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You don't even that illuminati have changed their name.

How can you help people join an organization you know nothing about?

Enacto:
Yes I might have disrespected him by pushing him that night but i don't think I ever did or spoke back to my dad whenever he is talking most times I just remain silent .I'm not a baby why will I be fighting for my mom most times I fight for my dad whenever there is a disagreement or I don't even interfere at all. Most of the things my elder brother does to my dad and he will not talk, I dare not say 1% to him. I have changed churches at home all because he said if I don't follow him to every church he changes to he will disown me yet I always follow him to those churches but never made it mandatory for my elder brother

Just go and apologize to your dad. As for your elder brother, is he married with children?

Because most young men don't understand what their old men are going through until they get to that stage of their life too.

Until autopsy confirms what kills them. Many Americans are dieing of drugs overdose these days.

Those are irresponsible men right there.

It's never late for your uncle and his family to leave.

Tell your mother to stop feeding them, stop paying house rent. Everyone will find their ways soon after that.

Life2020:
Omo, he didn't change, it's all pretence
I have made my decision and about me being a single mom, I'm used to it, what part of he is never around don't u get.
So because he came and spend little time with his own children, i should forgive him.
Some people are even advising me to pay the side chick off, for what. Please I'm not that de

If you are sure he is just pretending to change. Then do what you think it's best for you.

Good luck.

DCmaverick:
i just dont knw what came over me

Go and apologize to your mom. That's the person that loves you the most in this world.

That does not mean you cannot still advise her about your views on their misunderstanding. Don't pick sides, remain neutral but never allow it to affect your personal relationship with either of them.

It's their marriage or relationship. It's different from yours

salem1996:
I laught at some of your comments, saying things you can't even do yourselves.

So we should encourage people to be disrespecting their parents?

If disrespecting of parents by their children is accepted then everyone will be disrespecting everyone in the society.

This same man must have raised her till now, done so many good things in her life and will still do more in future in her life.

But because he scolded her because she beat a 3year child, now he is a demon that must be disrespected.

Life2020:
U are very wise
I thought about that and I have made up my mind that I'm not going to marry again, at least not till my girls are grown up.
I have heard stories about girls being sexually abused or even physical abused, I don't want my girls to grow up in that type of environment.
I might have a few date here and there but let's see because my girls will always be first.
Honestly I want to hear his side of the story because I'm honestly curious to hear his own side of the story.

I remember your story then. The elders did not advise you to scatter your marriage then. We told you to insist on STD tests and ensure he is no longer cheating before you continue having unprotected sex with him.

From your new narrative, he had agreed to conduct STD tests, he had come back home. The pregnancy outside is a new thing now.

About the pregnancy, I think that happened before he decided to change and come back home. I want to say it's part of his mistakes while outside.

I know you are hurting to learn about this now but don't take a decision while under anger or emotion.

If he had truly changed from cheating, you people can start rebuilding your home.

The children suffer the most in a broken home. You even have girls. I can tell you most ladies raised by single mothers end up single mothers when they grow up. Think deeply about your children welfare now and in future before you use emotion to scatter your home.

Lastly, be careful of advise you take from your fellow women irrespective of their age or status because most of them will advise from emotional perspective or outrightly lie to you when they advise you.

What is this world turning into?

So you disrespect your father and come online to come and ask us if you should forgive him?

Go and apologize to your father. Stop disrespecting him for whatever reason. And stop fighting your father because of your mother.

If you present yourself as a humble, respectful daughter to him, you can go close to him and table what you think he should do better about the family. But you are going about it the wrong way.

Wizzyonyxphoenix:
Of course he wouldn't. Because of transport costs and all that..
And his mum would feel absolutely terrible if he stays more with him. She's alone, remember? And she's already used to his presence since he grew up with her
Yes, he does. On phone

He cannot live with his mother forever. Likewise, he cannot live with his father forever.

He has lived with her up until now. He has received motherly upbringing. It's time for him to get some fatherly upbringing as well.

He should be visiting his mother from time to time. Technology has even made this very easy these days. He can voice or video call his mother as he wishes to complement the physical visits.

It's that time of his life to start growing to become a man instead of a mama's boy.

Wizzyonyxphoenix:
Of course he wouldn't. Because of transport costs and all that..
And his mum would feel absolutely terrible if he stays more with him. She's alone, remember? And she's already used to his presence since he grew up with her
Yes, he does. On phone

1. On your first point of the corrections the father is giving him. He should please listen to most of what the father is telling him. It's for your friend best interest in future.

Apart from arts or science study stuff, all other guidance his father is giving him as you described here are in order. I think as a boy being raised by a single mother, alot of your friend's behavior is getting derailed. He honestly needs his father advise at this point of his life before it's too late.

2. Tell him never get worried or involved in the problem between his parents. He will not understand it now until he has come of age. He should love both of his parents irrespective of whatever happened in their union.

3. On the business. Business is always very risky and mostly not for everyone. If the business is not working out for him, he should go for the teaching job.

In summary, at this stage of his life, he needs his father's guidance alot as he is growing to become a man. He should be humble and know that his dad is giving his best advise. If he disagrees with any of his father's advise, he should politely talk it through with his dad and not see it as if the old man is disturbing his life.

WhiteAngels001:
I'm trying to carry out a survey for a foreign agency that provides therapeutic and counselling services that requires them to call and check up on their clients up to 3 times daily... So the services is per month and they're contemplating on the best price to slam on the service. That's why I'm asking if 100-150 is fair enough

Read the article below.

https://www.forbes.com/health/mind/how-much-does-therapy-cost/

150 dollars per month on therapy does not look expensive in the US

This is why they have put a + after LGBT because it's a rabbit hole.

