₦airaland Forum

MrColdsweat:
This is why we say women are ungrateful. Men have been securing society long before the invention of money.

In the early societies, men would take turns in securing the perimeter of the villages from invaders and wild animals. And they get nothing in return.

If men didn't protect you women back then, baboons, gorillas and even dogs would have taken turns in defiling you women.

And if it wasn't for us the human race would have gone extinct. We have suffered the pains of child birth for ages and had you suck on our breast so there you go. But we didn't attack other villages and rape anyone.

humilitypays:
NNE which state u in, make I flex you small so u can enjoy this life, no be only Buhari and Tinubu get money my dear, mhen are balling hard

I am enjoying my life already. Thank you though.

misskenny:
What would you prefer to eat with beans

Bread?
Plantain ?
Or Garri ?

I took mine with bread while my husband drank Garri with it

Plantain for me.

humilitypays:
even in the poverty they are richer than your entire community women society na

Keep telling yourself lies if it makes you sleep better.

RedPanthar:
Loyalty is been there. It's a we thing and not an I thingy madam. Pure honest relationship is reciprocal and honest handling in mutual affairs in the best way possible.

I agree.

RedPanthar:
Make I twist ya mouth there. Your mouth bitter. Na mehn you dey wash like that.

Now quote someone who says that all Nigerians ladies are gold-digging devils. You didn't see the bitterness there?

humilitypays:
you wish. Any Nigerian guy living in the US legally for 8 years and don't own a house intentionally didn't want to.



Owning a house in the US is not a big deal if you are working with a first degree or as an RN.


Maybe you are talking about illegal migrants who cannot even file for their spouse anyway.


I wonder the guys living abroad you met. Maybe those living illegally in Europe and some Asian countries or UK

When you visit a Nigerian church abroad, you meet all kinds of people so there you go. US, Europe or Asia, your brothers who form big boy in Nigeria but live in impoverished areas abroad are everywhere.

MrColdsweat:
The protection we give to society.

Men sacrifice their lives daily to secure the lives and properties of everyone.

What do they get in return?

Which men? The police, the soldiers, security personnel? Don't they get money to do their job or do they do it out of charity? And don't the same men intimidate, threaten and endanger the lives of others?

Collegelove:
You are totally wrong. Nigerian women(not all) are senseless. You are among those who are foolish. Look, when it comes to marriage, you need to understand some certain things. I recently talked with a young lady and discovered she has nothing to offer to my loved friend in marriage.

I told her my friend lives in Ghana and she was like 419, yahoo yahoo and she didn't even ask me about this guy. So terrible.

Later on, I said to her actually, the person I wanted to introduce you lives in New Zealand and he is an Engineer, a citizen and he is just 30. The babe up till now still calls me on phone. That was how she lost a great opportunity. Senseless girls.

Story.

MrColdsweat:
Exactly our point. Both gender will disagree because we look at this issue from different perspectives.

Loyalty is the most important concept in masculinity. From the beginning till this day, all male groups, gangs, secret cults, teams are rooted in loyalty. A gang of criminal, through loyalty, created one of the greatest empires, the roman empire.

In the ways of men, once a man picks you from the bottom and raises you to a respectable position, you owe that man loyalty irrespective of whatever society. To men, loyalty is priceless. Loyalty cannot be bought.

But you women will disagree because you are not capable of loyalty. In your lifetime, there are very little to no situations where you women are required to be selfless. To offer something without expecting something in return.

Therefore, when men offer advice to fellow men on issues concerning our relationship with the opposite gender, you women are in no position to object or advice men because you are ignorant of the virtues and components of masculinity and the ways of men.

Interesting. Define loyalty.

In which situations do you give anything without expecting anything in return?

Collegelove:
The big question is, what can you offer to a man? Isn't better to live poorly and send something home than living richly and cannot send anything? Which would you choose? Senseless woman.

You missed the point.

Your ilk is here complaining about Western laws and shouting "women are taking away our property" when most of you do not even get to have properties abroad. And if you did, you wouldn't be here ranting because you would know that there are ways to protect them.

ziondaughter247:
Nairaland men and their usual inferiority complex rant! So because you brought your wife over, did you bring her to heaven! Many of you useless men dish out a lot of shit to your Nigerian wives, half of these you can't even try with with foreign women! Honestly it is saddening to read this these kind of useless rants everyday. Travelling abroad is no biggie nowadays! You are not doing anyone a favour, if you want to marry from over there do so and stop insulting Nigerian women. Many of you obviously came from disfunctional homes where your father beat and was controlling your mothers.

