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It's a pointless thread really. You only have to blame the growing number of stupid wussies who idolise random girls and give them the opportunity to toss them around. If a girl comes up with such a 'no sex' condition, you may try to manipulate her and get what you want, otherwise if she proves stubborn, you should discard her promptly and move on to a more worthwhile alternative (who are dime a dozen). Simple. No need to sit around and whine and lament nonsense as if her pussie is a highly sought after prize.

A real man should never give in to a 'no sex' conditionality unless the girl in question is a virgin, or in the VERY RARE case that she has something more valuable than sex to offer (big man's daughter that can facilitate contracts, business deals etc). The second case is especially appealing, because she can deprive me of sex and Bleep whoever else she wants as long as I am deriving tangible and more rewarding benefits from our relationship. Sex (even with the hottest females) is certainly much easier to get than money. So I would prefer to make money off a high value woman who doesn't want to Bleep me and then use that money to get sex elsewhere.

This incestuous he goat always has something to say after sleeping with one of his numerous daughters-in-law. He must have finished dancing makossa with Tonto Dike before coming out to utter rubbish about youth unemployment - a problem he contributed greatly to.

ehissi:
That is wrong; Obasanjo was the accuser, the burden of proof rests with Obasanjo!!

This is the problem with the Nigerian Socio-Political system; you don't call a man a thief because you don't like him!! And then turn around to ask him to provide evidence that he is not a thief!! That's an insult!!

In much more civilised climes where the Judiciary is developed; if you try that, you will get sued! Unfortunately, Nigerians are typically used to calling politicians they don't like thieves and then demand that they prove they are not thieves - which is foolishness!!

If what Obasanjo said was true; then he should have presented evidence to butress his allegation; then the ghanian president will in turn present facts to deny the allegations!!

Then those who have heard both sides will look at the facts from both side and discern which bears greater weight and then the truth will be clear!!

Chikenan

Beautiful commentary. It always delights my senses to encounter a thinking being.

Don't mind Nigerians and their bolekaja jungle justice mentality. Even those who are supposedly educated do not understand the basics of the Rule of Law and classic jurisprudence.

The onus of proof always lies with the accuser. You don't say any rubbish you like (whether true or not) and expect me to defend myself against such accusation. That's why in civilised countries, even when it is obvious that you are guilty, law enforcement agencies always go to great lengths to establish unassailable evidence of guilt before a suspect is arrested or prosecuted. If they can't find sufficient meaningful evidence, the suspect walks free. Simple.

Not a jungle like Nigeria where the EFCC or DSS would arrest you with zero evidence (other than mumu petitions or hearsay) and "grill" you for hours, basically expecting you to implicate yourself and confess to their allegation under duress. Fvcked up country of barbarians.

Lucasbalo:
Obviously you don't know how things work in Western Countries. I am a Yankee and if someone slap me, the result will be tragic to the person.

Young man, nothing would have happened. Unless you mean a sitting president with international diplomatic immunity and without a subsisting arrest warrant by the ICC would be arrested. That's not how it works.

He should have knocked OBJ's head like an underaged pick-pocket caught in Okitipupa market square and the audience would have applauded him sef. Shameless old fool.

Elxandre:
Almighty Samsung is running helter-skelter, just because of $2bn and you expect little MTN to be able to pay $4bn up easily?
I see MTN ng folding up at last.
FYI, this fine is one of the largest in world history.

No mind them. I can bet my life that MTN would not pay that fine, simply because they cannot. Not even half, not even quarter of it. The so-called fine is just a political, noise making episode. What exactly the ineffectual NCC is trying to achieve I don't know. If they were really serious about a fine, something like $50 million would have been realistic, even though MTN would still have struggled to pay that.

I suspect that some shadowy political/highly connected local business oligarchs in Nigeria are trying to force MTN to relinquish majority stakes in MTN Nigeria to them. Old mafia Lords like Pascal Dozie would certainly be part of this. At the end of the day, such an under the table arrangement would settle the matter.

Pay billion dollar wetin. Bunch of retarded jokers.

Another phone for runs girls to carry about and deceive themselves that they are 'big girls', even though the only feature/app they will ever use is the camera/instagram.

It's best to ignore these things. If anything, that's one reason I like D'Banj. Arrogantly carefree aloofness - or if you like, 'aboveness' over all trifles and petty irritations. That's how you know a big man.

