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RomanceRe: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 4:00pm On Jun 17, 2017
Kalatium:
grin No
There he is; applying my own pill on me. Yea u didnt miss me but u didnt even let me type first b4 quoting cheesy

Hope u know what wud happen to u if i decide to stop updating because of this statement of yours? cheesy
RomanceRe: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by HARDDON: 3:50pm On Jun 17, 2017
Benita27:
Now that you don't seem to be "Commanding" me, I could explain what I meant.

"Being a good girl doesn't pay, men would disrespect you"...here, I was making reference to doormat girlfriends. What do I mean?. A guy would cheat on you, you'll be the one begging him and trying to get his attention even after being put in such emotional stress, no one's life revolve around the other. He wrongs you, you apologise even when he knows he was wrong but holding back the 'Sorry' word which seem too heavy to come out of his lips. He thinks too highly of himself, and less of you but you're there showing him love and hoping he'd change. Whenever he calls, you're at his service, never saying 'No' just to satisfy him. These are things "Good girls" do to keep their man/relationship but it usually backfires 'cause men want strong-willed women. Women who would say 'No' to certain things and stand by it.

Let me shine my teeth again 'cause I'm having a good day. grin
Awww dearie ! It must hv been terrible. How did u survive it? tongue

Btw, been a good gurl isnt equal been a naive first-time-in-luv-doll. There is a wide chasm.

Also, been a good / bad gurl cud take on a million n one robes depending on d scenerio you decide to drool on.

Generally speaking, gud gurls are reserved n homely, knows how to cook great meals, wud rather help u save than spend, are principled, dont do two timing, rock ur wits n ur bed, gud sence of humour, gives u ur btrathing space, understands, good communicator, stands by her man , keeps no grudge, industrous n a host of others

While badt gurls r generally opposite of d above listed qualities. You can add been crazy , hot headed , strong willed , hot temper and night life ( weeds, can fight, stab, drink like fishes, fvck random d1ck daily for money, visits prayer houses n herbalists, can kill without a blink etc) to d cognac.


See? Now u schooled
RomanceRe: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by HARDDON: 3:32pm On Jun 17, 2017
Fraih:
grin All rights reserved....
The summaries I gave is enough info for now wink
Pained . wink


Lil rights reserved tongue

Angel aint shy u know shocked
RomanceRe: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by HARDDON: 3:27pm On Jun 17, 2017
Fraih:
Worry less grin
Aha, i knew you wudnt be lady enough to talk about it. embarassed

Even though u almost made me bliv he stupidly broke up with his ONE true angel
RomanceRe: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by HARDDON: 2:57pm On Jun 17, 2017
Benita27:
You sound pained. I don't owe you an explanation, neither do I take orders in regards to my dos and don'ts from you...so I'll keep shining my 32, and if you have issues with that, hug a transformer. grin cheesy grin grin grin grin grin
Pained? Common BINTA. Was just looking out for u.
D thing is "close UP " pay huge sums to ppl to just shine their teeth for few secs in adverts n here u are sampling em freely at sexy will. tongue

About your post, you mos def knew what im about to do, hence u shelf your sword. Lillylivered?
RomanceRe: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by HARDDON: 2:47pm On Jun 17, 2017
Fraih:
No...
It's his loss.
Are we missing something? undecided
RomanceRe: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by HARDDON: 2:41pm On Jun 17, 2017
Benita27:
Keep calculating jabs. Who you just described isn't me. grin
I knew you wud gasp for breath while u strive to construe dat portrait of urs i just painted.

Lets Joggle you mind

Odunha rry:

Being a good girl pays.. MEN won't disrespect you.
Response from a handler:

Benita27(f):
It doesn't. They'd disrespect you the most.
I'd luv to take u to the clearners but wud rather give u d mic to explain exactly what you meant by d above.

While @ it, stop shinning those massive teeth of yours angry
RomanceRe: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by HARDDON: 2:33pm On Jun 17, 2017
Fraih:
He should come right here to answer...

