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Bookiemart01:
RIP to the dead.
How did this cray dude get contacts of the lady's siblings and her mum?
why didn't they report to the police before now?

You're asking the right questions. That's why I mentioned earlier that there is more to this story. It's not simply a case of one guy that met one girl somewhere and the girl rejected his advances.

How the hell did they become close enough for him to know her house and gain access to it freely (even running to her kitchen to get a knife) how did he get her siblings' numbers and mother's number? What gave him the confidence to be calling the girl's siblings and mother to plead for their intercession?

It's ridiculous. I think there was some level of involvement or leading on between them. That doesn't mean that I am extenuating the horrendous crime. I just think it is always important to get the full story so that we can all learn the appropriate lessons. There's definitely a part of the build up to this insane act that is not contained in this report.

sweatlana:
What more do u want to hear? I'm sure u are looking for an excuse to blame the woman.

All this insecure boys on this forum shaaa.
Did you not see the tone of his text message or is the fact that she rejected his car not enough to show that she never wanted to have anything with him?
Crazy people are real!

What exactly are you ranting about, you nitwit? Do you think you are more disgusted by this atrocious act than I am? Keep your frustration to yourself, you "insecure" goat.

There's definitely more to this story.

It's ridiculous when one thinks about the fact that much of the EFCC's recent noise revolves around arresting and shouting about the sources of the PDP's campaign funds.

However, who the bloody hell funded the APC and Buhari's election campaign? Why is that not an issue for the useless EFCC?

bittertruthz:
Thats Nigeria woman for you. Oyibo woman don't care if she is feeding the husband as long as the man is doing his bed duty perfectly.

1. Tiwa is very greedy and ungrateful. What is feeding when you have the money?
2. Expensive wedding is a bad idea. Im sure the buy must have spent at least 1 million naira to support the marriage when things are OK.
3. If he start electronics biz or cloth biz with the money he used to support the lavished wedding, by now, he will be talking like a man.

Guyz don't marry a Nigerian girl that is richer than you if you want peace and respect?
If Teebillz married a civil servant, im sure they will be enjoying their marriage by now and their child will look like the mom or dad not Don Jazzy.

Bitter truth indeed.

Being broke is a fucking problem. And money answereth all things.

That's the story of the two individuals in this picture. Make your own conclusions.

Forget, abokki na abokki.

OKeokpa:
See the way this learned fellow would have ended his life. Why would a mere mortal lyk him argue with armed soldiers. Was he mad?


Thank God he is alive sha. He should use his common sense next time.

What exactly do you mean by "mere mortal"? Are you implying that soldiers are advanced mortals or even immortals? So they are superior to the rest of the populace?

And he does it again. Right on point!


Contrary to our lovey-dovey illusions. Love as we know it a purely SELFISH 'encounter'. Psychology helps us understand that love is born out of need, out of an emptiness we need filled/fulfilled. Out of narcissism.

Have you ever heard a babe say, "I love him because 'I love him'?" I strongly doubt. You're more likely to hear things along the lines of "I love him because he is nice, caring, attentive, blah, blah, blah. (Where you can easily substitute nice, attentive [/i]and [i]caring [/i]in the modern babes lingo with [i]spends on me, spends on me and spends on me).

Besides the above, we all also possess a deep rooted DESIRE to FEEL important. We NEED someone to bear witness to the tiniest details of our boring, banal, trite and (most likely) uneventful lives. We don't want to go unnoticed. We want to be made to feel SPECIAL. Hence the need for someone to 'share' your life with.

Furthermore, we cannot possibly remove EQUITY from the love/romance equation - everybody wants a damn good deal. Have you ever noticed, say, a short, fat, bald, fugly gentleman with a drop-dead beautiful and sexy woman? In all sincerity, what is the first thought that comes to your mind? "This man must be totally loaded!" Innit? In simple trading terms, the wowo [/i]man is exchanging cash for beauty. Bros, it's a flee market out there! And it's trade by barter baby!

Dating and relationships involve a very complex equity transaction between two parties. Both partners implicitly are expected to bring equal stock to the table. How often have you heard "[i]That guy no be my levels" or "She's not in my class". The babe or guy is simply referring to an imbalance in the equation.  

