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RomanceRe: When Your Girlfriend Keeps Telling You That She Will Get You Her Cousin To Marry by HARDDON: 11:04pm On Jul 02, 2017
She here for d short time ride not for a long term haul. But she doesnt wano lose u to just any random gurl out there so to keep u in d fam, her coz is d best bet

Need a soothe sayer?
PoliticsRe: Quit Notice On Igbos: What Arewa Youths Should Have Done – Al-mustapha by HARDDON: 10:21pm On Jul 02, 2017
Adebowale89:
so all Nigeria oil presently is in East? because u people are the real definition of confusion


east had all the oil blocks of Nigeria right and Nigerians can't survive without them? u guys should quit this baby talk
N who said anything about my having an east root? Stick your neck out of your bleeding bu77 n get ur facts right b4 going on a freaking spill.

If anything, i do hate the idea behind biafra.
No plans whatsoever just like ur president had none.

They are just basing on a template set by ojukwu eons ago which is bound to fail even if they finally get their wish.
How can one set out on a course like this because they feel maginalized without asking some cogent questions n finding ansas to same first?
Christianity EtcRe: Why I Left Christ Embassy Church by HARDDON: 3:54pm On Jul 02, 2017
Op, i am not a member but i got just one question:

Have you ever prayed that the Holy Spirit Redirect his steps back to the light ever before?
CelebritiesRe: Daniella Okeke Pretty In Makeup Photos by HARDDON: 3:27pm On Jul 02, 2017
teresafaith:
Upon every every, she still no fine mtchewwww
Show us ur pix please .


@ op, her lips like some1 who "blaus" . Thick n black n dry
EventsRe: See Nigerians Abroad Displaying Huge Placard On The Whereabout Of Buhari (pix) by HARDDON: 3:24pm On Jul 02, 2017
smartty68:
Looks photoshopped
Yea but the msg has been passed
CrimeRe: How To Help Frustrate Scammers In Nigeria – Gtbank by HARDDON: 3:22pm On Jul 02, 2017
N how do u hope to block d internal thieves that give private details out? n even yourself from all d illegal deductions? angry
EducationRe: Judiciary, Everybody’s Hope – Justice Danjuma by HARDDON: 3:20pm On Jul 02, 2017
Yea right!

Like we dont know that nigerian laws are for d average man ?

The rich like Us live above them
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About Stereotypes. E.g Calaba Girls Love Sex by HARDDON: 2:42pm On Jul 02, 2017
SirMichael1:
20years you say? Hope all is well sir?

I know that ladies are 2years wiser than their male counterpart.
2Wor? Nah!
That is in theory and on paper.

All d tiny 20yrs old gurl need to do is flash a lil soft flesh n d much older guy turns mumu.

Ask sugar deddies wat they go tru in d hands of dese lil ones that their daughters r older than.

One major bane in d existence of men is their inability to control Jrod. Go figure
PoliticsRe: Quit Notice On Igbos: What Arewa Youths Should Have Done – Al-mustapha by HARDDON:
You know the north have more to lose!

Just imagine If oil was in d north. Nigeria wud have broken up long time ago!

Every region needs to control what resources are located within its domain n only pay token to FG.

This is the way forward. This wud make all governors sit up n look for a way to make money to fund their budgets

It wud make developement faster. Power issues wud be addressed swiftly n those granted stay in other region wud know their place n not run cows tru farmlands.
RomanceRe: Option by HARDDON: 1:50pm On Jul 02, 2017
She is totally in control of u n d r/ship n you feel the sand shifting off ur feet. Ur heart failing in its beat n u seem lost in tots.

Do this to test her:

Stop calling, messaging n any form of contact wit her n see how she reacts. because when gurls come up wit let's put a stop to this or that, it cud be that some1 else is helping u weed it beta or gifting her beta.
Or she wants to get rid of u subtly. Save ur heart d stress.

N hey, u made a big mistake from d onset

But op, do you know that sexual incompactability is a major issue in marriages?
She isnt your type gee. Wake up


Btw, there is something called paragraphing. N hope u dont speak the way u type? If u do, we cant blame d doll.

Improve on your written Enlish
RomanceRe: Check Out The Two People Trending On Facebook by HARDDON: 1:36pm On Jul 02, 2017
Fadiga24:
Girls have everything to lose.
shocked shocked

What an uninformed unclairvoyant statement
RomanceRe: Lets Talk About Stereotypes. E.g Calaba Girls Love Sex by HARDDON: 1:34pm On Jul 02, 2017
All men , apart from me, luv s3x

Ladies are mostly wiser than men 20years their age
RomanceRe: Reason Why Woman Are So Scared Of Getting Married by HARDDON: 1:17pm On Jul 02, 2017
Women neva dread getting married!
INfact they bask in its euphoria.
Their singular idiosyncrasy is a penchant for d Mrs......

