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Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by Hathor5(f): 5:49pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Do You Believe In Miracles? by Hathor5(f): 5:41pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
I used to believe in miracles until last year. Today I know miracles happen. I was blessed with one. |
Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by Hathor5(f): 5:38pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
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Crime › Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Hathor5(f): 5:32pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
DKM123: God punish all of you talking rubbish.
A man killed his wife, tried to kill his kids and then cowardly killed himself and just like that it is the dead woman that is being judged and spat on. .
God punish all of you once more.
If it was the woman that poisoned her husband to death and tried to poison her kids, you all wouldn't be here spitting trash as usual.
THERE IS NO ONE EXCUSE TO KILL ANOTHER HUMAN UNLESS IN SELF DEFENSE. Especially not someone you once called a spouse. 1 billion likes! |
Crime › Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Hathor5(f): 5:19pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
pocohantas: I have enough people in the diaspora around me. I asked someone straight up once, why did you come back? He said, “it is sweet at first, they know how to do love. You people will look cute- interracial couple. Then that begins to wear off. The reality of the differences in your mindsets, beliefs and ideologies would begin to set in.”
I am not saying there are no Nigerian women that would get there and turn to something else, but our men are not entirely blameless. They should stop acting perfect. After all, their marriages with foreign women do not last either. Neither do they behave the Nigerian way around her.
Na empty coconut heads. They sha know the reality, they are stuck with us. As them like this marriage reach, they should behave well, make all of us enjoy am.  As a matter of fact, they last much shorter.  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 12:56pm On Dec 20, 2020 |
cococandy: kids love the season  Yes, they do! And kids revive the magic of it for us too.  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 10:27am On Dec 20, 2020 |
BlueRayDick: The book of Elders chapter 44 vs 99: "No matter what you are going tru; eat first! " Can I get the copy of the book of elders? It's pure wisdom.  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 10:26am On Dec 20, 2020 |
Nuyokoi: salad Very colorful. I like it.  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 10:25am On Dec 20, 2020 |
cococandy: Festive Pancakes for some little ones. Creative and Beautiful!  |
Romance › Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by Hathor5(f): 10:25am On Dec 20, 2020 |
kingsarch2000: I thank God for you. It is good to see a woman that think differently. Most of this kind of thinking is as a result of violent domestic home upbringing. From your comment, one can see that you have got a good upbringing. Kudos to your parents. Thank you very much. I appreciate your words of kindness. bold Yes, that's what I think it is too. |
Romance › Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by Hathor5(f): 10:23am On Dec 20, 2020 |
Splitmind: Too nice as in not a loud, rough, sexually forward and self centred person which is what women think is sooo sexy. When a man isn’t displaying the characteristics we term as toxic masculinity and is acting like a "good church boy" they begin to wonder if there is something wrong with him they reject men like that left and right as boring until they are in their 30s looking for a husband.
Some have even gone a step further to demonise nice men as entitled and manipulative scum because they complained that the horrible advice they are given doesn't work.
That's the major contradiction, men are told by women to stop being manly because it is threatening but women are complaining that men aren't acting like men because they followed the same advice.
Nonsense? 
Women in denial as usual. That's how they will come and tell us later about they are done chasing badboys and what she really needed was a good, kind, considerate man who loves her for who she is.  I'm not in denial of anything. You didn't even have to attach any pictures because the object of this thread is a woman who confirms your views. The issue is this, even if you find 1000 examples of women who like bad boys, for each and every one of them you will find girls who don't like such guys. Life isn't black or white. Between the bad boy and the church boy, there are plenty of other types. And the fact that women's tastes and standards develop is a good thing. Everyone should mature with time. It doesn't mean that they will always go from bad to good. It could simply mean that they will change and discover what matches their personality and needs better. Boys change too as they grow up, fortunately! Anyway, believe whatever you want to believe. May your beliefs help you in finding what you are looking for. |
Romance › Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by Hathor5(f): 8:52pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by Hathor5(f): 7:17pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Splitmind: I don't but that is how women are. I have been rejected because I was "too nice" but that didn't stop them from asking for favours at their convenience.
