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Foreign Affairs › Re: Mexico Now Accepting Non-Mexican Deportees From US by Helpout12345: 7:50pm On Jan 27, 2025

Fear of Trump's FAFO.

Every one is now taking a clue from how Trump dealt with Colombia.

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Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by Helpout12345: 2:59pm On Jan 27, 2025

Helpout12345:
I am at screeding level for my project and will like some expert inputs. I am thinking of using cement screed both internal and external.

Also, please can experts comment on material quantity for 800 sqm internal and 1000 sqm exterior.

I will like your advise on how many buckets (20L) of screed paint, normal cement and top bond I should budget to use.

Thank you for your help.

Romance › Re: Is It By Force To Marry Your Pregnant Girlfriend? by Helpout12345: 8:03pm On Jan 26, 2025

Who will then marry her with your child?

You didn't know she was terrible before you give her belle?

If you know you don't want to marry her, then zip up or use protection. If not, you must marry her.

Properties › Re: Ngozi Grace Ekeh - Tenant Fraudulent Application And Eviction by Helpout12345: 7:41pm On Jan 26, 2025

Why is this problem common in Nigeria till date?

We all need to be considerate to ourselves. We all complain of bad politicians but our attitude are worst than these politicians we complain about.

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Properties › Re: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by Helpout12345: 2:42am On Jan 26, 2025

I am at screeding level for my project and will like some expert inputs. I am thinking of using cement screed both internal and external.

Also, please can experts comment on material quantity for 800 sqm internal and 1000 sqm exterior.

I will like your advise on how many buckets (20L) of screed paint, normal cement and top bond I should budget to use.

Thank you for your help.

Family › Re: Is Sex A ‘Marital Duty’? by Helpout12345: 10:35pm On Jan 24, 2025

A woman that does not want to be fffucked and fffucked, should stay single and not married.

Same way a man that is not ready to pay bills should not marry, otherwise woman will turn his mental state upside down.

Family › Re: A Twist In The Tale... by Helpout12345: 10:28pm On Jan 24, 2025

No justification for what the man did to the woman.

He should have divorced her. Period.

Romance › Re: I'm About To Pick A Second Wife. by Helpout12345: 9:28pm On Jan 24, 2025

Do whatever that makes you happy once you can afford it

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Family › Re: Is Sex A ‘Marital Duty’? by Helpout12345: 9:20pm On Jan 24, 2025*

budaatum:
And do you think that should give you the right to force open the supply and take all the sex you want?

If so, what's your opinion of spousal rape?

If there's spousal rape, can there be spousal stealing too if the wife takes husband money without his consent?

Family › Re: Is Sex A ‘Marital Duty’? by Helpout12345: 9:18pm On Jan 24, 2025

The body belongs to the owner. Same way money belongs to who made it. But in marriages, both men and women have advocated that body and money belong to both parties as they are supposed to become 1.

If it's a deal breaker for you, and your partner deny you sex or money, you can divorce them.

Family › Re: How Can I Report This Issue On Behalf Of My Married Sister? by Helpout12345: 9:04pm On Jan 24, 2025

Kobojunkie:
OP already has evidence that they cannot resolve the problem WITHOUT VIOLENCE. So, why in the world are you still suggesting he try to mediate? Those two do not belong together and should be kept separate at all costs in order to avoid the unthinkable — well murder.

Because the violence is being hidden by the woman calls for more digging.

Also, there have been marriages that have witnessed violence at one time or the other in their journey because of ignorance of either or both parties. And with proper education and counseling, they stopped the violence and were able to stay married.

Also, no two marriages are 100pct replica, so are their problems. It is usually a case by case.

In marriages issues, actions that lead to divorce must be reserved for the last.

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Family › Re: How Can I Report This Issue On Behalf Of My Married Sister? by Helpout12345: 8:47pm On Jan 24, 2025

Preston114:
It's really heart breaking. Like how does someone endure this kind of pain all in the name of saving her marriage.

Domestic violence should not be tolerated at all.

But I think you are running over emotion now. Do the following

1. Separate your sister from the house for now.
2. Look for people that can talk to your sister to open up her side of the story
3. Call the husband and hear his side of the story. Be calm while doing this. Don't let emotions overrun you.
4. Find out who is the person starting the violence at home. It could be either party.
5. If they can't settle their issues without violence, they should stay separated.
6. If both are willing to stop violence, you can work on settling their matter.

Family › Re: Wedding Plans Suspended! Any Advice? by Helpout12345: 5:22pm On Jan 23, 2025

adaperry25:
My fiancee and I are from the East and engaged her last month. All medical and background checks have been done and are fairly ok.

There are red flags here.