#continueswithmypopcorn undecided cheesy
Oh , he did the breaking....

Take heart lil one
RomanceRe: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 2:20pm On Jun 17, 2017
Hello Guys.

Missed me? tongue tongue tongue
RomanceRe: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 2:18pm On Jun 17, 2017
HARDDON:
from the above response template, you can deduce fun evasiveness. Yours truly is neither concurring nor objecting. Leave her in a fun limbo, or accuse of her rushing things.......


Never let any lady dictate to you how your relationship should swing! No! never in this kinda critical lane. If need be, grab your balls and remind her who's got them balls.

if you are the type that blivs in no s3x before marriage, then avoid touchy touchy. why start what you would get to finish?


of what use is a hole without a corresponding socket? grin shocked
SENSE PILL 107:
If only you are shrewd enuf to gallantly walk tru this, only her wud beg to have you right in there soon!
Always do U. Dont bend n b mind molded into a lane your aint down with.
RomanceRe: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by HARDDON: 1:59pm On Jun 17, 2017
Benita27:
@embolden, it's human nature. I do have reasons for the comments I make on here, and would either choose to exchange words with whoever holds a contrary opinion or I feel it isn't worth debating. Hope you didn't misunderstanding my previous comment? .
@ emphasized
I dont need to knock too hard to know that you always posit n try, however awkward most times, to paint ladies in sweet innocent light while guys r d sleek devils.
A calculated jab i suppose ?
RomanceRe: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by HARDDON: 1:04pm On Jun 17, 2017
Benita27:
Go on.
Nah, we wud end up in a loop because you let your emotions becloud your sound sense of reasoning most times. N i'd rather we roll on fun hay than split heirs on a sexy loop
RomanceRe: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by HARDDON: 12:53pm On Jun 17, 2017
nayomie7:
Bleep boys everywhere
angryBleep boys everywhere
Needy gurls everywhere! Pretentious soft souls everywhere
RomanceRe: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by HARDDON: 12:49pm On Jun 17, 2017
Benita27:
I don't get you, say what you have in mind.
Ive got no ish painting you a graphical pix of my mind's mood. The prob is; if you would be able to process same
RomanceRe: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by HARDDON: 12:43pm On Jun 17, 2017
Biafrareform:
How do I connect to your whatsapp group.
SImply send a request mail: datingdrill@gmail.com
RomanceRe: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by HARDDON: 12:40pm On Jun 17, 2017
Benita27:
It doesn't. They'd disrespect you the most.
undecided undecided undecided

angry


@ op, in Tiwa's voice....... if i start to talk...... ya'll wud label me angry


There is sometin about having a Silver Tongue coupled with my brain n TDMH


Not to blame
FamilyRe: My Man Is Too Attached To His Mum, Advice Needed by HARDDON: 11:23am On Jun 17, 2017
thorpido:
Closeness is one thing,being a mummy's boy is another. You have to know the difference.
He can be close to his mum yet be his own man and make his own decisions.I don't think you should have a problem with that.If he's a mummy's boy however- can't make decisions without her input,allows her control him e t.c.,then you should run.
Don Endorsed!
Foreign AffairsRe: USS Fitzgerald Damaged By The Crash, Seven Crew Members Missing by HARDDON: 10:34am On Jun 17, 2017
Delibrate attempt? Cos i cant imagine all d radar n sensors just went haitus n let this happen
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by HARDDON: 10:18am On Jun 17, 2017
Olabisidebra:
Hi I'm Debra.... Mature and cool frnds are welcm
Mmmm
RomanceRe: Her First Visit Left Me Totally Confused by HARDDON: 9:15am On Jun 17, 2017
This is exactly how ladies feel too when guys go rushing to get into their panties first visit!

See guys? Get d memo.


Op, so many things cud be responsible.
Most probable is She's sexually active n hasnt had it for a long time.