The only thing they dread is to marry a man who wouldnt be able to care for them n their lil ones financially.

Take them to see the world from the peek of everest


N op, it should be ReasonS not reason...
RomanceRe: Check Out The Two People Trending On Facebook by HARDDON: 1:11pm On Jul 02, 2017
Gurls r always mostly smarter in this kinda ish !
angry

Smh
RomanceRe: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 12:57pm On Jul 02, 2017
realpoacher:
I know that I am good but Gee, you are on another level.... Now I have to play catch up angry
Dnt be fooled by my flow gee, im nothing but a voracious learner fitted with a fine mind n years of wild crazy moments in d web of women cool

We live to learn n in learning, we live.

Your inputs n efforts are well noted.

Now where is my wine n wand ? cheesy
TravelRe: Lady Who Was Left In A Coma With Broken Ribs After Accident Tells Her Story.PICS by HARDDON: 12:44pm On Jul 02, 2017
jonero4:
Y u tattoo on ur bweast
Ofcos you have a trained eyes for b00bs not for reading
embarassed

Smh
TravelRe: Lady Who Was Left In A Coma With Broken Ribs After Accident Tells Her Story.PICS by HARDDON: 12:35pm On Jul 02, 2017
Living Miracle! Life in Christ is a Miracle!
Unscatched by situations
Undaunted by circumstances
Unmoved by mountains
Untouchedable by time

Beyond Science
Beyond Tots
Beyond Sun
Beyond Dawn

Time bows
Stars pay obesiance
Seas Listens
Earth Quake
His name is Jesus!
None Other
In this life
Nor that to come

Im privileged to be ur own
The apple of your very eyes
In awe wit bowed head
Hearts skip @ your aura
Earth freeze at your wonders
Your name is Jesus!



Happy Sunday Ya"ll
FamilyRe: Why Do People Change After Getting Married? by HARDDON: 2:41pm On Jul 01, 2017
MrBrownJay1:
Very simple:
After marriage, partner feel comfortable in their own life wrongly believing they don't need to woo/impress/date their partner any longer, since they are married to them now...

They also get physically lazy, thinking that they don't even have to be attractive to their partner, thus That's when potbellies and babywhales shapes creeps in.
Physical changes..... Best reponse so far.....

Add these to the fact that everything changes in marriage n human changes are nothing but adaptive responses to dis change.

N changes in marriage are in two folds: positive n negative. I know d op is on d negative one



We also have character change..... i that used to just wear my sexy male bumshorts , sneakers , tshirt n roll out , now hv to learn how to dress responsibly, tell wify wherever i'm going n when i'd b returning. I cant justblow money on booze n brews on fridays anyhow again. I cant just have random gurls sleep ova again. I cant sleep out again. I wear my marriage band everyday n everywhere....luckily for Deeper life folks, they dont wear none grin

More responsibility in terms of caring for a wify n kids. More planning time. Thinking time

More WE than I statements

These r on d positive


On the negative,

because of alot of concurrent sporadic changes arround u, latent behavours u neva knew u had spring up...... your sweet wify gets preggy n from no where, ur sweet doll began to nag . u endured till she delivered hoping it wud stop, it neva did, u cudnt take it one day n to shush her, u gave her just one resounding slap! N true to it, it worked. B4 u knew it, u, that wudnt hurt a fly wen u were single, are now a wify batterer.

U started witholding money, she started talking to outsiders. B4 u knew it, u both r strangers sharing same bed.

U took to drinking n wudnt touch her , she ran into her Ex n got fvcked really hard, beginning of her outside swift legs n lies.....who can see in crimsom red?


Can you really tell why people change? Too many reasons

It cud be as a result of marriage itself ....people respond to d sudden bond differently , external influence, overbearing spouse, nagging , hiden xtas b4 marriage, dormant traits that got woken etc

Only God can lead us right
RomanceRe: Why Is It So HARD For A Nigerian Girl To Love A Nice Guy? by HARDDON: 1:58pm On Jul 01, 2017
LordKO:
Boy! I don't join issue with small-minded people like you. This virtual world has given every Tom, Dick and Harry an avenue to overestimate their importance.

