₦airaland Forum

kollinzgee:
. but advancing to the bed is my problem the girls will test you to see if you are committed and the book says never ask a girl out. Never commit so it kinda confusing.

DAMAYYOR:
How do I deal with a girl that still refers to me as her friend after defining our relationship(as my main) ??
Ps: we've been intimate before
Cc:harddon

geek4k:
Sir. I don't think getting another girl will solve the issue. Besides, never again will i be fooled by love.

Adasun:
Harddon dat number 6,do u mean during quarrel or love making?

Emperor380:
Hardon av cum again oo, pls i nid ur help boss. There is this girl i really want to make mine before December. I've never talk to her neither has she talk to me.We live in the same area but our houses are a bit far. I'm a busy guy that goes to work and returns by 7pm. On the other hand she's also a busy and working class too. I don't really know hw to hook up with her, I've been thinking of giving her a surprise visit but don't know if its a gud idea. I need u to give me sum tips on wat to do, wch step to take...i really nid her b4 December fr a purpose

MuyiRano:
Pls on wat pg is the bird story?
I've bn tryin to read it again but I couldn't get the pg

HARDDON:
DRILL NUGGET 22

How To Date Right

Don't fall for this manipulation lines:

1. "Is it this little thing that's making you red? "

What you don't like, you don't like. Period. Never let her manipulate you into seeing stupidity in what you don't dig.
Put your foot down.

2. "He is just a friend"

You would not imagine how many gurls that are SERIOUSLY dating that yours truly is JUST A FRIEND WITH. She is getting something from him that you ain't offering. It could be funds, time, listening ear or he just knows how to touch her and tip her over the edge of sexy sanity. It is your duty to codedly find out.

While at it,
promote one of your flowers... When your woman starts asking questions about her, tell her "she is just a friend also".
We are too busy to grow jealouse.

kollinzgee:
Wow that's a moral booster Harddon my major setback in the game is the Nigerian society. From childhood we have been groomed to believe that if u ain't got money no girls for u and I believe the female folks have really taken advantage of this mentality everyday here in campus yabatech u see married men and big boys picking up girls so easily. Let's be sincere here rich guys are really attractive to women no matter their looks and personality. am not on the financially buoyant side now questions is does that really matter can you still be attractive to women if u are broke I mean hot women.

tee59:
Why the guys in pre wedding pictures now are fatter than their wives to be.? Some guys are really enjoying this economy sha.

kollinzgee:
Oga harddon may you wisdom surpass that of Solomon. Been following ur drills since 2017 but improvement is slow for me. My problem now is lack of confidence I get confident at times but it will later drop. I wanna be just like you harddon been following many pick up artists some work but some fail I bought bang rule by Charles nneji but am a slow learner the tricks in that book work but the problem is advancing to the next stage I get girls fall for me but I can't advance to sex please now I come to u for help change my life I desperately wanna be an alpha male like u baba.

Acsm:
I salute you bozz hardon for this drill nugget..I av been adherent follower.. which sleek response can I give to a girl dah wud ask if I love her during dose heated moments.(shirt flying moments)like twice now...TBH I wulda told her I love her but her possible response wud be she doesn't (even as I can tell she does)..
Last time she asks I drew her close n kissed her forehead..
Nb: she's in a serious relationship with her bf..buh I'm planning to av her all to myself

Cc: Hardon

LeiderJa:
Please, How will you reply a babe that asks where you got her number?

amiibaby:
The one he lies to ofcos... Cos he can't bear to hurt her with the truth....but at the long run the truth suffices

pweeryambre:
I was recently posted to a different unit at my work place, under a very cheerful boss lady. She has been very good to me like she chats me up all the time and takes me out to lunch most of the time. But lately, I noticed she's been giving me attitude, she's been doing that to the point it's affecting my work around her.
She has become so stiff/rigid around me like I'm always uncomfortable and tiptoeing around her, she stops taking me to lunch or sharing stuffs with me, she starts to give me work to do with no instruction and when I turn to ask her question I see she doesn't even want to make eye contact, like she doesn't want me to ask her questions or be around her at all. I once sent her a text message that I feel she's giving me attitude and it makes Me to not know how to react around her and that I am sorry if have done anything wrong. But she did not reply.

Today she gave me a job to do which happens to be confidential but gave me no heads up about it and when I'm done I went and submitted the job On the table in her office with her rival present there.
She later came to me to scold me badly that I have changed and that iam misbehaving. she said a lot of things which made me feel bad, but I'm sure she was the one that has changed.

I don't know how to explain to her how I feel without having any quarrel or upsetting her, Because it's almost looking as if she want us to have a quarrel or something.