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LiteratureRe: My Girlfriends' Ex by Harmonyemerald(op): 4:29am On Aug 27, 2014
Please my girlfriend's ex readers, I lost the story and I don't have back-up. I can't remember all the scenes and plots and what they said to each other, so writting the concluding part of this story is a bit of a challenge. So please if anyone has the story with them, can the person please forward it to nancyikedife@yahoo.com. Tried contacting mystogan but his system crashed and he doesn't have the story anymore. Thank you people, but am really desperate now.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Topic Sharing On Nairaland (Shared Topics) by Harmonyemerald(f): 7:51am On Aug 26, 2014
Seun: it's gone. So sorry. However you can rewrite it. The new version will be better than the last one
I can't rewrite it to have the same emotion and flow like the previous one.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Topic Sharing On Nairaland (Shared Topics) by Harmonyemerald(f): 2:26am On Aug 26, 2014
@ seun, I know posting this here is totally inappropriate but desperate times calls for desperate measures. The link you sent for the revovery of my story "my girlfriend's ex" isn't opening and I really need to rethe story.

https://www.google.com.ng/search?q=cache:www.nairaland.com/1672421/girlfriends-ex/1

https://www.google.com.ng/search?q=cache:www.nairaland.com/1672421/girlfriends-ex/2
Etc
LiteratureRe: My Girlfriends' Ex by Harmonyemerald(op): 11:36am On Aug 17, 2014
princesa: Harmony what's up na? You lost the story?sad
Yup
LiteratureRe: My Girlfriends' Ex by Harmonyemerald(op): 12:45pm On Aug 16, 2014
Can it also b forwarded to nancyikedife@yahoo.com.
LiteratureRe: My Girlfriends' Ex by Harmonyemerald(op): 3:04pm On Jul 21, 2014
Taken the phone for repairs and Nothing can be done for it. I plan to travel to Enugu on thursday and I hope to repair it then. If by weekend I didn't comment on this thread then I will be happy if @mystogan will then paste what he has on the story and then forward it to my email nancyikedife@yahoo.com. See you guys soon and thank you mystogan for your help and kindness.
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LiteratureRe: My Girlfriends' Ex by Harmonyemerald(op): 8:51am On Jul 21, 2014
mystogan: @harmony I've got a backup of all your work before the crash on my system,I could post it here if is ok by you. Great flow u've got. Keep it up.
Thanks sweetie, I don't understand the forces surrounding this story. Ist my phone had issues but I was able to repair it then nairaland was crashed and I lost the story without back-up but mr seun helped me recover and I started updating bits by bit with some modification and little editting. But woke up sunday morning and my bold 5 which contains the story refuses power and my friends said that is how bold 5 damages esp when the red light isn't coming on when you put the ba3, am scared now. I will take it for repairs today, if they are able to repair it then I continue the post with editing if not then I will ask you to paste all you have here for the readers so that if and when am able to get a new phone I will continue from the last episode. Am typing this with my sister's phone who will be going back to school tomorrow. Wish me luck. Love you all to pieces. Aunty princesa I c u. You are always an inspiration. I read 'taking chances' everyday till this my phone wahala started.
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CelebritiesRe: less scandalized Nigerian actresses by Harmonyemerald(f): 2:13pm On Jul 19, 2014
uote author=maxism2]If Genevive is there, then Mercy Johnson should b Included too.

Too[/quote]I doubt if Genny should be on the list. She is a good actress no doubt but she has more than a few sandals to her name, from dating atiku to being pregnant for d banj and emeke ike, to hating some fellow colleagues and saying van viker couldn't act. There was also this rumor about her being a lez and this recent one of her calling the industry a mediocre. So she shouldn't be on the list. People like nsem-etim should be used to replace her. I still love Genny, am her number one fan but she isn't scandal free jor
LiteratureRe: My Girlfriends' Ex by Harmonyemerald(op): 10:15am On Jul 19, 2014
OHaddy: on the watch 4 update.....
Will do that as soon as we enter a new page.this page is soon long down now
LiteratureRe: My Girlfriends' Ex by Harmonyemerald(op): 8:02am On Jul 19, 2014
princesa: They can't actually do anything. The post per page is 31 or 32. Until the posts gets up to the required number, it won't move.

