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cococandy:
I doubt that now is the time. Legal immigration to America has been tough. It’s all but non existent.

The last time when it was easy (from my understanding) was around 10 years ago.

I remember when I applied for green card and got it within 8 months before even leaving Nigeria. Within 2 years I qualified for citizenship and got it. All that is gone now. Even spouse visas are taking years to get.

So when people are on their high horses, telling other people to do it the right way (which I agree with) but not necessarily from a place of being morally superior, they fail to acknowledge that the process is 10x more tedious than before.

Hmm. I see. It was your husband that filed green card for you; from this your green card and citizenship journey.

I hope you are treating that man very well and not paying his kindness with your toxic feminism you preach on this forum.

Tellmeastory:
What do those ones know?

They think Trump is gonna give them 'Biafra'.

Someone that detests non-white people, is somehow gonna go out of his way to 'give them Biafra'.

In fact our people can be so naive and ignorant.

You are suffering from CNNism. Being brainwashed by the democrats media and propaganda.

You are also publicly trusting political information from ChatGPT that is programed by democrats loving owners. You are being deceived.

This is good. This will only suffer liberal men while liberal women also suffer in silence.

Conservative men hardly date or marry liberal women and vice versa.

In fact, they should do this movement and keep to it for the next 100 years so that the world can reduce that liberalism gene pool.

Another example of how liberalism is for the morons and stupids of the society.

Wow! Even the Prof has been infected with CNNism.


CNNism is a serious brainwashing disease/ailment affecting many Americans and people across the world

Many people on this board are suffering from CNNism.


CNNism is a serious brainwashing disease/ailment affecting many Americans and people across the world.

God1000:
We all know that Kamala Harris will beat Donald trump, except his delusional fans in Nigeria

This election is a fight for good over evil, knowledge over ignorance, and light over darkness

You are suffering from CNNism.

CNNism is a serious brainwashing disease/ailment affecting many Americans and people across the world.

Why are people asking how he got the women?

"Baltasar Engonga, the Director General of the National Financial Investigation Agency in Equatorial Guinea"

From his position, he will see corrupt money flowing into these women accounts and can use that as a bargain to sleep with them. And it looks like he is good in bed. Once he knacks them once, they are hooked to his knacking skills and can do anything stupid he asks them from there up to filming themselves being knacked.

Seashells:
Purpose of thread: A serious relationship with a single Nigerian male abroad.

Me: A Nigerian and European citizen living in Australia.

You: A single Nigerian male living in Australia, UK, basically anywhere in Europe, U.S, Canada, Asia.



-Don't message me if you're in a relationship, married, divorced, separated, or have kids.

-Don't message me if you're in Nigeria.

You need to give more details about yourself.

Your age, ever married before? , separated, divorced or widowed?, how many children you have?, your education?, your profession?

Helpout12345:
From experience, never take such woman back.

She was cheating under your roof. She went out for 2 years and now begging just because she didn't have a better offer outside. You are now the fall-back-to-man after all her boyfriends have knacked her and run away.

She is begging you, not because she now love you more. She is begging because of the situation she now find herself.

For your children, get your children to live with you if possible. Focus on taking care of your children. That woman belongs to the street, leave her there.

The above advise I gave was with assumption that you treated her well in the marriage. Now I saw that you have another thread on same matter, where people have gone to your previous posts and you were also sending sexual texts to other women while married.

Based on that, I will say you both deserve each other. Good luck.

Just take care of your children.

Afodot0022:
Good morning and happy Sunday to my nairalanders fam and happy new month.
Pls all advice will be welcomed and well appreciated.

From experience, never take such woman back.

She was cheating under your roof. She went out for 2 years and now begging just because she didn't have a better offer outside. You are now the fall-back-to-man after all her boyfriends have knacked her and run away.

She is begging you, not because she now love you more. She is begging because of the situation she now find herself.

For your children, get your children to live with you if possible. Focus on taking care of your children. That woman belongs to the street, leave her there.

Why must the US president be good for Africa or Nigeria? Is he or she African or Nigerian president?

Why can't african or Nigerians develop their countries?

Focus on your own country, continent or race problems and let Americans vote for their choice of president.

This write up is one of the reasons black people are not respected in this world.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZGvdTWRWT-0

This is mohbad's father interview.

