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20 and 25 year old girls are full-fledged adults. How and why did they voluntarily agree to sexual liaisons with this haggard looking pastor? That's what I am interested in knowing. Did he use 'jazz', or was it a classical case of personal magnetism and seductive prowess?

I need a sociological explanation.

Stella is my favorite Nigerian blogger. Very real and ever ready to serve hot and exclusive scoops in the truest soft sell tradition.

It's difficult to take a "billionaire" blogger seriously, let alone one that decides which drab story is politically correct enough to serve to her cosmetic audience.

sam90s:
Must be the sun angle, I heard his self esteem is through the roof, doesn't sound like someone who will bleach his skin.

Lol. You heard wetin? Where else do you expect his self esteem to be if not through the roof. I don't know how possible it is for a dollar billionaire to have self esteem issues. Not when everyone you meet everyday - men and women, buys and girls, all suck up to you and kiss your A$$.

These are the kinds of buffoons who make random girls have an exaggerated sense of self-importance in spite of their nothingness.

laidian:
She should keep crying... If that is your case, then all other tribes sacked were sacked because of their tribe. metcheeeew

Your education is questionable. Learn how to read and absorb textual content before you express an opinion.

She did not say she was sacked because of her Igboness. Read the article again, very slowly this time, and tell me what you think.

Toks2008:
See dont ever be among those who claim equality with men when it comes to philandering except you just want to jettison your essence as a woman.

Don't mind these deceitful things. It irritates the hell out of me when they pick and choose the grounds for gender equality... Only when it suits them. You want to be equal with me in philandering, but when it comes to paying the bills and spending I must take the lead as a man since thats the 'normal' thing. On the rare occasion when she supports with money, then she would do it with so much reluctance and regret because it's abnormal, . Nonsense people.

freecocoa:
Really? Every man must cheat, if I ever for any reason believe this after my research, than that means I'm cheating in marriage, because whatever will make him cheat despite trying his best not to, (meaning he couldn't say no), will definitely happen to me too, leading me to cheat, as afterall, we are both humans with no self control.

All these ones and their deluded rants on social media. Yada Yada Yada.

And when you're caught cheating, you expect to remain married right? You think the rules, privileges, expectations, and unwritten do's and don'ts are same for both sexes, right? In Nigeria?

These small girls sef.

It's not enough to compel them to pay the measly N1.85m. MTN should also be fined at least N10m as punitive or exemplary damages. This is the worst kind of unethical behaviour that should not be glossed over.

Their mother and father would be turning in their graves now.

Timbuktou:
Women's capacity for self-deceit is astonishing. Why do women think they hold any tangible value to a man they very obviously married for money? You cannot wish reality away. There's a reason men who newly happen upon money go a straffing spree, they know all it takes is money and at that point there's nothing valuable a woman can add to them. Where are the other beautiful women who married for money? Most of them are divorced. You went to the highest bidder and your value has plummeted, naturally you would be replaced. That's the game.

In fact, I think the man set this situation up to send her out. He must have been trying to dislodge her from his house without any luck, now he's rubbing the mistress situation in her face.

She has made the money she wanted to make, it's time for her to give way to another employee. The mistress will still suffer the same fate, but she doesn't mind. Money must be made. These women aren't victims, they are hustlers.

The great sage. I hail thee. The sapiosexual part of me recognises no distinctions in 'orientation', so I am eminently 'bisexual' in my lust for beautiful minds.

I share the same perspective, even though I lack the patience and ability to express it as 'nicely' and elegantly as you just did.

Taleeysun:
You cannot keep a man with anything at all, only God can because God is love.

Look for a poor or struggling man and keep him all to yourself cos no one else would be interested, nether will he have the wherewithal to go booty hunting. You girls are deluded when you think you can keep a rich man. He didn't toil to get rich to be attractive to you alone. This will keep happening for as long as money remains the number one attraction factor for women.