Still waiting for where i stopped. Ride on smiley
Thanks dearie for the insight. Didn't know that. Oya readers comment oooo so that we can move to a new page
RomanceRe: Whats Ur Most Embarrassing Toasting Experience? by Harmonyemerald(f): 6:10pm On Jul 18, 2014
BABE3: OMG! I have one! cheesy

It was at a airport. I was sitting across this fine dude, chilling for my flight.--duh! wink cheesy I was feeling like a G, so I went to talk to him sha!

We just started the conversation o, next thing, he said something like "I don't do black girls"!


OMG! I wanted to slap the hell out of someone that day! lol-- Chei! The thing pained me ehn! I sha acted like a "DIva" and insulted him (called him out) and everything--lol

An hour later, guess who I was sitting with on the plane?--- this e-diot boy!!! Holy 4uck! --lol

That wasn't only my most embarassing toasting experience, it was my most uncomfortable flight! hehe ---
Awwwwwwchhhhhhh. That line literally pained me now because am a dark girl and can't take being insulted like this.
Nairaland GeneralRe: If You Can Interpret My Dream I Will Reward You by Harmonyemerald(f): 4:49pm On Jul 18, 2014
krall: I hope it wont
I hope so too. But we all know what position and power can turn us into
Nairaland GeneralRe: If You Can Interpret My Dream I Will Reward You by Harmonyemerald(f): 4:14pm On Jul 18, 2014
Am not good at stuffz like this but I think it means that power and money intoxicates and brings out the worse in people and if care isn't taken, it might happen to you.
RomanceRe: I Need A Female To Pose As My Wife In An Embassy by Harmonyemerald(f): 4:10pm On Jul 18, 2014
You could have just told the embassy that it was an honest mistake instead of this huge lie. What if you get caught.
RomanceRe: Got A Crush On Khallesi(aka Spongeback) by Harmonyemerald(f): 3:38pm On Jul 18, 2014
Why do people always have this misconception that all nnewi people are into business. Spongeback please consider my brother, most nnewi men not boys oo men are good
EducationRe: Post Graduate And Masters Aspirant Pls Lets Meet Here To update ourselves by Harmonyemerald(f): 2:16pm On Jul 18, 2014
UNN has written their exam and I think result is even out
RomanceRe: Can You Marry The Younger Sister Of Big Bros' Wife? by Harmonyemerald(f): 9:12am On Jul 18, 2014
ShirelleBaby: There is absolutely nothing wrong in that.we see two sisters marry two brothers daily or twins wed twins-it is acceptable except ur village has itz own law forbidding that!so find ow if ur village is for or against it first.
Exactly my tots, I have seen twins marry twins. It all depends on culture. If your culture isn't against it, den go ahead ignore your brother for now but they will get around the idea. Give them time.
LiteratureRe: My Girlfriends' Ex by Harmonyemerald(op): 7:25am On Jul 18, 2014
please moderators, can you move us to the next page, this page is already way too down
LiteratureRe: My Girlfriends' Ex by Harmonyemerald(op): 7:20am On Jul 18, 2014
EPISODE 6


After repeating the story that I had just told Nenye an hour before for Ben's benefit,

I then added, ” Ben am so sorry, you are a great guy, I know that and I know that I had to tell you on time so that whatever intentions you have towards me won't be further pursued. And the truth of the matter is that I still love him though we lost contact, that is why I was willing to go out with you but his calls has awaken my feelings which wasn't lost but buried somewhere deep in my heart."

I paused and looked closely at Ben, but the dude was obviously not buying my story judging from the way he was just staring at me without blinking or saying a word, his sexy eyes weren't so sexy now, they were piercing and a little bit judgemental (or maybe that was my imagination).

Not minding his eyes, I continued, "Ben, not being with you will rip me apart for the rest of my life because I can already see that you can treat a woman right but i like you alot not to tell you. we would be best of friends if you will have me.”

"Besides, Nenye is already carrying a touch for you and I can authoritatively tell you that she is very single. And from my expert opinion, the both of you will make an excellent couple" I added when he didn't respond.

Ben was furious, he called it fetish. He doesn’t believe in such things.

