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Career / Re: 10 Things You Need To Know About Pension In Nigeria by harveyspec: 11:38am On Sep 21, 2015 |
micklplus: I have been working with my present firm since 2013 & there hasn't been any pension scheme, now the company wants to start Am I entitled to ask for arrears?(the 10%, that the company ought to have been contributing since the date of my employment) Can I write a petition to Pencom? CC:realwvn |
Health / Re: Sickle Cell Awareness !! Come In And Learn..... by harveyspec: 6:13pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
JeffreyJamez: No they didn't & they also paid the price, that's why alot of them had kids dying off prematurely, these deaths were attributed to "ogbanje" |
Family / Re: My Wife Nags Anytime Am Broke, Please Advise by harveyspec: 6:02pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
BRAVAGAD0O: I have some questions, cos your post is inadequate to proffer solution Q1.did you give her the impression that you were loaded before marriage Q2.did you always meet her every need & demands before marriage Q3. Whenever u were low on cash, did she nag before marriage Q4. Is she the type that naturally likes money, good things, good life? If the answer to all my questions is a resounding YES, then my advice is bro "CARRY YOUR CROSS" There is little you can do, even to bring God into this picture, it will take a lot of faith & patience on your part. You have moulded her into this, there is a saying "don't start what you can't finish" The courtship period is the period to lay boundaries & mould your partner into what u want or desire with compromises atimes. BUT if the answers to my above questions is NO, then check her friends or the persons who are advising her!! Most likely a newly found friendship or acquaintance If you find any, ensure you Cut her off from them Then a heart to heart communication with her & begin a deliberate & conscious effort to retrain her!! It will take patience on ur part!! Men hate emasculation alot, hope u don't degenerate into beating!!! |
Phone/Internet Market / Re: Latest Smartphones for sale In Benin Call 08034946141 by harveyspec: 7:25am On Sep 08, 2015 |
How come all your threads have your own posts? no other post by nairalanders either asking questions or giving a recommendation or even a complaint? |
Politics / Buhari’s Appointments: Ethnicity Or Comfortability By Princewill Odidi by harveyspec: 6:15pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
Ethnicity plays such a major part in the consciousness of Nigerians so much that, once a list of appointees are released, as most Nigerians go through the list, instead of accessing the strength of the individuals, they immediately attempt to group the appointees by ethnicity, religion or clans. Is Muhammadu Buhari an ethnic bigot? I would rather argue, that ethnicity may not be at the back of his mind when these appointments are made, rather in putting together his core team, he goes for colleagues, and professionals most of whom he is comfortable with, who only happen to be northerners by tribe. Definitely, it is not a northern agenda as some have opined, I would prefer to call it “comfort level appointments”. Comfort level appointments are not new all over the world. Remember more than 20 Harvard Law School classmates of Barack Obama where in his transition team and later made his initial government. Did Americans cry over the fact he appointed mostly his classmates? No. Also, the world of Chicago politics produced his most influential advisers, including chief campaign strategist David Axelrod and businesswoman Valerie Jarrett. So you can see that most leaders, upon assuming office, appoint people closest to them Why should Buhari be viewed differently? Fortunately[b] most people in Buharis inner circles, majority happen to be Northerners, not by choice, but by birth. Do we really need to hold that against them? Ethnicity plays the same role as classmate’s relationships[/b] Let’s take on David Cameron, British Prime Minister, he surrounded himself with his classmates from Eton College. His core advisers were a clique, a network of friends — the friends he made at school, friends he made at university. So Presidents and leaders, starting their governments with their close friends and aides is nothing new. Also, lets come back home. Remember, when Donald Duke brought his close friend from Oron Akwa Ibom state to be the head of Cross River State Economic development office in Washington DC is 1999? While in Washington, Larry Esin directed CRS’ foreign direct investment program and developed initiatives to encourage private enterprise development in strategic industries. Most people even argued at a point, that development projects Donald initiated were mostly Larry Esin concepts. Again, bringing your buddies to work with you is not new in modern day governments. Now the big question: Why is Buhari’s case viewed differently? The answer is simple. “Resource control” and the “psychology of