The stock could be beauty, wealth, popularity/fame (social currency), sexual expertise (some babes na machine), etc. And the stock of each party must balance out that of the other. Most relationships unavoidably hit the rocks once either party encounters a substantial depreciation in any of their attributes/assets. Like your priced beauty (which you could maybe offset by bearing kids for him) or losing your cheddah (which you could offset with tangible hopes of it's replacement).

In essence, you cannot completely remove 'artificial control' from the so-called 'true control'. Artificial control is it's subset. And don't be under any illusions too, the babe or guy you're currently with, will settle down with, or settled down with only made that deal because you are his/her best available option. Kid yourself not. This is love for you in black and white. Little wonder some pastor once said, "Marriage is 99% canal".

Alan Greenspan (a former Chairman of the U.S Federal Reserve Bank) once said that economic security [/i]lies in one's ability to [i]produce. We all know that women can be a black-hole for a man's time and resources, and that no single person can possibly, totally, satisfy any woman's needs. Staying committed to just one person (both emotionally and physically) calls for a lot of discipline, and it is a price that most of our babes are never willing to pay. In like manner, a guys social [/i]security (social relevance/'date-ability') lies in his continual ability to produce whatever 'stock' that attracted the leech in the first place - or that attracts (and hopefully keeps) the kind of leeches he wants. Granted, it might not be money. A good example would be the infamous Lady Macbeth who was driven by an insidious demonic desire for power.

Finally, the single element that is a common denominator of the needs of most babes is money. After all, is the possession of money not what success implies? And are women, from time immemorial, not always [/b]attracted to the best hunter, the best [i]this [/i]and the most successful [i]that? It is said in guy-man parlance that, "You lose money pursuing women, but you never lose women pursuing money".  The single most important thing that a guy can do to guarantee a steady, unending flow of coochie is to have money. In the words of some guy who was awed after watching OUK splurge cheddah in jand, "[b]Without manney dan't exshist" (using Anambara OMATA accent ). And in the words of a very famous guy in the Bible who had 300 wives and 700 concubines, "Money answereth all things". Realistically, maybe not all, but it puts you way ahead in the race.



P.S: Artificial control, could be argued to be the ultimate level of control for any guy to attain. The sheer 'quantity' (and dare I say quality) of women who would be most pleased to fill your teeming harem makes it a worthwhile objective for every guy to aim for. The only disadvantage to artificial control is in foolishly deploying it when you are not capable of sustaining it (except of course, when it is strategically employed to score a coochie).

You could argue that artificial control will attract only gold-diggers to you. Well, it's true, but every woman digs for something, could be diamonds, could be social security (my husband, my family - he saves her from being the old-maid with a cat), or school-fees for her entire kindred.

Relationships involve a give and take dynamic and we should all embrace it - for what it is.

How come all the great guys here are now "nobody". Such a masterful piece in response to an equally masterful post...

tai2:
I once read Linda Ikeji's very superficial blog. This is what she had to say about Dare Art Alade marrying a slightly older woman who had more money than him:

I am hearing gists  that newly married Dare has relocated to Abuja full time to start family life with his new bride Deola Ayeni who has a multi-million naira furniture business and contract deal over there. They said he might be stepping out of the music scene for a while to pursue contracts as initiated by his wife who has already started introducing him to those that matter in Abuja. All I'll say here is that I hope Dare married for love. Any other reason besides love is not good enough for marriage.

She insinuates very clearly that he married the woman for her money, because he is a guy and has no money control and the woman does

This is what she had to say about Sylvia Edem marrying Chris Emechete the aviation millionaire:

Beautiful ex-Miss Nigeria, Sylvia Edem Emechete is expecting her first baby with hubby of one year, Chris Emechete, in July. I read that they recently celebrated their first wedding anniversary some days ago. They got married April 15th 2006 in Lagos, and Sylvia got a Mercedes Benz S-Class with personalised plate number E1 SYL  as a surprise wedding anniversary present from hubby. I hear the hubby is super rich with investments in Dubai, UK and the USA. They say he drives a brand new Infiniti QX56, a Ferrari F430, and a Range Rover Vogue. This girl marry husband abeg! I also read that they live in a five bedroom mansion in Surrey in London and they jet-set to various countries around the world. Sylvia is a director in her hubby's aviation company. The koko of this gist is that our former Miss Nigeria will soon join mother's club. She's living the life she's always dreamt  of. I'm happy for her!