Greatzeus:
I believe Seun meant what he said,but what I don't know is how much of tribalism or misogynistic behaviour on this forum he can curtail.
Also I know this your moniker despite the fact that I hardly post comments or visit romance section,how?
I remember some years ago,when you do link almost every post to rape and write despicable things about ALL men being rapists. You were corrected severally by some people to stop generalising,that all men are not rapists,but no. You were enjoying the publicity your vile posts are getting,to the extent that you started fishing out sexual assault news on all Nigeria's newspapers and was posting them on nairaland,just to convince and embitter other females on nairaland that all men are rapists.
I remember your moniker making comments about,women not leaving their daughters with their husbands because they will be raped, imagine.
I never quoted you once or commented on any of your disgusting men hating posts and threads. But I always wonder how you could leave with yourself or sleep at night.
Look at you now complaining about men hating women on nairaland,wow,wonders shall never end. You're such a hypocrite double faced embittered lady.
We haven't seen your men are all rapists posts or threads here for a while,we haven't seen your " mothers keep your daughters from their fathers so they won't rape them" threads for a while,what happened?
Karma has knocked on your door,and nature has judged you in ways you didn't see coming?
Hope you're not in a relationship or married, because if you are,I believe you will reap all the hatred you showed over the years between males and females here. Who knows,that your boyfriend or husband might turn out to be what you claim all men are.
Karma is real
THUG- The Hate U Give will come back to you.✌️✌️

She should be the first to be banned from this forum if Seun is serious about fighting misandry and misogyny in his forum.

She is known as an idiotic misandrist and confused penniless toxic feminist here.

Only a stupid person will believe Belarus or Russia killed this man. If Belarus or Russia actually believed he committed treason against Belarus, there are laws in Belarus that can try him.

Informed people know the countries that assassinate enemy leaders like this.

Blessedmercy8:
So after evolving they now want to regress back to animal nature because of sex?

One major animal way is in the acting of the porn itself. Animals have sex in the open with strangers, just like pornography is filmed with the crew present, the nudity of the actors are in the open and actors are having sex with strangers.

But every new styles in porn are products of human imagination and all must not be discarded.

I agree the porn industry can be more regulated to preserve certain morals in the society but I don't believe we should discard every discovery from the imaginations.

Nothing wrong if married couples apply some of the new discoveries from the industry to their sexual life.

Blessedmercy8:
Hmm... So when you do doggy or what do you people call it, what are you implying? That you are now dogs? Isn't it?

Ride on

Honestly when we reason beyond religion and look at it from Science perspective, if humans had not evolved from apes, we will be having sex like apes today.

It's the evolution of humans by developing bigger brain that made humans to even develop missionary style of sex

Going by religious reasoning, pornography is a sin. I agree and some extreme practices in it should not be tried at home.

Having said that, the world keeps evolving. Humans keep discovering new ways of life. Sexual exploration is part of these new ways of doing things. I am sure even missionary style was discovered by Humans at certain time because I am not sure God taught Adam and Eve how to have sex.

Some of the styles practiced in Porn are actually not bad and moderate new ways of sexual pleasures.

In as much as the married couples are comfortable with the moderate styles and the styles are medically safe, I see no reason why married couples cannot enjoy themselves to the fullest.

Everything is not religion and spiritual.

I have said this before and I will say it again.

If you don't have good advise to give to people having family issues, please keep quiet and learn.

Stop spamming family section with your children rants, jokes and advise.

Family issues are not joking matters because it affects alot of people and alot in the society.

Also, keep your redpill, toxic feminism, misogyny and misandry to yourself or romance section.

Afodot0022:
It was an emotional cheating that have not lead to anything sexual and this was the first time she did such a thing and her reason was that i pushed her to do such cos i wasnt given her enough thing which made her to seek attention elsewhere. Though she was still wrong but she acknowledge her wrong and i gave her a second chance

I had to go through your previous threads here on your marriage. Based on that I want to give you sincere advise.

I commend your determination not to have your children grow up in a broken home. I also commend you for admitting that you both have not been perfect.

Now I can see that all these resolutions and determination to work on this marriage is coming mainly from only you. It appears your wife doesn't share similar determination with you.

That's a big problem right there. You need to get her to that level that she will equally value your marriage and effect of broken homes on children.

I believe until both of you share similar determination and resolutions on working on your marriage and home, you cannot save what is left in there.

Talk to your wife. Let her know you don't want your home to be broken, your children facing consequences of a broken home, you also don't want it to turn to a curse of broken homes from her mother side. Her mother had a broken home, she is about to have one and she has 2 daughters that can continue the tradition if this home is broken.

If you are able to get her on same page with you, I believe you can work on all these emotional cheating, work, accommodation, loan, issues. You both will be willing to make sacrifices for your home.

CorrectBizWoman:
Please who else is been sex starved at home. I can count how many times we've had sex since dis year. Always money money money all the time which is beginning to bother a lot more on greed. We're very comfortable. Solid investments, own the house we live in.

He don't cheat at least none that I know of and he's very free with his phone.

I'm tired of living this way... Any help guys? He's the last person you can seduce. It just don't work with him.