"This is the 21st century and this oath whatsoever is so outdated, but I can understand love and if that is what you want, then who am I to stop you"

"You are a great guy and I can jump on you for understanding what love is and how it control our decisions, I pray that you find love soon, what am I even saying, Nenye will answer all your questions and make you believe in this love that I feel strongly"

With that, I walked out of his life as a girlfriend to be and entered his life as a buddy, a best friend if you will say or so I thought.

Three weeks after the whole cat out of the bag event, things were just beginning to get back to normal in my life and I was thankful for that, though Nenye was always asking about Henry and what I have decided to do with him, if I would go back to him or just ask him to break the oath. But she didn't know that last I heard about Henry was that he married one oyibo lady and for the oath, time has broken it for us.

Nenye came back one day from lectures exceptionally happy and this showed in all she did because she cooked, washed the dishes ( something she would never do on a normal day), but I didn’t bother asking because I know that I will still get to know about it sooner or later, but it came sooner than I thought.

After she prepared the meal, she dished out our portion(we normally eat from the same plate,*best friends or what*, you would ask) we were just starting to eat when she said,

"babe, I get gist ooooo"

I nudged her to speak but she decided to play instead

"Guess who I ran into after CED 342 today", she asked.

"Nenye, you know am horrible at guessing and besides it is you we are talking about, the question should be, who didn't you ran into today because you sabi waka naaaa" I concluded before we both busted into laughter briefly forgetting table manners.

"Well, I ran into Ben 0diako around engineering annex, he was just driving out of the building before he saw me and stopped".

"That's good", I responded. "But why so happy?"

" Okay, after we met, he offered to buy me lunch since the sun was so hot and the look on my face showed that I was famished plus my tommy gave me away because it kept making those disturbing noises it usually make when am hungry"

"He took me to CEC shaa and we gisted plenty, he asked after you. The guy sabi talk oooooo, he just dey make sense dey go".

"I kept wishing that he would ask me out and as if God decided to hear my prayers for the first time, just towards the end of the meal, he collected my number and then asked me when I would be free for our second date because as long as he was concerned, we just had our first", Nenye concluded.

I became speechless and was like OMG!!!!, I suddenly lost my appetite for the delicious meal I was ravishing few seconds before.

"what was your answer", I asked her

" Duhh, I said yes of course", that is if it is okay by you, she replied.

I looked at my friend's face, the glow on her face was very evident, she was truly happy and I wish I could be happy for her, truly I wish I could.

I am supposed to, besides I gave Ben up for Nenye and I encouraged the both of them to seek themselves out and now it is happening, am supposed to be thrilled because my master plan is in action in the positive direction.

Sacrifice is not an easy thing, but I thought it was, after-all someone gave up his life for my sins, so giving up Ben was the best thing to do. I get to make Nenye happy and I know Ben would soon fall completely in love with Nenye because she has an awesome personality beneath the exquisite beauty.

All these were going on in my head and unknown to me, tears were already forming in my eyes. I blinked myself to reality and with a smile I encouraged Nenye to go out with Ben odiako.

She was so happy and blabbed on and on, how she would make him love her forever. She didn't even notice that I had tears in my eyes as I told her that I was going for a walk,( who could blame her, she was just asked out and it is Ben Odiako that we are talking about here).

Well, that was the beginning of Nenye and Ben's relationship. Today the relationship is five years and Ben had just proposed.

I was stuck in lagos traffic(as usual) and my phone was blinking furiously, with calls and pings. Nenye has called six times, Tola's calls came in twice. Brian's call just came in now and I had to just pick.

"Hello, Brian, I still dey road oooo, why all of una dey call?" I asked

"Girl, you won't believe it, Ben has just proposed to Nenye", He replied excitedly.

"Wow!, OMG!, no wonder she and Tola has been blowing my phone off, where are you guys now so that when I get home, I will change and come right over"

"Girl, you don't have to change, whatever you have on now will be just perfect, just get your a** to chinese restaurant in Festac and please hurry". He said before he hung up.

Wow, this is huge, Ben finally asked Nenye to marry him. Five years, five years!! and it finally happened, although within those years I still suspected that Ben still liked me because he would sometimes smack my A** or kiss me playfully or make jokes about how I turned him turn for Henry who finally didn't show face.