Can you see the double standard of Nigerian women, Sylvia marries money and it is okay for her, they are not concerned whether it is love. It is a good relationship because Mr Emechete has money control, imagine the statement: "This girl marry husband abeg!"


Can you see the greedy creatures? These are the people you say are interested in 50-50 relationship. Any man who does not understand the principle of control and practice it to some extent is digging a pit of sorrow for himself. I have learnt my lesson, to others I say, be wise. Be wise!

Interesting.

Classic thread. One of the best in Nairaland history.

I don't understand why some bunch of idiots should rob a random Ifesinachi or whatever bus on the highway and kidnap hapless passengers.... And have the audacity to demand a ransom that runs into millions. It's ridiculous if you think about it.

Wish this guy was our president instead of that cattle rearing dullard.

herbie27:
It was only stated that the guy wasn't responsible, men are cynical and i only asked a question that wat if he was?, most of the stories you see online aren't the whole truth to some matters.

I knw why i asked that question so i owe no man an apology.

This girl get out of here and stop wasting space. What if he impregnated someone else? What did Tuface's girlfriend at the time (Annie) do when he impregnated 3 other girls? What of Flavour, Wizkid, and uncountable other rich guys who do same daily? You must be mad to think that you can possess a successful man in this part of the world. So you can call me a bastard and threaten to ruin me because I used my wealth to get any girl I like. Did you help me make the money? Very annoying things who overrate their own importance.

That's what happens when you remove a leash from a dog's neck and place a crown on its head. It begins to assume that it is royalty rather than the dirty street animal that it is.

See a super rich big boy entangling himself with a worthless street girl who has nothing to offer. What if he truly impregnated another girl, so bloody what? We have heard of the likes of Tuface, Flavour, Wizkid and so (public figures at least) who impregnated multiple women, why didn't their girlfriends run riot? It's because when you give a mouse a cookie, it asks for a glass of milk.

That's the problem with men who place worthless girls on a pedestal. Imagine a hood rat bittch that I am trying to help calling me a bastard and telling me that I am taking advantage of women because I have money. Threatening me for that matter. Who give am mouth to talk? God knows I will get her arrested, give SARS operatives N1million to lock her up for months, torture her endlessly until she receives sense. Imagine the animal now bemoaning the fact that she left Lekki and that her uncle's house does not befit her sick mother?

The sort of man that millions of Nigerian girls are jostling to have, you think you can possess him with your worthless broke pussy, and you have the audacity to insult him, threaten him, and damage his car. I blame the man for suffering fools gladly. Serves him right. Next time he will not attempt to rehabilitate a pig. A pig belongs in a pigsty, not a palace.

hopilo:
SR can lie. This man built the best house in ewet housing as a bank director before Umana Umana built that his multimillion dollar house in the same area that made PMB did the sign of the cross when he visited Uyo during campaigns. Udom had gone past 50% of this his village house before becoming the governor. So if l get appointment now SR will report that l just built this my fine house l have been staying for 2 years now. My advice for SR if they want to see house built with govt. stolen funds, go to Umana Okon Umana house in Uyo, Godswil Akpabio house in Ukana, Emem Akpabio house in Ukana, this one get private stadium with flood light inside and Ibanga Akpabio house, leave Udom make d guy manage the bad economy for us.

Don't mind the nitwits in Sahara Reporters. Do they have any evidence that this house was built with proceeds of corruption or embezzlement? So a man who was Executive Director for years at a top financial institution like Zenith Bank cannot afford to build this? Who doesn't know that most Bank directors are already multi millionaires due to profit sharing, stock options and other perks?

If I ever run into any SR staff, I will knock serious sense into his or her empty head!

And what's the big deal if (and a big IF) she did? When did it become a big deal for two consenting adults to have sex? Did she prostitute herself to the guy? Did she sleep with him because of money, 'levels', or favours as most Nigerian girls do?

Brainless!

As long as he has his US Army ID on him at all times, he will be fine.

Nigerian soldiers can't try shit with him. Besides, his colleagues at the US Embassy would have his back if those barbarians try to act funny.

IamAtribalist:
These guys are NOT billionaires. Check your sources again.

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Only Emeka Offor (a certified Dollar billionaire mogul), Ayiri Emami, and Ateke Tom are the bona-fide billionaires I recognise there.

