₦airaland Forum

womenareapes1:
beautiful woman, unlike our street beggers called Naija women

all of Naija women are useless

hope you include your mum asiwin

winterfell007:
My point is that that dude should stop measuring Lagos with other states. It's like a student in the University saying he's more educated than a student in Primary two. Lagos population makes it a huge market which draws businesses. Other state can't boost of that

sometime population is no no ... but a strategy position lagos was with purchasing power of people .. yes population tend to multiply sales but where the purchasing power is low no matter number of population it make no different.... check the population of some northern state some have more than Lagos .... an average cow is been put for sale at 70k while in Lagos the same cow goes for 250k

Alejoas:
Let the developmental project continue. Lagos needs more planned housing like the 1004 estates, pull down a whole neighbourhood and erect high rise, bargaining with the landlords and give them money or commensurate blocks of flat with the building. Our range of lithium powerbank for laptop can guarantee you between ten to twenty four hours of work on your laptop. Can charge phone, light, fan etc.

wow nice initiative if you can just push this to some authority ..... but lagos state too get wahala when it comes to land issue except if the present government is ready to loss some cash

Ahmed0336:
MTN sacked many workers and nobody is saying anything about it.

those people sacked should be under out sourcing just like in the banking sector they are casual staff not real staff a real staff will still go home with something

the reason why foreign company dey take us for granted naa because of fello Nigerian not even government

imagine a foreign company just open in Nigeria now and they employ mr A as manager... they dont know how wages is been pay in Nigeria and,they are,of the mind set of pay per,hour as it obtainable where tgey are coming from ..... fool Manager will mostly advice them that Nigerian get pay per month not per hour from this the foreigner, will grow wing once they know the lop hole in our labour law

Average Nigerian are wicked i swear let money involve you will know what people are mad e off forget abt government

jawalis:
Are you sure your wife loves you

yu dont know how long weve go.... there is different btw having LOML and bone of bone we have 2 kid now and shes someone I can Leave here for years without doubting her moves .. not all woman are,actually leaches

as a man dont marry d one you love marry the one that really loves you

jawalis:
A twitter user “ bthemovent” has taken to his page some pictures taken on a date with his female bestie. Twitter users has come for the both asking what kind of friendship it could be. While some sees nothing wrong in it, other viewed it as totally unacceptable. What’s your take on it. Can you allow your boyfriend or girlfriend go on a date with so called bestie and end up this way?

my wife will actually subscride to this for me even if I nack the besti at the end of the day naa still day out will go tag am ...... the only issue be say if the bestie con dey feel any how [color=#770077][/color]

Ghostrye:
soo a well known thief is the second best person you can pick to rule the nation...... I will just go ahead and assume you voted buhari for his second term in 2019

assume what you like and belive what you want, you are actually right but for your information I never vote for anyone since am of voting age but i belive in one thing anyone that is not of my tribe am not voting for them even if there character is call for questioning,..... my own motive which is every other region motive is that my people should be at helm of affair even they stand questionable is easy for someone that is doing bad thing to convert to do good but is not easy for someone that is tag holy and holy to switch side once they taste the other side they will turn to eldorado ....... the Osinbajo that you people love if I tells you whats go on with him you will hate him because his from my town and I still know, 40 percent of his move and intention

I believe sometime if you call someone a thief and he stand to be a thief I will trust him more,than a pastor that is a thief but claim to be a sait ....

I rest my case

Ghostrye:
All these people just want a part of the national cake, in the end the people that they claim to lead will still gnash their teeth.
Yoruba ronu o, b fore we become like those folks up north that now throw curses at buhari

before yoruba ronu. ... as far as southwest is concern any better candidate the best person I would have choose is the current Governor of Ondo but the man no get interest

Iyajelili:
For God's sake we shouldn't have someone like Tinubu or those old crooks as presidentual candidates in this era. They are part of the reasons we are here today as a nation, that was how Buhari was repacked for Nigerians and now look at the untold suffering amidst heavy corruption we are facing right now.

I concor with you but as the thing take be now who will go present 60 percent of our youth are drug addict, ... 80 percent are fraudster, 40...kidnapper so where should we turn to

Aliyumichika:
Just bcoz is from Adamu to usman, nigeria will no go ever better, and if its from Adamu to Okafar or Chukwueze, you guys will be the first to say that's a good move by the president, Mtchee

so tell me anyone thing that is better off since different appointment of many Northerners into strategic position in Nigeria over last 5 years that have benefit the down troden...... because with that statement you are sounding like someone dat know nothing about government at all

Orubebe01:
Let's assume that you were made the president of this country, how would tackle the insecurity that is plaguing the nation at the moment.

the best way to rule this, country is to first divide the Union.... because each region has their own belive and way of life ... If any one try to rule on all in Nigeria the person we fail more than Buhari and Jonathan put together... as a President I will make an exexutive order that will allow any region that want to be alone to be alone....