The more beautiful n endowed they r, the less they let lose n enjoy d beauty of life n living wit guys(unless they got night life). The more vunerable they r to one they be feeling
CelebritiesRe: Fans React To Don Jazzy's Outfit: Find Girl, Give Her Belle Like Davido, Wizkid by HARDDON: 8:53am On Jun 17, 2017
Sure he isnt impotent?

Imagine all d fyn dolls that breeze by him every day, throws themselves @ him.

With al d fame n fortune. not even a baby momma!

Sometin aint ryt!
RomanceRe: Se X Will Make Your Relationship Stronger Only At The Appropriate Time by HARDDON: 6:20pm On Jun 16, 2017
Benita27:
Clearly, your submission is relative here. Just as is rare to find guys who won't stop demanding for sex so it's with ladies who won't stop demanding for money, and other material things. It's trade by barter. ..money/material things for sex.

Secondly, how did you come up with your statistic?, I assume it's based on speculation...guys don't meet up to ninety five percent of a girl's needs. The only exception is if he's your fiancé which isn't feasible in most situations.

Perhaps my reasoning is impaired and monocultured 'cause I'm dealing with someone who thinks he knows women more than they know themselves.
@ bolded, thatz no normal trade by barter, itz an improper one in favour of you lil lovely soft souls.
If for every penny you guys eat off guys, there is a proportional pvssy spanking, husbys wud hv been left with well drilled well by d time he comes. You cant construe this.

Moreover, my statistics aint based on hyperbolic hypothesis. Daz just the way it is. N i didnt mean 1 guy providing 95% of his lady's needs.
I meant : for every 100 ladies' requests, like 95% of them wud get their wish Only 5% of guys have the balls enuf to see tru d subtle moves.

Lastly, I dont think i know ladies. I ACTUALLY do much more than u cud imagine.
Just because you r a female doesnt mean you really understand what it takes to be a man wit a Womb.

like there are alota folks out there branding highly powered mobile devices n dont use 30% of their intended function, so also it is with a being that has two pairs of soft mounds strapped to her chest n a lil cleft inbtw her legs n therefore bears woman.

Research n Royal experience dust all that. cool

Go figure.
RomanceRe: Se X Will Make Your Relationship Stronger Only At The Appropriate Time by HARDDON: 12:49pm On Jun 16, 2017
Benita27:
Personally, I don't roll with fùckboys so the change of circle advice should be given to someone who cares. What I stated is a known fact with most guys. You could only see few who would venture into relationships without putting sex first on the table, while it's the norm to many that sex comes first before anything. Anyway, the op made sense in his write-up.
As you wud only see very few ladies who wud not saddle you with their bills just by meeting them. Make d mistake of preaching luv to them n watch them milk you.

If we are to roll this lane, guys are worst hit because out of hundred demands of ladies from guys they just met, 95% of them wud be met whereas if same number was to be analysed based on guys demanding s ex from ladies they just met, only 5% wud hit it even after spending. So dont sweat it.

Btw,
If you dont roll with fvckboys, your reasoning wudnt have been so impaired n monocultured.


Only the first 3 paragraph of d op have verisimilitude. Others are nothing but a beclouded wailing of a wantom willow
RomanceRe: Se X Will Make Your Relationship Stronger Only At The Appropriate Time by HARDDON: 12:46pm On Jun 16, 2017
Double Don
RomanceRe: Se X Will Make Your Relationship Stronger Only At The Appropriate Time by HARDDON: 10:51am On Jun 16, 2017
Benita27:
The op made lot of sense. I was expecting to find a fùckboy who'd disagree. It's said that before sex a guy isn't reasoning properly while the ladies do but after sex the lady isn't reasoning properly while the guys do. So in holding on to it we ladies get to know what guys are really out for, and if the relationship could be termed genuine or not. People abuse the word "Love" this days just to get sex.
@ first bolded, change your circles. Only regular guys lose their senses, sell their souls for a lil taste of d wet hollow flesh btw a lady's thighs.
Guys like us aint easily swayed. U must be worth it to even see us naked let alone touch our bare skin.
Jrod only Rolls Royal. cool
This was why i told d op to go figure.

