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brandon180:
Nah shez stays around, we do greet, jst 'hi'..she a kinda high class babe...

and you are a low class gee huh?

aiit, she is off your league then, do send me her contacts i wano teach her stuffs

polimaf:
You are right... but read the line sire: Definitely you guys must have talked about this in your early stage of relationship so why keep mentioning it? What the article said is repetition as if its an achievement... Its one thing that must be discussed before marriage..

Ladies lie. Most especially in such terrian.

A wise man wudnt even bother himself with such a question. He wud find out ..... go figure

So even after you proposed, she wasnt lady enough to tell you? Wow.

Yea i know , it must have been difficult to relate that to u. But for u to find out from other sources is just terrible on her part even after the proposal.
For one, i know she isnt a baby anymore n putting tots to words shldnt be much of a freaking hard thing to do especially one u r planning a future wit. How r u gono trust her to tell u critical things hereafter?

How wud u be so such she isnt gono go bedding d baby dadda after u marry her n keep it clandestine?
Whether you like it or not, he wud always have a special place in her heart n looking @ that baby is a constant reminder of him.



Solution:

ONly u can really tell. If u did proposed, there are qualities u saw in her.
You just need to ask her some critical life defining questions b4 u stick in any further.


@ all, Been a single parent isnt a plague. If anything @ all, it shows u admitted a mistake n decided to live wit d blessing/consequences n as such, should be commended. If she has good xta.

Yours truly wud pick a single momma that he is sure is fertile over a single lady that has comittted multiple abortions in time past.

Was actually nodding along until i came number 5!

Op, may u not meet n marry a womb so distroyed because of abortions wheda 1ce or multiple times n her keeping it a secret from u!

If you know the trauma such is causing in families, u wudnt spew that thrash

Everything is not all about blogging

Was actually nodding along until i came number 5!

Op, may u not meet n marry a womb so distroyed because of abortions wheda 1ce or multiple times n her keeping it a secret from u!

If you know the trauma such is causing in families, u wudnt spew that thrash

ibkayee:
Lol where did you get the backstory?

Who knows maybe im the very guy in question

ibkayee:
Ehn but there's an emotional attachment, unlike the sidechicks that aren't invested emotionally and are just there for the monetary benefits. The side chick in love has more to lose and sounds more deluded than the one just there for the cheque

She was there first but because of her stinking xta n two timing ways, op wen n married another more loyal one.

Then one day, she woke up n noticed he was married already n hated herself for not bn comited all along. She came pleading n due to old fire dat neva really totally go off, d idiatic guy bed her n has bn entangled eva since!

This is her way of psuedo punishing wify for stealing her man.

@Op,

You are worth nothing but d wig on ur head. Even brain has taken leave of u.

Keep spteading ur legs because of some cheap coins. By d time u wake up, u wud be in ur 40s n regretting ur freaking wasted younger years.

N while @ it, u can even bear him some vagabons. Illegitimate kids that hv no bearing, place nor names in life . To bear record of ur wrench stench of a scar

Benita27:
Your assumptions that you noticed she possessed things she could not afford like; handbags and shoes is funny, are you saying she's an orphan or doesn't have a relative who could give her money for those?. The only thing that validates she might be cheating was the calls you were suspecting. As for her not adding you on social media beside whatsapp is a good thing. Were you expecting her to flaunt you on social media 'cause you two are dating?...Silly girls do that .

N just wen i tot ive heard d worse from u, you pull another one of your parochial classics!
Smh

@ op, the signs have been obvious, u were just too blindly in luv to see.
Try as you may, only a few ladies out there can hold off n turn down an opportunity for a more confortable instant life with another when pitched agaisnt an upcoming Male species.

Hard Truth 1:
She hasnt been yours all along( u lost her a long time ago) n was just tagging along considering u aint always up in her space n u only get to see on some weekends. I know some other weekends, she gives flimsy excuses why she cant come over.