Dpharisee:
He will send him bottles of Schnapps and Hennessy with 3 cartons of beer to kill him faster and reduce his lifespan.
To these kids 2021 Range Rover is not for Fathers.
A child goes to the father for N10k, he gives him his last N9k and walks to the bus stop to squeeze himself in a bus because there is no more money to fuel his car. The child runs to the mother, she adds N1K out of the N200k in her account with a statement belittling the man's sacrifice, don't mind your father that's how he will spend all his money out there on women and buying drinks for friends and can't give common N10K to his child. The child exclaims in amazement, Mummy you are the best, meanwhile at that moment the dad is quarreling with conductor over N50 change which he will need for his return transport home in the evening after forfeiting lunch.
I just weak as a father

let me tell you bro there is a saying that whats goes around come around, the son is goin to be old one day and then he will know whats the father try to keep away from him....... if you want to do something for your parent make sure you have the money for the two side ..... for you to be safe bro

confirmedniggae:
Good evenning all.

I have been having this thought of quitting my job to learn driving in order to pick up an UBER or BOLT job but the fear of getting a car on hire purchase is always coming as an hindrance.

I am a family man whose salary of just #85,000 is not even enough to cater for the family .Before the salary even comes in, there are always debts that have been incurred.

Most times,I dont even get up to #20,000 as a result of debts and seriously I am fed up. Infact , I think of suicide sometimes because i am so depressed right now. I have rent of #140,000 hanging on my neck too.

Please will it be wise to quit to learn driving for purpose of commercial driving job?

please follow ur mind, sheybi u ar a man, another man will feed your kid ingrate, you earn 85k, and your house rent is just 140k then yu find it difficult to pay....... yeye dey smell continue with your succide

how much do you save from dat money you earn non i guess,
always cut your coat according to naterial you have not according to your size...

and stop been a kid saying yu dey think sucide... come down to ketu under bridge and see alot of people that should be thinking abt sucide but yet they still believe that one day thing s gonna change

4ckyou:
You are earning 85k and you are thinking of suicide? Some people are earning 50k monthly with lots of mouth to feed and they are doing well, maybe you should cut shot your expenses.
Dont live more than you earn, subsidize things to balance yourself.

leave the fool alone alot of graduates are,earning 30k, 40k, and they are good in their own way, also, praying for more , come to think of it, if he can cope with 85k even if he earn 500k nothing will change, he should rather cut his coat according to his material

Incognito403:
Shut up. You care.
Test your sincerity; if MURIC or NSCIA made the same foul statement as CAN did, would you be saying what you're saying now?

Obviously, you won't hesitate to downtalk professor Akintola. You're just being a honest hypocrite.

thunder fire you there and your akintola, because two of you have ant brain, stupid fool, thats why Nigeria is like this, i have no affiliate with any one be it CAN drink or MURIC mumu.... all am saying is that if Nigeria can do without religious alignment we would have be one the best country because God bless us in so many way.... if you cant comprehend a simple statement go back to primary school ...

greenskittles:
Its embarrassing that Nigerians care more about religious/ethnic affiliation than competence. Otherwise we wouldn't even be having this discussion.

that what has put us below the pyramid of wealthy nation, I dont care if the judge is a Muslim or Christian or Traditionalist, so far is for the interest of the majority, but no Nigeria we surely want to sneak in religious in every angle and 90% of us is still goin to hell fire

Obdk:
This is not true England national team are not known for racism..

okay tell me up to Ten black man that ever play qualify match for england and later make it to the big tournament like FIFA or EURO without been drop if you ever been to England you will know the defination of racist

Amotolongbo:
I wish Noni Madueke of PSV and Crystal Palace’s Eberechi Eze can have the rethink on their decisions to star for the 3 lions and play for the eagles.

The only Nigerian player best served playing for a European country is David Alaba. He is even the captain of the Austrian National team

if David Alaba happen to play for England he will be drop no matter how good he is, once they find somecone not even good as he is they will use the person and alot more befor him....... ENGLAND are good in using the black yo qualify for the game for the main game they will change card

needanswer:
That answer is unrelated to the question I asked. Technology will always advance but is 5G still linked with Covid19 in 2021?

from the begining it a conspiracy theory that the two are, related there is no way they can be related because how many country have the present of the 5G in their country yet they still have death case on Covid

needanswer:
It's been almost a year now when that 5G and Covid19 link broke out, has that theory stood the test of time?

