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Amo12345:
hello house, pls, can I use electronics copy of wes evaluation report meant for canada PR for eb2 niw? Or do I need to request for the new doc by doc evaluation and do we provide uscic as recipient they deliver to , just like ircc or we need to provide address for official hard copy delivery of the report. I would appreciate your response, thanks.

You will need to do another evaluation through WES US. The evaluation for Canada PR only useful to get Canadian equivalent of your credentials. WES will have to re evaluate your credentials to US equivalent. The good news is that WES already have your credentials and they have validated them through your schools while evaluating for Canadian equivalent. Thus, this evaluation will be faster this time around.

You don't have to send the evaluation report directly to USCIS through WES. The report should be sent to you and you can send a copy to USCIS when they request it.

sonmvayina:
Worst of them all...
Both Islam and Christianity are idolatry.
No matter how much they want to air brush it.

Exactly.

Many ooo. The biggest one is believing that only Christians will make heaven as Christian.

Or believing only Muslims will make heaven as a Muslim.

1. Tell your wife what happened between you both. Be the first to tell your wife and apologize to her. If the sister tells your wife before you, your marriage might collapse.

2. The sister has to leave. No ways around this.

IamMoses123:
I have been doing same research boss. You can also check further, It says some bodies takes six weeks, some 2 months and some 3 months. I understood it's a process. 4 months no b joke now . But mind you it's not even 4 months again, the pikin is over a year now and nothing has changed.

1. How was the sex life before you people married?
2. How was your connection (affection) before the marriage and during the marriage?

wiseone28:
Must you fvk?

Yes. He must Bleep. It's part of marriage.

My advise is not to jump to conclusions of what is the root of the issue. I want you to look deeper.

Apart of sex, has she stopped investing into the relationship or the family in any other ways? Has she stopped supporting the family financially? Has she stopped cooking for you? Has she stopped taking care of you differently compared to before?

Generally, what else has changed financially, emotionally, supports, communication etc.?

Though, family dynamics changes when a major change like this financial change of getting a new well paid and stressful job happens. Sometimes the changes are genuine and the relationship is still solid. While sometimes the changes has jeopardized the relationship.

gabazin080:
I have been married for 10 years and we have 3 wonderful kids. She took a well paying but stressful job recently and her sex drive has reduced drastically. We now have sex like just 4 times in a month.

She doesn't ask and if i ask it is always excuse of fatigue.

She doesn't cheat, i am 100% sure of that.
She even told me she wont mind if i find another girl to satisfy my urge.

I am not the type that can cheat too.
So I am worried on what could cause this change. Someone told me it could be an infection

Just remember that most of the people that will advise you here are not married. Either they are young people still navigating dating scenes or they are over old unmarried because they have bigger relationship problems themselves.

ujnwachukwu:
So guys yesterday my brother was sworn in as a US citizen. He travelled to the US for the first time in 2017 with a visitors visa and the rest is history. All thanks to God though.

So am just wondering what's up with me and the rest of my siblings. If he files papers for his siblings to come over, how long is it gonna take and I also heard if he files for us, we can not even apply for a visitors visa to come for a visit as it is perceived we might not go back again.

Whoever has toed this part should kindly enlighten me on how we can navigate this.

Options.

1. He files Family siblings category F4 petition for you siblings. This takes about 17 to 18 years. Wait can change depending on visa bulletin below.

2. He files for a parent first (as IR5) and the parent files for the rest of the siblings (as F categories) when they arrive in the US. This route can be a little shorter. IR visas takes 1 to 2 years to process in most cases for the parent to enter the US. Once the parent files for the siblings, their wait depends on the visa bulletin below

https://travel.state.gov/content/travel/en/legal/visa-law0/visa-bulletin/2025/visa-bulletin-for-january-2025.html

Samantha125:
It's just like psychologists, it's like a good number of them need mental evaluation themselves...😂😂😂

I once heard someone saying that in order to be accepted to study psychology or psychiatry, you have to have a history of mental illness...😂😂😂

Yes. Good observation. Psychology practices have also been infiltrated with alot of political, corporations, and other societal influences.

I tell married people in western countries going through tough times to be very careful in involving so called "marriage counselors", police and legal apparatus of the country in their marriage challenges unless they have made up their minds to divorce.

Once you start involving them, your marriage is most likely going to join their bad statistics of crashed marriages.

Yes. Because most of their teachings must be legally and politically correct in the country they practice to maintain their licenses.

And an idea being legally and politically correct doesn't necessarily mean that idea works.

A case study is the western countries ideas of marriages. Marriage practices in the western world are just legally and politically correct. Most of these practices don't work to make marriages last a long time. Thus they have high divorce rates.

I see alot of people commenting on how white people prefer dating black men or women.

The truth is that white people are born racist. You can take that to the bank.

Then marriage to average white person is just strictly business. They see marriage like a meager of two corporations.

When you combine these two fundamentals, and follow trends around you in western countries, you will then notice that in most inter racial relationships and marriages involving a white and a black, the black person is usually the more richer, powerful or influential than the white person.

In other words, white hardly date or marry a black person that they are better than, irrespective of gender.

This is why we blacks must work together in every aspects of life including dating and marriages. This is what other races do too. Why not us?