You Knew but was too sissy to confront her because u were scared of two things: what u wud find out n losing her after d outburst( which just happened now. Talk about putting forth dooms day)

Hard Truth 2:

Here r the possible situations with her:

1. She'z into high class runz( has one or two big boys taking care of her financial needs n she pays in kind. Most likely n daz why she receives coded calls. She tells them her Dad forbids her spending d weekend in sch n uses dat as excuse to come see u)

Or there is one she really luvs n told him @ d beginning about u n he's been pestering her to dump u. She been looking for an opportunity


Or low class runs( service different random guys for pay) or a combination of both

2. There is some1 she holds in high regards on SM. Maybe one of her private financial or she is one of d very few reserved type that dont do SM PDA


Recommendation:

Yes ofcos, She just did you a favour by ending it( crude but advantagous awakening) cos u nida had d guts nor d balls to. You must pick the pieces n move on but not before you find out what exactly she was hiding. It wud help u know the kinda snake you've bn wit n help your healing process also. N u wud be wiser for it with ur nxt.

Dont know how u wud do it considering d distace but you must find out.

What u wud not wano do is go begging her like a needy bleeping nerd whose singular idiosyncrasy is a penchant for some wet freaking cleft

Focus on your buks n mk sure in d nearest future ,she regrets these ways of hers when she sees or hears about u fvcking success.

Now be gone

@ Dandiaz72 n

Cyber5

mail: datingdrill@gmail.com

nkowalo:
Holy Micheal. hmnnnn am short of words, thank God say our family (john thomas) no burn oooo.

Most ladies sexily think with their anal pore.

Ignore the man, go for his money

Should u acquire the money,

Ignore the money, go for his Jrod

Should u get the Jrod,

Ignore the Jrod, go for his freaking fvcking bedding skills

If not, promote one in d Fzone n reloop d process

#Weareheadlesshighlysexualgurls

LivinaPatrick:
Thank God his thing dey intact

Gurls, gurls..

smh


@ op, what a sight!

Papiikush:
Body count doesn't matter the moment we are together.

I cud easily have stewed in same pot wit u but da heck?!
Havent u read that there is something about an ova used, supper abused/mined site? It bears d brunt n bruises of years past.

It bears it in character n in body.

World view neva dsame
Respect neva substained
Utter disdain from d repackaged n processed heart broken a thousand times.
Have a rethink

Papiikush:
Body count doesn't matter the moment we are together.

I cud easily have stewed in same pot wit u but da heck?!
Havent u read that there is something about an ova used, supper abused/mined site? It bears d brunt n bruises of years past.

It bears it in character n in body.

World view neva dsame
Respect neva substained
Utter disdain from a repackaged n processed heart broken a thousand times.
Have a rethink

Derailed much , we have
Roll now , we must

midehi2:
My best celebrity couple, keep it up

Very wrong body language from husby.

She leads d pack

Tenim47:
do u like urself being a nigerian?

No other country id rather come from.
The change we seek is within us n not until we put religion, bigotry , nepotism , crude complain wit not solution backed by action, we cant get d milk n honey out of d land

Tahrah:
Still better than the zoo where skull mining,kidnapping and baby factory thrives and the government don't give a damn..

What have you done for d country today?
Even as lil as prayer, i dont think u whispered yet go spilling your juice ova d Zoo @ every oppirtunity

Cant imagine Naira!!!!!

$160k = 40mila if not more.

Weep nija weep

HARDDON:
This is no Game. It is a way of life of the superior man. Every game eventually comes to an end n bliv u me, when u get tired n decide to hang your boots, that is when d law of retribution sets in n tiny lil ones soft bones start punching you on ur old lane! Then u get irritated, locate n don ur playing boots again N da circle continues.

That said,
We aint made of silicon like Siri: So Yes , we do fall in luv. We flow lines n rhymes even sing to her sometimes, We cud make her brkfast in bed, take her to d bathroom give her her warm bath, help shave her down below( yea, we like it totally clean... winks), take her out to exotic places within our pockets, we spend some quality time with her( chats, calls, physical etc).
The diffrence btw us n average guys in these terrain is that : we dont let emotions/Jrod to dictate our lives. We never get clingy n needy. Infact, we never give them complete seat. The more we luv her, the less seat space we give her. Keep her in check n on her toes.
We cud be rolling on hay one moment, the next we act like she doenst even exist. We create calculated situation that generate heated arguments sometimes just because we miss make up fvck ( oops!) n to push her ova d brim to talk. Silent , peaceful r/ship aint kul. You wud neva get to know each other n bond beyond s3x.

