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It's not a new thing na. That's why I have zero patience or tolerance these days for any pretentious girl that wants to be treated like an egg even when there is high probability that she is a coded shameless runs girl/LovePeddler somewhere.

That's how one that I met recently was insisting that I should come and pick her from her house to the mutually agreed safe joint that we would hang out for the first time. I asked her to get a freaking cab to the place and that I'll pay for the cab. The idiot replied that 'she doesn't go out alone like that', that I'll have to come and pick her. I took another disdainful look at her picture and imagined that this average looking thing (that I was merely trying to help) could be a runs girl trying to form princess for her father. Deleted her number right away.

With all that we have been seeing, it's impossible to take these useless girls of nowadays seriously and even more impossible to take the pain to treat them like princesses. Not when too many of them are now shameless money hungry whores. You can't be an ashawo sleeping with random old men for money and yet you're forming cool 'nwa mummy' chick for me and expect me to put in work and chivalry in wooing you. Another man's slut can't be my princess. God forbid.

It's pathetic and I just wonder how one would get married.

Do you live to work or do you work to live? Think about that carefully for a moment.

All you funny people who feel good with yourselves for working like slaves in order to brag about the small flat and tokunbo car you have as a result should take a deep breath and rethink whether you have a life worth being proud of.

#work smart, and enjoy life.

Somebody should point out just one positive news we've heard since this cattle rearing barbarian became Nigeria's president 5 long months ago. Everything is going from bad to worse.

morbeta:
They should look inward, someone amongst them planned the operation. Am sure them sex video will soon flood the internet.

I agree. I don't understand how a normal guy can have an erection and sustain that erection to have sex under such conditions. And the so-called robbers were only three in number. In a room crowded with students?

The male students are complicit.

It will be an exercise in futility. This old dragon wannabe that parades himself as CG cannot single-handedly take on the entire Customs workforce where every officer in a good positing is at least a multi millionaire - and there are thousands of such officers, a good number are worth over a billion. How many will you retire?

Whoever he appoints to oversee the process would regard it as their opportunity to 'chop'. He would merely replace Dikko's boys with his own boys in all strategic postings, and the merry go round would continue. Simply a case of replacing one set of thieves with another set of thieves. A game of musical chairs.

It's a charade that can't be sustained.

Jesusloveyou:
d guy may not be involved in their corrupt deed, they are trying to involved d guy

Lol, if I hear? Finding a 'clean' senior customs officer is more difficult than finding a virgin prostitute in a brothel. It's even impossible that any of those names is worth less than N10 billion in cash and/or assets. Quote me on that.

It's all in the mind. A matter of psychology...

Maybe the first time you tried to have sex with her, you were a bit anxious and so couldn't get a proper erection (it happens to many guys), and then the next couple of times you feared that it might happen again...which made it become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

It's not as bad a problem as you think. Just relax and get it out of your head, and then you're good to go.

I smell a shill.

MadCow1:
OP..

Stop whining.. Its not personal.

Out of sight, out of mind. The moment you leave their line of sight, the less they see you. Its just natural.


Also your mindset awould make you see things that don't exist. You may be reading things that are not there. I have friends who are jobless that feel that because I am working and doing well I should be able to get them a job which in all honesty I cant. Not everybody who has a job has the ability to influence recruitment. Even those that work in H.R.

I hear a lot of anger and self pity in your post. I felt the same way too. I was just looking through my account statement a few minutes ago and was seeing transactions with colleagues from my old job that I have not even heard a word from ever since I left that job. They didn't even call to ask me how I was faring and stuff. I don't hold it against them, everybody is too busy trying to make a good life for themselves to be bothered with me.

However let me tell you about how I got my new job.. It was via recommendation by an old colleague who wasn't even that close to me sef then. But apparently, he was with his uncle who works in another company when their conversation got towards work and his uncle mentioned an availability for a job description that I used to do. He just mouthed off that he knew someone who did similar job in his company that just got laid off ad that's how I got a call out of nowhere from the guy saying to send my resume to his uncle. Till tomorrow its like a miracle of sorts because the person who did this for me was not my friend, just that guy that I would stop by his office to have some small talk with. I don't know his surname, never been to his house, never sat for drinks with him, never hung out with him. Just hang shakes and how are you sort of friend. I never even told him what I did nor do I know his job description either.

Basically, stop expecting too much from other people. Help will come when help comes. Maintain all friendships as best as you can as I believe good and bad friends have their uses.

Wishing you the best.

Well, Mad Cow? There's clearly a method to your madness. Excellent perspective.

daveP:
As much as il like to totally agree about this friend syndrome


those of you saying 'nothing like family' hope you know its hurts more, worse when what the OP is saying is done by your blood?

Lalasticlala, Fp o

I think family in this case means one's nuclear family.. Your parents and your real brothers and sisters. Forget cousins or uncles and distant relatives...

sihom:
Lol - OP welcome to life and the real world. I was in the same situation once but I came through it a stronger and better person.

These valuable lessons helped me at the time and they continue to do so even now;

1. No one can change your life except you.

2. Everyone has problems and challenges of their own, do not expect anyone to take panadol for your headache.

3. Success in this life is your personal responsibility (Zainab) do not put it on any one.
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Beautiful words on marble.