1. The mother of the bride is not in good terms with her late husband family.

2. The mother wants to marry out the girl without proper consultation with the girl father family

3. The girl is on the mother side and against you. She will be against you in most decisions in the marriage. The mother will end up running your home when you marry her.

4. The mother, the sister and the girl in the house, no mention of a manly figure within them. Because of such homes, women that grow up in such environment are usually difficult to handle by any man. In fact, majority of toxic feminists have this background.

Let me stop here now. But, if you are my blood younger brother, we will terminate the marriage plan entirely.

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Foreign Affairs › Re: Immigration Groups Sue Trump Over Order To End US Birthright Citizenship by Helpout12345: 4:43pm On Jan 22, 2025

MT:
I will advise you to go and read the US Supreme Court judgement in the case : United States v. Wong Kim Ark (1898),

This has been settled and clarified,

Trump is fooling you guys, I will remind you when the case is tossed out in the court of law. Trump will just be fooling around by multiple appeals.

This is same way Roe V Wade was overturned. Supreme Court established and later overturned Roe V Wade. Supreme Court can still overturn its old judgment.

I still maintain this case is a toss up. It can be won by either party.

Romance › Re: Circumcized Ladies Don't Cum Easily...they Only Have Sex For Money Or To Please by Helpout12345: 2:10am On Jan 22, 2025

imagrg:
I am speaking from experience because as an Edo man, many ladies here are circumcized and I have made love to some of them even with my big manhood, yet, some of them just lay there like logs of wood!

What's your opinion about this.

Email for tutorial. You will change your mind

Foreign Affairs › Re: Immigration Groups Sue Trump Over Order To End US Birthright Citizenship by Helpout12345: 2:00am On Jan 22, 2025

MT:
Faulty arguments.

Going by your flawed perspective, all the children born to illegal immigrants after the 14th amendment was ratified (July 9, 1868) should be stripped of their citizenship.

Just like Trump, you are such a joke.

When the 14th amendment was written and ratified, there was no problem of illegal immigrants, birth tourism and other issues around this amendment.

So the argument will be based on the problems existing then when the amendment was written and ratified.

Foreign Affairs › Re: Immigration Groups Sue Trump Over Order To End US Birthright Citizenship by Helpout12345: 1:55am On Jan 22, 2025

MT:
I know Trump cannot win the case.

He’s just pretending to fulfil his campaign pledge,, fooling his supporters

Trump can win and can lose. It is a toss up case at the US Supreme Court.

Trump will argue on the original intent of having the 14th amendment which was to give citizenship to freed black slaves.

Democrats will argue jurisdiction because everyone in the US, except foreign diplomats are subject to US jurisdiction.

It all depends on which side the Supreme Court agrees.

Foreign Affairs › Re: Immigration Groups Sue Trump Over Order To End US Birthright Citizenship by Helpout12345: 1:49am On Jan 22, 2025

The fight in supreme court is going to be centered around the intent of 14th amendment.

The intent then was to ensure all freed black slaves became recognized as US citizens.

It was never for everyone all over the world to come to the US to give birth to US citizens.

Family › Re: Men Are The Caused Of Change Of Characters Of Their Wives by Helpout12345: 9:25pm On Jan 21, 2025

Most women with children that divorced their husbands because he was cheating ended up dating other married men (not because they want to, but because that's what mostly comes their ways as single mothers). This is from experience, believe me.

They left where they were the main queens to become side pieces to another married man cheating on his wife.

This is why you hardly see wives of politicians, rich and famous leave their husbands because he cheated.

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Family › Re: Men Are The Caused Of Change Of Characters Of Their Wives by Helpout12345: 9:19pm On Jan 21, 2025

KennycruzIsla:
I did my findings and I got to know a lot about all this. Yes he’s faithful

Right now I’m fed up

I will tell you not to leave him. Outside is more rough and tough for a single woman with 3 children than what you are going through.

If your story is true. I am advising you like my blood sister.

Please stay there. You said he is faithful for now. Even if he is not, those bad women outside will soon serve him breakfast and he will run back to his family.

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Romance › Re: Is It Possible For A Nigerian Woman Over 30 To Love A Guy ? by Helpout12345: 3:28pm On Jan 21, 2025

diamond68:
that's a lie those high school and first year university romance back in the day were very real oooo. Love wantintin

And what percentage of high school or first year university romance in which both parties are in same class or grade resulted into marriages?

In most of these, the women are eventually taken by a more richer or older man from the younger lover.

Why do you think the women went with the older and richer man eventually?