belonging’. What this means is that when appointments are made, traditionally, Nigerians expect that “our man is there”, so he bring government largesse to us. That is the mentality of sharing the national cake. However, many will be disappointed with my line of thought. The change Buhari talked about and the change we all advocated for was not the change to share national cake as we had in the past, it was the change of building Nigeria. As Nigerians, we have a choice to make, we can continue to share our resources or we can decide to build our country. If it will take all Hausas, or Yoruba’s or Efiks to make Nigeria work again, let’s give it a try. The second and most annoying aspect of this argument is the “psychology of belonging”. Most Nigerians are just contented that someone from their tribe is in office, even if he benefits nothing all through the person’s tenure in office. This is a regressive mentality and will continue to perpetuate underdevelopment in our society Thousands of people from Otta Obasanjo’s town,have no jobs, no houses, and no food and yet their son was once a President. Thousands of people from Otueke, Jonathans town, have no portable drinking water, no jobs, no houses, cannot afford to pay the school fees of their children, yet they are contented their son was President. Nigerians should come to a mentality that where a leader comes from is irrelevant, what matters is his ability to deliver. Fellow Nigerians, let’s get it right, it is not about where a man comes from, it is about what he can deliver and how he can change your life This is the mentality that can change Nigeria, and I pray my generation will live to judge men, not by their ethnicity or place of origin, but by the content of their character and place of residence. A Yoruba boy who was born in Calabar, went to school in Calabar, his parent’s pay taxes to Cross River state government, all his friends are mostly in Calabar, should be accepted as an indigene of Cross River state, and should be entitled to all benefits our people have, that’s the new Nigeria we want. Remember the old national anthem? Though tribes and tongues may differ in brotherhood we stand. Finally, I understand some maybe quick to point out “federal character”, zoning, state-ism and religion in appointments, I understand all of that. But if you want to know the truth, those federal character, zoning, state-ism, ethnicity and religion is everything wrong with Nigeria The biggest impediment to Nigeria’s development today is leadership. However, ethnic sentiments has made it difficult to attain national development. Example, if the EFCC start probing politicians, rather than applaud their work, we start counting how many Hausas and Yoruba’s been convicted. If Nigeria must move forward, we need to make a choice. Either we decide to build on an ethnic free future and move on to great heights, or we continue to hold on ethnic sentiments, state-ism and zoning and remain backward. Now that Buhari has started his appointments, the question should not be the tribes of his new hires, rather the question should be: Are these appointees qualified to deliver the goods and to build a newNigeria? Buharis initial appointees are mostly those close to him, if they are all Hausas should not be over emphasized, what should concern us at this time is, can they really deliver. Obama started with over 20 of his Harvard classmates, Cameron of Britain started with most of his school mates from Eton College, Buhari is starting with most of his political aides and associates majority of whom happen to be Hausas, not by choice but by birth, lets us not over labor the fact, Nigeria’s biggest problem continue to be leadership and ethnicity, zoning, religion has over the years kept some of our very best away, Let us support Buharis vision of change, it’s not so much about sharing the national cake, this time around it is about baking the cake. The channel through which this cake is baked is irrelevant, let’s make Nigeria work. PRINCEWILL ODIDI WRITES FROM ATLANTA USA https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1066040673409187&id=100000097929576&refid=8&_ft_=qid.6189061460057006564%3Amf_story_key.-8211444236722901037%3AeligibleForSeeFirstBumping.&__tn__=%2As |
Crime / Re: Why I Slept With My Friend’s Teenage Daughter – UNILAG Lecturer. Picture. by harveyspec: 8:23am On Aug 08, 2015 |
prospero15: Are you a male or female? A full grown man with raging hormones that's needs to be released can UnCloth an 18yr with one hand with ease I hope you are aware that a man who is turned on & about to get down with a lady will do everything possible to have his way, at that time he won't be thinking whether her dress will get torn or how he will explain how it got torn My premise is based on the picture in my mind that the lady in question was small, how many "big" 18yr old do you know. With one hand on the lady's throat, if you are the lady, where will u channel your hand movement to? To ur dress that is being removed or ur throat region due to ur inability to breathe? 2 Likes |
