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Legendforte:Modern marriages are scam, but it does not make feminism, masclunism any better. It all boils down to selfishness. We human being are inherently selfish. I think co parenting may solve this wahala sha. Another thing from all these messy marriages issues is entitlement syndrome. I am seeing marriage being phased out in the near future. It will eventually be an obsolete institution that will be in the antiques of human history, as human progress on the next stage of evolution. With science and technology of invitro fertilisation, test-tube and designer babies, and a whole lot more research going on in the science world of biology as regards to sex, and procreation. Marriage institution will eventually crumble and die a slow death, we won't have to cope with the stirrups and heart ache, as a result of emotional trauma of our partner, but it won't solve the problem all together tho, because as long as emotional attachment to whatever will be substituted with marriage institutions remain, the pain will remain, although morphing into another form. That is human for you, we always want to escape our problems. |
There are two masters in this marriage ![]() |
This guy just dey blow grammar. I don see say month don nearly end, dem don finally pay una money. Anything to defend this fraudulent government even with Patrick obaigbon style grammar . Bolo ![]() |
Women are an extraordinary creation ![]() |
Similar method American used by their "pledge of allegiance", only that american was more Liberal in their approach, while China is taking the communist path. The problem with this latter is why, would such an ideology be forced fed to them while they are young,on one hand, you will breed more committed, patriotic and zealous citizens. The problem with this is the potential for a population that has a closed ideology of only what they are exposed to, this i think may set a dangerous precedence, of ruling a population whose way of life are so structured in such a way that any other ideology is considered a threat to the creed which they follow and the sovereignty of their country. Unlike Americans who, at the expense of liberalism are breeding a population who are being disillusioned or freaked out with so much freedom, that they live in paranoia. Most American citizens are so paranoid, and are always prone to depression. This has make more and more disgruntled citizens who lack the appetite to improve on their success in yesteryear. If you notice recently, in science and technology, american citizens are no longer well represented. They now have the field dominated by the indians and Chinese. Even in a global scale, they have the Chinese and the Russian, who wouldn't settle for less and will want to give the US a run for their money. |
Lovenorth:�♂️. I don't even know how to properly reply to the nonsense you typed up there. |
thesolutions:Don't you understand sarcasm, na so fight they take start ![]() |
Newboss:You know what brother. Its not about the people being hypocrite, its about their sanity and the various circumstances such as ideas and values of the culture they find themselves in, they are incapacitated by their own culture, no one was born being a Christian or a Muslim, but majority of us found ourselves in this ideas as a result of birth, so hence we have to follow the tradition. So you see those people running away, most of them are not in for the extremism of their religion, even if they have to practice it. It shouldn't strip them of their own lifes, of their personal freedom,it shouldn't stifle their living, so I don't consider them hypocrite bro. They want to live life, and its their right to live life just like everyother being! |
Newboss:I like how you think differently, only that it's dangerous to put the future of the afghan people in the hands of these talibans. The citizens trooping out in droves knows better, hence why they took to their heels, days after taliban took power. They know what's up for them, what's up for their future. |
[/b]Islam has given rights to everyone equally. Women have their own rights. How much rights Islam has given to women, we will give them that much”, Kamil said. Do you guys pay attention to this line, can you see how vain human can be in their thinking. |
Yeah I agree with him coming from this angle, but it does not justify their fight on a broader point of view. It still did not remove the hypocrisy on the talibans side too, condemning Western influence, but still use western influence as one of their tools to perpetrating evil. You see in the ends, two wrongs can never make a right. You are either hypocrite or not! |
See as you scatter story for your page, like say you dey there when e happen ![]() |
Wetin dey chook your eye for her go soon clear for your eye ![]() |
traihit:Are you telling me the country president cannot be strict on border control ? Except if they are complicit in these chain of actions, aside that I don't see any reason how this could be a problem. Tbh, if they can be strict on border control. They will win this war easily with out expending much energy than to go one for one with them, you and I know that. This has been the same with ragtag army all over the world, the moment you give them attention, they will become embolden in their act, rather kill their source of adrenalin, and watch them choke to death. If you notice the caveat in my earlier post you responded to, you will notice I indicated that it won't be an easy task, their will definitely be those in government that are complicit too, but you don't care who they are, only if you are fearful or have a soft spot for their actions and moves. |
My concern is this kind of news and brazen steps by the talibans will give confidence to insurgents ravaging in their hotshots in African countries and other countries in the Middle East asia. |
The simplest way to end this conflict and insurgencies of the talisman is to stifle their avenue of arms being supplied to them, that's their power. Block their supply of foods and all other essentials thats giving them moral to invade, then you will simply kill them fast and easy instead of confronting them Headon, thats even a boost for them. Its not easy, but its the cheapest, cost efficient and tactical method of winning this war in a very short time. |
oluztx:Ok sorry slowpoke, Bye. |