So many years wasted because of "just be nice" and other rubbish advice men are given.
Women like nice men when they are already rich, attractive and famous an average guy who is nice is just a tool to be used and maybe marry when she's past her prime. What does "too nice" even mean? Because I have never heard any of my friends say they rejected a guy because he was 'too nice'. Maybe he was boring, too clingy, too clumsy, too rude or too short but 'too nice'? Nah! Let me not even start with the 'past her prime' nonsense. |
Romance › Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by Hathor5(f): 2:11pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
davien: Joking bruv, but there's truth to it. Every mass murderer or serial killer has female fans, forgot the term for the phenomenon. It's like trauma bonding but some females are attracted to extremely dangerous men. I am a sis and I read an article about it last summer. Some girls are seriously screwed. |
Romance › Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by Hathor5(f): 2:06pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
davien: That's why none of them got kitten. 
Hitler got tons tho, if you do your research American women travelled just to see and kiss him.  |
Romance › Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by Hathor5(f): 2:04pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
CSTRR: They want a guy that will remove shirt and fight for Street. Stupid if you ask me. Guys should avoid such girls by all means. |
Romance › Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by Hathor5(f): 2:02pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Splitmind: Thank you for confirming the Redpill. 
Women hate nice men, it's a complete turn off. Being a rogue won't hurt your chances with women in the slightest but you will be rejected for being "too nice".
Personal experience has shown me that being an "asshole" will help you more than hurt you with women. Stop generalizing. Some women hate nice men, not all women. If these are the kind of women you want to attract into your life, that's on you. |
Romance › Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by Hathor5(f): 1:53pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Jaqenhghar: Abeg tell them She has got a bleeped up mentality. A psychiatrist may not be able to help her. Imagine calling good people weak. Was Jesus weak? Was Nelson Mandela weak? Was Gandhi weak? Was Mother Theresa weak? May she find the Hitler she is looking for.  |
Romance › Re: Why Ladies Prefer To Date 'Bad Boys' Rather Than 'Good Boys' - Nigerian Lady by Hathor5(f): 1:47pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
This one is seriously confused. It's not the bad boy who will protect you but the good guy. The bad one will tear your heart apart and flush it down the toilet. And being good is not the same as being weak. |
Family › Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Hathor5(f): 1:35pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Mikehot: it is actually your own lack of understanding.
Numerous women here have clarified that this duty you just stated here enslaves the woman
We both agree that God gave women the special ability to nurse a home and the children (because of the motherly connection imbedded in them).
But feminists are saying is slavery, they want to be like the men who are "free" off the motherly roles that builds a home I have no time for the back and forth since you have already made up your mind. All I can say is that I know quite a number of feminists who go out of their way to please their husbands. Anyone who claims that feminism is against wives loving and pleasing their husbands is either ignorant or deliberately misconstructs the idea behind the movement. |
Family › Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Hathor5(f): 11:11am On Dec 19, 2020 |
Mikehot: says feminists Don't confuse your lack of understanding with what they actually say. |
Family › Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Hathor5(f): 11:07am On Dec 19, 2020 |
Priam: It's either you don't know what is going on or you deliberately chose to ignore it.
We call them Our Nigerian Wives 
There are so many girls hustling to marry abroad based husband's, that they'll agree to even be their Naija-based wife because they know that the guy is married abroad to a foreigner for papers. We have a trad wedding in which in my villa, the guy came in the evening with so much security and they prevented people from taking pictures.
I don't doubt that guy's story because I've seen too many cases to mention. The guys build a duplex in the village or rent flat in the city where they house the Naija wife and kids. They come back every 1-2 years, impregnate and travel back to base in Europe or America I know what is going on and your write-up confirms what I have said. It is not recommendable. It's wrong on many levels. |
Family › Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Hathor5(f): 11:06am On Dec 19, 2020 |
Mikehot: But women creating cosy homes for their husbands is Haram to feminism Says who? |
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Family › Re: Should A Lady Share In The Financial Implications Of Her Wedding? by Hathor5(f): 11:23pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
Nairaland males suddenly forgot about culture and tradition.  |
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