From all indications, I'm old enough to father you. Now vamoose and look for your mates elsewhere.
Vernoms of a bleeding poodle. grin

#herebyIgnored
RomanceRe: Why Is It So HARD For A Nigerian Girl To Love A Nice Guy? by HARDDON: 1:31pm On Jul 01, 2017
[quote author=LordKO post=58016238][/quote]Con what?
Is that the term u players use in describing men worth their balls? Men who dont go scavenging everythin in skirts? breaking lil gurls hearts?


Paint it anyhow u will: disappointed/heartbreak.... they are all thesame n every1 that has ever related with the oposite sex intimately must pass through itz freaking fangs . Just like all men experience wet dreams n d chest of gurls protrude to b00bs


Ur last paragraph shows u have read n r a follower of Dating Drills . Probably twisted the drills n applied them negatively........No? undecided
EducationRe: Words That Sound Like Opposite But Are Actually Synonyms by HARDDON:
English is nothing but an offspring sprung off a freaking sporadic spasm of a discombobulated D1ck ! The more u learn, the more you learn to learn.

If give her her book is correct why is give us us book wrong?

Why do we play on a reciter n recite @ a play?

why do we drive on a park way n park on a driveway? lipsrsealed

If groundnut oil is from groundnut, why is baby oil not from babies?
RomanceRe: Why Is It So HARD For A Nigerian Girl To Love A Nice Guy? by HARDDON: 12:50pm On Jul 01, 2017
Double Don
RomanceRe: Why Is It So HARD For A Nigerian Girl To Love A Nice Guy? by HARDDON: 12:48pm On Jul 01, 2017
LordKO:
To each his own. Always remember that you don't have monopoly of knowledge.

I'm a realist. No lady has ever broken my heart before and I've been around the game for a very long time. So, I'm seasoned when it comes to issues of this nature.
No I dont have monopoly of knowledge but i'd gladly school your tool in this terrain gladly

Wow! No gurl has ever broken ur heart? So u came fitted with a players' robe right from da womb? shocked shocked shocked MOTHER OF ALL MODERN LIES!

Furthermore,
I am no gamer n hate all forms of cheap games. Players r nothing but learners pretending to be tech n leave hearts brokens in their wake in quest of quenching d void in dier hollow souls.
They easily settle for anything under skirt just to add to body count. But lose their quickly acquired energy n plunge back to the ground state in no time. Lonely!

Guys like yours truly just live what we were fashioned for.

I see tru u son, needless Pontificating.

While chewing on these tots, stroll over to my siggy . Testimony abounds
RomanceRe: Why Is It So HARD For A Nigerian Girl To Love A Nice Guy? by HARDDON: 12:47pm On Jul 01, 2017
LordKO:
To each his own. Always remember that you don't have monopoly of knowledge.

I'm a realist. No lady has ever broken my heart before and I've been around the game for a very long time. So, I'm seasoned when it comes to issues of this nature.
No I dont have monopoly of knowledge but in this but i school your tool in this terrain.

Wow! No gurl has ever broken ur heart? So u came fitted with a players' robe right from da womb? shocked shocked shocked MOTHER OF ALL MODERN LIES!

Furthermore,
I am no gamer n hate all forms of cheap games. Players r nothing but learners pretending to be tech n leave hearts brokens in their wake in quest of quenching d void in dier hollow souls.
They easily settle for anything under skirt just to add to body count. But lose their quickly acquired energy n plunge back to the ground state in no time. Lonely!

Guys like yours truly just live what we were fashioned for.

I see tru u son, needless Pontificating.

While chewing in these tots, stroll over to my siggy
RomanceRe: Why Is It So HARD For A Nigerian Girl To Love A Nice Guy? by HARDDON: 12:26pm On Jul 01, 2017
LordKO:
Every sane and sound lady loves a nice/good - loyal - guy. However, what sane and sound ladies don't love are gullible/feeble-minded - servile - guys.
Very Wrong!

What they luv is your been easily manipulated to do their bidding.

Nice guys always eat left overs from bad boys. Even some left overs still rub their noses on d dust of humilation embarassed

Dating ladies isnt logical
RomanceRe: Why Is It So HARD For A Nigerian Girl To Love A Nice Guy? by HARDDON:
They are boring
Predictable
Needy
Sissy
Got no life nor mind of theirs

Always @ d beck n call of gurls
Can sell their souls just to please a gurl hoping to just see the colour of her bra

Weaklings : no gurl wants another "gurl" as her guy.
If he is a weakling, he cant protect her then n he wud pass same gene to her male kids. No gurl wants that.