oluztx:Gosh, don't be a slow slowpoke bro. Why will you descend this low. Why must you seek validations from others, on everything you are, do or say. Why will your descend so low on level of reasoning, why? Why are you so petty, why do you pick offense so easily, that anyone that does not toe your line of reasoning is considered your enemy. What makes you different from extremist, please tell me? Tell me,because your matter is one of a kind. The way your lot throw up tantrums about senseless and irrelevant topics makes me wonder if this is what you guys devote all your times to do. ![]() |
This lady is prolly bitter,she should move on from her bitterness. If she thinks there's something wrong with the family institution and she's not in for those stress, then its her choice, she shouldn't also think her choice of having to ditch being straight and pitch tent with her sexual orientation will solve any problem. As long as there's a relationship either with the opposite sex or same sex, there's bound to be a friction and clash of interest, she should know there's no escaping this reality. Its your choice to be in a homosexual relationship, but also expect any challenges that arises as a result of this types of relationships. Its a new terrain of human sexual explorations, and we are eagerly waiting to see what the new types of challenges will be, as we've already know what challenges a heterogeneous relationship is. |
How cum? |
Monogamy:"Tectonic". |
TAO11:Ehn . Rotfl. Ereko area. So "area" na part of Benin language now. Walai, musa has enuf for gate where hin dey, musa needs to go back to his village, musa can no longer stomach this bullshit ![]() |
Amb1045:Balderdash no dey hype nonsense. |
There's this over bloated inflated ego that some ibos use to front their personalities. I don't know why they do this, but it is sickening . |
Dtruthspeaker:There's different between being perfect and being precise. |
My apologies to say that, your critique is a bad one, riddled with hypocrisy. It shows you just want to jump on this trend, without critically analysing the importance of the meeting. I want to ask you, if the need to preserve one ethnic identity is a bad one, when it is obvious that, there exist multiple ethnic nationalities down south. Its not as if it's a yoruba or ibo or Niger delta gathering. It's a geographic one to protect our land and borders against the impunity of the herdsman, bandit Invaders that has been left unchecked for so long, that it's now spilling down south. How is this crime to defend your territory? Now you went further in your hypocrisy and Cherry picked out of the obvious points raised during the meeting, the clamour for a southern president, you even mentioned names of northern personalities who supported a southern president for 2023. Is that to pacify us, and shut up our mouths while the beast you refuse to tame are running rampage in our backyard. Carry your president and go. How can there be a sound whole, with faulty parts? Think about that! |
May our blessings not be an impediment to our progress. |
Nbotee:Were dey ur body ![]() |
Rgade:No, don't be redundant in your thinking. Even though we might pride ourselves as something of an important specie that can effect a change on this planet, that does not take away the fact that every of our actions do indeed contribute to that effect. That's gross irresponsibility on our part to think it's cool, and it's just mother nature doing it's thing. Until you end up fried you'll know. You want to know the difference between you and a dinosaur that got wiped out millions of years ago? It's our ability to think, improvise and change in whatever way we deem it fit. Man is lucky to be able to lead the charge and be at the forefront of all biological organism on this planet. And, it will be disastrous to throw it away, saying it's just nature way of doing things. Who the hell doesn't know that, but be wise and don't get trapped. At least if human specie will have to be wiped off, it shouldn't be of our own inactions and actions. So true, mother nature will do it thing, but it's wisdom for you to prepare, and possibly prevent. Thank you. |
She shouldn't even try to spin the "he tried to force himself on me". Even feminists right now has forsaken you, and won't even near your case even with a ten foot pole. |
Rossiminku:Oil dey your head. Almost everyone demanding for self rule are temporarily frustrated with the situation of things, not really because of agitation as a result of Identity. Watch a person with nuff spine and will take the lead, as see the silence in those agitations. Tbh, I love this country. I really do not want this country to break, irrespective of anything. What most people think is breaking away to form independent countries will ultimately solve their problems, it will still stay the same if we as countrymen refuse to change our ways that set us back and make us less human. We really need to be kind to each other first, we need to love and understand each other more, and we need a change of heart first. I find so much joy in an ibo man or an hausa man doing well far from his home in another land, so also I find so much joy in a yoruba man doing well in another man's land far from his own home. We really need each other. This politicians knows play mind games on us, they feast fat on our own selfishness and greed, and that's what is stagnating us the more. The evil we do our fellow countrymen is far worse than what those at the helms of affairs do to us, even though it's a consequence of their own inhumanity to their own countrymen. If need be, we should all go back to regional system that allows each region to move at it's own pace, according to the resources it has at it's disposal. |

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? Except if they are complicit in these chain of actions, aside that I don't see any reason how this could be a problem. Tbh, if they can be strict on border control. They will win this war easily with out expending much energy than to go one for one with them, you and I know that. This has been the same with ragtag army all over the world, the moment you give them attention, they will become embolden in their act, rather kill their source of adrenalin, and watch them choke to death. If you notice the caveat in my earlier post you responded to, you will notice I indicated that it won't be an easy task, their will definitely be those in government that are complicit too, but you don't care who they are, only if you are fearful or have a soft spot for their actions and moves.
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