Crime / Re: Why I Slept With My Friend’s Teenage Daughter – UNILAG Lecturer. Picture. by harveyspec: 7:40am On Aug 08, 2015 |
Beremx: Aunty, it's not as easy as u think, she is 18yrs, probably weighs not more than 50kg Then the agbalagba is 40yrs, full grown man weighing probably 70-80kg. if a full grown man pins a 18yrs lady down, there is nothing she can do. Factor in her account, she bent to pick something & the man jumps on her slams her on the couch & has his way It's very possible for him to pin her down & she won't be able to shout. On the other hand, the man is lying, if she really seduced him, she won't give such account of the man's restlessness She said the guy kept standing up & sitting down, offering her things(switching on Ac, Tv etc) That's classical sign of a man on heat or a man who wants to do something with a lady Secondly, the medical assault facility confirms that she was assaulted. Meaning there was a struggle 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Autos / Re: Please!!!has Anyone Ever Done Business With Kings Autos??? by harveyspec: 6:51am On Jul 21, 2015 |
KingsAutos: 1. Your listed business address shows as America autos on google maps, can you explain that When inspired issue came up, it was establish that his listed showroom address on his website was actually seaburn motors 2. Setting aside, the current exchange rate, to clear a 2007 car(good spirited observers have even pointed it out that its is a 2010 car) should not be less than 500k(I recently cleared a 2005 sedan) that reduces your 1.6m to 1.1m, how much will shipping & actual cost price be & how much will your gain be? The Internet has made things less mystifying, a cursory glance thru auction sites will give an average cost of what a 2007 or 2010 Camry will be & it will not be less than $5000(excluding shipping) excerpt if its an accidented car!! $5000 at N180 is already 900k, how possible again is it for one to get direct tokunbo for 1.6m Someone just bought 1999 Camry for 900k, direct tokunbo pls explain 1 Like |
Investment / Re: Please, Is It Advisable To Save My Money With An Insurance Company??? by harveyspec: 3:09pm On Jul 16, 2015 |
arote: How come your number isn't showing on whatsapp |
Investment / Re: Please, Is It Advisable To Save My Money With An Insurance Company??? by harveyspec: 11:47am On Jul 16, 2015 |
seniorklop: Thanks for the earlier response. 1. Can't I opt for a lower term ie less than 5yrs 2. lets assume I want my premium to be 15k every month for a 5yr term a.What will be the total package at maturity b. in the event of my demise say in the 2nd or 3rd year, what will my NOK get PS:you said 8% interest, is it per month or per annum Thanks |
Investment / Re: Please, Is It Advisable To Save My Money With An Insurance Company??? by harveyspec: 9:42am On Jul 16, 2015 |
seniorklop: How do I recover my funds in the event of Igi's collapse? Ps: i know they have been on ground for ages |
Politics / Re: Shell To Build $3.5bn Gas Plant In Imo by harveyspec: 3:24pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
since 2012, how far with this project? |
Travel / Re: REFUSAL Of Visa And Seizure Of Passport By UK Embassy by harveyspec: 7:27pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
MadCow1: Thanks, now I get it So I over stay & when I get to Nigeria, I will back date the stamp to make it look like I stayed within the stipulated time why engage in such gamble in this infotech age, now I understand why the penalty is banning How do you account for your airline tickets, boarding pass for that date I hope he will brief the house on the outcome of his appeal |
Travel / Re: REFUSAL Of Visa And Seizure Of Passport By UK Embassy by harveyspec: 2:49pm On Jul 13, 2015 |
MadCow1: I thought when you are exiting a country, there will be an exit stamp by that country & when you land in your destination, there will be an entry stamp So how can one back date any? If I leave the Uk today & arrive US tomorrow & then Nigeria next week, how can Nigerian immigration backdate my entry stamp last week, when There is an exit stamp by US on my passport Pls Can you throw more light on this 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Photos: The Girl Who Got Married To A Portrait Finally Replied Linda Ikeji by harveyspec: 1:57pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
Lets imagine a scenario where the "alleged" husband goes behind the di**ck rider's back to marry another lady(missy b) say in a court, with real photos & all of that Years later, di**ck rider gets to find out & in a bid to settle the matter, both parties are asked to present their proof Di**ck Rider presents a wedding photo of her & an enlarged photograph with "marriage certificate" I doubt this part(na who sign for the man) Second lady(missy b) presents real wedding photos of her & the man with marriage certificate Pls who will you declare as the real & legitimate wife? Won't Di**ck Rider feel stupid at that point? 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by harveyspec: 5:35pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
