Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 12:15pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
tuns10: Jollof rice with brocolli and spiced meat Perfect meal! It has everything your body needs.  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 12:14pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: Mention A Nairaland Moniker And Guess His/her Age by Hathor5(f): 12:13pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Ishilove: That was when social media was just gaining grounds in Nigeria and we believed almost everything we read
In other words, they have been age cheating since before I was born  Most people still believe anything they read. |
Family › Re: : Teenager Sues His Parents For Being Born Black And Underprivileged by Hathor5(f): 12:13pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
omoelesa: Too much freedoom is begining to worry these America negatively. Do you people actually believe everything you read on the internet? What is the legal basis of this case? On what grounds, legally, can he take his parents to court? Can you take anyone to court in Nigeria for any reason, e.g. because they looked at you? *sighs* |
Family › Re: Which Life Decision Made You A Better Person by Hathor5(f): 12:07pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Kriss216: Girls are not the same everywhere. Nigerian girls are on another league. Do you live abroad? |
Family › Re: Four Reasons Why House Helps Sleep With Their Bosses by Hathor5(f): 7:48am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Only one reason: because boss wants it. |
Family › Re: : Teenager Sues His Parents For Being Born Black And Underprivileged by Hathor5(f): 7:47am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Not everything that you read on the internet is true. |
Romance › Re: Mention A Nairaland Moniker And Guess His/her Age by Hathor5(f): 7:43am On Sep 29, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: Mention A Nairaland Moniker And Guess His/her Age by Hathor5(f): 5:21pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Ishilove: Hathor5- 30 Biological age, maturity age or beauty age?  |
Politics › Re: Remi Tinubu: How I Became A Born-Again Christian While In Exile In USA by Hathor5(f): 5:18pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Myk1234: Don't believe that... It's totally out of Biblical context.... It's a seed of immorality... Give it a thought and it will germinate and make you a victim Thank you but I can think for myself. |
Family › Re: Women Taking All The Job Available by Hathor5(f): 9:34pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
Herdamorlar: I am not surprised that most of the ladies/women disagree with my post,I really expect it but unfortunately they don't look at the bright side of the post but they just point on the wrong one from the post. I didn't say that woman shouldn't work but the work they can do and be able to have time to train our children, I think we are on time bomb if we don't stop promoting women to a position that you know as a man you will not let your wife work there, let look at the olden days when our grandmothers had the time for our parents, they brought decent and responsible children but nowadays go to our schools and you will see what I am trying to bring out. If we allow women take most of the jobs available then most of the men wont want to get married, those that are married will be frustrated,women won't respect their husband again, children will lack home training (the fact is that women know how to train children more than men), increase in divorce and so on like that.
talking about govt regulating,I know it may not be possible but I will advice my ladies here not to take their career over their family. I am in this position in my office because the woman that is suppose to be there turned it down because of her family. Someone mentioned about those women in higher position like Okonjo Iweala and how they are successful,if you are successful in your career and your family is in disunity,you are a failure. Which generation raised decent and responsible children? The one who raised the people we have had loot the country or all the corrupt people roaming the institutions and streets? You must be freaking kidding. What kind of society have these two generations, grandparents and parents, created for you? A society where young people can't find jobs and come online to complain that men can't find a job because of women? The rest of your write-up that working women raise badly behaved children is nonsense. In countries that collect data it has been shown over and over again that deviant behavior decreases when a family's income and educational background increases. Ironically or not, the wealthy families have the highest number of working women. The deviant youth you see roaming the streets are mostly the children of lower social classes and not of educated working women. These lower classes have the highest percentage of unemployed women. Them sitting at home has not helped their children achieve anything but criminal records on average. Another misconception is that fathers can't raise children as well as mothers can. I know single fathers who have done it and are still doing it. I am tired of you people presenting your biased opinions as facts. For the marriage market, educated women want educated men so just because you can't get a high-achieving woman to respect you doesn't mean that other men can't. Last but not least, competition should drive you to do and achieve more for yourself and to impress females and to attract the most intelligent one to raise smart kids.  |
Politics › Re: Remi Tinubu: How I Became A Born-Again Christian While In Exile In USA by Hathor5(f): 8:57pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
tobechi74: Congratulations to her. Are you a born again, let us learn to preach universal love for all irrespective of sex.
Son: what does the Bible teach about homosexuality and masturbation.
Dad: I do not know and I do not care to know
Son: But you are a Christian
Dad: yes, A Christian who follows the teaching of Jesus. Christ alone and not the Bible.