Foreign Affairs › Re: "The United States Will Only Recognise Two Genders, Male & Female" - Trump by Helpout12345: 7:14pm On Jan 20, 2025

God1000:
Good, but that doesn't change the fact that you are bad, there's nothing this man will do that will make me change my view about him, I don't just like him.

I agree all US presidents have one problem or the other, but this guy is the worst ever

I pity Nigerians who are worshipping this convicted felon, you all should be ashamed of yourselves.

CNNism is a serious disease. God will heal you.

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Travel › Re: USA Employment-based Immigration (EB-1,EB-2,EB-3 Visa) by Helpout12345: 7:03pm On Jan 19, 2025

Rehabnation:
Please what are your thoughts on changing from Consular Processing to Adjustment of Status if you have a valid tourist visa as an EB3 , when you are already DQ’d with NVC and Priority date is Current.
Is it even possible to change from Consular Processing to Adjustment of Status under EB3

This is very tricky.

Technically, you can switch to Adjustment of Status by filing form I-485 with USCIS AS SOON AS YOU ARRIVE. Then you write to NVC to inform them that you are switching. You files will be switched to Adjustment route. The timeline for this I don't know for now.

You will notice I said it's tricky. This is because visitors visa are single intent visas. This means they were given by the embassy with your promise and intent that you will return to Nigeria after your visit. Also, at point of entry with visitor visa, the CBP will ask you why you are coming to the US, you will mostly likely lie that you are coming for a visit/ tourism etc. so that they can allow you into the country.

When you file 485, the USCIS can use that lie against you that you lied to CBP especially when you are already DQed in your immigration journey.

Then,I said you must file 485 as soon as you arrive. This is because you don't want to run into overstay before you file 485 to avoid another problem with overstay hurdle.

If you are ready to risk lieing to CBP, you can go ahead but I will not recommend it because your green card can be denied because of this.

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Romance › Re: Why Does Single Mothers Avoid Single Father And Go For Single Men? by Helpout12345: 5:51pm On Jan 19, 2025

Good question. Let me answer it.

It's because women see relationships and marriages as transactional or business. They are always calculating what they are gaining in every relationship and marriage to be in it.

They don't want to lose in the business for no reason, even when they are one with bigger liabilities in the business.

It same reason a broke woman will reject a broke man, a short woman will reject a short man, an ugly woman will reject an ugly man, a married woman whose husband pays her bills for years will leave or disrespect/ dislike her husband if he has financial struggles etc.

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Family › Re: Married men: What's That One Thing You Learnt In Your Marriage by Helpout12345: 12:10am On Jan 19, 2025

1. Look for a wife when you are poor.

2. If you are rich before marrying, marry someone close to your status, almost all women will be forming fake love for you because of your money.

3. Getting loved by your woman is based on how much you provide. Once you have financial issues, woman will show you shege.

4. Your only gain in a marriage are your biological children. Focus on them and your happiness.

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Romance › Re: Why So Much Hatred On Single Mothers? (photos) by Helpout12345: 11:47pm On Jan 18, 2025*

Life is simple now. Single mothers should look for single fathers to date or marry. No one owes you anything.

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Romance › Re: Why So Much Hatred On Single Mothers? (photos) by Helpout12345: 11:44pm On Jan 18, 2025*

Because men pay the bills.

And children of a single mother are additional liability to the new man plus other headaches single mothers bring to the table.

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Romance › Re: Is It Possible For A Nigerian Woman Over 30 To Love A Guy ? by Helpout12345: 7:24pm On Jan 18, 2025

Young man. Know this today. The only man a woman can love without money and material things is her biological son. It is not a matter of age.

Relationship is business to all women all over the world.

They all settle for their best bidder in relationship and marriage.

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Celebrities › Re: Queen Dammy Returns To Portable, Begs For Forgiveness by Helpout12345: 11:31pm On Jan 17, 2025

If you must follow the "I don't need a man" online gang, you must be ready to work like a man.

Because when you ask your fellow comrade "feminists" for a small change, you will realize they have been deceiving you the whole time.

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Celebrities › Re: Queen Dammy Returns To Portable, Begs For Forgiveness by Helpout12345: 4:27pm On Jan 17, 2025

Many online advisers when it comes to marriage matter but none of them will help you pay your bills.

Hunger has taught this one some lessons to respect the hands that feed her.

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Family › Re: Did She Cheat Or Is She Planning To Cheat? by Helpout12345: 9:06pm On Jan 15, 2025

This is why I disapprove all these December marriage things.

This is another case of an abroad based man coming to Nigeria to marry a December wife that he doesn't know well.

Romance › Re: About To We'd A Prostitute by Helpout12345: 7:57pm On Jan 12, 2025

What I am reading? Is this for traffic here or a joke?

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