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Nice write up and information exchange that men need.

Well done OP and other contributors.

Only men that have dealt with women in relationships or marriages will fully understand what is being revealed here.

Nowadays, the word "real man" is now being abused by people that want men to be stupid in dealing with women.

When they say they are looking for a real man these days, it simply means they are coldedly looking for a stupid man. BUT of course, that stupid man must still come loaded with cash.

In other words, they are looking for a rich STUPID sponsor that will solve their financial problems at their bad terms and conditions.

santaclaws:
In 1992, 99% of Nigerians couldn't afford 1 million naira. N500 was the average salary in Nigeria back then and lands in some parts of Lagos were sold for less than 20k.

1 dollar (USD) was equivalent to less than N10 in 1992, so N7m back then was over 700k USD, which is over N1 billion today.

In other words, 7 million naira was like billions back then, just to clarify.

Wishing you happy sales!

Exactly. This is how they use over bloated wrong analysis to deceive people.

The "hot single mum of two" will still end up dating other women's husbands.

Cycle continues...

Balablue64:
What u will start seeing now is i never chop, can you do me a favor, i don't have data or am not feeling fine girls.
Bros if u truly need a wife i will advise you to take like 2 weeks vacation to your village at least there you will see many more girls that have not spoil and are still innocent. Trust me it's worth the time and works like magic.

And then take them to Abuja?? I am sorry to tell you that method doesn't work everytime again.

The village girl can become worst than those in Abuja when she gets there. Also, she might pretend or actually behave well until you marry her and take her to Abuja.

If she was actually good in the village, when she gets to Abuja, influences will start crippling on her and you run the higher risk of she even becoming worst than those you left in Abuja before you went to hunt for her in the village.

In summary, what I am saying is that you can see a good woman anywhere.

Average common Nigerians are worst than the Nigerian Politicians.

When the people themselves change their mindset, they will be able to elect good leaders and hold their leaders accountable.

ObodoNaija:
For option 2 do they have a Nairaland group or WhatsApp group?

I think they have some on social media. You can use keywords like K1 visa, CR1 visa, US marriage visa to search Facebook, Instagram, Tiktok, etc. I don't think there is such group in Nairaland.

Also, you can use social media, dating sites to find US based citizens or permanent residents looking for love

Aladexxx:
Good day here...
Please I have a serious issue at hand.

I am married.
But I was in a date with a lady before she got married years ago.

Now....I don't know what made me rush go chat this lady after I saw her post recently.
While chatting her I went ahead of mentioning some of our deep past to d extent of sharing pictures.
Unluckily her husband got to see d whole chat,
Now the family is in chaos and d lady had to be confessing all mistakes made to the husband.
Now I am in d big picture of the problem to the extent that the wife family members put a call across to me that. If the home breaks am in trouble

Please what can I do?. Am helpless now

Don't be too hard on yourself. The lady has more of the blame if her marriage collapsed. She is the one with a marriage vow with her husband and she was supposed not to engage in such communication with an ex boyfriend.

You are only accountable to your own wife.

Which man is still complaining on this?

Please let this become more common.

This is the best outcome a man can have from the dissolution of a marriage.

Just make sure the children are biologically yours, because woman can still play a fast one on you raising her lover's child.

And if you are abroad, pursue her for children support to the last penny.

Some women drama is enough for a man to run away.

Ask the wives of such men. No man runs away from a good wife.

Thunderfayamods:
Help is far away from you!

Go and bring another democratic party propaganda. Let me deflate your senseless self.

Thunderfayamods:
Someone that doesn't know the road to airport lmao 😂🤣😂🤣....

No proof? You are low in intelligence that is why you buy democratic party propaganda hook, line and sinker.

Salebo:
I don't have to live in America...

Been going to America since I was born in the early 70s..my 1st daughter is in UCLA as we speak..

You should be able to know that certain "commodities" prices went up...I was in the US in December so I am not just saying for "hear sake"..I witnessed it myself..

CONFECTIONARIES prices went up...and you say you live in America

Do you stay in Alaska?

Was Trump the president in December 2024? Was tariffs in place in December 2024?

Show me proofs of the commodities that have "skyrocketed" in price since January 20, 2025 when Trump took office.

Let us start from there. Then we will check if the increase in prices is due to the tariffs.

As a result of tariffs, Saudi is investing billions of dollars in the US. Apple is creating 20,000 jobs, Eli Lilly is creating 13,000 jobs.

Thunderfayamods:
Mind your business you don't live here! I owe you no prove! You are not American!

Ogbomosho man. We will not give you that visa you are looking for. Enjoy Tinubu government.

Thunderfayamods:
You don't have any IQ! I called the move senseless not the man! You that is intelligent cannot read to comprehend!
Stop discussing America with me because you are not American! Stop taking Panadol on top of another person headache!
I have nothing to prove to all of you! You don't live here! Keep moving!

You will wail for the next 4 years. If your party continues like they are today, in 2028, me and sensible fellow Americans will still vote Republicans.

Salebo:
You Twisted DODGY fellow..

He NEVER said anything about skyrocketing...you are just being disingenuous and wanting to win an argument...

I told you CONFECTIONARIES went up in prices..

You don't know what confectionaries are?