NwaNimo1
Knarfoza
Magenta232
Harjay1986
Kylekent59
Hahjascho
Flyinnizam
KGREAT

6G is already, in process

Parachoko:
How many Nigerians dey chop burger? If Una go base on burger alone, una go collapse in just 1-2 years.

not like that bro, we have chiken republic that sell no other thin other than chiken recipes they are growing day by day

castrogee:
Foolish! Is this carnage close to what wakili did in Abeokuta?


Almost half of Ogun state residents are eating watery beans in Niger IDP homes and your lord Tinubu could not do anything, but tomorrow you people will want to claim sophistication.

Moronic imbeciles.

try to console yourself fool because truth is bitter yes we have IDP camp in benin, but come to amaize me is how you people behave like you are holy thann God, thank GOD is not bandit this time that attack or herdsmen it your so call people,

do you even know that in landmass you are goin to get 3 to 4 ebonyi from OGUN STATE, in population you are goin to get more than 10 times, so do the math if herdman attack una now stupid.....

and for your information wakili only reside in Oyo state that has a population of upto a thousand plus, out of millions

I know Eboyi people to be backstabber even if the south east want to have a country on their own they should avoid you people, because of your greedness

izito:
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In 2016 she told me her salary was #50.000 And then two years later, when she got promoted, I asked about her salary and she said, “Oh these people, don’t mind them. They added only #5000 to my old salary. Because of her meager salary, I’ve taken up so many responsibilities in the house without complaint. I pay for utilities and pay for food. I pay the fees of our two kids, clothe them, and take care of their medical bills. When my wife sends me a grocery list, she adds sanitary pads. She buys dresses and clothes, comes to show them to me, and asks me to pay for them. She started talking about a car when our second child came in. Things weren’t good on my side so I asked her to give me some time. She said, “I’ve saved something. I can add it to what you have so you pay me when your money comes.”

I agreed and took that money from her, topped it up to get her a car. For three months my ears never rest. She would wake up at dawn and ask me to pay what I owed her. I got tired and paid the money when I didn’t have much in my account.

One evening, I turned my laptop on and saw a lot of emails. I checked and it was my wife’s email that had been opened. I asked her, “Did you use my laptop?” She answered, “Yeah I was checking something.” I told her, “Then you didn’t log out.” She answered, “I forgot. Please log out for me.” I was about to log out when something caught my attention. I saw a mail with the subject, “January Payslip.” I opened and started going through. When I saw her gross salary, I was shocked. #400,734? And this girl has been crying poverty?

I went through the details. That night I couldn’t sleep. I was angry. I felt let down. I felt cheated. I felt played. We’ve been married for six good years and my wife earned that much without my knowledge? How much she earned didn’t bother me a lot than what she was using that money for. I decided not to talk immediately but rather do a little bit of investigation.

All my life I’ve held the view that it wasn’t right for anyone to go through their partner’s phone. It’s an invasion of privacy and it breeds mistrust in the relationship but that night, going through her phone was the only way to find out what I was looking for. I started with her best friend. Nothing much was found. Her family had a Whatsapp group. I read the messages there. I got few hints. I went through the chat with her father and that was when I realized my wife had bought a piece of land and had started building. Her father was in charge of the project. He had sent photos of the various stages of the building. At some point, her father said, “Thank you for helping out your brother. He would have been home had it not been you.”

She has only one brother—her senior brother. I went to look for the chat between them. Her senior brother lost his job and was home doing nothing so my wife bought her Hyundai i10 to use for Uber. Every week, her brother rendered an account and they split the money. From all indications, my wife was doing well for herself while she plays poor so she could rely on my salary. Why would she do that? I thought I was being a supportive husband so my wife could be proud of the man she married. When we bought land, it was her name and my name that appeared on the land title. That car I bought for her with a loan from her bears her name. I didn’t mind. I believed what’s hers was also mine. 

The next morning she realized I wasn’t looking well. I was boiling on the inside but looking for a good opportunity to start the conversation. When I calmed down a little, I asked her, “So why would you do that to me?” She asked, “What have I done?” I answered, “You bought land, you never told me. You started building on it, you never told me. When are you going to tell me?” She was shocked. She asked, “Who told you all that?” I said, “Your father did.” She stood quiet for a while. She asked, “Why would my father tell you all that? What were you people talking about” I said, “I don’t know. You can ask him.” 

