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Zeal0000007:
Guys I need your help here, me and my gal have been together for 6 yrs now, I was convinced that she's the one for me, so I decided to engage her late last year, at least to show that her position in my life is not taken for granted , we have really been through hell for each other even when there was nothing she was there for me, but thank God today I'm working now.

Now for the past 2 yrs, It looks as if I have been struggling to keep her, cos we have been cohabiting since I came back from nysc. Since I came back over two yrs now she has been mishaving , she locks her phone constantly, something she never did before, even if its opened the apps are lock only her can open it, if complain abt that she will respond like why will I touch her phone, asking me who does that, to touch a woman's phone even to go to social media, and she has being subjecting me to that because I don't trust her, when we are about to sleep she put her phone on flight mode, and put it under her pillow and put her head on top. Her phone is constantly on silent mode during day time so if it rings she will determind whom to pick so I won't hear and know. We can't watch movie together as partners perhaps she afraid of who will call next ,because she knows I will give her hit.

If I manage to pick up her call she will be shivering,
We have had alot of issues because of her giving in to distractions , I'm tired of talking , I don beat her tire my hand don bend. I have told her if u don't want me again and you have seen somewhere better , open up and tell me instead of cheating that will be honorable thing to do. I don tire for this gal, if I drive her away she has no where to go. The school she's going I'm the one supporting her, her family is not giving her enough support because the don't believing in education all the know is business, and I'm the only one bearing her load and i'm not doing that because i want to marry her, i'm doing it because she needs help and she is my lover.
She doesn't want to loose me because we have really suffered together so she want to keep me as potential husband and still be playing games outside , what crime did I do to go for service so I can come back and make life better for us, cos that was when she got spoilt. I deflowered her and thats not how I left her.

I have resolved chasing her away, right now I'm in offshore , I never trusted her while I was on land is it now that I'm offshore I will trust her?

Oil Money bag but why is it dat most people working offshore always has this same issue ..... the only set that dont have such are the one that have done the marriage right on the woman and also impregnate her..... before gaining offshore job ... by then naa shee go dey fear to loose you

TOTOnigga:
Hello guys.... I don't just know.. Is it just me or is there anything I don't understand......my parents are rich people especially my dad, I know that for sure... someone paying #950,000 naira per year as school fees for me aside other expenses, plus multiple houses and lands I can't even keep count of....

How come they are this stingy? There is no time I would ask them for money for my own personal well being or any of my personal needs that they would like to assist me. I once ask mum for #12,000 naira just to buy a fairly used android phone (when I know they can even afford me an iPhone x) but she told me I should wait till months end before she gives me saying there is no money on ground... it's five months now and still nothing (not waiting for it though)...

Then I ask my dad, he told me I don't need an android phone... telling me that phone makes people unserious and other types of bulls*it( a 19 year old student for that matter)

Any expenses that is not book or academic related is not important...my parents would rather buy clothes for me than give me money to buy clothes... sometimes I end up not wearing some of them..

The funniest part is that, anytime I take any urgent lie(Asin scam) about any payment in school...they wouldn't Waits a second to send it to me... This has got me telling all sorts of lies just to get what I know can be gotten honestly.. It has even gotten to the point that any money that enters my hand now, I use it to play sports betting to see if I can get enough money for what I need, but I end up loosing the money...I am just frustrated.. someone time I wish I didn't even have rich parents cos what's the point...

be thankful your parent are not stingy they are just good in money management in which they are trying for you to learn from it so that if they die today they can be rest assure that the wealth in your care will still extend to other generation

decatalyst:
This one no be burial again.

It is looking like a carnival.


Looking like a fund raising competition.

There is money where it is!

I will never be poor in this life!!!

in life eenh mu brother if God bless you today .... blesss as many as you can

NwaAmaikpe:



Mumu,
So you knew the kind of hate you were going to receive yet you missed the goal.

Then it's okay to say you deserved it.
Rather it's safe to say you deliberately missed that penalty shot to trigger sympathy.

No wonder Chiellini dragged you like a houseboy.
England's biggest mistake was to overrate you.
They gave you a role people will kill for but all you were hungry for was to score a cheap race goal.

I hate you Saka.

you only hate yourself he has achieve something in life even though hes young you are here typing rubish with your SAGEM phone , hunger kill you there... stuuupid mofo, hating will not help your life because the the more you hate the more his bank account increase

ignis:
When people decide to study courses not because of passion for the course but because they want to get a job, then you know there is a problem.

When the likes of Op becomes a nurse, the lives of innocent patients are at stake because condition made him a nurse and not interest or passion.

Naa lie..... so you will tell me that if you approach a lady today that means you lover her ..... your love in relationship will start after 2 or 3 years of marriage so as carrier ..... even though you have motive which is MONEY to switch to other course as time goes on you can be the best in that field try to watch this film Blessed hand

neyoohhh:
Give a white man bricks and he'll build you a castle, give a black man a castle and he'll turn it into bricks.