We know where n when to draw d lines. We take up our balls n direct d relationship gallantly. She does anything we dont like, we call her our soundly wit no delay.
We know the different btw singing luv n actually showing luv in the lil daily acts, things that makes her sware her life to us.
We never let fun jab out of our lives. We always sprinkle us.
Average guys get to a point, after labelling d r/ship, they go monitoring her every move, gettinG stuffy n not giving her breathing space. Getting too serious n losing d fun touch. Trying to instil d fear thingy in her heart. Doesnt work.

We know how to punish in different ways( using d d1ck, attention starvation, ignoring, raising our voice in calculated deep decibels, walking out on her, dropping d call on her, not eating her fud, denying her s3x etc.... )
these are not for d feint hearts lover boys


We do things cos we wano, not cos we r shrewdly cajoled to.

In summary, we know how to bring d rain when necessary n how to balance it off with sun shyne smile.

Dare to try! We are no mere men!

Sporadic, spontenous, unpredictable, wild, rocky, fun, firm as an iroko, have a life of our own, gud in bed etc

Oludrex:
@harddon and ballers in the house, have you ever fallen in love since you understand the game... if yes kindly share your experience

This is no Game. It is a way of life of the superior man. Every game eventually comes to an end n bliv u me, when u get tired n decide to hang your boots, that is when d law of retribution sets in n tiny lil ones soft bones start punching you on ur old lane! Then u get irritated, locate n don ur playing boots again N da circle continues.

That said,
We aint made of silicon like Siri: So Yes , we do fall in luv. We flow lines n rhymes even sing to her sometimes, We cud make her brkfast in bed, take her to d bathroom give her her warm bath, help shave her down below( yea, we like it totally clean... winks), take her out to exotic places within our pockets, we spend some quality time with her( chats, calls, physical etc).
The diffrence btw us n average guys in these terrain is that : we dont let emotions/Jrod to dictate our lives. We never get clingy n needy. Infact, we never give them complete seat. The more we luv her, the less seat space we give her. Keep her in check n on her toes.
We cud be rolling on hay one moment, the next we act like she doenst even exist. We create calculated situation that generate heated arguments sometimes just because we miss make up fvck ( oops!) n to push her ova d brim to talk. Silent , peaceful r/ship aint kul. You wud neva get to know each other n bond beyond s3x.

We know where n when to draw d lines. We take up our balls n direct d relationship gallantly. She does anything we dont like, we call her out soundly wit no delay.
We know the different btw singing luv n actually showing luv in the lil daily acts, things that makes her swear her life to us.
We never let fun jab out of our lives. We always sprinkle us.
Average guys get to a point, after labeling d r/ship, they go monitoring her every move, getting stuffy n not giving her breathing space. Getting too serious n losing d fun touch. Trying to instill d fear thingy in2 her heart. Doesnt work.

We know how to punish in different ways( using d d1ck, attention starvation, ignoring, raising our voice in calculated deep decibels, walking out on her, dropping d call on her, not eating her fud, denying her s3x etc.... )
these are not for d feint hearts lover boys


We do things cos we wano, not cos we r shrewdly cajoled to.

In summary, we know how to bring d rain when necessary n how to balance it off with sun shyne smile.

Dare to try! We are no mere men!

Double Don

HEllo every1 :

Batch B folks.
Tables have been crazy full this month. But we roll soon.

kindly indicate by mail if you have received the Bond Words.
Rich Regards
Don

Theflint1:
Boss I'm in a situation quite similar to this.

In my case, the guy is the girls first love and even though he didn't contact her for like 6 months, she's still very much in love with the guy or stupid about him. Before he called during the 6 month non-calling spell, she had almost agreed we start dating and as soon as he called, everything changed again.

