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RisenPhoenix1:
That's an interesting angle. Very smart of you, though I'm not sure if you are intending a pun on the word 'sausage' here. Since you are a lady (according to your status), I would assume that the pun was unintended. So I'll take sausages here to mean 'financial benefit'; which is always the reason why women are eager to marry.

I would venture to say that it's because 'sausages' are not really freely available to all women for all time. Men work hard for those sausages and usually demand exclusive access before they accept to spend out of those hard earned sausages on women (I wish you hadn't used that word; my mind keeps wandering to its alternative meaning). Also, women have an expiry date after which they can no longer access any more sausages at all, unless they are attached to a swine who feels an obligation to continue to provide her with them. Therefore, she needs to hook up with a swine so that she can keep getting his sausages even after she has passed her prime; otherwise, he will just transfer those sausages to a younger model more befitting of them. At that age, she would then find it difficult to get another man to provide her with any form of sausages at all.

No, the sausage is the sausage. It's always available to us. Even my grandma who is now a widow gets still hit on by widowers. And if the sausage meant 'financial benefits', let me break it down to you, most women work nowadays. More women graduate from universities than men. We really do not need your sausages to live comfortable lives. So why live with the swine when everything (sausage and sausage) is readily available to us?

DexterousOne:
He's not a doormat for women, yes. If you translate that as zero respect for women, then so be it. He was married to three beautiful women; all either actresses or models, and two of whom were much younger; despite his so called lack of respect. How many beautiful younger models do respectful men get to marry?

1) Respecting women does not make you a door mat
Worshipping women and having no respect for yourself makes a doormat
There is a difference
Some people mix up both
But they are not the same

Marrying someone like Melania Trump says a lot about Trumps character

Cheating on your first wife with the second
Cheating on the second wife with the third
And then sleeping with a porn star while your third wife was pregnant

Is this the kind of man you red pillars look up to as the ideal role model?
That would be very unfortunate

Two failed marriages.
Many failed businesses.
One term president.
Catastrophic management of the COVID-19 pandemic with the largest death toll among developed nations.
Plenty of scandals.

And the one you are talking to is still celebrating him like a hero because he is rude, crass and uncouth. That's their definition of strength.

Hopeless case.

RisenPhoenix1:
I think the general trend is:
"Why pay for a cow when milk is publicly available for free"?

Yeah, and why live with a swine when the sausage is freely available?

Petyprincess:
Is this mini version of meat pie?

No, these are cooked and not baked and there is no meat inside. I have two different fillings. The first filling is made with potatoes and white cheese and the other one with pickled cabbage and mushrooms. A friend of mine taught me how to make those. I tried them for the first time a few years back when I spent the second day of Christmas with their family.

Not only Chinese. My filling is different though.

Akeem79:
Only Chinese will understand

Fiscus105:
Because I'm a product of dysfunction upbringing

Too bad!

Leebeedo:
The property is not hers until she clears the mortgage which usually takes 30 years

So?

Fiscus105:
.you become a mad dog just because the other guy say woman can be frustrating a times, the way you even aggressive on issue which not real but just hear opinion from public say a lot about ur personality, I salute the poor guy that you will end up in his house.


In as much as I condemn brutality from any gender,.......in every disagreement between husband and wife, 3rd party is supposed to reprimand both parties and not to blame only man irrespectful of what wife did


You are a type that will kneel down for her pastor, 3 time before service end, but see husband as servant.

If you don't change and continue do gragra , you will have problems maritally, unless you marry woman's rapper

Merry Christmas to you too.

posh4545:
So I saw this beautiful girl some months back. I was trying my best to see her again but ladies and their attitude of forming so I gave up on calling her.

Just being myself, so just last month I saw her around area and I invited her over and the rest is history but no sex of a thing.

After she left, she wouldn't stop calling to come around again ..and now I have lost my feelings for her how do I go about it.

Tell her you are not interested. Is that so hard?

