ignore. Later around 2012, I would gain admission into the University, but I well too realised that I was never the same again..... Before i entered University though, I began having health challenges (chest pain and discomfort) and I inwardly suspected it's a heart problem. So at the University, to cut a long story short, I never got anywhere near my peak and it was always whenever i had it in mind that I wanted to study or exams were around the corner that my chest problem always came, but when free or unoccupied or during holidays, I felt healthy and this was the trend all through my University days.


Again, although it was nightmares pre University, at the university it became somewhat metaphysical and it was in truth worrying. Whenever i slept and wanted to wake up, I always felt as though am being held down and standing up or even shaking becomes impossible and this has continued till this day. In summary, of recent it's either very terrible nightmares or not being able to stand up when awake as a result of being held down-and this mainly happens when am sleeping alone and in most cases when the room is dark.

It's way more mysterious than i presented it, but this is just a Summary of everything. Opinions please cos I feel trapped......

Be sure to never cross or entangle your legs when sleeping. Always have your room lit while sleeping. Keep an open book around your bed or sleeping area. Thank me later.

I owe 43k Fair enough

mansakhalifa:
It is indeed a very damning indictment on the security apparatus of Lagos state that these dare-devil murderers still roam freely in that part of town after all these years. What are our police detectives doing for pete's sake? Or are they waiting for the entire population of Ikorodu to be wiped out by these guys before they swing into action? Why does the life of the average Nigerian mean so little to governments in this country?

They are still savouring the arrest of Evans

SmartMugu:
Unfortunately I bought a plot of land there last year for about N1m when a friend told me 4th mainland bridge will open up the area. With all the bad news in that area, I don't think it's a good idea to build anything there. It's just too much bad news going on there.

Sell to me at 500k. ...that is the forced sale value. If you are game let's arrange for papers delivery and cash collection after inspection.

Nigeria is still a nation of laws and not of men. Let the law take its course, that's all I have to say on the matter

LUGBE:
It won't affect Evans, but will affect next kidnapper caught in the act, Nigeria laws does not adopt retrospective approaches.

Please help me school them. They must be emotional about everything. The said Evans is yet to be arraigned for that matter. The technicalities of law should also not be overlooked, an accused can explore a lacuna and be discharged based purely on the instrumentality of the law

lofty900:
By the way why did you sensor their nyashes nah? I came here to see nyashes

This fight is in youtube. It's an old fight from Zimbabwe or so.

In some bars they use sex to give you jara when you have bought a lot of drinks sef

[quote author=sean1000x post=57702521][/quote]Whenever I see that man's head, his laughter triggers mine. He must be a jovial fellow even if he is an oshogbo afonja

I see my N50 for that stash oooo

Ericaikince:
this Imo Ppl self the news I've been hearing from there is nothing to write home about... its like I go turn my NYSC down cos na there them post me go

Opportunity to perfect that intrinsic but hidden quality in you

























Running fast out thread

ivolt:
Why don't you lead by example you evil creep ?
Go ahead, kill your boss and steal his money,
then come online to seek justification.

While your mates are encouraging good behaviour in
others, you are here advocating for and praising murder, just like
street urchins.

Lebanese and their ilk are beneath me. I cannot ever work with them or for them, so that opportunity will never arise.

All I am saying is that, if they can come to Nigeria and be maltreating Nigerians and the Law (or its operators are keeping mute), then self help should take over. I am an ardent believer of hit before you are hit. I will kill you bro before you have half a chance of killing of me, it is a natural law of self preservation. Do you do their bidding killing fellow Nigerians? Shame on you.

lofty900:
see Nigerian mentality. The other day it was reported on nairaland how a Chinese man broke his Nigerian worker's spinal cord with a kung-fu kick and nothing happened to the man till today, that man has evaded justice, I once read how another Chinese man beat a pregnant employee (Nigerian) here on nairaland and the woman lost the baby. The Chinese went away scot free till today. Also ubi Franklin also told the world how a Chinese man almost killed him with a knife, the case was swept under the carpet. I hate violence but it's time these Chinese people start knowing that they can't come here and get away with rubbish. It's no more business as usual and the police should free the guy. My opinion

I was happy until i read that he was caught.

I don't support murder but I believe in the law of moses, an eye for an eye. These Chinese people have been doing stuff, lets start fvcking them up too

Choi.

Stark reality now facing them, you will see scampering to reapply with abeg oga.

THe reality of half bread being better than puff puff is now here.

Do any how see anyhow.

BUHARI thank you Sir.



Wait ooo, what does this even mean, people just type it when something bad happens so i thought to type it too.

Meanwhile, suicide is a cowardly exit.

Let me even go and see this lady that pinged me yesterday that she was depressed........