Heavy man. The only individual in the APC that I have a soft spot for. Consumate political juggernaut and one of the very few detribalised politicians in the North.

He probably refused to pay them on purpose. These bloody Discos are exploitative thieves. I am also about to disconnect myself from the national grid, once my multi-system solar-inverter system is finished.

MRBrownJ:
so what you mean to say is that:
if a gal willingy comes to your house (or any private location), she UNDOUBTEDLY wants to fukc?! thats far fetched, dont you think?! but most importantly, dont you see how such statement is the reason why so many women get raped? here you are telling us all that if/when a women gets to your place then she wants to fukc, whether she says yes or NO, is irrelevant to you because she decided to visit you, and thats a passeport for sex (in your world)?!

no wonder so many women are raped when men think in such an evil manner!!!

Because so many 'men' like you have been feminised to think this way, that's why sluts get away with countless false rape accusations and ruin innocent men's lives.

Nobody cares what really happens when a man and a woman who obviously have some level of intimate relationship are in a private space, for the simple reason that nobody can truly know what REALLY happened other than the two parties involved. Anything else is he said she said. If I have a daughter, I expect her to expect whatever she gets when she visits a man in his house or hotel room. Discretion and common sense is key

My point is simple.:As long as the only evidence is the woman's accusation or oral testimony then it should be treated like a load of rubbish. You can't ruin a man's life and send him to jail just because one woman merely claimed that she was raped. The stakes are too high to depend on such flimsy evidence. Only audio or visual evidence of violent/forceful penetration should justify the sort of stiff penalties rape convictions attract.

That's why I don't sympathise with most rape 'victims', and I don't believe most stupid rape stories.

As far as I am concerned, apart from sex with minors, rape is only rape when it is perpetrated by armed robbers, kidnappers, strangers, intruders, and other violent previously unfamiliar persons.

If the venue of the sex is the man's turf (his house, hotel room, or whatever private enclosure the girl willingly comes to meet him), then it is not rape. Simple. Unless the girl can prove beyond reasonable doubt. And proof in this case is not some stupid pity party stories or bruises that she gave herself or traces of sperm in her vagina (from consensual sex). Anything short of visual or audio evidence depicting violent or forceful penetration should not be admissible.

chubbygal:
BABATUNDE:::::::: for power
RAJI:::::::for works
FASHOLA :::::::for housing

No light for EFAB estate nowadays

.. Efab resident? Which of the Efabs? Tick tick.

blesseddivah:
I'm working out to lose at least 15kg before my next birthday Biko.


Cant find your message tho

15kg sounds like a lot oh... Depending on what your weight is now...

Sent you the pm. Guess it's not delivering. Try to send me a message and I'll reply.

blesseddivah:
Oh awww thanks buh I work out.
Keeping fit is healthy.

Yeah sure, just work out for general health and wellbeing. Not to lose weight... I would take it personal if you do oh, lol.

Meanwhile, I sent you a PM. I need your opinion on something.

Even as an intellectual (without meaning to sound immodest), there is something immensely anti-seductive and unsexy about a supposedly 'smart' woman.

A voluptuous bimbo gets the dick supercharged every time..

Maybe it has much to do with the absence of protean fluidity in most women who think that they are smart. I can easily blend into a gathering of idiots and vulgar plebeians in a local beer parlour just as easily as I can engage sharp dudes in robust intellectual discussions in an upscale environment. But 'smart' women would speak fake 'Queen's English' even to their suya man, just as they would defiantly explain to me why Mouth Action is unhealthy or why doggy style is demeaning. Who has time for such bullshit? Certainly not me.

blesseddivah:
Oh Lord. She's super cute now.
I wanna trim as well jor

Don't. You're just perfect the way you are...

blesseddivah:
Oh Lord. She's super cute now.
I wanna trim as well jor

Don't. You're just perfect the way you are...

I don't get it. So it is now an offence to receive money from anyone without a 'clear reason'? If a person gifts me 2 billion Naira, how the hell is it a crime on my part to receive this gift? What exactly is the charge?

Even if I receive a payment of 100 billion, and the EFCC arrests me to explain, I wouldn't say 'pim'. Let them tell me what my offence is and they should seek the reason from the person that paid the money. It is ridiculous.

If they cannot establish criminality or criminal intent in the payment or receipt of the money, then they have no case. Third world jungle with third world methods of law enforcement. Idiots.

