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Kuns84:
Hi poco, why not use your real account for your hour-long trolling .. we are eagerly awaiting your 'savage' responses

Kuns84:
By quoting your own alternate

Pocohantas AKA LadySarah AKA AntiBrutus AKA Hathor5 AKA Breaststroke

pocohantas:
Very smart to identify them. Next thing is to ignore their threads.

Titi03:
Why take a generalistic post as a personal attack? Who mentioned anything about your puss and what you chose to do with it?
I don't see the need for all these rants to be honest.
Calm down

Kuns84:
...and another one

Jamietall:
And the Trump era comes to an end

Klass99:
This is an interesting topic I couldn't resist chipping in. I can tell you what some ladies have done for me and vice versa;

1. Salome (not real name) gifted me a designer perfume for no reason other than the friendship we have. The same Salome when I was out of work years ago would credit my account with 10k and say, just buy whatever female things you need like sanitary towel etc.

2. I have bought gifts for Salome too in appreciation of her thoughfulness/kindness, done nice things for her in kind not only in cash. I love to clean, keep things neat, tidy and organized.

Whenever she travelled I would get the keys to her place, a day or two prior to her return, clean up her crib, air it out and even cook a meal for her and gosh I really hate cooking but for her .

3. I am currently owing my classmate and friend Patience 5k which I borrowed 2 weeks ago. This is not the first time she is lending me money and I have never failed to repay a loan from family and friends, because I know the quickest way to hurt/ruin my relationships is to withhold people's money and refuse to pay them.

4. Aisha, a female colleague heard it was my birthday and got me a cake from out of her purse aside from the one the office got me. I was glad because I love cake die, the more the merrier.

5. Salome again, invited me to the Legend Hotel Ikeja (for those of you who know it) for a weekend retreat, where she was given one of the most beautiful suites for being a valuable businesses client. I didn't have to pay or do anything, just pack a bag and show up.

6. Anita and I, are often bailing each other out with urgent 2k which we don't ask to be returned. We are even making plans to hang out this Xmas and catch up, as we haven't seen in a long time.

I have been thinking about what sort of nice things, I can put together to make her visit a really good one for her. I am mostly looking forward to the company/companionship.

7. Tracy and I, gisted from 7pm to about 1am, just laughing and catching up with each other, from our days back in school, our situationship with men and other things. After having a delicious home cooked meal at her place and getting into bed.

We were in that bed just gisting, laughing and having a good time. If that was a man I was with, we all know how the story would go nah! The demons will get into that bed with us and try to have a party with us.

Mehn, I could go on and on. Just writing this has brought on an avalanche of pleasant memories and good times, with the different women in my life.

When I hear or see women say things like, I don't make friends with other women, I only have men as friends, women are evil blah blah blah......I actually feel sorry for such women and feel very blessed to know and to have the sort of women I do, in my life.

And to think all these women are just friends and colleagues, not blood. I have not even mentioned the amazingly awesome things my own sisters have done for me.

Aww.....good and sensible women truly rock!

Petyprincess:
Nice presentation as usual

cococandy:
excellent. You’ve been MIA too. Nice to have you back

Petyprincess:
Is that egusi and semo?

Amorprincesa24:
It's been long i ate soup.

Liposure:
lovely

Prestonn:
Holla.

I was in one village without access to internet.

Muchas gracias

Gamesmart:
No, darling.

Marriage will not work from me based on your own interpretation of "happy marriage".

I am a MAN. I have needs and urges.

If I can find a very attractive woman, who can maintain her attractiveness over the years and still not raise a fuss about me sleeping with other women when I want to, then I would have a "happy marriage".

I know that is unlikely to happen in this lifetime, so marriage is not for me.

I know that is the dream set-up for most men (they should not deceive themselves), so I know majority of those that attempt your approach to "happy marriage" will fail or end up being miserable.

Kuns84:
You quoted me as if I give 2 fvcks about your opinion

Kuns84:
I keep seeing childish kids like you making comments about 'alpha' males.

This is popular shaming tactic used to quench the effects of the redpill philosophy which is spreading like wildfire...

Comments like yours makes it obvious that women are starting to panic #justsaying

Gamesmart:
Why don't you go and find stats of the percentage of marriages that end in divorce.

Then add it to the percentage that end in separation but no divorce.

Then add it to the percentage you know that one partner is not happy e.g. na punching bag, the other partner has many lovers etc.

Then find statistics of what proportion of married men are using prostitutes (some then head to pulpits on Sundays to give sermons about how good marriage is)

Then find the stats on what proportion of married men are raising kids they think is theirs.

Then come back and tell me what percentage of marriages are "happy and strong".

kelmicheal:
Dont take it likely someone who is spiritually blind will take it as a mere cat.
Normal cat do walk about day time not in the night.

Casemiro:
Please there's this black cat that use to disturb, crying at the fence close to my window at night.


It stopped disturbing for some months, but is back now.

what should I do?

the cat is big fa.

if I go out to chase it, it will run away but later return

Zzor:
I will advise all ladies to do away with men who are too clingy to their mum, all those mummy's boy type, your home will be run by someone else and not you.

gracechellar:
pressure is everywhere. it's not an African thing but a societal thing

Ishilove:
Love is blind but na for inside marriage eye dey clear

fireprince14:
I think the reason why marriage is so messed up nowadays is because of our reasons for doing it. Marriage at its core is a partnership not a fairy tale or a constant booty call. You both come together to combine resources to build something bigger than either of you. If you love each other, no wahala but love is not a requirement. Like any other partnership though, you must be friends or at least tolerate one another well enough. You set the rules for your marriage based on what you can both deal with not what society dictates.

The trick is finding someone whose broken pieces fit your own. We dread fucking one pussy as if sex is food or "keeping my man" as if sex is currency.

To the OP, I won't tell you to ignore the naysayers here because they all have a point despite being misogynistic blokes. Read the positive and negative comments and then focus on the person you're with. Observe carefully and objectively every part of her. The good and the bad. Women can be absolutely crazy but they can also be incredibly divine. You'll find both ends of the spectrum in one woman and your readiness for marriage depends on how you can handle both sides of her. Once you're sure you can deal with all her aspects, it's time for your own examination. Do you want marriage for sex, a status symbol, a daycare institution or a housekeeper arrangement? Are you being honest about your bad sides too? Can you marry yourself if you have to?

Once you have resolved all this, then hold on to your realisations in the years to come when she gains weight in the wrong places or when you lose your job. When you're tired of the sex or when the silences get longer. These are the things that will keep your partnership going.

Above all, don't ever forget to pray all the time.

Good luck.

123winglass:
And people in the neighborhood didn't do anything to get her arrested