Son; But Bible contains Jesus teaching
Dad: true. It also contains the teaching of Paul,the teaching of Moses , the teaching of Elijah and many other teaching. As a Christian, I accept the teaching of Jesus Christ.
Son: Ok, Now what did Jesus teach about masturbation and homosexuality.
Dad: Jesus never mentioned any of them literally but he showed us with illaustration how to treat those whose views are different from ours.
Child: How?
Dad: He never condemned the adultrous woman, he visited tax collectors, he dined with sinners. He showered them with love.
Son : does that mean they won’t go to hell?
Dad: would you derive Joy in Watching your loved one in hell?
Son: No I won’t
Dad: good.
Dad: sex is a way of expressing Love. There are different stages of love. The first is love directed to oneself. A child grows up loving himself.Using sexual analogy, the child derives Joy playing with his body, his genital. Jesus said Love thyself.
Son : hmm
Dad: The second is Love of similar specie.The child begins to extend the love to those of closest to him+ family, friend,tribe etc. A boy plays with a boy.A girl plays with a girl. Using sexual analogy, this is homosexual. Christ preached Love your neighbor.
Son : I see
Dad: The third stage of love is where one loves those different from oneself .Jesus said Love your enemy.your enemy is your opponent, opposite,one with a different view. Sexually, one is attracted to the gender different from him.A boy is attracted to a girl and vice-versa.
Son :
Dad: One who hates masturbators and homosexuals and love heterosexual is no different from one who loves others over himself and his peers.Such person is in a third stage of love.
Son : which is the best.
Dad: All of the above.The fourth type. The pansexual. The attraction to all . Self, male, and female. It is universal love. Agape love. Love without condition.
https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/20/a-christian-dad-and-son-conversation-on-homosexuality/ Saving for future reference. I need to think about it first. |
Literature › Re: Chimamanda Adichie Praises Her Daughter In Igbo Language & She Replies (Video) by Hathor5(f): 8:46pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
InvertedHammer: / This one dey enjoy her marriage but just dey deceive lonely, bitter feminists. They believe in their minds that she is one of them not knowing that madam just dey tell them wetin dem wan hear as most of them no fit handle the truth
/ Where exactly did you read that feminists can't be happily married? 1 Like |
Family › Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Hathor5(f): 8:44pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
Divanona: My dad is late. He would have been in the best position to help me decide this I am sorry to read it but maybe you can ask your dad for guidance from above if you are spiritually inclined. Take your time and ask important questions before you make up your mind. Don't sell yourself cheap. Take your time dear. |
Family › Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Hathor5(f): 8:11pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
[quote author=Divanona post=94374342][/quote]He was a kind, good person and even paid my school fees but left when I needed him the most while I was pregnant. Women!
And he didn't care to see his son for eight years? Now he is back wanting to take responsibility? Have you asked him what this 'taking responsibility' means practically speaking? This is what I would like to know. Is your father around? My father would have a serious conversation with this guy if it was me. He would have to have specific answers to very specific questions, not vague statements like 'now I want to take responsibility'. |
Family › Re: Is My Perception Of marriage Wrong Or Am I Making A Mistake? Advise Me by Hathor5(f): 7:57pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
How can you ask your wife for money? This means she will have to work and this means she will take a man's job.  #sarcasmoff It's always better to have a supportive partner. Life can be hard sometimes. |
Literature › Re: Chimamanda Adichie Praises Her Daughter In Igbo Language & She Replies (Video) by Hathor5(f): 7:55pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
Enice: Jesus! is this thing deserving of front page? a mother praising her daughter? ah! When has this become news or is it because she is igbo ? Maybe I should be on front page too when I praise my son. This woman is one of the most successful contemporary African writers world-wide. If you achieve this level of fame, we will be interested in you praising your son too. 4 Likes |
Literature › Re: Chimamanda Adichie Praises Her Daughter In Igbo Language & She Replies (Video) by Hathor5(f): 7:53pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
She is blessed to have a mother like this. The sky is the limit. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 5:40pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
Sexyjigga: My Oven grilled Tilapia fish, Irish potatoes, tomato jam and cucumber with water melon juice..
Fish was marinaded with olive oil, garlic, ginger, onions, thyme, curry, suya spice,salt,maggi and lime juice...