I am so glad at the way you #AlphaApes go to jail abroad! Yes, you think you can take your uselessness from Nigeria to developed countries. they will just treat your fuckup! In all the countries(western) countries that are doing so well which you #AlphaApes are running to, have gender equality. In some of them, the women are even the presidents/prime ministers. But checkout retarded and backward Africa and Middle east, the useless men have nothing to offer except shouting respect, submission etc. The average Nigerian woman is really sick and tired of you apes. You have lost respect and relevance the world over, hence the regular rantings on nairaland. I can assure you that most of these AlphaApes cleaning toilets abroad that came home to marry women, did so because they are looking for who to bully and subdue. They take the poor lady abroad and start mistreating her, because they feel that they own her and they did a big deal bringing her over. Any lady that wants to relocate and still believes that she needs and AlphaApe to do it for her is a nicoompoop. There are serveral countries one can relocate to now and it's as simple as ABC, you can do it yourself. Lol. Gone are the days when travelling abroad was such a big deal. As long as you take your useless behaviour outside, they will keep treating your Bleep up and throwing you in jail. Bunch of nothings! Empty vessels.

They will be shouting that women take away their property abroad but majority of them do not even own houses there. They live in the poorest neighborhoods to be able to send some small change home. Yet they expect their wives to worship them for taking them abroad.

Frustrated007:
lie..
If you guys weren't that desperate to get married, then why all these kayamata and juju shit on social media?
Women and self deception are like 5 and 6.
It's very hard to find a woman who can be at least honest with herself.

Are your brothers shaming single ladies and calling them evening newspapers or not? So who is trying to hoodwink who? Please, just swallow your pills, red, green or purple and let us be. Nobody is trying to hoodwink your kind.

Frustrated007:
there's nothing women offer in marriages that a man earning decent money can't get without marrying.
You Women should stop trying to hoodwink men into marrying you!!
Marriage to most modern women is a bad deal! only fools and men with limited intellectual capacity engage in it.

It's your brothers who shame single ladies and call them evening newspapers. It's not us trying to hoodwink you.

Bizibi:
story!!!

You better listen and learn before you start another dysfunctional family.

MrColdsweat:
Stay away from my mention you dishwasher.

Ok washing machine.
I know truth hurts.

JovialJune:
In Nigeria, men are kings because the law favours you all, In the abroad, equality is king, and our women use it to their advantage.


The problem you guys have with wives from naija who went to the abroad is your failure to lord over her as it was in naija, y'all still want a lady of servitude who will abide by your rules and wishes cos of what you're used to forgetting obodo oyibo nor send you

It's simple, when you bring your wife over there, just know it is no longer a master slave norm but an equality, relinquish your right as being the head, you'll live your life peacefully,

I have peeps over there, and they're doing just fine.

Many women are willing to treat their husbands like kings, abroad or not, the problem is that too many men are far from marriage material and far from understanding what it means to be a good husband.

Mikehot:
I tell you bro, when i find a woman to settle down with she is going to be a foreigner who we both share love.

Even as at that i would file up documents that explains how the children should be handled including how my money should go

And what makes you think foreigners will tolerate the mentality you people carry around?

MrColdsweat:
The modern woman is emotionally chaotic, psychologically violent and destructive.


Boycott marriage.

Keep boycotting. The capable men are enjoying their wives and the cosy, loving homes they create for them.

Pierocash:
I often say it. Nigerian women are the most wicked sets of women on earth. I read an article sometime ago about 10 different Nigerian women abroad,who where murdered by their husbands and are serving jail terms.

It is only a Nigerian woman you send to university she replies you with a new wedding card invitation.

Don't marry a black woman from Nigeria and relocate her abroad, marry her here,leave her here to take care of your kids. If you do otherwise, you either lose your life there,or lose your properties.

Imagine advising married couples to live separately and even not considering the wife's opinion but treating her like a child who has to stay put the way you decide she should. A good husband will always consider his wife's well-being, her feelings, whether she feels lonely or not in his absence, her sexual gratification, her need for company etc. Let me not start with the children who only get to see their fathers for 1-3 months a year.

Your kind of mentality is why many married people suffer and smile. It's not the place you choose to reside or not reside, it's the kind of attitude you people think is normal. With this kind of mentality you should never get married in the first place.

Many of us have happy marriages abroad, maybe you and your brothers just suck at it. Ever considered personal responsibility?

CheedyJ:
So, even if they’re witches , couldn’t d prophet deliver them of the demons? Useless woman not fit to be a mother ...

Good question.

So sad.