charlezok: 1. Has she always been like this? at the inception of the union or during courtship 2.if the answer to No1 is NO, start doing those things that used to thrill her & make her feel loved, this will only work on the grounds that there are no issues between you two 2a. If she is angry at you cos of what you did or did not do, then all ur entreaties will be irritating to her, so find out 2b. Find out is she is having any medical issues eg depression, is she in some kind of trouble, maybe money issues, is all well with her family etc 3.if the answer to No 1, is YES. Why then are you complaining? 4. I will recommend 5 love languages by Dr Gary chapman, go read it It talks about how we give & show love, if you keep showing love to your wife the way u want & not how she wants, then ur efforts will be futile eg some ladies feel loved when u spend quality with them, show them attention. If you substitute this action with gifts, you will find out no matter the gifts you buy, if you don't spend time with them it will mean nothing to them You hear such women say" I want to spend time with my husband" while another says " my husband can travel all he wants, he should leave enough money for me & the kids" there is nothing wrong with them, it's just their love language, so if u spend quality time with the one that loves money/gifts without the gift, all that time will amount to nothing The love languages are 1.words of affirmation 2.gifts 3.acts of service 4.quality time 5.physical touch Can you identify yours? Can you identify that of your spouse? 1 Like |
Business / Re: Financial Mistakes That Almost Wasted My First Five Years Of Work! by harveyspec: 12:54pm On Jul 04, 2015 |
I'm at sea, you mean an informative thread such as this one has been turned to a frivolous chat room!!! Quel dommage!!!! dearpreye Whynotthetruth 1 Like 1 Share |
Business / Re: Financial Mistakes That Almost Wasted My First Five Years Of Work! by harveyspec: 8:45am On Jul 04, 2015 |
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Business / Re: Financial Mistakes That Almost Wasted My First Five Years Of Work! by harveyspec: 11:11pm On Jul 03, 2015 |
ideykwum: Received sir, Gracias That's quite an arsenal 1 Like 1 Share |
Business / Re: Financial Mistakes That Almost Wasted My First Five Years Of Work! by harveyspec: 6:24pm On Jul 03, 2015 |
blessingee: can you recommend a trusted company that has the personal plan option |
Business / Re: Financial Mistakes That Almost Wasted My First Five Years Of Work! by harveyspec: 6:01pm On Jul 03, 2015 |
ideykwum: Pls am interested also Harveyspecter511@gmail.com 1 Like 1 Share |
Business / Re: Financial Mistakes That Almost Wasted My First Five Years Of Work! by harveyspec: 5:57pm On Jul 03, 2015 |
blessingee: Pls what's a sinking fund? Can you give examples |
Health / Re: Lady Lying Lifeless On Obasa Street Off Oba Akran Ikeja (photo) by harveyspec: 6:46pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
dotcomnamename: My apologies for being skeptical 1. No photo of the lady lying on the street but a passport could be shown 2. I haven't seen an Irish passport before, pls is the validity usually 25yrs 3. Her signature is just her name & initials, is that allowed on a passport 4. The passport photograph almost looks black & white I will be grateful if you can provide answers to these questions & concern since you live in Ireland I feel this is a blogger at work just to generate traffic, a simple google of her name will pop up results of gossip site, no credible source |
Crime / Re: How My Girlfriend And Her Boss Was Scam Yesterday.... by harveyspec: 12:43pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
obinoral1179: I believe your story, I have heard a lot about such. but the quoted is what I don't get, can one change dollars in the bank? To the best of my knowledge, when you want to open a domicillary account or a prepaid card denominated in a foreign currency, you are asked to go get it from outside, they won't sell to you. So how was your Gf able to change the money at the bank? just to add, my Aunty boarded a taxi & it was those "there is dollars in the boot, let's share or go to police station scenario" she intervened & got jazzed, they got a truck & followed her home collected all her money & belongings. they still asked for more money, she was to take them elsewhere, on route they got to a checkpoint & the police demanded to know whose property those were & the owner, they pointed to my aunt who was sitting with them, the police asked my aunt, she couldn't speak, she was just staring, that's how they were arrested So a lot happens, one should just pray not to cross their part |
Technology Market / Re: JUMP LINE And Pre-order Your Blackberry Q10 From Fhemmmy by harveyspec: 1:50pm On Jun 24, 2015 |
Fhemmmy: Pls do you have q10 in stock & what's the price |
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