Tastes so good 
Alexa please play me Hello by Lionel Richie. Wow! Amazing!  What are you drinking here? Beautiful song by the way.  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 5:39pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
Akposy: Sunday blessings
Happy Sunday Foodies. The Kpanla fish was mad o. I bought them to cook small stew o. After one bite, I eat all of them....now I'm stew-less
...meanwhile I see Expl.orers here....welcome, we're expecting your food pics This looks very delicious Akposy. You are definitely one of our very best. Keep up the good work chef!  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 3:49pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 3:48pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 3:22pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 3:21pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
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Family › Re: Women Taking All The Job Available by Hathor5(f): 3:18pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
bukatyne: @Bold:
I have nothing further to discuss with you.
Enjoy your day. Same to you and quit your job so that OP has a chance on the job market.  Do you share the account with your husband? It's hard to believe a woman has so much contempt for herself. |
Family › Re: Women Taking All The Job Available by Hathor5(f): 3:14pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
bukatyne: @Hathor: Follow the discussion. In traditional setting, If a man is to fend for the family, then it is implied that the wife (if earning) would use the money for personal needs. Hence the saying 'His money is our/my money and my money is my money.' I have been following. If the man is to fend for the family. How many men do you know who can afford to fend for the family without a second income? Are we talking about Nigerians who live in one room apartments without air-conditioning? Or the men who can't afford education for their children without the wife's contribution? Look around you, what do the women in your family spend money on? Or the richer men who invest so heavily in their families that they even invest in side chicks and second and third wives? |
Family › Re: Women Taking All The Job Available by Hathor5(f): 3:04pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
How can you type this and ... bukatyne: @Bold, must be an updated definition of misogyny. ... a few minutes this? bukatyne: It is easier for me to answer all mentions in a post that type similar thoughts four times. [b][/b]
Misogyny is defined as dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women:
I am yet to see where the OP expressed a case of dislike, comtempt or ingrained prejudice against women in his OP. He said Government should regulate jobs women get. The next question is why? So that: 1. Men would get better jobs so they can effectively cater for the home financially; 2. Women would have more time for housekeeping which is their forte.
What in the above reasoning expresses misogyny? 
Or is this is case of everything looking like a nail because all we have is a hammer?
Or is the notion that women are the housekeepers in a marriage prejudiced?
EVERY system has its merits and demerits. EVERY! With that in mind, humans 'ideally' pick whatever system poses the least demerits (due to the information they have or life experiences). He dislikes the fact that women occupy the jobs in the offices. It is contemptuous to believe that men deserve the jobs because women are supposed to stay at home. And yes, the notion that women are the housekeepers in marriage is prejudiced. It has been built on a belief. Men can equally keep a home or she the responsibility of keeping it like women can share the financial burden and have been doing so since time immemorial. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 11:29am On Sep 27, 2020 |
Cravings satisfied.
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Hathor5(f): 11:26am On Sep 27, 2020 |
Amorprincesa24: It's so draining making different stuffs and seeing their uninterested look.
I ended up eating that food. I wish they could say exactly how they want the food to look. The content and all.
How do you get your baby to eat? Please don't say adding colours and shapes like.
I was like see those sausages, they are round and round like a circle and she said same ewwwwww like when i cut them square like. Here is what to do. Don't give her anything for three days and see her eat properly.  |
Family › Re: Best Chores And Worst Chores by Hathor5(f): 8:21am On Sep 27, 2020 |
dingbang: that is if they have it. You can order online and see for yourself. Cheers I am not testing any machines with my own money.  |
Family › Re: Women Taking All The Job Available by Hathor5(f): 8:19am On Sep 27, 2020 |
descarado: It's only for chest beating. Nothing more. You live longer as a man when u share family responsibilities together.
All these so called archaic traditions we have to do away with. Come to think of it, olden days mothers are not just at home. They trade. My grand mother was a well known dry fish and tobacco merchant back in the days( I was told that she bought-out her favourite son from joining the biafra soldiers during the civil war). Her mum wasn't a sit at home mummy either. Don't know why people think that women are meant to just stay at home because it's their obligation. Where was it written in our constitution both the non written ones operated in various towns?
It's only a very lazy man that will see a woman as his rival. Go and compete with your fellow man!
What is wrong with these people? The middle part is what I wanted to type before but then decided not to focus on. There is a lot wrong with these people. Let me not even start. |
Celebrities › Re: BBNaija: Nengi Breaks Down In Tears As Ozo Ignores Her during the party by Hathor5(f): 8:10am On Sep 27, 2020 |
MountainView: I just want to let you guys know that Nigeria has the largest population of stupid people in the world.  |