If you are wondering who Brian is, he is our final girlfriend. This particular girlfriend is a HE and we met this awesome fellow through Tola. I would give you his details and little of what happened to me in the past five years in the next episode, but for now, I have to obey Brian's command and get my a** down to chinese restaurant to pop some serious wine and do some damages because Nenye is officially no more a single lady.
CelebritiesRe: Oluwaseun Osewa, Nairaland Founder Is (+1) Today, Thursday 17th July 2014 by Harmonyemerald(f): 10:05am On Jul 17, 2014
Oga at the top happy birthday. Make you do something for your nairalanders naaaa. Like the way linda ikeji does on her blog. You can give 10K to the ist ten persons who said happy bday to you or you can just randomly pick some people but shaa make your 32nd birthday something to be talked about especially after the attack on the forum. Happy birthday sir
EducationRe: I Never Had Sex With Any Man —21 Year Old KWASU Best Graduating Student by Harmonyemerald(f): 9:33pm On Jul 16, 2014
3.62 kwa. If I knew about schools like this, I would have gone there. I came out with 4.something CGPA and I no even reach best 100 in my class. UNN rock abegi. She got plenty awards self. Kai #bites my hand with my teeth#
LiteratureRe: My Girlfriends' Ex by Harmonyemerald(op): 6:56am On Jul 15, 2014
EPISODE 5

Ben took me to all the places he promised and even more because he stopped at CEC to get me what he calls "Ben's special treat" after about three hours, he took me home.

With Ben, time seemed to freeze, I spent 3 hours with him and it seemed like 10mins.

He was such an interesting company, very intelligent and versatile, and his opinion about everything we talked about seemed to be the best.

He told me he was 25 years old, last born of his parents, he just came back from Canada where he had just concluded his masters programme in business administration.

"Am back for good, am back to hustle, just got a job in KIA motors (Enugu branch) as their general manager and getting a house has drained me financially, am more broke than a church mouse,so please don't mind my sweet-looking self(because I know I am), the pocket is drained so please manage what your prince charming has offered you this evening but I will redeem myself at our next date". He concluded with a boyish grin

He was such a man, Ben oh Ben, I just feel that I would be happy with this guy but I can't fight this guilt, Nenye deserves to be happy, so I have to end this before it gets started.

As if he read my mind, he started saying,

"Daisy, I like you, you are simple yet complex, there is something piercing about your eyes and a baggage of shadow like an unhappy past or something but when you smile, you can lit up a room, give me a chance, I want to help you learn how to smile, I want to help you lit up every room you step into, hell no, I want to help you lit up the whole world, just let me.............."


"Please, let me" he added few seconds later when I didn't respond.

Before Ben knew what was going on, like a speed of light, I was out of his car and I didn't stop running until my back was against the door of my room. I stood there for like 10mins and I didn't move until I heard him drive away.

After Ben drove off, I walked to my bed and fall inside and finally gave way for the tears I had been battling with. I sobbed myself to sleep.

The next day, Nenye noticed my moody nature and persisted that I tell her what was wrong.

By evening, I was still in bed, didn't even shower or brush (don't judge me so that you won't be judged ooooo, when your heart is broken, you have the right not to get up from the bed), so Nenye couldn't take it anymore, she insisted that i tell her what went wrong.


Honestly, I wanted to share my problem with her(I needed my friend) but I couldn’t find the words to convey my heart’s turmoil. She kept on consoling me but when Ben’s calls kept coming in and I wasn’t picking, she starting assuming that Ben had to be involved in my predicament and she started swearing and raining abuses on him.
She went on and on about how selfish and mean men were but I couldn’t let her think that about Ben, so I had to lie to Nenye.

Being a writer, it was very easy for me to come up with a story and so I began,

"Nenye, Ben is a good guy and all but the guy doesn't even like me, it is you that he wants, am just not picking his calls because he said he just asked me out so as to make you jealous, and besides while I was out with him, I received a call from someone from my past and it is that call that has made me depressed, not Ben".