Read my lips, a rich man will not and should not be faithful to you. That wil be an injustice to himself and to nature.

netizenbuzz:
and you have made a comment in your mind? was he forced to marry her? marriage is not for everyone. don't try to justify his actions. I'm sure if Alakija leaves her hubby now, you won't make this same comment instead you will say she is not submissive enough. gerrarahere mehn!

Was she forced to marry him? So a random girl whose only claim to substance is her looks/body would actually marry a rich Nigerian man and expect him to be faithful to her filthy Ass with all his money? For what and as what? You people are incredibly deluded.

Which value did she add to his life? It's funny when these random girls think they can possess a made man exclusively merely because they have a pretty face, boobs, Ass, and pussy. Funny indeed. At best you're just a trophy, one that money bought, and the same money can discard you when it gets tired of seeing you and buy another one whenever he wants.

If you wouldn't have agreed to date or Bleep or marry him if he didn't have money, then you must be really foolish to think you are entitled to possess him simply because you have boobs or pu.ss.y that 100 million other females in Nigeria have.

kevoh:
While leaving your pop's house @25 might sound like the adult thing to do, it's just plain stup.id to leave if you have nothing(good job or business) to fall back on.

Economy is really tough even for those of us with jobs. Guys do not make that mistake of packing out of your pop's place because of some stupid girl's advice. Establish yourself in a small business if the jobs are not forthcoming, SAVE,SAVE and SAVE while you have least responsibilities to pay electricity bills, food, water bills e.t.c Trust me the bills will not stop coming! I made same mistake! Not that I am regretting it but I believe I would have had more savings than I have now if I had takeN such step.

The bills don't rain, they pour. Outrageous stuff man. You know those sort of days when you're low on cash and just merely hanging on till you receive money for job done - maybe in a week or two, only for one issue to crop up: PHCN inspectors, a collapsed roof, etc. Wey you go need to spend N20k or so immediately. Lol. And you were hoping to manage the 30k you have for two weeks until the next windfall.

It's not easy to be a man. I'm not even talking about a married man with a wife and children with unlimited emergencies to dread. I'm talking about a bachelor living alone.

Patented:
Everybody's situation is different and you have no idea what the next person is passing through or has passed through. I really hate it when people sit in their own 'lil' corner of the world and make General statements about the rest of Humanity.

This is really profound. I like people with perspective.

This is such a painful story to read. It makes you lose hope in humanity. How can regular human beings be so heartless and bereft of conscience? This is just unbearable.

Pussiewhipped motherfucker

Na Afe work.

P.M.NEWS gathered that Okere works as a guard in a company and he leaves home in the afternoon and returns the following morning. While he is away at work, Victor takes over.

Sensational stuff.

The cowardice and sheepish mumu-ism of many Nigerians is the major reason this nonsense has continued unabated, 16 long years after our return to Civilian rule. How can a lone bastard in uniform be brutalising random people in the street and all the victims and the on looking crowd could do was PLEAD with him? How about stripping that idiot of his smelly uniform and burning him alive like the worthless chicken he really is.

You say I rich I concur.

But why is it 'cool' to talk about your broke days only when you're rich or doing alright? Everyone including dumb chicks would laugh it off, like oh you're so real. Why isn't being 'real' so cool when real means being your really broke present reality?

LordVoldemort:
Sometimes politics can make an intelligent person sound dumb. So Olisa is an arms dealer right? Cause I don't understand why dasuki will give money meant for arms to him.

You're the one sounding dumb here. Dasuki should be the one explaining why and how he misappropriated government funds. That word 'misappropriated' has a specific meaning. Look it up in your dictionary.

A third party recipient of funds cannot be liable for anything. Otherwise, whenever armed robbers are arrested, the police should also trace and arrest all the people they spent money on - property dealers, car dealers, family and friends, prostitutes, market women, mechanics, etc

bonechamberlain:
I don't understand this probe, he received money from someone to do a job, the hammer should fall on the giver and not the receiver, just like falae and anennih also received to do a job, why is metuh's case different.