Yep , black Americans and liberals looted the us..

Similar patterns.

Never say anything about black american the white one make them brutal buy destroying all their business hub back then killing alot potential millionaire .....

Mangekyo:
meanwhile, we've never heard that bandits in the north were captured while collecting Ransome. These fulanis go too collect after 2023, I tell you

to be sincere with level of Nigerian security intelligent gathering and terrorist sympathizer in the North it will be very difficult to nab any kidnapper

also mode of building houses in the north give room for easy operation by the bandit here down south we have cluster pattern of building houses in which we can quickly raise alarm and we are not sympathizer unlike the north who have scattering pattern of building house like 100 kilometer befor you will see another building except their City

tutudesz:
SouthWest Governor's should also give Sunday Igboho amnesty, just like Northerner Governor's giving Bandits amnesty

three gbosa for you .... tuale

TimmyTen:
This is the hardest part of being a salary earner.
Loosing your job is difficult especially when you are a married person with responsibilities.

It should however not make us give up. Its not the end of life.
People lose their jobs everyday.
Keep applying jobs you are qualified for and also try business.

Remember to also network with old and new friends.
More importantly, pray.

we pray we work with someone that has human feeling ... just of recent the housekeeping department at where I work give the department to an outsourcing cleaning firm.... about 12 family man and woman loose their job though they have pension acct but the least still go home with 500k and I think with this someone can start a new life

osuofia2:
Watch see how Southerners without morals castigate Northerners with morals.
In the North we are trying to build better society unlike in your states like Lagos,Benin,Owerri that is stinking of immoral acts.

hmmm so mr morality , when are you people goin to stop collect tax on alcohol because it haram are you not lossing you moral, when are you go to stop child marriage in your area.... when are you going to stop internet and mordern age development thing

yeye they smell Moral indeed, it be like, no even need una no dey spend on education sha

MyopicMods:
Nigerian Government Puts Cut-Off Marks Into Unity School At 134 Average For South-East, Anambra 139, As Low As 2 Marks For Zamfara State.



https://saharareporters.com/2021/07/05/nigerian-government-puts-cut-marks-unity-school-134-average-south-east-low-2-marks?fbclid=IwAR33ijYOhwPWMGkK6SM2iVlLBxaL06XyCfR9vtrk3LjY92Bld1YckPaqmOs

Not suprise , All the south has been fail by the various leader we ever have right from Pa Awolowo ... Zik .... and the rest due to our hunger or tastte for absolute power.... during these people time the North know that they are educational disadvantage but once the have a chance to be in power they enchrine into the constitution what we benefit their region on the long run

sotall:


Every resolution fine except that of power returning to the South.

Our next president shall come from the North.


We know the region that sold the south to the north in 2015

and we know the region that said seccession should not be put into constitution

but six year after they forget how they sold their right just because of suya

hmmm

Unrated900:
All this pen houses would be commissioned in Abeokuta his only JFK.
Where as the likes of atan
Ota
Crossing,joke ayo
Agbado
Oke aro
Adinyan
Ijoko
Ifo

Road

Were abandoned by the so called administration

Continue monkeying your self

even in Remo and Ijebu Axis

Jonathan39:
Ifo, ijebu Igbo, ikpokia, agbara, the road that link ikorodu to Ogun state

when last have you been to ikrorodu to shagamu , what part from ijebu igbo.. when you talk about ifo are,you talking about street road or inter state road even road that can lead you to a park or neighbouring town ..... Oga forget it better you say the area you stay at in Ogun State get bad road ..... Agbaraon it own is politicalize i think you know that also ipokia because of it closeness to boarder

IBILEmayweather:
What are you even saying?
Ogun state has the worst roads in the whole south west..from Agbara to Sango to lafenwa/Otta..abeg Ogun state is worst, and I’ve been and stayed in all the South western states,

that is what am saying you mention lafenwa to otta as if that is the whole of ogun state ... I dont need to argue with you maybe you just need to move away from that axis and see for your self because that is only 2 local government area out of 20

Tinubuadvocate:
Abuja is the only place in Nigeria have good road networks. Ogun state is the worst in southwest.

aside ota in ogun state mention any part that there road dey bad ... am not sighting that there is no bad road ... but the percentage will be 80% to 20% most all the state has their own but ogun state is not worse in term of road network

Thegracefulness:
Back to business for them as usual.

I heard a rumour that whenever payments of these kinds are delayed, it’s because the bosses or administrators have collected these dues and deposited them in interest generating bank accounts, in order to siphone the proceeds.
How true or baseless is this?

And also, why’s nobody protesting or demanding for payment of “death benefits” of government workers who slaved the most parts of their lives, undertaking 9-5 jobs, then upon their deaths, the government has refused to pay, or hasten the payments of their death benefits.
Nigeria is an unlucky place to be.