Tayeni:
yeah yeah.....kind of agree with your last statement. corruption gives birth to an inefficient, skewed....unfair system......which makes like "impossibly miserable" for the honest ones.....when he cant bear the misery any longer.....he becomes corrupt too. its a vicious cycle.we are both right but i think it starts from corruption while u think it starts from low salaries.

Yeah bro, that's it. I just think when the pay isn't decent enough, even those who are ordinarily inclined to do the right thing have to do the needful to survive.

How can I not 'thief' money by manipulating files in the office when my wife and children (not to mention relatives) are breathing down my neck, and when I can't even afford a bottle of cold beer every evening after a hard day's job? I'm not even talking about a luxurious lifestyle man, just the basics of a decent, meaningful life.

Not until one randy thief in the same government establishment gives one's hungry wife N50k for taxi fare (equivalent of your monthly salary, and this shit happens) and then proceeds to sleep with her due to his big man 'paparazzi', before you will know how depressing life is.

Tayeni:
i dont live in abuja...i dont know the rent rates there....but i am very sure there are options for different income levels. live within or below your means is what i would tell them

Good that you admitted that you don't know about rent rates in Abuja.

Of course they live within their "means"; most people do, you can't spend money that you don't have. The question to ask is, what 'means'? The miserable N50k a month only, or other avenues for self-enrichment within the government bureaucracy? Without the latter, life would be impossibly miserable for every government worker.

Nigeria is designed for corruption. The system envisages, encourages, and even necessitates it.

Tayeni:
oga.....a man that earns 50k a month and wants to live in a house of 250k a year is the definition of stupidity.....doesnt matter the city in Nigeria

How much is the average mini flat in Abuja? I'm not sure you can get less than 250k even in the so-called satellite towns. Many civil servants in the ministries in Abuja earn approximately N50k a month. Where do you want them to live with their families? In a container?

Rubbish talk. It's easy to say because yo and your fellow thieves don't depend on your salaries anyway.

Tell that to an average worker earning N50,000 a month who has to pay 'modest' house rent of N250,000 a year, pay modest school fees of N50,000 per term for his two children (three terms a year x two = N300,000), cater to miscellaneous needs and running costs, and indulge in a few recreational or leisure activities once in a while.

When one's salary cannot even cover one's most basic needs, you must be joking to suggest that people should not engage in corrupt pratices if/when the opportunity arises.

Fake morality is not an option when you're running on empty stomach.

agabusta:
Pls about that Rotimi Amaechi case. When he came in, did he come in with his own Deputy Governor, I mean did he nominate a fresh deputy on assumption of office? Or he carried on with the Deputy to Celestine Omehia?

Of course he came in with his own deputy, Tele Ikuru. But that is even beside the point. The fact is, he took his party hierarchy to court and fought them to a standstill until the courts proclaimed him governor.

Any idiot that still doubts the veracity of the missing soldiers claim should have his head checked. Just last Saturday I witnessed a drunken soldier at a drinking joint close to Army Headquarters in Abuja (Area 10) lamenting the loss of his colleague/friend among the "missing" 100+ soldiers.

Following your argument, Rotimi Amaechi would never have been governor if he had meekly towed the party line instead of vigorously pursuing his ambition in 2007.

pedrilo:
God punish those who voted this govt into power.

A big amen to that.

Finally, an end time thread.

I'm quite curious about this stuff. What does it look like? how does it work? Does it work as claimed? Where can I buy it?

ojuolu:
I have been the best friend to somebody of opposite sex for 8 years now and we have not shared a kiss. In between I got married and I still remain her best friend till date. She about getting married now and we are planning it seriously. My spouse accepted our friendship because she met us like that and her guy too. So that conclusion of yours... it is not correct

Absolute rubbish.

Let's assume for the sake of argument that sex is not part (and would never be part) of the equation, which sensible man would be comfortable with his girlfriend or wife discussing their private life with one shameless bearded goat somewhere that calls himself her "bestie"?

So my girl would be telling you how I like forcing her to give me Mouth Action in the morning and how I don't like to Bleep her if her pusssy is not clean shaven? And you too would offer her your useless opinion or advice on our private life? You people are very sick indeed.

Absolute rubbish.

"Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love but no friendship."
- Oscar Wilde

Some of us 'wailed' from the rooftops as we forewarned you against the grand mistake of voting this close-minded dinosaur, but you didn't heed our warnings.

Enjoy your "change" to the fullest.