When Nenye didn't utter any word, I continued seeing that she was believing my 'folktale'

"The call came from this guy I used to know when I was younger, he is back from China and called to see me". I paused.

"So what is so bad in seeing an old friend that is making you all moody and smelly" she asked as she waved her hand across her nostrils to emphasize her point that I was smelling

"The truth is that am so over this guy,(not that I was really into him albinisio) but the problem is that we were sort of bound to each other"


" excuse me, bound how? When? Where?" Nenye interrupted.

I paused and swallowed before I continued,


"it was a silly thing that I did when I was young, which I will regret for the rest of my days. I had a blood oath taken with this guy, so before I can freely go out with any guy, I would have to end things with him otherwise, any guy that comes into my life will either run mad or die mysteriously and I can’t let that happen to mrs B’s brother whether he really likes me or not" , I finished.

The room was silent when I finshed my story, we were both lost in our own thoughts, one could only hear the sound of our breaths.

Nenye squeezed my hand more out of shock than pity.

"But why are you just telling me this and how will you go about breaking this oath. can't you just go see the boy and talk things over, you guys were kids when this happened and who knows the boy may even be in love with someone else and that maybe the reason why he wants to see you, what do you think?" she asked with tears in her eyes


"I really don’t know how to go about it but one thing I know is that I love you very much, more like a sister I never had, and Ben is a good guy and he obviously likes you, so you will take care of him for the both of us and if you do this, then I will take care of my problem" I replied.

Dear reader, before you go hating me, let me say that part of the story I shared with Nenye was true, there was this guy in my life with whom I really did take an oath with but we agreed that if we lost touch or if we fall out of love with each other within 10 years then we would no longer be bound to each other and as such free to settle with whoever we chose.

His name was Henry, we were barely kids when we met, I was 9 and he was 13 and we were best friends, people called us husband and wife.

We were kids, very full of life, always eager to try out new things and our curious mind lead us into trouble. There was this home video we saw once where people in love had a blood oath to stay together forever and later their love prevailed and I was silly enough to suggest that Henry and I entered the oath but with water instead because I was terrified about licking someone's blood.

Well, Henry's family moved quickly after that and this is the 11th year after the oath, so I guess I am a free lady and besides I was only nine when I did the oath taking.

But let me tell you why I decided to give up Ben for Nenye.


Nenye hardly loves, infact, she hates love, it has been a while since she had any serious relationship and she is this sort of person that when she finally loves, she loves dearly. This trait of hers is very similar to the wolf’s imprinting in twilight, so since Bella couldn’t stop her best friend Jacob from imprinting on her daughter in twilight, who am I to hinder Nenye .

Nenye couldn’t believe I kept my oath away from her but her concern at the moment was how I was supposed to get out of the mess(not knowing that I was already free from the oath but I didn't tell her shaa)
she was already drawing the list of possible oath breakers when the door ball rang.

We both exchanged looks asking each other with our eyes if we were expecting anybody before Nenye asked “who is it?"

we both stared at each other when we heard the voice of the person at the other side of the door, BEN.

what was I supposed to do, seeing him in flesh, apparently neatly shaved, wearing a strong perfume and well tailored suit, can I really turn all of Ben down?.

It would be easy to do it over the phone but standing before him, swallowing hard and absorbing his presence would really make this very difficult, Nenye looked at me and asked if it was okay to let him in, I took one last look at the mirror (my eyes were swollen) before I nodded in affirmative.

Nenye then opened the door wider to accomodate Ben and he walked in.

I walked to the door and greeted him, he responded with a nod and then sat down on the seat very close to where I was standing.

Am sure he was shocked because of my face and eyes and I could see his eyes darken with concern, he just looked at me with those eyes of his and said, “whats going on?”

I swallowed hard before turning to Nenye and with my eyes, I asked her to excuse us. After she left, I pulled out a seat and sat down( because I felt my legs were just too weak at that moment and it could give way anytime soon).