Appreciate your race, stop this white people "worshipping" idea. White person dating a black person in most cases just want to exploit the black person.

And yes, most men in western countries are also lonely and suffering from Konji.

You can also check into how much western men spend on online subscriptions to watch naked women.

Women spend alot on intimacy gadgets and men spend heavily on watching naked women online to masturbate.

If they are sexually satisfied generally, both men and women will not be spending heavily on intimacy gadgets and naked women websites like Onlyfans.

Everyone is complaining the guy wrote rubbish.

But the truth is that dating to marry in western countries is very complicated.

And yes, from the streets, he is right that konji is killing most women in western countries. If you are in doubt, go and research how much intimacy gadget industry is worth in these western countries. Most of the customers of intimacy gadgets are the women.

Shody7:
Thanks so much for your response. But after transfer and i receive the IL, can the medical exam be done in my primary country or the new country where the case is transfer to?

You will have to do medical exam in the new country most likely because each country embassy has contracted medical facility they use for medicals.

You can also inquire from the new embassy if they accept foreign medical facility, though I doubt they will accept from my experience.

Izanghi:
Please, I am in the US already, but my dependents are still in Nigeria. I want to ask the average months or years it takes for my dependents to do interview if my priority date is current. I already know I'll do I-485 and the timeline for approval is averagely 4 to 6 months but I don't know for my wife and children who will be doing it in Nigeria.

If I understand your situation, you have an approved EB petition and you will be doing adjustment of status within the US since you are already in the US. However, your wife and children are going through consular processing through Lagos.

If that's correct, then if your family are on same i‐140 you are using to adjust status, then they will follow same pool of immigrant visa applicants currently waiting for Interview dates from Lagos Embassy.

Shody7:
Hi everyone, I would like to ask if Togo, Cameroon and other west Africa countries accept employment based EB case transfer from Nigeria?

To transfer your case to another country for interview, you must have legal residency or citizenship in that country. Also the US embassy in that country usually have specific additional requirements to accept transfers.

But beware that transfer of cases usually takes time too. It can take 3months to 1 year depending on the country you are transferring to.

Have you ever seeing where someone is being given an award or commendation and they say " I will like to thank my step dad or dedicate this award to my step dad"?

That means children of a single mom are never an asset to the step dad.

In addition to many other reasons some other posters had given above, this is another reason sensible single men without children avoid marrying single moms.

Interesting. These are just general comments and not prophecy. Baba don't want to be judged at the end of 2025 based on his prophecy

Network of gays spreading lies and brainwashing fogs that cause a disease called CNNISM.

The only criteria for CNN to employ you is that you must be a gay/lesbian and be self-motivated to lie and brainwash gullibles around the world.

Propaganda. Everyone Israel kills, Isreal claims the person was the mastermind of the Oct.7

Says shameless thief.

Only in Nigeria will a thief that is supposed to be waiting for public execution has this type of confidence to be speaking publicly.

Deeegbee:
Please, how possible can one convert an L1 visa to being a Green Card holder?

1. Research into the EB categories of green cards. There is a thread on this in Nairaland.

2. If you are single, you can find love and marry a permanent resident or a citizen.

Anyone taking serious marital advise from single women online is a fool.

OP, I agree with others that you should try and cool down for now (no police arrest or court) based on the information you have shared so far, if you are still interested in the marriage.

For more sensible advice to be given at the point, you will need to provide more information on the cause of the quarrel you had with your wife before she packed to the village.

goodman41:
After gotten married to her some one from their village told my sister that their family is very wicked, that I didn't ask before going there to marry, that any man that married in their family use to go through pain and sorrow. They mother did not marry she born all of them in her father's house with different male claiming that her father didn't have a male child so she don't need to marry. The first daughter had a broken marriage,the second daughter her husband ran away and left her with four children, the third daughter her husband left her here Nigeria went to malesia for over 15 years, she has no child for the guy she even did traditional wedding with the guy picture a year after he left to malesia thinking that the guy will come back for her, I told my wife what some one from their village told my sister that we should be prayerful that our own case is different but my wife don't even know how to pray.

This is a very big red flag. I wonder how you married someone from your community and you didn't know this or at least try to investigate the family before you married into the family?

Oh boy, no woman can love a man romantically unconditionally.

Women can only love their biological children unconditionally.

Also remember that hypergamy in Women is a natural instinct. They don't have to learn it. It's just natural to them as they develop from a girl to a mature woman.

Due to this hypergamy nature, don't ever invest in a woman expecting her to be loyal to you because of that investment.

Since western countries have turned their women to men through toxic feminism and lesbianism and trangenderism, birth rate will continue to drop in their race.

The Muslims still have men and women. So it's not a surprise this is happening in the UK.

This is where P Diddy problems started from.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HkQTzLcRh68&pp=ygUQRGlkZHkgYmxhY2sgdm90ZQ%3D%3D

A lot of Nigerians are naive on American politics and world politics.

They refuse to use their brain to reason on their own but allow western media to think for them.

I see alot of people saying Diddy is Trump's man.

See Diddy talking about Trump and Biden below.

https://m.youtube.com/results?sp=mAEA&search_query=Diddy+vote+business+

And for the record, there are many videos of Diddy campaigning for Democrats since late 1990s.