To think it's this same man loves sex like crazy even after our kids before this money talks, makes me wonder how people change so fast

I think what's happening is this.

1. The age difference is playing out here. You are 27 and he is 39. You as a woman are at the peak of your sexual life, and he is passing his peak. At 39, almost 40, his testosterone is beginning to drop.

2. He also has more responsibilities and things to worry about as a productive man at this stage. You mentioned he is doing well financially with investment here and there. He has things to think about alot in this stage of his life combined with the beginning of his testosterone decline. Stress increases cortisol hormones. Cortisol hormones further reduces testosterone hormones

My advise is thus

1. You need to talk to him about my number 2 above. Let him know worries about things are bad for his overall health condition. It can lead to many health complications. Let him know his health is very important to you and his children.

2. About testosterone level, you and him should research into how to boost testosterone naturally. At age 39 going 40, he needs to maintain certain living conditions to maintain his testosterone level.

3. Talk to him about your sexual desire. Let him know how you feel starved but be careful not to rub it against his ego. Praise his sexual prowess and how he used to handle you in the past and tell him you crave for it still now.

4. Penetration is not only way he can ease your sexual tension. Suggest finger job and other ones you like to him. Even if his service tool is not willing, his hand, mouth and tongue can do many many things to help you ease sexual tensions.

ahnie:
Since you do not value what you have...can we pls switch places?

Don't worry sis. Your husband will get to that stage one day.

You want men to become malnourished with this ooo.

Not only rice with no salt. Na only water with no salt.

Can you rest please ?

A couple days ago, you were asking about your chances with a lady you are considering going to meet in Canada.

Today, you are everywhere here spamming and lamenting why Nigeria is better than U.S., Canada etc.

We have heard you. Stay in Nigeria and leave other people that want to travel alone.

It's a personal race. No one is forcing you to travel.

This your rants here is becoming a nuisance.

bivoprad:
Hello everyone, pls any idea on how long it is taking to schedule interview for Eb3 category at the embassy after being documentary qualified?

All immigrant visas appointment of similar country where interviews will take place are put into same pool after DQ. In this case, all IR, CR, F, EB visas appointment follow same pool. Just that F and EB visas appointments will not be scheduled from that pool unless priority date is current for F and EB categories.

In your own case of EB3, your priority date is current. The only thing that will delay your interview from being scheduled is how back logged Lagos embassy is at the moment.

From my findings, Lagos immigrant section is very backlogged at the moment. The current wait time for interview in Lagos for immigrants visas is 12 to 15 months wait time.

You can also email NVC to make an enquiry to confirm this wait time for Lagos

All the best !

sihamey:
@bolded do you still look like same as when you are 10 years old ?? Embassy always request a passport photo not less than 6 months e get why .

I didn’t ask her to lie but she will not start telling embassy her story until they ask for it.

You never jam U.S. VO before.

They have her photo when her aunt took her to embassy at 10 year old. She uses American technology every day. Her family members do same.

I repeat again to the poster, they have all your information including the ones you cannot think of.

Just tell them the whole truth. Establish home links more than to the U.S. in your F1 visa application.

Don't go and do things that will earn you a lifetime ban to the U.S.

Starships4u:
May yhur wife not be cheating and yhur nephew refuse to tell yhu brother....

Yhu'd be more pissed learning he/she had the idea and didn't let yhu know....

Na woman she be. That's why she not being objective in this matter.

Why is this forum so polarized between men and women ?

See women shouting she should mind her business.

If it's the other way round, they will be shouting the cheating man can bring STDs and death home.

sihamey:
If you did biometric then that’s where your record will be pulled out during your current interview but if not no worries two persons can answer same name but no two persons can have same fingerprints

Maybe two people with same name will also look alike.

OP, just don't lie to US embassy. You will be surprised what they can dig out about you and your life.

Yes. They don't take finger prints of children. But don't think you can hide your identity if you have been there before.

All pretence will end from both parties. You will see each other in 3D.

You will be offended and re-offended. Your tolerance and forgiveness will be tested over and over again.

No marriage is perfect as no one is perfect.

If you marry for the wrong reason or married a wrong person, or if marriage is not for your type of person,
the marriage will be terrible.

If marriage is meant for you, you marry the right person for the right reasons, you have the compatibility, both of you truly love each other, finance is adequate for both of you, you will enjoy the marriage.

Your names and records are still in the US system. Even if it was hundred years ago.

The only thing they don't have about you is your finger print because they don't take finger prints of 10 years old.

Not all big girls you see are adults. Ask for age before you continue.

Not all people dressed like a woman are truly women. Some Trans will look more beautiful than real women. Ask about gender at birth before you continue.

This is for my guys.