We left it there. Some minutes later she came to me with her phone: “My father wants to talk to you.” The phone was already on a loudspeaker. His father was clearly angry. He asked, almost shouting, “You said I told you my daughter has a building? Where did I say that and when?” I asked, “Is it not true that my wife has a building project going on that you’re supervising?”  He asked me, “I told you that?” I asked, “Is it true or not?” After the back and forth I told them, “I read your messages last night. I saw the pictures. I read the various budget you had sent to my wife. I read the confirmation of the money receipts that you sent her. You’re a man. Would you be happy if your wife does this to you?” He started fumbling. He started apologizing saying he thought I was aware.”


My wife stood there motionless, didn’t know what to say. When her father hung up, I told her everything I knew, from her salary to the car she bought for her brother. I said, “Yet, even your sanitary pad, I buy them. You think I’m a fool? You’ll use your money to acquire your own properties and live on mine because you’re my wife? I hear. We’ll see.”

Trust was lost. Love was broken. We had to find a new way of living our lives going forward. Her father called me every morning and evening apologizing for everything and sometimes taking up the blame so I didn’t have to blame his daughter. I told him, “The emotional state I’m in right now, it would be hard to think straight or think forgiveness. Just give me space.” Three days later, they were in our house. The father, the mother, and the senior brother. They came to apologize. “Don’t let this break up the beautiful marriage you both have. If nothing at all, consider the kids and be lenient in your judgment.”

I listened to them. My position was still the same. “I need time to clear my mind. Just leave me alone to think.” From last month to this moment that I’m writing this, my wife had changed totally. She doesn’t ask for money but the house is being run smoothly. She has started paying for things she never paid for but that doesn’t move me. She has taught me a very great lesson and I’m taking it seriously. That in everything, I have to look out for myself and my family first. Last she told me, “If you want us to change the names on those properties, we can do so.” Guess whose name is on the property…her father’s name.”

I told her, “You don’t need to change anything. They are yours. You suffered for them so you can decide what you want to do with them.” The land I bought has our names. I’m selling it and take my money back. The car she’s driving has her name. I put a for-sale sticker on it some weeks ago. She agreed she’ll pay for the car. I’ve given her two months to pay up or I sell it and take my money. She’s getting the message and I’m glad. Each one for himself, God for us all. She keeps asking if I’m going to leave her. I keep telling her I won’t but if she wants a divorce, I will gladly give her. I’m not going to leave the marriage. I would give us some time to heal and see what may happen but when it comes to money, I’ve taken the lesson she taught me through her actions. 

*What's your take?*

OPS your story is emotional, but here is my penny advice, dont snitch on her, continue doing your part as the husband of the house, dont allow crack in your family .... you have learn your lesson and trust has been broken dont let it wear you down..... I would advice dont sell the CAR please if she raise the remaining money for you dont collect it please... dont sell your joint land properry also

dont make decision while angry, just try to assume nothing happen and move on

zoedew:
Reason you think TCC has been a secret all these while is because it has been focused on serious, productive and corporate entities for patronage. It was a conference centre. You were not sure to have its gates thrown open for you just because you could pay! May be a different focus has come to play now!

are you from ogere

sulaak:
Where is this resort?

This looks like a 2 star hotel to me.

you are wrong bro when you get there you, will,know ,the company I,work with falck prime atlantic, now prime atlantic safety service actually use the place for years before getting our own location

Foodqueen:
Sorry, is it a state own property or private.

I am just curious, for it to still have this standard over the years.......

it a private owned, by indigen from OGERE named BODE

ProfAmaben:
Nigeria is playing against herself. Nigeria vs fellow Nigerians

is like we should inform FIFA ooh,

Giantfarmer:
your claims Are not true...what do you mean northern Nigeria? you mean every state in the north ? like every school the government built in the north has no church? it's not true... I am in kogi state and we don't have such practice or laws ..

you they taste sugar thinking yu can be happy, you are a fouth class northerner my friend, because even if you are a muslim, you are not allow to lead prayer in the core north no matter how ground you are islam,

Kogi that share partly Muslim, Christian and traditionalist you are comparing that to north find something else

You are only northerners when it time to vote, in any election but middlebelt after that

NwaNimo1:
https://www.pmnewsnigeria.com/2021/03/23/emefiele-bandits-terrorists-cause-of-nigerias-inflation/

thank God it not #ENDSARS again

theophilusj31:
that thing I am looking at is 21years old,....nawao does he take fertizer as a diet that make him look so old?

bro naa so cant u see that there is different btw local fowl and broiler, one can take almost years for you to eat bone while other we take yu 4monts plus and you get enough meat

YourMajesty:
But the FG can afford to compensate bandits right.

It will never be well with anyone in support of this administration.

the government only recorgnise people that react like atomic bomb, but leave people that react like water to care for themself,...... they forget that water is one the dagerous reactor

ALL of us will pay the bill