N alot more........ this is one of the reasons i got fvck fed n created Dating Drills! check my siggy
RomanceRe: Edo Meets Ondo In Beautiful Pre-Wedding Pictures by HARDDON: 11:30am On Jul 01, 2017
May God perfect all

Congrats!
RomanceRe: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 11:00am On Jul 01, 2017
Kalatium:
Gees in d house, where u at?
Was chatting with dis pretty gal on fb, I applied d Drills on her n she voluntarily gave me her phone number after making her anticipate by telling her my voice is sexy. D tin is dat after I called her d voice I had was Hmmmm no 1 has ever spoken to me like that b4. She was using a sonorous bedroom voice dat inorder not to f' up I had to cut d call.
I need ur advice
Smh gee!

Imagine having her exactly where u needed her n then what do u do? U dropping d freaking call!

I should whoop u with a 10 strand horse whip angry

Just read ur possible lines:

U: what with the bedroom voice , r u trying to turn me on? Or.... this one u are sounding wet n wanting is something inbtw ur legs? Or...... chai my voice is turning some On oooo, she is sounding so wet...... or..... You are looking for a Big Trouble wit this ur bedroom voice oooo, my BIG is beginning to node to d occasion...

She wud laugh n try to deny or even act like a saint that hasnt seen a throbbing Jrod b4....

You wud hv none of it n press further

U: your plan wudnt work......or ..... stop teasing ooo n i hope u aint falling in luv wit me already. If u r, whateva u feel now, is child's play. After we touch, u wud so be lost in my web of wonders....

See? Right where we go physical. Where want em
RomanceRe: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op): 10:44am On Jul 01, 2017
Japhet04:
Don my phone crashed cry

Thats why I have not been able to come up for some time

Damn I miss u guys
Whatsapp BallsRep ! cheesy

Get yourself fixed gee, we rolling royal today. Theory done. We move to practicals.
RomanceRe: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op):
DOCTOR90:
hello guys, there is dis girl,dat ve b given green light,wen i approach we talked,then d next day she started acting as she dnt knw me,wat should i do guys
As funny as this sounds, as simple as it appears, this is one of the major weapon of gurls.

Since they dont wano look cheap, they send d spiritual Green light signal to get a guy's attention.
Green lights r such freaking cunning/shrewd moves because they help them to

1. Attract a guy in stealth mode ....
2. Check u out whether u are all so so or u r really made up of wits n balls. If u r all so so but got dough, u become a mentrual maga . Always bleeding off their whims n wants but u wud neva get intimate. Or with d wave of a brow, dismiss u

But if u got balls, dey drool n spread for u uncontrolably. Do ur bidding. Collect from their maga n call u incessantly etc

3. Green light can make them easily deny/act surprise if u aint a man with balls wen u roll close

4. maintain total control n you actually come off like one who came to ask them out instead of d other way round.

Here is the Green light Process:

Send out the targeted Beacon >>>>>>> beacon hits target>>>>>>> target eida respond or Not( if target doesnt respond, he is either scared to approach, not interested, dont know what greeny is n therefore dont respond) >>>>>>>target responds>>>>>>>> she filters him by going into neutral mode n freining ignorance of sending greeny( this is done to save her time if target isnt worth it) >>>>>>target dismissed or target acquired.


Solution to your question:

Your first impression is nothing to write home about. She was actually thinking u were a potential mate but u proved her otherwise by doing everything opposite wat makes a lady fall head over heels for a guy.

Very lil u can do gee. Dont waste ur energy beating a dead horse. U wud nothing but come out needy d more
RomanceRe: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON(op):
deafeyez:
I have this girl who lives next after my door. She is older than i. She used to live with her sister upstairs before moving down to my side still in the same building.
While she was with her sister, i tried telling her to come to my room and she would always give me an instant answer of no. I have told her i want she and me to be doing things together but she has not given me any answer.
Last time we chat, she told me i wanted to just sleep with her which i told her no. I have given her two times snacks, that is because i manage the fast food.
Now, i am blank. If i see her, i cannot mutter a word because i don't know what to say again.
How do i get this girl to like me and come close to me.
U were too direct n acted needy n d only possible reason for that is what she told u: quickly n cheaply get into her panties!
You n i know she is very right.

Itz flabbergasting when i hear guys complain of not knowing how to rein in a home chicken. They r d easiest being n most abundantly available to do in. because they r readily available we use them to hone our skills daily or hourly n watch the effects. In fact, they usually get so stung they throw emselves @ us without us asking.
The worry of guys like us is not in getting them. It is in living our lives thereafter without her clogging our ways n wines.


U set off on da very wrong foot. Now u hv to give her space first. Bring others home let her see u aint some1 to hang arround waiting for some stupid response from her.
From now henceforth, learn not to be at the mercy of a tiny soft bone.

N hey while @ it, just like magikalz said, read d thread from d bgning

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