Handywork:
hmmm how many rich niggas she had bleeped, blowjobed, deceived and tricked be4 making that money... u can't decieve us because we don't know u
at a lower price DM for your logo and flyer design

Bitter soul. May you be delivered from your misery this Christmas.

Leebeedo:
It's definitely on mortgage and she probably paid only the down payment which is usually 10% of property price. For some states, down payment is 0% for first time home owners and all u need to do is have good credit score and show proof of reliable source of income.

So?

Guest911:
Let her also mention that it’s a mortgage and that she paid $10-15k for down payment.
Spreading the rest across 20yrs.

But noooooo she just want people to give her unnecessary attention

No need to be so bitter.

Beautiful house.

livingchrist:
This topic has being overflogged, the rise of feminism has seen the continuous questioning of this verse and other verse in the bible. The reason being that the philosophy of feminism is in sharp contrast to the teachings of the bible.

Feminism is from a humanistic point of view that there should be no distinction between a man and a woman whatsoever.
feminism is against any form of roleship between men and women based on gender, tagging it as gender discrimination or inequality or even sexism, on the other hand the biblical teaching is a theological system where God gives definition to all things, where men and women are different and given different roles.

It is clearly written in the bible that women were created for men not the other way round, this is clearly against the feminist ideology hence feminist cannot wrap their heads around it.
This proves the word of God true which said that the carnal mind is an enmity to God.

Have you read the OP at all or decided to come and rant about feminism without any reference to the OP?

Fiscus105:
Sooooo everyone must put all blames on brother- in -law, no matter what sister do that led to fight, she should be ignored.

Is wife not frustrating a times?

Let me tell u fact, character wise, woman has 75% contribution to make her marriage work, I will indulge you to take this bitter truth to ur husband house, if you want to have peace and not ready for married and remarried.

Nobody said that a wife can never be frustrating. The point being made is that a husband is never justified to use a belt on his wife. And in front of the children. SMH. According to your logic a wife can pour boiling water on her husband in his sleep because frustration ... See the way you reason.

You are not in the position to teach me about marriage. You have disqualified yourself by justifying domestic brutality. It's your kind who have dysfunctional families.

BlueRayDick:
Honestly I don’t even know the kind of fish it is. But I bought at a Chinese restaurant and the attendant encouraged me to try it and trust me it was delicious.... It was seasoned in garlic kinda soup

I am sure it was very delicious. Good job!

NasMaleeq:
Where did you keep ur mind while reading my comment? have you seen where I said it's okay to use belt on anybody?
all I was trying to say is that the ball is in her court anyway anyhow she want it she should play it and she'll carry her cross alone

Here ...

NasMaleeq:
Heey, look at all these female members oooo
so, because I met her being punish by her own husband that she got married to and promised to stay with for better for worse
the man that brought yam, bought cloth,pays her dues
I should now start fighting abi?
what even give you assurance that I will be able to beat him sef? or do you think he would be looking like slowpoke while I'll just be beating him
Do you think I'm the Jesus you've been expecting to come again?
OK, I'm coming
my sister my carry her cross alone because I know how frustrating women use to be at times

It's pretty obvious you think it is ok since you justify the man's action with 'I know how frustrating women use to be at times'.

I wish your future wife and in-laws would get to read the kind of comments you make here about domestic violence.

LoveJesus87:
I said it. You must be a good girl

Why?

YngDenzel1:
Cry me a river

I already have. I hope my tears will initiate your catharsis and bring you salvation.

etrange:
Those saying the woman might have led to that with her sharp mouth surprise me. Since when has it become right to beat up people cause they say what you don't want to hear? Or is it just cause you're stronger? If others beat you up each time you say what they don't want to hear, would you still be alive? If it were OK to hit anyone who says what what pisses us off, how would the world be? You think the man doesn't also say things that get on the woman's nerves?