You DONT live in the US!

I have quoted him again saying prices are skyrocketing.

I am still waiting for the proofs of prices that are skyrocketing.

Thunderfayamods:
Na we dey suffer the tariffs, prices of goods and services are skyrocketing. Very senseless move!

@Salebo, this is where he said prices are skyrocketing.

By the way, cursing and insulting your opponents in a debate is not a sign of you winning the argument.

It is either a sign of you being emotional, or being unintelligent.

djon78:
Whether people like it or not

America is the king
Because America's got the cash

Why do you think the Saudis promised Trump to invest over $500 billion into the US

Japan businesses promised Trump to invest another $500 billion into the same US

Trump is right that the US is being screwed. This have been going on for decades. Past American Presidents have allowed this screwing.

Everybody is ripping off the US

The EU own is worse. They won't buy American cars but there EU made cars full America

That's same way US for decades have been single handed funding NATO with trillions of dollars if you check US funding NATO a decade and half ago

Trump is telling Europe the honest Truth. This isn't even about Putin.

African leaders should learn from Donald Trump. He is patriotic about his Nation. He is putting his country first.

It high time our leaders better borrow Sense.

Don't mind those repeating democratic party talking points.

Apple is building new facilities to create 20,000 jobs, Eli Lilly is building new plants to create 13,000 jobs in the US as a result of these tariffs. And many more companies will follow soon. The deal is simple, MAKE YOUR PRODUCTS IN THE US TO AVOID THE TARIFFS. It is the better deal for Americans. It creates jobs, it is better for national security etc.

And they keep spreading non existent fear of price skyrocketing

Ask them for proofs, they have none.

Salebo:
You are really one young BUFFOON CHEAPSKATE!

He has been in the US for 27years as he said and it isn't a big deal..

Why can't you honorably SHUT YOUR LYING TRAP or answer his question..

Even the prices of confectionaries went up after Trump's diatribes the dat after his resumption of office,yet you live in the US and don't know this..

He couldn't mention one commodity whose price has skyrocketed since Trump became president on January 20th 2025. So he is the one spreading democratic party lies with no proof.

Maybe you can help him out here. Mention commodities that have skyrocketed in prices since January 20th, and we will go and confirm.

Trump campaigned he was going to impose tariffs to bring back american jobs to the US.

Majority of american people agreed and voted for him. AND he is doing just that.

Democrats and their supporters should try again in 4 years time.

Trump tariffs are already showing good results with manufacturing jobs coming back to the US. Below are major announcements from Eli Lilly and Apple to open new plants in the US and create thousands of jobs.

https://www.reuters.com/business/healthcare-pharmaceuticals/lilly-plans-invest-27-billion-new-us-plants-trump-threatens-pharmaceutical-2025-02-26/

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/apple-invest-500-billion-us-hire-20000-workers/

13,000 jobs from Eli Lilly and 20,000 jobs from Apple.

Thunderfayamods:
I don't join issues with idiots. Someone that is lying about living the US will tell me what is going on where I have been living for 27 years! Now roll along delusional idiots that will stay in a village in Nigeria analyzing what they know nothing about.
Shameless liar you really need someone to "helpyouout"!

I just went to check all your posts in Nairaland. Apologies for replying you. You are far too low in intellect. This shows in the ways you fight, curse on almost all threads.

You must be a low life living somewhere in Ogbomosho or Saki, looking for an American visa, which is now more difficult to get for you with Trump being the US president. I can see how you carry Trump issue on your head like your life depends on it. Sorry ooo.

Thunderfayamods:
I suppose you said you live in the US! Bloody liar!
You don't know how increase in tariffs affects goods and services! At the end who bears it?
You already accused someone of watching CNN and now me believing democratic lies! Do you know me or my stance! Bunch of delusional people.

No proof. Now run along and stop spreading lies CNN told you.

Thunderfayamods:
Na we dey suffer the tariffs, prices of goods and services are skyrocketing. Very senseless move!

Stop spreading democrats lies. Provide proof of anything whose price has "skyrocketed" in the US since January 20, 2025 due to tariff.

Thunderfayamods:
Do you live in the US?

Yes and I voted for Trump.

Now where do you live?

Saga16:
There would be a revolt in US before the end of the year.

Stop watching CNN. They are brainwashing you with democrats propaganda.

He should go and say that in Oshodi market. They will stone him to death.

Idi.ot. How many jobs he has?

People cannot even get one good job, the Idi.ot is asking people to get multiple jobs

Give her same response she gave you. You don't date or marry a woman still based in Nigeria.

Very good. The parliament should fund the continuation of the war with Ukrainian money.

Whatever you believe, just don't believe a woman can love a man that is not her son, brother or father unconditionally.

He is not cursed anything. He is just talking to women that are in same level as him financially.

He should look at women below him. Women are hypergamous from DNA. OR package himself for the ones he meets now as if he is bigger than he is.

That's their nature. They don't love any man except their sons, and maybe their brothers and fathers. It's all business for them.

Have you ever heard of a rich man that lacks women

Women taking hours to dress up and getting ready for outing.

If you need to depart by say 8am for an outing with a woman, tell her it is 7am so that you give everyone a buffer of extra 1hr because of madam' dressing time.