I am waiting for who would answer this question satisfactorily.

In fact why not arrest those who sold properties to politically exposed persons? Why not arrest the voluptuous mistresses and runs girls that collected money from these men? What's the difference really?

Apart from the individual who dipped his hands directly into government funds and spent them anyhow he liked, how can you arrest the beneficiaries or recipients? It's just ridiculous.

Executed with supreme self-confidence and aplomb.

lifegatechosen:
I see you civilians have mouth to talk here abi.while not see a cadet on the way and say shit to him/her.
watch your speech here civilians

Look at this bloody coward. If you're sure of yourself, come out alone and fight one on one like a man let me give you the beating of your life. Useless idiot. What do you know other than hiding under your usual group of fellow cowards in uniform to form strong man for random people on the streets. Why can't you fight alone without calling for backup. Animal.

The entire Nigerian Military disgusts me beyond what words can describe. Good for nothing cowards with no guiding principles, discipline, or professionalism whatsoever.

Let's see how the useless Nigerian Army reacts to this.

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Duru009:
Most people have broken ur record......

My friend "chuks" has slept with over 1000 wen we are in university......
He is the real ladies man....
But unfortunately he is married now

It's not possible to sleep with 1,000 in the university bro. That's more like lifetime numbers for am average career playboy.

He no try. Even small me has notched up that number at the last count, and I am probably half his age, with probably less money and of course less fame. So wetin he dey talk sef? Not impressed.

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EDIT:

Then again, on second thought, 100 is a
very decent count if he bagged them all
during his heyday (1980s and 1990s). Cos
adjusted for Kitty-Cat 'inflation', 100 girls in
1989 is arguably equivalent to 1000 girls
today.

In those days when there was no mobile
phone, no Internet and social media, no
escalation in number of oloshos and runs
girls who ply their trade from their homes
courtesy of mobile phone, stricter parental
controls, higher moral standards, etc. It was
certainly harder to bag 100 then than it is
now. The average big celeb today can easily sleep with 100 girls a month off Facebook, Twitter and Instagram alone. Shina did it the old fashioned way, which is of course harder.

Guyman02:
NDA is quota system institution which does not take the best brains into their cadre. I remember my experience there and the discrimination I suffered for being from the zone that fought the civil war.

You cannot pass the screening if your dad is not a former or serving General or a highly placed Nigerian politician.
This why the Army is faltering against Boko Haram when you groom officers like these who are not gentlemen and believe that all you need is brute force against 'bloody' civilians. The Army is a place for gentlemen as the slogan says and not for retards like these ones here who are power drunk because of the prestige of wearing the Army uniform.

Just because the man said you are beautiful, as a lady you simply ignore him or say 'Thank you' and move on.

This video is a shame on the NDA and the place needs overhaul in their recruitment process so that officers can be selected on merit.

I hold the entire Nigerian Military in disgust because I know exactly what you're talking about. A bunch of useless bastards and weaklings who got their jobs through connections and such (same for commissioned and non-commissioned).

There is hardly one officer or recruit in the Nigerian Army who got their job by merit or whose motive for joining the Military is genuine service or patriotism.

They are mostly misguided imbeciles who feel validated by the mere fact that, by virtue of their connection, they can put on uniforms and then oppress innocent civilians. No dignity no discipline, no restraint, no professionalism, no ethics, no knowledge of what Rules of Engagement means, nothing. That's why we have such an ineffectual and useless armed forces.

*spits*

What did he say that is worse than what the Northern animals were spewing against Jonathan in the months leading up to the last general elections? How many critics did Jonathan arrest during his time?

Buhari's government is fast sliding into a brazen dictatorship. We can't continue with such tyrannical intolerance.

Besides, everything this man wrote on his Facebook page is the undiluted truth! Useless numbers indeed! That's the ONLY thing the core north has to brag about.