A truly great piece of art is one that is timeless and self perpetuating. That's what Living in Bondage is.

Looking forward to the remake. Wonder if it would be in Igbo like the original or in English this time around.

Phyno

Very interesting discussion, and I agree with you. However, I'm more concerned about a music video director (especially Clarence Peters) imprinting his name on every music video. It's so annoying considering that he is paid for his services. It's ridiculous to watch almost every Nigerian music video these days ending with 'A Clarence Peters Montage' boldly written across the screen.

permsec:
I'm not sleeping, I'm working towards it and also being optimisstic as well. Go to hell if you dont like it!

There's a big difference between optimism and idiotic unrealism... The sort of 'delusion state of mind' your fake evangelical pastors hardwire into your confused skulls in the name of faith.

permsec:
Better!

Aliko dangote has little or no impact in empowering the youths let alone the poverty sticken zone he comes from.

I'll overtake him by this time 2018. By God's grace.

Mr. Man wake up from your deep slumber.

I can identify 'Nigerian English' with a single scornful, cursory glance.

Donald Trump certainly didn't utter this rubbish.

However whether he harbours such sentiments in his heart is a different matter altogether.

What exactly is a "juicy" committee, if these hypocritical bastards are not as corrupt as members of the National Assembly have always been?

I wonder how many bacteria and viruses this her yeye nose ring would be soiled with when she develops catarrh. Yuk.

That's the problem with 'local' work, the wahala too much.

ShowYourCertificate:
Yes, that's the question. The Nigerian population is on the rise and this expectedly led to the increase in the Gunness drinkers population. This should have led to an increase in profit but unfortunately it is not so. Cost of production is high due to our bad economy. What's the implication? Expect an increase in the price of Guinness and other alcoholic beverages. 76% loss, no company can tolerate such on the long run.

Increasing prices would be disastrous for the company at this time when purchasing power has been substantially weakened by Buhari's directionless government.

You're talking about Kaduna. Come to Abuja and see the widespread misery. It's incredible..

The air of prosperity that pervaded the whole Abuja during Jonathan's administration is being sorely missed now. Money was in circulation and flowed down to the shoe cobbler, taxi driver, and bricklayer in the street. I certainly benefitted as there was always someone willing to pay handsomely for my services. From one project to the other; the formal and informal sectors of the Abuja economy experienced a boom.

These days everywhere is as dry as the Sahara desert. Same story of 'no money' everywhere, and it's only a mater of time before millions of frustrated residents march to Aso Rock to do the needful.

TolaGold1:
Tola Gold's blog

Banana Island by fire by force.

D1 my man. World famous.

Thumbs up.

TETFUND is a hotbed of corruption for those who know, and I was shocked to see this a.bo.ki thief who stole billions at TETFUND rewarded with INEC chairmanship. Is this the so-called Saint Buhari that is reputed to have zero tolerance for corruption? Is this what Nigerians have been scammed into?

It's almost always a problem to rent a house in which the landlord or landlady lives. I can't say that often enough.

It is bad enough to live with an unbearable co-tenant, but living with an unbearable landlord/landlady will spell doom. Complete DOOM. God forbid.

I hate KPMG Nigeria for very personal reasons, and I would carry out my revenge on certain elements in that company at the appropriate time..


Fake ass company with fake ass staff.

Why dem no dey wear seat belt for private jet or presidential jet?

It just occurred to me that I've never seen pictures of people with seat belts on Pj's.. But if na our commercial airliners, they would force us to wear it as if it's of paramount importance in air travel.

Misstechy? She seems sprightly and full of passion. I think I love her already.

londoner:
Not true. America works on credit. You can not be broke and buy a Ferrari because you would have to have good credit. In Nigeria if you have bought a house in Banana Island you have the money to buy it. Nigerians do not use mortgages to buy mansions nor hire purchase to buy cars.

Help me tell them. Broke and still buy a Ferrari my black Ass. With his pathetic 410 credit score (or less sef) nobody would give him even $50 credit to buy anything.

Na who send you message. Devil dey on her own jeje, you leave your country travel go one place say you wan stone am. Stone who? When you go on such a mission, bad things can happen.

wirinet:
Who told you her website is no. 1 in Africa? she is not even no. 1 in Nigeria.
Check Alexa for most popular Nigerian Sites - http://www.alexa.com/topsites/category/Top/Regional/Africa/Nigeria

The most popular Nigeria based site is Jumia, nairaland is the second most popular. While Nairaland is the 8th most popular site including foreign based sites, Linda Ikeji is number 32 - http://www.alexa.com/siteinfo/lindaikeji..com
So, it is a lie that linda lkeji blog is number 1 in africa.

If Linda can buy a half a billion naira house, Seun should be able to buy a 1 billion naira house. So i wonder why Seun is not monetizing the huge popularity of Nairaland.

It just occurred to me that she probably/ostensibly makes more money than Jumia. Isn't that ridiculous? I doubt Jumia makes up to N40m monthly (net profit, not mere sales). Something just doesn't add up.