I turned to Ben and started talking
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LiteratureRe: My Girlfriends' Ex by Harmonyemerald(op): 9:07am On Jul 13, 2014
Where are our previous readers, Agybabe
And the rest. This page is boring without you guys. Aunty princesa I see u!!
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LiteratureRe: My Girlfriends' Ex by Harmonyemerald(op): 11:15pm On Jul 12, 2014
EPISODE 4

"Yes Ben, I guess there is no harm done in me getting a bite with a friend because that is what we are right?" I asked rhetorically emphasing on the 'friend' because I wanted to tell Nenye that it was just a friendly date but deep down I guess I knew that it wasn't

"I would be honoured to go out with you". I replied and blocked my heart that was beating faster than normal and my head that was screaming" You made the wrong decision".

I then turned back to look at Nenye and the look on her face said it all and it clearly said " damn!!! you just stole my man". Oh lord please let me be wrong about what her face said, I thought to myself before she immediately stormed out of the place

Ben and I was shocked at her behaviour, though i couldn’t say i was surprised because I think I expected worse reaction.

I woke up the next morning and she was gone, she did her own share of the morning chores, made breakfast and even ironed my dress for me so I assumed she had gone to school and has eventually put our little Ben incident into the bottomless pit.

I got back from school quite early because the last lecture we had was boring and I decided to skip the class. I made lunch as the hours dragged by hoping that she will come home soon and help me pick out what to wear for the evening.

she got home by 4pm and we started gisting about what happened at school, but after a while, she said to me that she was sorry that she was upset that Ben asked me out and she had no right to be upset but she just assumed that she gave him enough green light to get him to know that she was interested if he was single.
It was just that she hasn’t been in any relationship in two years and then Ben comes in, sweeping her off her feet and she had already designed their wedding in her head, their honeymoon in paris, their 3 kids and their happily ever after and he didn’t even give her a second look and she felt betrayed and alone.

I consoled her the much I could, I advised her to relax, she is a young beautiful 21 year old girl who gets more chykers than anyone I have ever met but the only problem is that she doesn't like easily. Well we made up and she asked me what I was going to wear but I barely stared at her and she just laughed and went to her wardrope and brought a dress which she laid on my bed and said " girl you are gonna rock that outfit and you know the colour makes your eyes pop"
Subconsciously In the process of consoling her, I lost all my exictment for the dinner date

At 6.45pm, I still wasn’t dressed, not because of lack of dress, Nenye gave me an orange gown by D & G that was her birthday gift from one of her chykers in the previous year, and if you must know, the gown rocks and with my gucci boots, I will be drop-dead gorgeous, instead i found myself dailing Ben’s number, I didn’t know why I was calling or what I was gonna say until his rich deep voice answered

" hey dear, the groom isn't expected to see or hear from the bride before the wedding or something bad happens". He laughed at his own joke, his rich baritone voice re-vibrated in his laughter and it was just like heavens to my ears, like OMG I couldn't even talk. I could just listen to him laughter all day without being satisfied.

I was still miles away when I heard him talk again, I guess he misinterpreted my silence because he said " hello dear, i was just joking, wats up?”,

I kept quiet still thinking of how I was gonna tell him that I wasn't going to honour his invite anymore because I can't bear to take the only man that my friend has liked in two years( don't hate me, nenye is a doll, a God sent actually but she has the problem of liking men, it takes her ages to find one who can capture her interest but when she does love, she loves truely and love makes her a better person)

He said again ” dearie, hope you are ready because i have a lot of fun stuff for us. First we will go to' la ville' for a little relaxation over fresh fish then later we would have dinner at grace manor hotels before I would take you home ”

By the time he finished saying all he had planned, my will-power to say 'No' had already left me because I think he was in the middle of saying something else when I cut him off by saying

" you sure do have a talent for planning and am sure you would make a fortune if you venture into date planning for people, where people hire you to plan their dates........."

That rich baritone voice started laughing again and I had to join in the laughter( just so you know, our voices laughing together produced just what can be called 'angelic music that is pleasing to the soul')


"Well, I just might venture into the field if my plan for the first date works on you to make you grant me a second date". He said after the laughter died down.

"We will see about that, well I just called to ask where we are going so that I won't be either underdressed or overdressed, but since you have told me now, I will try and come up with something nice" I lied.


He said, "Well, anything you wear would look good on you because you are just wonderfully made by your creator, you know that right?"

" Hmmmmm, Jonser, see you soon" I said and hung up.