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me I no dey pity most of these civil servant are useless naa dem dey aid corruption in public establishment and dey forget say dem be use and dump

Nemere2020:
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Mynd44
Lalasticlala

Now the indigbo can see that they are there own enemy, I once said someone sold him out because no one can convince him to come down to Czech if the person is not speaking Ibo language

Konpresor012:
They got the wrong cownu

ogbeni forget about another one this is the main man but He has been injected even if he gain freedom from DSS today he can never be the same Naa una people give out his weak point

emmyN:
What's your interest? Are you supporting it because you see the merit in it or because there comes some form of accrued benefit for your gender?

Come closer sisisioge lemme whisper sweet nothings into your ears. Can you take two phallus up your cunt at a go? Nor dey support nonsense .

Naa nonsence them dey try to defend assume her mama tell her say she cant pin point who her papa is among like 10 husband how is she going to react..

I once ask a lady that always say what a man can do a lady can do better that can she put on her wedding gown for any other occassion or can we use her unused pant or bra as a rag .. she just dey loook me

bamisho:
DNA

hmmmm but those guy might be poor though and by that start killing each other .... it easy to say to a child that thats is your father but we are no more together than to say I cant say this is your father because everyone keep coming

sisisioge:
Lets go there....I find it funny that a man with 4 wives opposes it. Whatever is good for the gander should be ok for the goose. His concern was about the identity of the offspring from such marriages....are his children confused? It should be legalised and everyone should should their struggle. Shikena

the question is that , let say the woman get pregnant for like 9 husband who will claim the baby especially when all the 9 guy are topping the pregnant ofter

Ninejaywon:
You need to go for medical check-up or your body is filled with stress. Early morning erection is a very good indicator to know a strong and properly functioning heart and blood vessels. There is no day I don't have an early morning erection, even after an afternoon nap, I wake up to a massive erection.

is either you are from a rich home .... that means you get good upkeep cash from your parent becaus if you are working class guy especially 8 to 5 things it con be in Lagos I bet you.. you cant have it regularly. maybe 2 or 3 times a week ... naa you go dey find erection no be erection go dey find you

Generalnomercy:
Maybe the man raped her and died in the process of forcing his way into her.

But how could a single small girl like this strangle an able bodied man like that, this calls for serious investigation.

Oga there is nothing like rape here, the both agree to meet up , infact naa the lady pay for the choice BNB when the man transfer to her so rule out rape

Chosenseed1997:
Its highly unfortunate that one of the state that is blessed with so much possibilities in terms of industrial insfracture is lacking basic equipment such as fire fighting gadgets
Its really disheartening

I work in a safety company we have like 6 fire fighting vehicle including COBRA that only have 5 in worldwide production... back to the topic sir, that could only be a foam agent mabe the truck was not equiped with foam tank so the need to do manual filling while fighting hydro carbon fire

doctore212:
I think it should be a chemical that can help in fire fighting.

Think of it how many gallons will fill that tank.

many people only dey ves their anger on this mainly because they dont know what it cost to fight hydro carbon fire

that is not water ... that is foam agent it very effective in starving all the three element of fire

olufolarin2222:
If 25litres of water will fill a keg, calculate how many keg, that will fill a fire tank?

it not water that is foam agent for fighting hydro carbon fire

obembet:
Ogun state fire service department was seen using Jerry cans to refill their water truck as there was fire outbreak from a gas explosion on a bridge.

Source:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GwcB4MVVYSY

I work in a safety company we have like 6 fire fighting vehicle including COBRA that only have 5 in worldwide production... back to the topic sir, that could only be a foam agent mabe the truck was not equiped with foam tank so the need to do manual filling while fighting hydro carbon fire

stanluiz:
Then why is MURIC complaining that the Yoruba Muslims are marginalized in states like Ekiti, ogun and ondo state ?

yes they will be marginalise how many of them has show interest in politics in those state... Ican remember the last election in ogun state 7 candidates are christian while deputy will be muslim ... you have to speak up to be heard

LOKOLESCO:
OK,maybe nah them go buy there product themselves.

you get it wrong bro china produce everything they need and also produce for the world... if you want any of their product no matter how rich you are you will have to go to china not them coming to you ...... they only come to you when they sence that is like your region are patronising them more

FalseProphet1:
The south east is not conducive for business, a friend of mine from Ebonyi state wanted to open a fuelling station there, he later abandoned the idea and opened it along lag/ib expressway, when I asked him why the sudden change in venue, he told me that the tax, levies and other hidden charges imposed by the state on him would wreck him in less than a year if he continues with the project in that location.

South eastern governors should stop being greedy and make their states economic friendly so that investors can come in. It's a shame that wealthy Igbo business feel more comfortable investing in the west and north than their respective states.

This I have seen.

the best thing about Igbo people is that they are business oriented but they fail to build where they come from... multimillion dollars what of investment owned by igbo are in far away SW and North...... am not saying they should not invest in other part of the country but they should do more in their own land