I bleeped up one time (be wan chop meat before e don) and she still cites that as a reason why she doesnt't trust me entirely but I think that's but a tiny part of the issue. The main issue here is her first love who still wields a vice-like grip over her heart.

What's the way out boss, what should I do?

The ealier the better you ball mehn. We cant be wasting on some lil stuffs.
Hang in there n watch how quickly u turn from a seemingly main guy to a side , assistant boy.


First luv that De'ved a gurl always have a special place in her heart. Most especially if he is gud beneath d sheets( just know how to touch her to drive her crazy n spilling some juicy!), have sleek tongue n they didnt have a hard breakup. Even @ that, he can always warm his way back, lay her n disappear again ova n ova. She cant help it.
If average guys can do that, just imagine guys like us. A limbo lumber!

Amaterasu:
I met this new babe recently, and after her first visit to my house I discovered she is in an abusive relationship, the guy controls and dictates to her like Adolf Hitler and even hits her some times. Infact the guy recently blocked me from her face book page recently after I sent her an inbox message to accept my request because he has her password which I didn't know. The guy stays far away from this town. She wants to leave this guy for me but don't know how to go about it. The truth is apart from the fact that I want this babe, my desire is for this girl to leave this relationship even if I was not interested in her at all, the control of this guy is just too much. I want to ask her to unblock me now, she brought up the issue sometime ago but I just changed the topic but rethinking about it irritates me and I want lead her forward in this.

My gurus in the house is this a wise step ? OR I should just continue to "cain my line" independent of the guy and allow things to freely/effortlessly take shape with time. For the sake of the records this girl is a good wife material a bit shy and my type of girl , she can't stay a day without calling me ; I don't just know how she got hooked up with this Adolf Hitler.

It is either the guy pays her bills( most probable) had an attractive/scary spell ( gud in bed, axe man( she wsno change) etc) on her, he's her first luv, she's plain naive or he has most of d qualities she luvs in a man.

You have to find out exactly why she stayed put all this while. Very important if you are to make a head way n also for your safety.

classicpeezy:
Help a nigger in need, there's this babe I really like and I'm sure likes me back but I effed up and came too thirsty for her, now she seems to be playing me, avoiding my chyking but not turning me down. What can I do bro?

Huh?

Benita27:
And if this guy is a student do you think he'd hide that on a first or second date?. Does it look to you like my life evolve around a guy's income?. I just can't date a guy I don't know his source of income but that doesn't mean I'd start demanding. Don't even know how to ask for financial favours .

those are things people talk about when they've gotten confy with each other and there seems to be light for a future bout.

not a first or second date thingy.

@ emboldened,
yea, we know.

Benita27:
The first thing I ask guys is what they do for a living. Once stories aren't adding up I take a walk. Can't afford to be dating/married to a yahoo nigga.

Nice piece op.

@ emphasied, but ofcos!

We need to quickly know if he can pay our bills dont we?

Benita27:
Benita won't ask such a question on such occasion. Replace it with exchange of contacts and on a call or second meeting we could talk deep.

Hmmmm

EveAkins:
na wa oh. why is it that the good guys don't meet nice girls and nice girls don't meet the good guys? sometimes when I hear a guy Describe a good girl ( in his opinion) and end up saying " such girls don't exist". I'd be like that's totally wrong. Cause I know I am an example.

Daz because opposite terms .........fill in d blank spaces.

N u cudnt convince me that u gud cos evn d vry badt gurls are very gud in their own eyes.

There is what ppl describe n we ascribe to our sexy selves evn if we are far off @ a tangent wit such

Benita27:
You just defined a whöre. So you didn't school me.

You obviously missed this part:

"Also, been a good / bad gurl cud take on a million n one robes depending on d scenerio you decide to drool on."


Btw,

Itz father's day n d day is far spent..... not a nice word from u

Happy Father's Big Baller's Day Guys!

Church was Awesome today!

n if you didnt know,

Im from a land where rhymes reign, wine blind n mind dine.

Not for naught was i born with balls

I pledge to sway stay to these sound stands

So help me Heart

Don Endorsed!