It has no end of variants. And it's a good political topic to swing elections.

Librason:
there is no noise, evidences abound, you can simply ask for evidences of climate change, increased flooding that killed people is one of them, they are so many , i have been debating all day, just choose any question and ask via your device.

one thing about our part of the world is that we are not pro - active , we take things for granted just because those things are not food or money or not touchable or tangible, where as the enlighten ones are long - sighted.

I am not interested in media or political consensus.

I am interested in scientific data.

Show me data of average earth temperatures from 1800 to proof global warming. Simple.

xolanimo:
Hmmm...I'd advice her and see how this goes. Would you have an idea of an alternative visa type?

If you can give more details about your profile and family ties to the US, I can come up with suggestions.

If you don't like the following, then go and vote Republicans.

1. Record high inflation
2. Recession and massive job losses
3. Record high crime
4. High energy cost. Fuel and gas cost etc
5. Taking away parental rights in schools
6. Teaching children about sexual orientation from Kindergarten
7. Border policy that rewards illegal immigration over legal immigration.
8. US becoming weaker internationally by losing energy independence and begging Saudi and OPEC for oil

If you like abortion more than reversing all of the above, then go and vote for democrats.

The choice is yours.

Studymore123:
EB-3 is for skilled, professionals and unskilled workers. The visas require a labor certification and for which qualified workers are not available in the United States for the job. The major hurdle is the Department of Labor (DOL) would have to give your employer a permit to hire you. Do you think your employer can obtain the permit for a caregiver role?

In addition, I doubt labor certification or permit can be obtained for a caregiver job. Caregiver jobs can be filled with many people already in the US.

Geenosko:
https://edition.cnn.com/videos/bestoftv/2014/11/01/global-warming-storm-at-weather-channel.cnn

This is what owner of weather channel said

Thanks for sharing this video.

Climate change noise is just political noise.

Librason:
they told you world will end in 2000 , may be rumour monger told you , what's the scientific basis behind that？ for climate change our activities e.g emission make the atmosphere warmer and this pull more water during water cycle by more evaporation and coupled with indiscriminate cutting of trees that should remove warming gases , matter becomes worse, the scientist and knowledgeable are not joking , do your self well by do some research, ask question！may be you will understand a little, even if you lack science background.

Show us the average earth temperature from 1800 till now. Let us see how the temperature has risen so high to warrant all the noise.

Calvary247:
My husband is the man the world had ever given me. I love my husband. I'm enjoying my marriage to the fullest. Marriage full of joy, happiness and satisfaction. This union is powerful.

Congratulations Sis! May God continue to bless your union.

Please beware of bad belle people in real life and social media, most especially women like you praying for something like that but will tell you that you are "taking shits from a man".

They are also many on Nairaland here.

They have started again.

This was how they told us the world will end in year 2000. 22 years later, nothing has happened.

koczee:
@Uche393 pls how can i reach u via email, I would like to know more I for about the O1 visa. Cheers!

Read through this link if you have not.

https://www.uscis.gov/working-in-the-united-states/temporary-workers/o-1-visa-individuals-with-extraordinary-ability-or-achievement

Babyboyforeal:
why will u pity the daughter, the children are the one enjoying the loot

Correct. The children also deserve no pity. They live large on top of stolen public funds from their parents.

I have no pity for Nigerian polithiefcians, their family and agents.

If Ike has used just 5 out of those 40 properties he got from stealing of public funds to build just a good hospital in Enugu, he and his family will not be in this mess now.

You are justified in your action. God will keep and bless you for this.

My advise are these

1. Try to get a job so that you can support yourself and your sister without depending on another person.

2. Locate a welfare office in your state and register the situation for a record. You can also lodge a police report after that to document the situation with police. These steps are important in case your family decided to report that your sister was kidnapped.

3. You can contact your family on an unknown number if you want but do it in a way you cannot be tracked or traced. Go to another city ,use a public phone to call them.

Shame to that Bisi Fayemi.

Of all the problems in Nigeria and Nigerian education system, it's sex education in schools that is paramount to her at this time.

Rubbish.

The big question about is what's the content of the sex education an outsider, including teachers at schools will give to another person's child?

And before Nigerians start to copy this from the western world, they should research contents of some of the so called schools sex education being given in western world schools that made many parents in western countries to opt their children out of it.

Also, sex education in western countries remains a choice of the parents. A parent is always given consent form to render consents to such before being given to any child at schools in western countries.

Though some woke liberals want to change that recently to push only their sexual beliefs on everyone but that is also dead on arrival.

Take this fake story back to romance section please.

naniawini:
Flourish is saying “Hi”

Wow! Beautiful!

deavicky:
why can't you see that a 35 years old married man deceived her

This is not a good reason for her to date a married man, and a husband of her sister's close friend.

I am also sure the man was not her only toaster then when she was 19 and she must have rejected some men and accepted some then.

Why did she accept the 35 years old married man of her sister's close friend and rejected some other men?

Allisgud:
.a lion here can become a cat abroad,I know a bank branch manager here in Nigeria who is
now salesman in america in a departmentmental store

That means he was not really a Lion in Nigeria. He was just a cat helped by nepotism and corrupt system in Nigeria to look like a Lion.

Find out how he landed his bank manager job in Nigeria. Maybe he got there by cheating in schools, by nepotism and "man know man" which is prevalent in Nigeria.

On getting to abroad where he cannot cheat, no man-know-man to help him, his real trait is then exposed.