I'm amused that small yahoo yahoo boys like Baddy Osha and Opa 6 can be mentioned in the same breath as financial heavyweights like Sir Emeka Offor. Them wan die?

Joavid:
it's funny that y'all just realised she does runz on the side.

a girl that bought a house way above her means/income...

And you think you know what her means/income is because? How would you know what is below and above her income?

kumulus:
And the things is, if all this people you're writing crap about decided to sue you collectively....chai... I no think say Synagogue prayers go fit save you....and bear in mind say na broda bubu regime we dey....and you no fine reach Aunty Aishat.....you go tey for Kuje

You morons need an education. Making noise all over the place about suing and lawsuits does not make you seem enlightened. It makes you look extremely stupid if you don't know anything about grounds for litigation.

What exactly is stopping them from suing her? Think about that. Your brain is not an artifact.

sucess001:
She is the biggest blogger and the one who made blogging what it is today...get over it.

And this 'she doesn't have a husband shit pple kip talkin about is baffling! Do u know how many thousands of men wud be approaching her? Gold diggers and non gold diggers alike? She is choosy and taking her time...wud prefer her to a broken home Tony Payne anyday.

She wrote facts on wiizkid! Facts!

When did it become a crime to report facts?

Brother, this whole episode is extremely enlightening. It shows that many Nigerians are envious monsters who despise other people's success and would exploit any window of opportunity to bring you down because of that. It's like they are oppressed by your success and they cannot even disguise it.

Imagine the senseless and baseless comments many fools are dropping here and elsewhere. What exactly is Linda's crime? She is a blogger, and her job entails reporting soft news about public figures, whether good bad or ugly....which we can liken to some sort of e-soft sell platform. Conventional soft sell platforms like City People Magazine, Enconmium, and Yes Magazine write far WORSE things, many times even untrue, about celebrities and public figures. How come the publishers of these magazines (Seye Kehinde and Co) don't get this level of hate? Even bloggers like Stella Dimoko report more bile and slanderous things than Linda would ever dare, but because Stella doesn't live in Banana Island, she does not have the 'privilege' of being subjected to this level of hate and envy.

It is truly incredible. A nation of pathetic losers and envious haters.

hollah123:
for people calling wizkid name i believe say craze don enter dere head finish.how can u tarnish pples reputation n expect dem to keep quiet?its like slapping someone n expecting him to hug u.its impossible.at least nt everybody will free her now.but seriously wizzy Bleep up y him no arrange guys wey go fucj dis babe n post d tape online.i believe dat will b o.k n dat will silence her fr life n nobody will ever trace it to him

You and all the bastards who liked this gibberish you typed don't belong in any decent society. You should be traced and locked away in an isolated cage for life.

Envious, disgusting animal.

If we would regard electricity as an invention, then it has to be the greatest and most important invention ever. Without it, pretty much nothing else would have been possible.

A Northern Christian can never be president in this country....With the delicate ethno-religious configuration of Nigeria.

Only female doctors or experienced nurses will attend to my wife o. It's unacceptable and unforgivable for one randy idiot to be inserting his hands or dick for that matter into one's wife's vagina, even if that's the only way, then she go kuku die. God forbid.

Elxandre:
No matter how patient you are, you'll eventually dump your Glo sim.



Flee from Glo!

Confirmed. Lol. I used glo for many years (since 2004 or so), and was suffering in silence because I could not change my precious number that many contacts associate me with....

Until porting was introduced and I breathed a HUGE sigh of relief. I have since ported first to Airtel, ad then ultimately to Etisalat. No regrets.

Very useless, good for nothing glo.

Andy Okeke my man. Hope say Merit spirit don stop to dey disturb you?
Anyways, he looks very dapper and sharp. Nice, well-tailored outfit.

I blame it entirely on Tecno's lack of brand prestige and cachet. It has somehow managed to epitomise the 'China Phone' derogation that implies inferiority.

I've canvassed this argument for almost a decade. It is an indisputable fact. The rise of 'Yahoo Yahoo' coincided with the decline of widespread cultism, especially in the South West. This started around, say, 2004-2005 and has continued till date.

Most villages in Nigeria and subsaharan Africa would look exactly the way they look now, even in year 3000, except for the odd contemporary car or device that would look like an anachronism.