Besides, if guys like us aint principled, we dont need to voice d L word b4 ladies like u spread your wet n wanting legs.
A lil Sly smile wud suffice. cool

N oh, nxt time u need not hide behind the cloak of words to call s1 a fvckboy tru your quaking legs. Just go ahead n do it n hope we dont make it a point of urgent order to use u as test rat. cool
RomanceRe: Se X Will Make Your Relationship Stronger Only At The Appropriate Time by HARDDON: 10:50am On Jun 16, 2017
Double Don
PhonesRe: Etisalat Nigeria’s Troubles Worsen As Largest Shareholder Pulls Out by HARDDON: 8:05am On Jun 16, 2017
Etisalat has neva been in the interest of d common man.

Heck they've bn here on ghost node extorting public funds with high priced services.

No one wud know evn if they r gone
RomanceRe: Se X Will Make Your Relationship Stronger Only At The Appropriate Time by HARDDON: 7:50am On Jun 16, 2017
Warped words pencilled from d stables of a discombobulated mind

Men aint d devil. Go figure
EducationRe: UNI UYO Official Webpage Hacked. by HARDDON: 7:44am On Jun 16, 2017
What a weak mind.
To what bloody end is this senseless hack?
Even his english is so razz!
PoliticsRe: Abba Kyari Laughs As Osinbajo Signs 2017 Budget (Photos) by HARDDON: 12:07pm On Jun 14, 2017
celebrating budget signing, in june, that would have no impact on the life of the common man.

and look at how many almajiris in the picture
CelebritiesRe: See The 'Sexy' Photo Actress Liz Da Silva Shared by HARDDON: 5:50pm On Jun 10, 2017
WHat is the female world really turning into?

So no shots witout acting like toy gurls of d western world?
RomanceRe: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by HARDDON: 5:45pm On Jun 10, 2017
mostsimpliest:
On a very serious note this has got me down since yesterday night and i have no one to ask or share this with among my friends cause none of them will listen to me as far as is about this girl (my ex)

It all started when i was in my level 300 first semester after we started dating, even the air i breath can bear me witness that i loved this girl with my life that i couldn't spent 2 hours without hearing from her. I got to know her through a secondary school classmate which was her friend and roommate then, I was the type that don't do relationship stuff since i thought it was all about waste of time and even doubt if there was anything like true love, I told this friend of mine about my love for her friend and she laughed and said that i can't date her since am the no-nonsense type and that she has hot tempered like me and that she was madly in love with her guy and she doesn't double date.

With time they had problem with this guy which i used to my advantage and she accepted my proposal of dating.

On this day, Etisalat were doing one bonanza like that and i wanted to participate and didn't have their sim whereas this my ex was having an etisalat and mtn sim,
I collected her sim so that i participate in the promo only for me to start seeing what i wasn't suppose to see but sincerely i never suspected her of any misdeed, I was so heartbroken by the messages on her phone especially from a particular number.

I saved d no. and chatted up with the guy not knowing dah he was her so-called ex that know me even though i didn't know him then coz we lived in the same area....she called me that night and was raining causes on me and threatening to cut off the relationship that i didn't trust her that's why i chatted up with him,i pleaded with all my life for days before she accepted my apology after i carried out my research on her i got to understand that they were still dating...

To cut the story short towards my exams she started showing me attitudes before telling me it was over.....I attempted suicide only friends were able to stop me from that callous act

Her mum invited me over that i should try begging her if i still got achance,i stupidly begged this girl because i was totally in love with her,she agreed buh that i will be the side boyfriend and that her guy mustnt know that we dating,i happily acepted buh guess what some months to exams again its over with plenty insults and threats from her that am too jealous that she doesnt wanna loose her bf.i accepted in good faith.

After sometime,she called me on the phone mind you she asked me not to ever call her or chat her up,i picked and was giving her one word answer which make her never to call me again...but seriously am now feeling bad like am childish dont know whether to call her or what do you guys think?
Oh blood of Zachariah!!!!

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