This kind of response is the reason people don't speak up when they suffer domestic abuse. Nigerians love to blame the victim especially if the interest of their party would be protected while at it. Otherwise, why would anyone ever excuse domestic violence in this modern age? The situation of things in Africa makes me wonder if the continent is going forward or backward.

Best comment.

NasMaleeq:
Heey, look at all these female members oooo
so, because I met her being punish by her own husband that she got married to and promised to stay with for better for worse
the man that brought yam, bought cloth,pays her dues
I should now start fighting abi?
what even give you assurance that I will be able to beat him sef? or do you think he would be looking like slowpoke while I'll just be beating him
Do you think I'm the Jesus you've been expecting to come again?
OK, I'm coming
my sister my carry her cross alone because I know how frustrating women use to be at times

Are you saying that it is ok to use a belt on your wife when she frustrates you? Are you ok?

YngDenzel1:
Another word for a simp.

I weep for your generation.

osazsky:
when u marry...comeback to this ur statement..i go dey waite u...some wife thier mouty na 2 edged sword.

Your wife?

BlueRayDick:
Lunch

This looks just perfect.
What kind of fish is it?

craigkoel1989:
Anytime my wife makes me angry I destroy things, the first day she made me angry I destroyed the television remote, another day was the dining table and yesterday I smashed her Android Samsung phone even though I later became remorse and bought her a new one.

I am afraid I might beat her one day.

What is wrong with me and what can i do to stop it?

Do you do the same thing when you get angry with your boss/parents/siblings/bus driver/banker?

LoveJesus87:
LMAO I have not heard anything funnier in long time. You should check out a career in comedy my dear.

Jesus in the book of Luke, he is sending us out into the world that we should be WISE AS A SERPENT and harmless as a dove.

Choosing a wife nowadays in this our current world requires a lot of wisdom. It is certainly Wisdom to consider marrying an Asian woman over a Nigerian woman, considering their stronger marital and family values which they hold as sacred..

I understand how you feel because you are a Nigerian Lady, but the difference is clear my sister. You may be different of course but you can't just deny the fact that Asians are really a better option

Thank you for listening

See long epistle. After all the bashing here on this thread, you still consider yourself a good Christian. Comedy indeed.

BRATISLAVA:
When you're dating white skinned women, you go out of your way to please them and act nice. Once you see black skin, you remember you're a man. Seen it a billion times. White men are always going to be better than black men because they treat you like a person and not a conquest or thing to lord over. The black mindset has been damaged toward black women.

Every Nigerian man on this forum claims to have been respected by white girls, but he never respects black girls in the first place, and we all know respect is reciprocal. Treat any white women with the exact cultural expectations and exact attitude you would use on a girl you brought from Nigeria, then tell us the same thing.

Tired of the claim that they are respectful. Treat them same way first. We all know you adore foreign women so you will treat them well. Same cannot be said for Nigerian women.

They only treat these women well at the beginning but since it is impossible to put on an act for a longer period of time, they show their true colors sooner than later. The difference is that foreign ladies are less likely to put up with the shit show and that's why you see interracial marriages crumble faster than a cookie.

By the way, in the diaspora they complain about foreign ladies all the time, in the same way they complain about Nigerian ladies here.

But check out what foreign ladies say about them on various internet platforms.

LoveJesus87:
my brother, I been dey tink say na only me dey realize am.. but Dem no too fine..

You should not have the name Jesus in your monicker.

PopSmoke:
una papa

another way of favoring the North.

that's the only retarded region where 10 years old would be married off

now imagine a girl been tramautised for getting married and left with a huge responbility of voting

That's the reason behind this nonsense.

Magnoliaa:
Ohhhh. Okay. Now it's a proven fact to you. You're not just mindlessly believing.

Exactly. There is no doubt in my mind miracles happen.

Magnoliaa:
You mean you don't use to?

Belief has been replaced by knowledge.

How do we know he hanged himself and wasn't hanged?