I didn't know what possessed me to hang up the way I did, I guess it was the indirect compliment that he gave me. Not that I wasn't used to getting compliments from the menfolks but hearing Ben compliment me made me all jellyfish inside.

It was after I hung up that I realised that I called Ben to cancel our date only to be drawn further into the date and the guy. Help is certainly needed. Well thanks to the call, I now know what to wear because if not I would have looked so overdressed for the date and would have made a wrong first impression.

Wait a mintue, It just crossed my mind,
could it be possible that Nenye gave me the exotic gown just to help me make a bad first impression by making me look like a desperado?

Nah, it is not possible jor, Nenye is my friend and would do no such thing, the other part of my mind argued and I think I support this one's arguement.

Well, looking at my time, it showed that Ben would be arriving in the next 10mins, I quickly dashed to the bathroom. Having already mentally picked the jeans and the top to go with while in the bathroom, I was ready within 8mins and was just looking at myself in the mirror when he arrived.

Taking a last glance at myself in the mirror, I quickly locked the door and walked towards his car, I had a plan, I was going to have a little nice dinner with him and then I will never see him again, he is meant for Nenye and I would help him realise that.

As I walked to his car, he quickly came out of the driver's side to meet me. I could see the way he looked at me from head to toe before he held my eyes with his, I smiled and muttered my greetings but he still didn't reply, he just kept staring into my eye( see me oo what does he want to see inside my eye), well I was already uncomfortable with his stare that I had to pinch him jokingly to get him back to planet earth.


"Am so sorry for staring, it is just that you look so simple, yet soo elegant, soo innocent yet so sophisticated, you just look stunning, your eyes can make the sun to whistle and the birds can sing of your beauty". He replied as he made his way to open the door for me.

I could only smile at his little poem, am sure he always win any girl he wants with a move like that, so romantic yet so real and simple,' so this is what am going to give up', with that thought I didn't even know when a tear dropped from my eye. I quickly turned to the window and dabbed my eyes with my tissue.
RomanceRe: A Nigerian Guy Drove 17 Hours To See A Girl He Met On Twitter. by Harmonyemerald(f): 9:51pm On Jul 11, 2014
Raypawer: i can see you are almost 108years and you are sayin a guy can rob a Bank just to satisfy u.. then who is destroying our generation now??

°°°¶another greedy 9ja babe!~
Am not saying that and I never did. That was supposed to be an exaggeration. If you can't see the irony in that sentence then I can't help you. That simply means that whatever a guy passed through to get to a lady isn't supposed to guarantee that she would put out. People should learnt to read beyond the literal meaning of words.
RomanceRe: A Nigerian Guy Drove 17 Hours To See A Girl He Met On Twitter. by Harmonyemerald(f): 8:04pm On Jul 11, 2014
sage2: The respect is always there to be earned by any woman who desires. You don't get it on a platter of gold.
And the lady in question earned it and most guys here don't seem to appreciate that act because they expected her to put out and that brings us back my point of arguement; the lack of respect for what the embodiment of a lady entails. The lady didn't ask the guy or force him to surprise her on her birthday with a visit, he did that out of the generosity of his mind and the girl did what every decent lady should have done in her place. Now what was her offense?? That she was an exception in the generation where immorality is at the apex??
Jobs/VacanciesRe: KPMG Graduate Trainee 2014(test Of June 14 @ Chams) by Harmonyemerald(f): 1:07pm On Jul 11, 2014
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RomanceRe: A Nigerian Guy Drove 17 Hours To See A Girl He Met On Twitter. by Harmonyemerald(f):
olumaxi: yinmu...dat u v not been spanked by an internet guy doesnt mean u wont b spanked anytym soon...i repeat,al of u r dsame
Dude, get your facts right. No two people are the same. Anyways what do you know? You are barely 25. So young and so ignorant if not you will know that if all girls are the same cheap slut as you think then we won't be on this thread discussing because clearly the lady in question is an exception. By the way, I donot get why the guy is been made fun of, whether you spent a year on the road or a second or you robbed a bank just to see a lady, you shouldn't expect her to put out. Seriously guys need to re-define and find their respect for the women-folk else our generation will be headed for the worst.

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